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 PrinceCharmingsCousin
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 161
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^^^^^^
THIS is true. You know the saying of there is no such thing as a bad pizza, and blowjobs are like pizza no such thing as a bad one....ya that's REALLY NOT true.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 162
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/11/2010 7:59:16 PM
Bad blow jobs hurt and you are sore as hell the day after, especially if they don't love what they are doing, are methodical, learned it from a porn or are trying too hard. Just don't do it.
 remolover
Joined: 3/31/2009
Msg: 163
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/12/2010 7:54:27 AM
Can you tell me the way to Blacksburg? Let's start at the second date. Good on you girls for keeping us guys in our place. I love the 69.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 165
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/12/2010 2:31:08 PM
I was just reminded about how much men are mocked and derided for their passions, feelings and love of women in most forms of fashion. There is no physical reason for a man to get turned on with a boob in his mouth, an ear, even a tongue other than his passion for love, love making and adoring the opposite sex. All you will hear though, is that he didn't get breast fed as a child or some c0ck a mammy reason like that. That's why it's a joke when he gets his nuts cracked. Men are stereotyped as unfeeling, barbaric and inconsiderate. So to say there is no reason for a woman to get turned on with a penis in her mouth is just to say YOU haven't found a reason yet or it's just not your thing. But there ARE reasons. Men are sensitive to it.

Because a man being hurt, vulnerable and what not is hilarious because, "I thought you were so tough." Men with feelings as a man-child are coined as being gay, if they cry they are a sissy, if your mother dotes on you, you are a mommas boy and constantly abused to the point you avoid your mother and she wonders why you don't love her any more. When it's all the mockery, abuse and assaults you have to deal with for being loved, showing love back and women in general loving you when you are around your 'male friends'.

It's really hard growing up as a man who feels deep, has passions and isn't military militant. You never fit in, are the brunt of so much hostility and out right hatred and have to constantly vie with other men for respect and just plain old being left alone. Usually you are mocked, scorned and derided for feeling and so most either really end up being gay, punked or buck up and become 'one of the fellas' due to the peer pressure. I should know, I grew up as the punching bag on the end of so many fists. First and foremost, my brothers.

I held my own in the face of horrendous antagonist, assailants and was always on the end of most men's rage and violent physical outbursts. I got beaten on a daily basis because I was considered soft. Hell, even my mom thought I was gay. I was just a sensitive child. As a man I can look back and see how hard it is for a man to care about anything, because showing the slightest chink could get you beat up by numerous men at one time.

It's a wonder men can be sensitive and like anything. But they do love to ravish a woman even if there is no reason for them to like what ever it is they like. They will even purchase it at the risk of incarceration. So to say there is no reason for a woman to feel, just means that woman DOESN'T feel. Because men aren't suppose to feel, but look at how they can't control those feelings. So much passion and no place to put it. So women charge and the one's who charge know how the wild fires burn in male passion and capitalize off it.

No reason to love putting a penis in their mouths? Unthinkable! But more so, unfeeling.
 ASSMan316
Joined: 2/25/2009
Msg: 166
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/13/2010 8:34:26 PM
Does it really matter? If u like it then great If not then get the **** out of my bed lol
 52404 newbie
Joined: 8/1/2009
Msg: 167
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/14/2010 8:38:28 PM
To answer the original OP question:
Based on 49 years of experience it is:
1. To make the man know that she wants him to feel good - and THAT is a turn on for HER.
2. To reciprocate for when I make her feel good by doing what SHE wants - but never with another man involved.
3. Yes for some women it is a power issue - they think that controlling how/when a man comes gives them the ultimate power.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 169
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/3/2010 10:09:42 PM
I'm sorry I don't get this whole, 'Reciprocate.' ideology. If a woman doesn't love to do it, don't do it. Doing it as a 'favor' isn't a favor. Favors aren't debts and I am not in the sexual trading business, nor do I sleep around as a recreation. Maybe then I could see how people demand sexual favors from each other.

