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 dondea
Joined: 12/10/2007
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 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 77
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She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 9/30/2009 1:42:38 PM
Since you are not in the age range, does this issue really concern you?
 yna6
Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 78
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 9/30/2009 2:11:58 PM
This whole issue works out very well! Especially for the next generation!
Here we have a older, well established male, with the ability to care for and maintain a family home. He needs someone to mate with. A younger person is best, because she will be able to have more child bearing years. Also, he will most likely die off before she hits 40. leaving her rich, with the kids grown (and hopefully still able to look after mom) and she gets to go play at being a cougar. This way neither one of them actually "miss" anything in life. In fact, they make a net gain, overall!
Some males actually plan this. Others have "lost" previous family because of their dedication to making "something" of themselves, so their previous family is like "training camp" for a future family, which will end up with the benefits of a knowledgeable and experienced male.
It makes sense....so no use even trying to "male bash" about it.
 Singleinlewistonidaho
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 79
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 9/30/2009 4:04:41 PM
It's simple at least in some parts of the nation like mine, younger women are availible. Ones my age are all married or so cynical they won't even give you a chance.


Mike
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 80
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 9/30/2009 4:54:38 PM

Moobs,sagging skin, weight, grey hair, baldness all the by products of the passing years.

********Snort******** I have a vision of the last man I met who had lied about his age. Like I wouldn't notice he was either well into his 50s or the 20s, 30s, 40s truly had NOT been kind.

~OT~ I don't understand for a moment why people get all fuzzed up about older men dating or wanting to date much younger women. I just figure it's personal preference and if they can find, attract and keep someone younger, kudos to them. I do think it would be really interesting to read how it's working out when she's 25 and he's 55 or nearing 60, my guess? Oh I dunno, Anna Nicole Smith's United States Supreme Court ruling comes to mind, but you never know. Then I think of the other side and giggle. The former Mrs. Hogan and her boy-toy living off of Hulk's cash. Whatever works. (I want someone I can relate to for a LONG time, that means he needs to be age appropriate for me today and tomorrow.) JMO
 parklabrea
Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 81
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She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:06:53 AM
Remember, two 25 year old's equal a 50 year old. That's why every respectful man should be indulging in threesomes with young women. It's the mature thing to do, gosh darn it.
 trukn4sum
Joined: 5/13/2008
Msg: 82
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/1/2009 12:43:17 PM
Very well spoken there JgirlinSD
To each their own and if works more power to them, but I am not into baby sitting and drama that goes along with some of the ideas of a few generations passed mine. btw Jgirl, I must admit you are a very beauitful lady, one tht I would be interested in getting to know, how is 49 n holding for as numbers? lol
 girlred228
Joined: 6/23/2008
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She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/1/2009 1:38:24 PM
I know a couple who are like this.., he got with her when she was 18.. she already had a kid.. and he is a successful person.. makes a bunch of money.. a few years down the road he is having some medical problems and she cheats on him anytime she can.. she doesn't want him.. but doesn't want anyone else to have him.. so she went back to him.. but she spent $88,000 bucks on stuff.. who knows what it was... she will leave again.. she is only back for her stability...but she admits that she doesn't love in the way she should...so this is how most of these relationships end up...

This other one she is 25.. and he is 55... he is abusive to her.. emotionally and physically... and he constantly mistreats her... Telling her she is stupid and all that stuff.. but she stays...at first she used to feed his ego.. she got pregnant.. and I think outta depression she started to eat and got fat.. his ex-wife told her.. girl he is not a nice guy.. I am warning you don't get involved with him... and you know she jsut thought.. oh she was just jealous.. she found out quickly that is was not true..

There are reasons these men choose younger.. so they vary...good luck to anyone who does it..
 Souffle
Joined: 2/2/2007
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She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:24:04 PM
I think it's just wishful thinking on the mans part. But if he succeeds what a total legend mucho respects and props to the horny old dog LOL!
 jacob8088
Joined: 9/6/2009
Msg: 85
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/2/2009 10:11:50 PM
As long as the girl is of legal age, what's the f*cking difference? Im sure every 40 something yr. old guy has their own reasons for seeking out some younger trim.

As for your core theory on men having a need to reproduce, never heard of that one before. Maybe after you put the crackpipe down, you might actually come up with a better theory..
 jacob8088
Joined: 9/6/2009
Msg: 86
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/2/2009 10:18:11 PM
Ones my age are all married or so cynical they won't even give you a chance.



^^^Yeah ...a little to cynical due to the fact that some of them are still searching for their Mr. right in "shining armor"...lol
 TOMic bomb
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 87
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/3/2009 7:50:34 PM
i don't see it as a problem.

