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Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 24
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Screaming is definitely just not natural for me. What does come natural are soft sighs and low moans. Even talking during that time i tend to whisper. Ive been with men who are screamers tho and wow, whatta hugeeeeeee turn off!! Totally ruins the mood for me! Now a man with low, deep, manly grunts and groans? Mmmmmmmm!!!
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 25
Posted: 8/25/2009 6:05:59 PM

I don't like guys that can't handle a couple screams in bed or somehow relate it to "faking" ....

After reading everyone's more recent comments I wanted to clarify I wasn't referring to "When Harry me Sally loud". Noisey sex is good. I was more referring to exorcist head spinning, roller coaster, jumping out of an airplane SCREAMERS.
The kind the neighbors are smiling at you funny when you leave the next day.

I was thinking about taking Miss Contemplative's suggestion with the slapping, but geeeez, if anyone was looking in the window while I was smaking the girl while she was screaming I think I would surely go to jail.

OMG then I could end up the screamer.
Joined: 2/4/2009
Msg: 26
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Posted: 8/26/2009 4:03:13 PM
Only been with one "screamer", thank god I had my own apartment at that time haha! It was an interesting experience, but the over the top yelling heavily killed my concentration. Plus she had very little tact when asking for certain things, so it really just felt like a porn scene, except she didnt want me to videotape it haha.

Heavy moaning and whispering > complete screaming
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 27
Posted: 8/26/2009 4:32:14 PM
wow...I was taking this figuratively. After reading the responses..hmmm.. crap, I thought all that porn stuff was just really bad women really do this? I get loud...blushes..sometimes loud enough for the neighbors to make sly comments (well one in particular..good gf..most don't look me in the eye as I'm a devil woman who rides a harley in the middle of mormonville) Anyway in my defense, it's spring and fall that always get wide open and all. So I don't think I'm THAT bad. And I don't actually 'scream'..well maybe a little. And the only time I have to cover my mouth (or he has to help me =) is when we're in a hotel. And yes I find it hard to not express myself vocally..moans, groans, and all of that..maybe a teensy bit of screaming. I DO scream very loud on rollercoasters and when I cliff jump or bungee jump...but that's different and I don't sound like that whilst having sex. Or at least I hope not =) Maybe I should have just left it well enough alone. Lol.
Joined: 9/15/2005
Msg: 28
Posted: 8/27/2009 1:31:38 AM
I'm not a screamer but I have been known to be a little loud on occasion not enough to wake the neighbors. I actually had a guy that screamed so loud while I was giving a blow job I actually stopped looked at him and said " you have some issues darlin". I understand that I was doing a good job but seriously you don't need to wake the dead!..
Joined: 6/12/2009
Msg: 29
Posted: 8/31/2009 12:46:07 PM
seriously though, one guy i dated would be so hard and fast - i couldn't NOT's like i had no control over my any light moan i meant to let out would end up a scream.

other then that, i don't scream at the top of my lungs, however i like to be loud.

Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 30
Posted: 9/3/2009 5:47:06 AM
Why would anyone be turned off by screaming?
I have 2 kids in the house fulltime, and man i WISH i could scream.
I sure feel; like screaming in pleasure when i have sex, and , have to keep a pillow handy, and not bein able to let loose is really frustarating because it is part of the climactic experience.
Every man i have been with has gotten extremely aroused by the little moans, purrs, calling out the sex partners name, and screams i have let out.
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 31
Posted: 9/3/2009 9:40:25 PM
Have lived with a screamer for 30 years ...whats not to LOVE
Joined: 7/11/2009
Msg: 32
Posted: 9/5/2009 1:34:36 PM
This is pretty hysterical...I'll just cop to being "loud"... I can be quiet if I know there is someone within ear-shot, kids for example, but it is something that I have to think about and it's a little bit distracting to have to be worried about that. So, yes, REALLY! It's just a natural reaction to really enjoying it. If I'm being quiet (without reason) it's because something isn't connecting quite right.
Isn'tAfraid, if you ever slapped me and said shut up so I can concentrate on my nut, I would be soooo long gone, you wouldn't be getting that one or any future ones from me! If you cared to tell me, hey, that makes me a little uncomfortable, can you tone it down a bit? I would be more than willing to try to work on that for a partner that I cared about, so you might want to re-think your approach? I guess if it's working for you, maybe not. Just food for thought.
And I've never faked one either. My additude on that is, I'll never give anyone credit for something they didn't do!
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 33
Posted: 5/29/2010 9:06:58 PM
I was recently wanting too inquire about this via a thread. I've known some screamers also. Sometimes I think it's a put on, in hopes to impress the lover. But It's probably for real most of the time. With thrusting and so on, the female pelvic area does get a good workover much of the time during sex. So I take it most women are rather sensitive to that. Now I'm really in the mood thinking about it...
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 34
Posted: 5/31/2010 7:09:48 AM

So, yes, REALLY! It's just a natural reaction to really enjoying it.