If I meet any woman and she sees head as a one way street worthy of some debt of reciprocation to 'do her' in return. Then she didn't get anything out of it and I am with the wrong woman. Love it or leave it alone. I don't do anything I don't love to do and neither should anyone else. Obviously this forum has served a function other than presumed impressions that it was a device for trolling women who are in to this. Because from the looks of it, not many women are even remotely interested in male sexual pleasure without some price attached. The low attendance being what it is and then a lot of the comments from the attendees shows that just the percentage of those that even bothered to show up, have some kind of conditions for 'providing men with pleasure.' which sounds like they get nothing out of it, except turned on from the histrionic exercise of putting males through their paces and seeing them go through it willingly. Not to mention when they are young that is all they want to do anyway and see no reason to care about men at all, they will be there and they will come. They always do.

Guys, just want to get their hands on a woman and don't have any qualms about providing pleasure for free, at any time, any day and any place. They make themselves absolute retards to get a woman. But still, most women abruptly set demands on the situation and read terms into what should be a very natural reaction. A woman should get turned on more than men do since their acclaim is that they are the more sensitive of the sexes. But it doesn't seem to foster any interest in subjects dealing with anything remotely significant to loving men or male sexual satisfaction. It's always, what are they going to get in return.

I don't think lots of women find it stimulating to give a blow job. I find it that a lot of women find it stimulating to send men's minds every which way to Sunday and keep them giving them things to make them happy, stimulate them and fill up their life with distractions to keep them entertained and from being bored. So women will trade sex for the more stimulating man who has the bigger collection of wealth to keep her involved. I don't meet a lot of young women who know anything about love. And too many old one's desperate, and lonely and for that trying to prove so badly now that their beauty has faded, that they know what love is all about and are really ready now to show that they do. While the young one's wait their turn to become this self same creature.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 172
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/4/2010 4:29:39 PM
I didn't generalize, I specified. "I don't think lots of women..." isn't a generalization. General would be, " I think women are..." There are percentages in everything; both sides. No generalization was mentioned or intended. But comments about a high percentage were. " I don't meet a lot of young women..." again, is not a generalization but a historical account of meeting a low number, not saying, "I don't meet any young women..." which would indeed, be a generalization. So let's not get off track. I am directly saying, without any need for misinterpretation from anyone, that those and other statements in my post did in no way, make a general statement that would, should or be construed to mean generalizations about women. That is totally a bogus interpretation of words that I said that succinctly say exaggeratedly to the contrary. Contrary to senseless, emotional outburst, a common sense thread is not a 'rant'.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 173
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/18/2010 1:45:58 AM
As you can probably tell, male sexuality isn't very a very interesting subject to most women. Neither is male pleasure. Most women don't find it stimulating to give a blow job. They find it stimulating when you spend goo gobs of money on them. Then they will give you anything you want, even fake boobs at the risk of their health. Most, not all, there are rare gems. But most women are just in it for the trade off.

You give a guy who loves boobs a beautiful pair of breast? And he won't care. He will get himself off, he doesn't care, as long as he can kiss and fondle them for hours? Most men are so sensitive compared to the credit they get for being insensitive. They are like children. They just can't say no to a beautiful woman. Most women can take or leave men. They DO get approached fifty ways to sunday by every swinging schlong in town. But look at how men get slaughtered with naked images and half clothed seductive images of women? I mean, a guy can lose his mind watching Tinker Bell bend over a few thousand times and want to find a nymph. Women don't seem to get off doing much for guys out of sexual desire. If they blow you they will want you to do something for them like it didn't mean anything to them. They were just doing it to get you off so you will get them off. Or a lot will do it for your celebrity, or after you get them drunk and have spent money on them. That's what I see a lot of going on in cosmopolitan settings.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 174
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Posted: 3/18/2010 8:35:27 AM
still ranting I see, mmmmtony!!

We all get it dude........you want a woman that absolutely loves to give but never wants to recieve.
and any woman that dares to desire the same in return somehow gets relegated
to "golddigger" or "insensitive to men" and various other derogatory statuses in your mind.

The problem is you can't get passed what you want to see the truth.
There are lots of women that take huge pleasure in pleasing their men.
But those same women want a man that takes huge pleasure in pleasing them right back.
You called this a trade-off......
When the rest of the world calls this mutual pleasure.....or in other words.....good sex


If they blow you they will want you to do something for them like it didn't mean anything to them

That is just downright immature and selfish thinking.

