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 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 12
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Thanks for all the replies.

I think both have equally valid experience. There is a difference in the experience tho. When you are with one person for a long time, as a few have pointed out, I think you develop an understanding of how to make them feel incredible and you know almost instinctively what to do to please them. When you are with many people for short periods of time, you never develop that depth of understanding that comes with time, but you do learn things.

I don't think there's a right or wrong answer here... just different answers based on our own feelings on the topic.
 coolhappy1290
Joined: 8/29/2012
Msg: 13
What is experience to you?
Posted: 2/16/2013 7:06:55 PM
Yes.., I agee it comes from passion..deep within the depths of your sexual soul.. hmmm....
 darkhairedgirl81
Joined: 6/20/2012
Msg: 14
What is experience to you?
Posted: 2/16/2013 7:16:11 PM
Person A is able to commit and have deeper sexual experiences. If Person B is really having that much sex a day then he/she is probably a sex addict or has borderline personality disorder. In any case you don't want anything to do with Person B because they're probably emotionally scarred and/or have HPV. Anyway, experience doesn't make a better lover, someone who is willing to try new things and please their partner makes for a better lover. IMO :)
 dare2c4yourself
Joined: 11/9/2010
Msg: 15
What is experience to you?
Posted: 2/17/2013 7:25:44 AM
The number of partners may not give you the experience you get from one partner comfortable to try things with someone of trust. Granted, meeting playful partners will.

Experience is not only having a lot of check marks on a list - done this and done that type.
It's also taking the time to know a partner, knowing yourself also.
 RNG34116
Joined: 2/2/2013
Msg: 16
What is experience to you?
Posted: 2/17/2013 9:54:45 AM
The rare times that I have dated and been intimate with women younger than me although some claimed of having multiple or several partners they seemed to be still somehow inexperienced at some things, and still kind of girlish and quircky. When I have dated mature women, women older than me almost all of them have had fewer relationships than the younger "serial daters", but the mature women were more secure about what they wanted intimately and how to go about it to get it. I prefer the experience that is associated with fewer past partners but more quality experienced.
 RNG34116
Joined: 2/2/2013
Msg: 17
What is experience to you?
Posted: 2/17/2013 9:58:21 AM
I totally agree with several posters that the passion that is within the person is by far much better than the heat of the younger woman that has had many partners and not the experieence to really let her know what she wants and how to go about it.
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