I personally love it when a woman screams. It tells me that she is getting into it. It tells me that she wants more and is passionate about it to voice it. There's nothing like when a woman screams "Fvck me, fvck me, fvck me." It gets even better when she tells you all the things she wants me to do to her.

I actually find the opposite to be a complete turn off. I can't stand the type of women that just sits there like a deer on the headlights and does nothing.
Joined: 1/17/2009
Msg: 35
Posted: 5/31/2010 10:46:50 AM

There's nothing like when a woman screams "Fvck me, fvck me, fvck me." I

that usually turns me off, as usually that's what I'm already doing when she screams that.

I'm ALREADY banging the fvck out of her, so what am I supposed to do to respond to her screams of 'fvck me!" ?

I'm sure for some people it's genuine, and for many it's fake, to "prove" they are really enjoying themselves.

sometimes to their partner, sometimes to their neighbors, so the neighbors will know they get it on & aren't prudes, etc.
Joined: 12/14/2009
Msg: 36
Posted: 5/31/2010 1:47:35 PM
I hate surprising my loudness because I have to think about it. When I let myself go, I really am not aware of how loud I get or anything else. But now I have to think about it with my bf living with the rents...sigh... I say that if you can get totally lost in the moment, wonderful, if you can't, enjoy what you can.
 Annie was here
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 37
Posted: 5/31/2010 2:23:06 PM
Personally I have never understood the need to scream.I don't know
why but for me when I orgasm it feels best of all if I hold my breath
and push down. I don't know why but for me it makes the orgasm much
more intense and last longer as well.
Joined: 3/1/2010
Msg: 38
Posted: 5/31/2010 3:01:12 PM
I don't scream every time but there are times when its so good that I can't help screaming a little bit.
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 39
Posted: 6/1/2010 7:02:32 AM
If it's genuine, then it's OK. If I suspect it's contrived, it's a huge turn off. A scream at orgasm would be
about the only time I would find it believable. I find more subtle noise making to be much sexier.
Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 40
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Posted: 6/1/2010 8:37:22 AM
Everyone is different! It's all good, though I don't much care for the really quiet ones - some feedback is a GOOD thing. I've encountered women who moan, groan, yell, scream, yodel, swear, ululate, and even laugh hysterically when they orgasm. One even purred!
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 41
Posted: 6/6/2010 8:35:12 PM
I've never shagged a bird before, but I have seen 2 sea gulls doing it on a lamp post at the beach. I would say they were doing more squalking than screaming, but it was very similar.

I doubt they were faking it either and they didn't seem to care who was listening.
Joined: 4/13/2010
Msg: 42
Posted: 6/7/2010 10:11:07 AM
I've been with a few women who have gotten pretty loud. and I LOVE it! My goal is to make them so excited that they totally lose control and get carried away by the pleasure. As long as none of it is faked - its ALL good!
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 43
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Posted: 6/7/2010 2:20:07 PM
Loud is good, screaming is good, claw marks on the back, buttocks..all long as the bleeding stops quickly. Hair being pulled out..that's good as well. Ears being yanked on..another good long as they are still attached to my head.

Various ways to communicate all is good.
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 44
Posted: 6/8/2010 6:03:33 PM
This post is quite the opposite of the..."when he tells me..say something" post near by.

In that one, we see there are those who literally like to have noiseless, we have the opposite.

The art of expression during'm not sure about screamers, but it has to beat silent sex.
Joined: 11/14/2009
Msg: 45
Posted: 6/8/2010 6:24:58 PM
Luckyhot, you got something there!!!

I HATE when I have to check if she's still breathing, because she's so quiet! hahaha

Sorry some animation is very encouraging to a guy. NO you don't have to sound like an opera singer doing an aria, but I believe stifling yourself is bad.

I've been with both, as most men have. Funny, I always have a hard time believing a woman telling me "how great it was", when she laid there soundless, like a dead fish.

No offense ladies.
Joined: 6/6/2010
Msg: 46
Posted: 6/12/2010 8:25:52 AM
1. Ball Gag.
2. Stuff her wet panties in her mouth.
3. Never cover her mouth with your hands unless you want to lose a finger.
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 47
Posted: 7/8/2010 7:39:37 AM

Everyone is different! It's all good, though I don't much care for the really quiet ones - some feedback is a GOOD thing. I've encountered women who moan, groan, yell, scream, yodel, swear, ululate, and even laugh hysterically when they orgasm. One even purred!

oh the memories .. the biggest hit I ever had to my ego was the girl who every time she came ..she started laughing hysterically ...well it really bothered me the first time ...after that I got used to it
Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 48
Posted: 5/22/2012 11:14:58 AM
Had to bring this one out of the mothballs.

The girl I dated before my current g/f was a screamer. I live in a condo and I'm sorry there is just no turn on with a loud scream (and I mean loud). To top it all off, it was the whole time, not just penetration, but as soon as her clit was touched. I felt so bad for the people downstairs as I am typically a night owl.

I remember my first screamer.... I was 18 she was 23 and had a place of her own. It was the summer and about 70 degrees out. Windows open no a/c. When I walked across the parking lot of the apartment complex the next morning.... talk about the walk of shame!!!!!
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