Dude, what you need is a prostitute that speacializes in giving oral sex.
Your not looking for an equal partner to share pleasure with.
Your expectations for a woman to give....give........give......and give more just because she likes giving are so far out there they are turning you into an angry man.
It might be time for you to re-evaluate your thinking....because it's obviously not working for you.
 venndiagram
Joined: 10/29/2009
Msg: 175
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/18/2010 10:12:13 AM
"As you can probably tell, male sexuality isn't very a very interesting subject to most women. Neither is male pleasure. Most women don't find it stimulating to give a blow job. They find it stimulating when you spend goo gobs of money on them. Then they will give you anything you want, even fake boobs at the risk of their health. Most, not all, there are rare gems. But most women are just in it for the trade off. "


You must be meeting the wrong women, is all I can say.
 wcis4u
Joined: 9/7/2009
Msg: 176
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/18/2010 11:42:56 AM
mmmm.tony has a point. Show me a woman who will give a blow job and not ask for something in return and I will supply the pedestal for her to stand on.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 177
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Posted: 3/18/2010 12:08:32 PM
With a real loving couple.....one never has to ask for anything in return.
It is natural to give and recieve because both parties involved love to give pleasure to their partner.

It is when a person is only expecting to recieve without ever reciprocating that pleasure that it becomes a selfish act/lover.

There are numerous women that love to give their man head to completion for no other reason than to bring him immense pleasure.
But those women do expect, at some point, for their partner to return that pleasure.

When a man absolutely refuses to give a woman oral.......he diminishes her desire
to keep on pleasing him.
 BentonHarbor
Joined: 3/2/2010
Msg: 179
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/18/2010 1:45:42 PM
there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.


I wonder if women who think this far out of date, selfish and essentially clueless about sexuality believe attitudes like this isn't what keeps them forever alone, without any sort of companionship or someone interested in them sexually? Even without saying it the obvious answer would be SOME women get SOMETHNIG from it otherwise the practice would have died out years ago---perhaps about the same time normal every day women become all those "strong, independent...." types too? Gosh this opening had me slightly disappointed but only for a moment---I knew the smarter, more in touch with themselves women would eventually prevail! Thank goodness not everyone is so uptight........



So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?



It's a known fact endorphins are released when MOST women make physical contact with another human---something as plain and seemingly nothing special like a hug brings about a good feeling that is measurable and has been, over and over. Science doesn't need to tell them that though----they've know it for years and years. What seems to be a missing clue to this OP is the mouth, lips and tongue ARE highly sensitive areas very subject to excitation from kissing etc etc. Making out isn't something we do to pass time dammit---we do it because it's unbelieveably great feeling! Our sex organs do NOT become excited by accident---its WHY kissing has developed over the years.

Probably most women here have already said the very touch and feel of their lovers penis in their mouth, how they can manipulate not only their lips and tongue further enhancing the foreplay, it also exciting them. The mental aspects aside of "control" or providing pleasure to their lovers is one thing----that oral sex on a man is physically stimulating for the women too is just part of it all.

Yes knowing you're sharing something they might desire and appreciate more than words can say is a powerful reason too but hardly the only one. Its a completely UNselfish act which might escape someone with the attitude such as shown by this OP---again that being alone thing comes to mind. Sure feeling powerful with the most physically vulnerable part of a man in your mouth, teeth so close to being almost "dangerous" is incerdibily sensual as well but again it goes right back to how damn great it feels, how it can and does produce an orgasm in the giver far more often than the cluess could ever imagine.

Same question could be asked why a hand job for the man or manual stimulation for the women is stimulation----short answer is because it feels so damn good!!

I'll repeat that women with such a poor knowledge or outlook on sexuality probably remain single, lonely and frustrated forever---probably have been the better part of their lives as well too. Sad for them, sadder for the guys who've endured such poor attitudes about sharing, giving to one another.

Is this really 2010 (2009 when this was first posted) or 1900?
 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 7/28/2009
Msg: 180
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/18/2010 1:53:29 PM
MMM I even get hot eating sausage if a man is watching what I can do with it~
Nothin' like a good appetite for passion among other things.......
As I said many times before it is a control thing~ and a huge turn on.
 HuluAddicted
Joined: 12/16/2009
Msg: 182
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/18/2010 9:53:46 PM

Show me a woman who will give a blow job and not ask for something in return and I will supply the pedestal for her to stand on.