i enjoy the young ones on occasion myself. they're ......different, more enthusiastic, more full of life, more daring plus i like hiphop music.
 just4- 4ums
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 88
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/4/2009 4:56:37 AM
Not to mention you are one fine looking lady !.
 just4- 4ums
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 89
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/4/2009 5:05:36 AM
When I turned 50 there was a hot bodied little 28 year old gal chasing after me. If SHE hadn't been the aggressor I would have never approched her simply because of the age difference. Long story short........We lived together for less than a year with my enjoying the best sex I have ever had. She eventually moved on with a younger fellow. I enjoyed the time with her. The only regrets are that when she moved on she moved on with my truck and everything in the checking account. Guess I got what I deserved for not thinking with the right head.
 just4- 4ums
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 90
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/4/2009 8:07:13 AM
I don't think you could get many people to tune in on a Miss Senior Citizen Pagant. The mind, male/female, is geared for attractivness regardless of the age. Just so happens as many of us age we lose our looks to father time and mother nature. And many more just lose their attractivness to neglect.Frankly I find Raquel Welsh who is I believe 9 years my senior extremely attractive, as is Sher, Meryl Streep, need I go on? Older men wanting younger gals??? I don't see that as the case. I believe if women of age take care of their health and stay fit that they wouldn't even feel the need to be interested in reading topics like this.
 kal_s
Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 91
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/4/2009 8:22:52 AM
Younger women come with less or no baggage- Often carefree and happy - no drama- no kids - not too many exs and bad experiences that often would inhibit them from beeing happy. They are more open minded towards new experiences and dont care much about risk. When you give them a gift they never had before ,you can experience the exitement in their eyesand the joy they display -even if the gift is as simple as a single rose!! Meaning they are much easier to impress- so I guess it is an ego thing for many men. younger women also are more Touchy Feely- and that is perfect for men -since we prefer to communicate our affection physicaly and tend to think that women do too! (take a note ladies: if the man is not touching you- he is not interested!!!) Overall I think we all want to feel younger and being around younger people invigrates us and we can feed on their energy.
Many younger women want a father figure and feel more secure with an older man.
Cheers.
 jacob8088
Joined: 9/6/2009
Msg: 92
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/4/2009 9:57:47 AM
Just be glad that as a woman, we can just spread our legs and do it with men any age.



^^^Why of course you can, and of course spreading them on a regular basis is good for the soul. So don't be shy now...
 Mudkipz01
Joined: 7/21/2009
Msg: 93
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/4/2009 5:57:05 PM
Pedo alert!

Someone call chris hanson!
 just4- 4ums
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 94
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/6/2009 3:28:10 PM
I been a bad bad old man today. Any young gals out there wanna spanke me ???
 BlueEyes1712
Joined: 4/24/2008
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She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/6/2009 3:34:42 PM
I think its similar to the fourty women who wants to date younger men. I think they are trying to recapture thier youth with someone younger. What I ask myself is what the younger person gets out of it. Why would a young women want to date an older guy if not for financial gain and then we have the older women after the young guy, I think in this respect it must be flattery that a young guy would date an older women. Either way its craddle robbing in my book
 freetime2bme
Joined: 1/16/2006
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She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/10/2009 5:38:36 AM
"She is barely legal" That's like saying she is all most a virgin lol. Ether your a virgin or your not a virgin; like wise ether you have reached the age of consent or you have not. There is no barely legal. Some people get up set about women dating outside of their race some people get upset about women dating outside of their religion and some people get upset about women dating older or younger men, but all these things are legal. It's the people that want to impose there views that are messed up. Why we are a nation of laws. For people that do not like to see women or men dating out side of their race, religion or some made up age group, I think you are bigoted and small minded.
 Mrpbody44
Joined: 10/21/2009
Msg: 97
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 11/14/2009 4:34:23 AM
I have been recently going out with a lady who is 21. We both have a passion for music and have a great time together. She is very smart and we have great conversations. Go to different countries like France and you find these relationship more common.

People look at us weird when we are out at a concert but we don't care. Do I think this is long term relationship. No I think after a year or two we may be just good friends. Nothing wrong with that at all.
 dp503
Joined: 9/29/2009
Msg: 98
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 11/15/2009 1:59:54 AM
IMO the guy is a pervert. Girls that age are insecure and vulnerable and can be easily taken advantage of. I'm 29 and don't even go out with 18 year old. I think it is disgusting. My niece is almost 18 and her dad is 42, i would kill a guy going after her at her age.
 hotrodius
Joined: 6/15/2008
Msg: 99
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 11/15/2009 4:34:10 AM
Ok i am 49 and all the women that i date are in there 40's any man that goes after a woman that young should be thrown in jail give me a break and any woman for that matter doing the same thing. Sex is not the only thing you have to be able to have things in common what do you talk about to a girl that is old enuff to be your Child ?? EEEEk !!!!!!!!!!
 cbd44
Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 100
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Posted: 11/15/2009 6:01:03 AM
Interesting points of view, but I thought if I told why I, in my early sixties, am looking primarily for younger women maybe it would shed some light on the subject. I realize I am in a different age group from the one being discussed here, never the less in my age group many also prefer younger women.

First and foremost, intelligence, a good sense of fairness, a give and take altitude and with opinions of their own (not just repeat what they heard last nigh on the news) type of person is what is most important to me. That said, I have been very physically active all my life and fortunately in very good health, but most women near my age are very sedentary with very few interests and a great lack of curiosity. Women in their early forties, mid fifties seem to be mature women, having lived the ups and downs of life, and tend to be more realistic about what a happy relationship is all about. I guess a mature but young at heart woman is appealing to many of us, old gizzards (lol). It appears older women (and I mean women near my age), on the other hand, think that visiting this and that, cooking a good meal and spoiling grandchildren is all there is to keep a relationship vibrant.

I am a terrible writer, but I hope you get the idea why at least this one prefers women about fifteen or so years younger.

By the way, it is not sexual: many older women are as sensuous, sexual as younger women and I, once again, am very fortunate to have a strong libido that does not require any chemical assistance.
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