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 sddude
Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 22
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?Page 6 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)
never turned down a women for sex , then again , never was wanted for sex ,
 fun_42
Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 23
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How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 11/14/2007 4:46:29 PM
of course we get turned down...

even i did....

of course..the guy was on his death bed..and did make on attempt but i do think he said no before he passed..

ok bad joke...
 Ave Caesar
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 24
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 11/15/2007 6:29:09 AM
I have. She was just not my type, though we had dated for a while, I though as friends. She starts giving me this goofy look and I had to tell her that I was simply not interested.
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 11/15/2007 11:51:36 AM

"Don't get your honey where you get your money"

ahhh ... that's caliber of a man!
 beerbag
Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 26
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 11/15/2007 12:09:12 PM
I've turned down many women.

Novel thought but men are people too, contrary to popular belief we are not walking wallets with erections.
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 27
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How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 11/15/2007 12:21:37 PM
Well, I for one have never thought that the wallet is the rascal in disguise

P.S.
Thanks for 'food for thought'
 JohnsAtaraxy
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 28
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 3/1/2008 6:24:40 PM
I turned it down once, was too drunk.
 Kazoom
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 29
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 3/2/2008 3:12:10 AM
3-4 diffrent times for me when I was in my 20's.


My married friend had this bad bad bad stripper girl that was infacuated wit him.. But he wouldn't hit it ! Cus he loved his wife.... and this is AFTER he found out his wife cheated on him with his bestfriend for like 2 years...


some best friend lol, that story kind of sounds like a bit of Deja vu for me

like the saying goes,... with friends like that, who the hell needs enemies.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 30
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How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 3/5/2008 10:47:46 AM
well i dont get out that much so i cant say ive been approached for sex, but ive had a couple of girlfriends, that i turned down.. one like to have if often like 2 or 3 times a day, so i had too lol, i dont like to have it that often, i keep worrying if ill get off too quick and she wont. and sometimes i just dont feel like it, i had two others that ive done it to, and this one im seeing/friend she comes over almost three times a week, and is always asking me for it, sometimes i dont want to cause thats annoying.
 northeast25
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 31
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 3/5/2008 11:11:43 AM
I have turned women down that were completely unattractive or morbidly obese. There would be other situations where I would turn down a woman. If she was married, underage, a friend's ex-girlfriend, had bad body odor etc.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 3/5/2008 7:40:06 PM
I think lots of men turn down sex. I tend to overthink things when I meet somebody. If I can't picture myself with them years down the road, or don't feel attached in some way, I can't have sex with them.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 33
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 3/5/2008 9:26:00 PM
I've turned down women I wasn't attracted to.
I've also turned down women I was attracted to but didn't want to hurt
cus I could see they wanted a relationship yet I didn't think it was possible.

But most times I accepted.
(or was the one asking/LOL).
 Tin Foil Ninja
Joined: 5/2/2007
Msg: 34
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Posted: 3/5/2008 10:13:54 PM
I've turned down lots of girls, especially ones that I were attracted to mostly because they were drunk. I have this thing where if you're drunk, I just can't. I feel like I'm taking advantage of them. Even if I were drunk, I highly highly highly doubt that I would. I have some steadfast inhibitions that the only amount of alcohol that it'd take to get rid of would land me in the morgue.

Say what you want, but I've gotten a lot of respect for that.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 35
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 3/6/2008 8:24:32 AM
Just cuz a woman wants sex doesn't mean that us men have to give it out.
Goddammit! We have feelings too! *LOL*
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 36
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 3/6/2008 9:40:44 AM

Apparently, given the number of very unattractive women w/ kids...not enough...


LMAO......so funny.......
I was going to tell a story,, but I'm still laughing..........
 w/ehappenz
Joined: 11/12/2008
Msg: 37
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 12/9/2008 6:00:17 PM
If im in a comitted relationship
If the girl or woman is looking to cheat i wont be a part of it.
And if im not attracted to them then no. A guy has to have standards
 TheyCallMeMrAwesome
Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 40
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 12/9/2008 7:41:41 PM
I've turned down more than i have toes and fingers.
If i don't find them a complete package, or don't feel like it
Then...no sex. so, thats pretty much usually
plain and simple, I'm not much of a yes man i suppose
but then again, i don't **** just to ****

and ohlala..i personally think women have more training saying no than men
after all, we usually do all the asking. i have never been asked out or seen someone get asked out by a girl, that just DOES NOT HAPPEN!
 entrepreneur08
Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 41
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 12/9/2008 8:08:09 PM
I just turned down one last week. We went on a date I wasn't attracted to her when I met her. So I never even kissed her. And I turned down a couple of them last month because not my type. Altogether, I would say I have had the chances but I turned down, probably more than 25-30 . And I have been turned down many more times than that. But hey just because we are men doesn't mean we will do just any girl that comes across and is ready to give it up.

There has to be some attraction and chemistry and some personality. If hadn't turned down those 25-30 then I would have had that many one night stands lol but Ewwww. I just don't do sex for the sake of it. Sex has to be fun.

some requirements although not necessarily looks but hygiene.

Must smell good or atleast decent.
Clean Hygiene are some top reasons to wanna bed some one.

I once turned down this beautiful and gorgeous girl just because she didn't have her nose clean ughhhh ewwwwww. and No it was not just one time, I had met her a few times around where I used to work... I was like what the hell is wrong with this girl... She is hot as hell( from a feet distance but as soon as she came close to you ewww) but she doesn't even know how to keep herself clean and attractive.
 Gangster Kitten
Joined: 4/3/2008
Msg: 43
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 12/10/2008 6:53:24 AM
Drunken College students at bars mostly for me. And one older woman who was married.
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 44
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 12/10/2008 6:53:47 AM
Enough to say, I'm not an easy lay....
Enough to say, I have my standards...
Enough to say, I don't let sex control me...
I would say, I have been turned down for the same reasons...

therefore sex is only good when two people agree, then it's worth the experience....
 kenfla38
Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 45
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 12/10/2008 7:45:15 AM
Turned it down on many...MANY occasions...

If I'm not that "into" a girl/woman, I'm not going to go there... As many women read much more into "sex" than many of us guys do, I don't want to mislead anyone I'm not that interested in... The aftermaths can be ugly, and I'd rather not have that to deal with.
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 46
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 12/10/2008 8:02:53 AM

Yeah, a few times, and holy crap do they get pissed!!!

Thinking, Hmmmmm

If I'm not that "into" a girl/woman, I'm not going to go there... As many women read much more into "sex" than many of us guys do, I don't want to mislead anyone I'm not that interested in... The aftermaths can be ugly, and I'd rather not have that to deal with.

Conclusion,, dammed if you do, dammed if you don't...
 Flaccid P. Nuss
Joined: 12/5/2008
Msg: 47
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 12/10/2008 8:19:43 AM
I turned down this fat woman and quite frankly was offended that she thought I'd even consider it !

... I mean come on !
 wtkh45zx
Joined: 9/4/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 12/10/2008 12:26:43 PM
A number of times. I know women think we will f**k anything, but we do have our limits and are not as wild as they think. I can't remember how many right now but I know there were a few from the different situations I remember. A co-working at a retail store wanted to go at it in the backroom of the store, another co-worker grabing me at a xmas party. Life is funny and surprising some times.
 textodd11
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 49
How many men have turned down a woman for sex?
Posted: 12/10/2008 1:02:13 PM
Many, many times. If I'm not attracted to her, it ain't gonna happen unless I pass out.
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