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 TOMic bomb
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 95
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i don't see it as a problem.

i enjoy the young ones on occasion myself. they're ......different, more enthusiastic, more full of life, more daring plus i like hiphop music.
 just4- 4ums
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 96
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/4/2009 4:56:37 AM
Not to mention you are one fine looking lady !.
 just4- 4ums
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 97
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/4/2009 5:05:36 AM
When I turned 50 there was a hot bodied little 28 year old gal chasing after me. If SHE hadn't been the aggressor I would have never approched her simply because of the age difference. Long story short........We lived together for less than a year with my enjoying the best sex I have ever had. She eventually moved on with a younger fellow. I enjoyed the time with her. The only regrets are that when she moved on she moved on with my truck and everything in the checking account. Guess I got what I deserved for not thinking with the right head.
 just4- 4ums
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 98
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/4/2009 8:07:13 AM
I don't think you could get many people to tune in on a Miss Senior Citizen Pagant. The mind, male/female, is geared for attractivness regardless of the age. Just so happens as many of us age we lose our looks to father time and mother nature. And many more just lose their attractivness to neglect.Frankly I find Raquel Welsh who is I believe 9 years my senior extremely attractive, as is Sher, Meryl Streep, need I go on? Older men wanting younger gals??? I don't see that as the case. I believe if women of age take care of their health and stay fit that they wouldn't even feel the need to be interested in reading topics like this.
 kal_s
Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 99
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/4/2009 8:22:52 AM
Younger women come with less or no baggage- Often carefree and happy - no drama- no kids - not too many exs and bad experiences that often would inhibit them from beeing happy. They are more open minded towards new experiences and dont care much about risk. When you give them a gift they never had before ,you can experience the exitement in their eyesand the joy they display -even if the gift is as simple as a single rose!! Meaning they are much easier to impress- so I guess it is an ego thing for many men. younger women also are more Touchy Feely- and that is perfect for men -since we prefer to communicate our affection physicaly and tend to think that women do too! (take a note ladies: if the man is not touching you- he is not interested!!!) Overall I think we all want to feel younger and being around younger people invigrates us and we can feed on their energy.
Many younger women want a father figure and feel more secure with an older man.
Cheers.
 jacob8088
Joined: 9/6/2009
Msg: 100
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/4/2009 9:57:47 AM
Just be glad that as a woman, we can just spread our legs and do it with men any age.



^^^Why of course you can, and of course spreading them on a regular basis is good for the soul. So don't be shy now...
 Mudkipz01
Joined: 7/21/2009
Msg: 101
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/4/2009 5:57:05 PM
Pedo alert!

Someone call chris hanson!
 just4- 4ums
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 102
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/6/2009 3:28:10 PM
I been a bad bad old man today. Any young gals out there wanna spanke me ???
 BlueEyes1712
Joined: 4/24/2008
Msg: 103
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Posted: 10/6/2009 3:34:42 PM
I think its similar to the fourty women who wants to date younger men. I think they are trying to recapture thier youth with someone younger. What I ask myself is what the younger person gets out of it. Why would a young women want to date an older guy if not for financial gain and then we have the older women after the young guy, I think in this respect it must be flattery that a young guy would date an older women. Either way its craddle robbing in my book
 freetime2bme
Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 106
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Posted: 10/10/2009 5:38:36 AM
"She is barely legal" That's like saying she is all most a virgin lol. Ether your a virgin or your not a virgin; like wise ether you have reached the age of consent or you have not. There is no barely legal. Some people get up set about women dating outside of their race some people get upset about women dating outside of their religion and some people get upset about women dating older or younger men, but all these things are legal. It's the people that want to impose there views that are messed up. Why we are a nation of laws. For people that do not like to see women or men dating out side of their race, religion or some made up age group, I think you are bigoted and small minded.
 Mrpbody44
Joined: 10/21/2009
Msg: 107
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 11/14/2009 4:34:23 AM
I have been recently going out with a lady who is 21. We both have a passion for music and have a great time together. She is very smart and we have great conversations. Go to different countries like France and you find these relationship more common.