I've never asked/wanted anything in return for giving a guy head.
 cuban delite
Joined: 4/29/2009
Msg: 183
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/18/2010 10:11:25 PM
Wheres my pedestal.....

.<<<<<.gets off on giving pleasure
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 184
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Posted: 3/19/2010 3:33:59 AM
Most of you Forum people all know I am "THE ANTI ORAL" person. I am very proud of this fact.
I am Vegetarian and have been all my life since when I was a little kid, so I would NEVER have a sausage, or any meat in my mouth, but that is not the reason, I am anti oral.
I read this thread, because I still can NOT understand how any woman would or could find this activity "stimulating. ." I read these "oral" threads trying to get understanding as to why would any sane person do this and actually like this. I still do not understand. I do understand different strokes for different folks.
 BentonHarbor
Joined: 3/2/2010
Msg: 186
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/19/2010 5:44:48 AM

Most of you Forum people all know I am "THE ANTI ORAL" person. I am very proud of this fact.
I am Vegetarian and have been all my life since when I was a little kid, so I would NEVER have a sausage, or any meat in my mouth, but that is not the reason, I am anti oral.


OMG this ^^^ is hilarious! I don’t know how someone can or could relate oral sex to being anti-meat in their diet!! Holy cripes---UNLESS you’re consuming said meat the connection is so ridiculous it defies even the most crazy things ever poster anywhere on this whole site!
Again could it be such a closed and stuffy attitude about things is one of the reasons people remain forever alone? I think there is a connection........



Wheres my pedestal.....

.<<<<<.gets off on giving pleasure


Wonderfully open minded women like this are a great find AND I’ll bet they enjoy equally great sex lives if only because they’re more giving than expecting something in return for each and every little thing they do for their partners!

Ma’am I don’t have a pedestal but might I offer as long as I have a face you’ll have somewhere to sit? Just people helping people!!
 wcis4u
Joined: 9/7/2009
Msg: 187
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Posted: 3/19/2010 9:57:55 AM
Hulu and cuban,
I can't just go by what you say,sorry but i've learned not to believe what women say.I will have to have proof (not someone else saying it) I have to have actual proof.BTW cuban when you asked for the pedestal,you were asking for something,sorry.
 HuluAddicted
Joined: 12/16/2009
Msg: 189
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Posted: 3/19/2010 10:58:02 AM

Hulu and cuban,
I can't just go by what you say,sorry but i've learned not to believe what women say.I will have to have proof (not someone else saying it) I have to have actual proof.BTW cuban when you asked for the pedestal,you were asking for something,sorry.


Ooooh....so you want something in exchange for something? Nice.

I don't have to prove it to you (stop asking for us to give you bjs). The onlyl one who needs proof is the guy I'm with. And he gets the proof often.
 late™
Joined: 2/1/2010
Msg: 190
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Posted: 3/19/2010 12:29:48 PM
Seriously, ...I think some people here need Venn diagrams.

Sexual gratification, some think it's something that one person does to/for another, ...mutually exclusive pleasure; some prefer to participate in a way that's mutually inclusive, ...y'know? When it's something two people do together with each other, pleasure is then derived from both giving and receiving.

Those who fall into the first description, ...you have my pity.
 venndiagram
Joined: 10/29/2009
Msg: 191
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Posted: 3/19/2010 1:30:01 PM
"Seriously, ...I think some people here need Venn diagrams. "

I can only give so many bj's, lol!
 late™
Joined: 2/1/2010
Msg: 192
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Posted: 3/19/2010 1:43:12 PM

I can only give so many bj's, lol!


Ha ha! Perhaps I should have used the term "Eulerian Circles".
 woobytoodsday
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 193
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Posted: 3/19/2010 8:52:27 PM
Years ago, reading the Hite Report, when it was actually *news,* I recall being astonished by one woman's description of an orgasm as a sexual "sneeze". . . . But now I suspect that that lady wouldn't prolly enjoy giving head, nor likely a bunch of other very good things one can do in bed. We're all built differently, and with different "volumes" so to speak. May each one find his/her match.

But lord save me from pedestals, lol! And the men who want to put me on one. . . .

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