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 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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I am starting to think everybody is a lier
just about every woman I have been with has had this fantasy
even one that was raped, another one that was molested
fantasy is JUST THAT, nothing more, nothing less

I think most women, want to be taken, not hurt, but taken passion
most men love the idea of being alpha
 nonchalantgal
Joined: 2/27/2012
Msg: 141
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Posted: 4/25/2012 4:40:03 PM
I have rape fantasies doesn't mean I want to actually get raped its just one of those things that gets me off
 snowstorm22
Joined: 4/22/2012
Msg: 142
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Posted: 4/25/2012 5:07:30 PM
kinky kinky.
and to the narrow minded and close minded people who are clearly uneducated,
THIS WOULD BE EITHER IN A RELATIONSHIP OR WITH SOME ONE YOU TRUST.
you dont go around randomly asking people for role playing rape...


besides lovely haters ;)
people will continue to enjoy this while you make stupid comments about things you dont know about
 Mainepostmaster
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 143
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Posted: 4/25/2012 9:27:16 PM
First off if your girl was ever raped she wouldnt like it. My ex gf was ACTUALLY raped and it scarred her for life. Women who want this fantasy would never ever think of this again. I personally like to massage and caress my lady until she feels comforatble in my arms and feels safe and secure. Then the action begins with gentle love and move from there! Just sayin.
 snowstorm22
Joined: 4/22/2012
Msg: 144
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Posted: 4/25/2012 9:40:21 PM
the women posting here, are bat shit crazy
you need to stop troll posting and keep negative shit to yourselfs.
if you had a fetish with having sex while dressed as a one legged goblin, no one would say anything
 CarKam1
Joined: 9/10/2011
Msg: 145
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Posted: 4/26/2012 8:24:59 AM
It's funny, this was originally posted in 2005 I believe and the conversation back then was much more intelligent and less judgemental. It's sad how much we have digressed in our tolerance towards others.

As others have pointed out, if you look up a womans top 10 fantasies you will find fantasy rape among that list. Why do you think that the majority of top grossing books are the bodice rippers and alpha dominant eroticas? Most woman want to be equal with their clothes on and dominated with their clothes off. Ya, I said it. If you look up the actual meaning of fantasy rape instead of assuming, you will see that the woman is not looking to be beaten or hurt. Giving up control and letting your partner just unleash on you is incredible. You don't judge him for playing out his needs and he doesn't judge you for yours. And instead of judging 90% of the female population, read up on it and learn the phycology behind it rather than assuming. Boo judgeres and haters, very boo.
 want to travel
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Posted: 4/26/2012 11:48:00 AM
Real rape is a violent crime, nothing to do with sex
 tennisman2388
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 147
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Posted: 4/27/2012 7:07:29 AM

As others have pointed out, if you look up a womans top 10 fantasies you will find fantasy rape among that list. Why do you think that the majority of top grossing books are the bodice rippers and alpha dominant eroticas?


I agree. In fact, I had an interesting discussion with a secretly submissive, highly educated, successful career woman the other day.....which by the way is actually the norm for secret submissives.....not the false stereotype of being emotionally damaged. She has similar fantasies and believes that male sexual dominance and female sexual submission is imbedded deep in our genetic programming, as evidence by the popular literature the OP described.
 CarKam1
Joined: 9/10/2011
Msg: 148
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Posted: 4/27/2012 8:53:40 AM
Thank you. And I do agree that there is a large number of professional men and woman who are fully incontrol of their lives and are in high paying professions that prefer to be submissive in bed. Not just woman but men too. A friend once took my to a "Fetish Cafe" And I got to speaking with one of the Doms and she said that the majority of her clients were successful business men. She said that they are in control of so many things and responsible for so many people that it's a release for them to be able to hand over that control just for the moment and be the submissive one. But I think there is a difference between being a regular sub and just having the occasional feeling of wanting to be over-powered.
 thepigofyourdreams
Joined: 2/23/2012
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Posted: 4/27/2012 2:42:36 PM
Wow, what warped logic we have going on here. Anyone who wants to act out fantasy rape wants to be a rapist or a victim of rape?

Funny, I know many people who play paintball, yet I've never thought of them as wanting to be killers for doing so.
 bigunlove
Joined: 12/22/2013
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Posted: 1/8/2014 5:32:49 PM
Yes it was her that ask me if i wood rape her like it was realy happening to her for real at frist i diden know but she said if you love me you will do it and i done it she come harder than i ever seen her come so now i rape her about two time a mouth
 bigunlove
Joined: 12/22/2013
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Posted: 1/8/2014 5:38:54 PM
Any one tell me were to shop for lady that are in to fantasy rape thing
 drinkthesunwithmyface
Joined: 3/27/2012
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Posted: 1/9/2014 2:13:01 PM
True rape is not a joke. And probably not liked by that many people.

The "rape" word is used in this fantasy, but I think it should be understood better - Sometimes (or always for some) it's fun for someone to have the other be more forceful, or completely in control, dominant, eager, impatient, selfish with only their desires, to unleash and surrender to your hunger and passion on that level, or to have the experience of trying to get away and be run down and caught, or feel the other person have to physically overcome you and force you into something even if you're willing, or just plain be more rough and violent about things. I understand this, as I understand many different mindsets and moods for sex, which can all be wonderful. But a person should make sure that they differentiate this properly from actual rape and how horrible that is. Just like how submission shouldn't be mistaken for humiliation.
 Crystal_Planet
Joined: 10/30/2013
Msg: 153
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Posted: 1/10/2014 5:11:14 AM
^^The word "rape' in "rape fantasy" is used for effect. "Forced sex in a controlled environment with a trusted partner" has nowhere near the danger cache and therefore, not nearly as powerful to someone with the fantasy.
 drinkthesunwithmyface
Joined: 3/27/2012
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Posted: 1/10/2014 6:29:35 PM
^ Yes. A rape fantasy can be pretty damn exhiliarating and intense. I'd think though that one would want to understand the reasons for the interest or enjoyment on the part of the "raper".
 that_ol_lady
Joined: 4/19/2013
Msg: 155
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Posted: 1/11/2014 8:47:46 AM
well I can tell you the amount of men posting in craigslist talking about looking for a woman for a "rape fantasy" is very creepy some of the details they lay out sounds like the police should be keeping watch on them..

1 guy went into talking about how he wanted to meet out in a wooded area have the woman get out of her car then he would forcefully grab her an tie her up an shove her into the trunk of his car take her further out into the woods an have his way with her wanting her to fight him off because that turned him on even more..that ad gave me the chills...

im all for spiciness an an adding a few tricks to the bedroom..

but anything involving the words rape,,beaten,,humiliated an s hit you can pass me by with that type of s hit...
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 1/11/2014 11:06:17 AM
I think if one digs down deep into this fantasy.....what a woman really wants is to be just completely and totally sexually dominated by "her" man.
"Rape" is just the word used because it's hard to describe what they really want...and I would guess very few of them want it to be with some random stranger.
If it is with a stranger....I bet they have a specific "type" of man they want it to be.
(as in he must look like the man on the front of all the Pirate/Viking romance trash novels!!)
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