People look at us weird when we are out at a concert but we don't care. Do I think this is long term relationship. No I think after a year or two we may be just good friends. Nothing wrong with that at all.
 dp503
Joined: 9/29/2009
Msg: 108
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 11/15/2009 1:59:54 AM
IMO the guy is a pervert. Girls that age are insecure and vulnerable and can be easily taken advantage of. I'm 29 and don't even go out with 18 year old. I think it is disgusting. My niece is almost 18 and her dad is 42, i would kill a guy going after her at her age.
 hotrodius
Joined: 6/15/2008
Msg: 109
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 11/15/2009 4:34:10 AM
Ok i am 49 and all the women that i date are in there 40's any man that goes after a woman that young should be thrown in jail give me a break and any woman for that matter doing the same thing. Sex is not the only thing you have to be able to have things in common what do you talk about to a girl that is old enuff to be your Child ?? EEEEk !!!!!!!!!!
 cbd44
Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 110
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 11/15/2009 6:01:03 AM
Interesting points of view, but I thought if I told why I, in my early sixties, am looking primarily for younger women maybe it would shed some light on the subject. I realize I am in a different age group from the one being discussed here, never the less in my age group many also prefer younger women.

First and foremost, intelligence, a good sense of fairness, a give and take altitude and with opinions of their own (not just repeat what they heard last nigh on the news) type of person is what is most important to me. That said, I have been very physically active all my life and fortunately in very good health, but most women near my age are very sedentary with very few interests and a great lack of curiosity. Women in their early forties, mid fifties seem to be mature women, having lived the ups and downs of life, and tend to be more realistic about what a happy relationship is all about. I guess a mature but young at heart woman is appealing to many of us, old gizzards (lol). It appears older women (and I mean women near my age), on the other hand, think that visiting this and that, cooking a good meal and spoiling grandchildren is all there is to keep a relationship vibrant.

I am a terrible writer, but I hope you get the idea why at least this one prefers women about fifteen or so years younger.

By the way, it is not sexual: many older women are as sensuous, sexual as younger women and I, once again, am very fortunate to have a strong libido that does not require any chemical assistance.
 hotrodius
Joined: 6/15/2008
Msg: 111
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 11/15/2009 7:54:34 AM
I have been acused of using Viagra (never tried it and dont need it) i have a killer Libido at 49 and i still dont want a woman that's 18 or 19 sorry.
 BlueEyes1712
Joined: 4/24/2008
Msg: 112
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Posted: 11/15/2009 8:59:04 AM
Its a quest to try to find thier fleeting youth, the same reason a women in her later years trys to look younger and find a younger guy and drives that convertable sports car. You see these gawdy people on the prowl. Most pursued financial success and later in life realized they were older with no emotional connections. So they pursue what they lost during those years of climbing to the top.
 Tarah0128
Joined: 2/25/2009
Msg: 113
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Posted: 11/15/2009 9:15:46 AM
I think it's a good idea

All 18 yr old women should date older men ~ the older the better
 kpooks
Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 114
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Posted: 11/15/2009 9:56:21 AM
OP: So? So what? If they're both happy, what business is it of yours anyway?

Uh, for the man, the appeal would be:

Visual: She looks good.

Tactile: Her skin and hair are silky-smooth to the touch.

Emotional: She's sweet, vulnerable, impressionable, teachable, an open book (not yet jaded by experience). And sex is a brand-new thing for her...hence the sexual excitement and willingness to experiment with her own body...and his. As long as he's in reasonably good shape so she's not grossed out (ewww), who cares?

Ego: Sure! Even if she's only out for dough, there is a sort of thrill and ego gratification in the elder thinking "I've still got IT".

From her standpoint, he probably treats her nicely than the horn-dogs her age and buys her nice things.

And the problem is-?
 dp503
Joined: 9/29/2009
Msg: 115
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 11/15/2009 2:00:26 PM
acuddler. Watch your children around this dirty old man. Anytime old man anytime.
 Strings6
Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 116
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Posted: 11/15/2009 3:40:36 PM
CindyA.S...maybe they do it because they have the money and are tired of old,fat,negative grouchy hags.
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 117
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Posted: 11/15/2009 5:38:41 PM

There is no better way to attract men than to stay slim and fit.

That still doesn't work!!!
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 118
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Posted: 11/15/2009 10:42:24 PM
AWESOME!!!, but she is stilll legal :)

Teach her...
 Tarah0128
Joined: 2/25/2009
Msg: 119
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Posted: 11/15/2009 11:06:11 PM
^^^^ Legal, schmegal ~ don't be such a wuss
 Tarah0128
Joined: 2/25/2009
Msg: 120
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Posted: 11/16/2009 12:14:57 AM
I was just being facetious about all the "She's legal" comments

Like i said before, if older guys go for 18 yr old women, then big whoop. It's their funeral

ETA: Yes, I'm joking, because, if the legal age were pushed back, then people could always say "She's legal" about someone younger and younger
 Tarah0128
Joined: 2/25/2009
Msg: 122
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Posted: 11/18/2009 2:21:29 PM
SgtQ ~ Everything you said can be applied to men as well ~ so if men and women are damaged goods, after 30, what's left but people in their 20s sticking together and never parting? sounds good, yes
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