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 cin____dy
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 111
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That is a complicated thing to answer. It does all depend on how much you are stimulated before intercourse.
But, if stimulated, it only needs to be long enough for both people to reach ectasy! Can be minutes or longer. But, I would say marathon sex (that which does not include the prelude of foreplay) just isn't what I prefer and seriously don't believe that honest people think that it is.
 statemachine500
Joined: 8/25/2011
Msg: 112
For the ladies - How long do you like actual intercourse to last?
Posted: 12/26/2011 5:26:37 PM
About 30 years ago my partner and I got some perfectly formed,perfectly clean rectangular dome windowpane....it was hours and quite a trip.Haven't used it since.
 meesah008
Joined: 10/29/2011
Msg: 113
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Posted: 12/30/2011 6:46:40 AM
20-45 mi is average for me,,gf and i did 7hrs 1 nite and i came 3 times in that course of time ,that was the last time i saw her as she took a job across the country and we had to make the best of it,,,we do still chat and agree 1 day we will hook up if we are single at the same time,,,, was and still is the best sex i have ever had
 Allan Anger
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 114
For the ladies - How long do you like actual intercourse to last?
Posted: 12/30/2011 12:38:54 PM
hmmmmmm, i am thinkin too,,,lol, well, i would definetly want her to have pleasure, and come, but you can only "Hammer" away for so long, then a guy has to come.
 Allan Anger
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 115
For the ladies - How long do you like actual intercourse to last?
Posted: 12/30/2011 12:41:18 PM
actually, it may be an old thread, but is a good one. People dont talk about this stuff, but, as we are all apart, we can say what we normaly may not.
 badas
Joined: 1/3/2007
Msg: 116
For the ladies - How long do you like actual intercourse to last?
Posted: 12/30/2011 7:43:14 PM
I totally agree with you.
 Artemis29
Joined: 7/20/2011
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Posted: 1/1/2012 1:11:51 AM
Till my toes curl, my eyes roll back in my head and I sound like a penticostal on crack!
 irisheyes212
Joined: 6/12/2012
Msg: 118
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Posted: 10/1/2012 10:19:23 PM
if it's good, as long as he wants and it doesn't have to include orgasm for me. It just feels so damned good.
 Amber090
Joined: 9/26/2012
Msg: 119
For the ladies - How long do you like actual intercourse to last?
Posted: 10/2/2012 11:09:47 AM
lame question
but an hour or more if possible.
anything less and you will be kicked out LOL.
i know what i want and less than an hour, wont get any orgasms.
 sanddollar64
Joined: 9/29/2012
Msg: 120
For the ladies - How long do you like actual intercourse to last?
Posted: 10/2/2012 11:58:34 AM
Hell yeah sista!
 hung4usuckit
Joined: 9/24/2012
Msg: 121
For the ladies - How long do you like actual intercourse to last?
Posted: 10/2/2012 12:17:04 PM
You are with the wrong guy beautiful if it takes you 30 min to cum. look me up sometime, ill have you cumming 2 or 3 times in 30 min.
 VB_Mermaid1974
Joined: 2/2/2012
Msg: 122
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Posted: 10/2/2012 12:59:25 PM
Half hour of intercourse...Minimum
 ImJustSomeF_nGuy
Joined: 8/25/2011
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Posted: 10/2/2012 4:00:22 PM
seriously though i'm not 15 sex is not new to me and i dont care what tricks you think you know they aren't going to be new to me so for me its based on how sexy i find the woman you might get 3-5 mins and you might get 30mins-3hrs of course with some breaks.. but most women seriously only get 5-7 mins lol im an honest guy.. the tighter the better for me but the shorter for you..

the tip id like to give the ladies if you want long lasting encounters is be versatile if i dont think you are comfortable with me taking it out and going for some oral or doing all the freaky things im not afraid to admit i like but your man might pretend he doesnt. if you are about it you will get beat until you think you love me. if the standard lets switch positions is freaky for you it might be 3-5mins of missionary and 5 mins of doggy and thats all she wrote haha
 ImJustSomeF_nGuy
Joined: 8/25/2011
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Posted: 10/2/2012 4:03:28 PM
i like your style those who arent greedy get what they are needing :)
 ImJustSomeF_nGuy
Joined: 8/25/2011
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Posted: 10/2/2012 4:06:03 PM
if you cant cum in under an hour your adult life is gonna suck lol unless you're dealin with boys who havenothin goin on but layin in bed gettin you off haha i got s**t to do like keep the bills paid .. ill admit the sexy blondes like you usually get a much better beatin because you offer more porn star like experiences .. as a matter of fact didnt you post something about porn? haha
 PaminSD
Joined: 2/25/2012
Msg: 126
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Posted: 10/10/2012 1:31:34 PM
If I could have my way everytime and not have "life" going on...forever. The longest was 4 hours and it was amazing and sweet and wish it could last that long everytime...
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 127
For the ladies - How long do you like actual intercourse to last?
Posted: 10/10/2012 1:43:25 PM
There is how long one would like it to last, then there is the actual objective truth.

BTW, Scientist look at actual intercourse as thrusting in an out. Not like a few minutes, then change positions, do a little more, do something else, etc.

So I don't expect one will get an objective answer in a forum.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 128
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Posted: 10/10/2012 3:27:49 PM
I hate to be yet another guy answering a woman's sex question in order to look like a stud...but...:)

It can depend upon the lady in question. One prior ex of mine, she needed no foreplay, while I enjoy foreplay. Alas, she was too young to know what her own body was up to, so while I thought I was warming her up, I was instead overstimulating her. She'd clamp her legs shut as her nerves were jangling, which I took as disinterest. she told me that her prior bfs just pried her loose. That wasn't my style, so I broke up w/ her figuring it was just normal incompatability.

Later on, she figured she wasn't like everyone else, and of course had to let me know :) lol so ,lesson learned: not everyone's the same. learn to recognize her clues, what she does involuntarily when she's ready, when she's done, etc. or, hopefully, you have a good enough relationship that she feels comfortable enough to teach you. heck, sometimes she may not even know her own body well enough.

but, experimentation can be fun :)
 Lilbitofsugaandspice
Joined: 6/30/2011
Msg: 129
For the ladies - How long do you like actual intercourse to last?
Posted: 10/10/2012 4:09:18 PM
The last guy I was with could never last long. After him I could definitely use an all nighter!
 onewayoranuther
Joined: 3/21/2011
Msg: 130
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Posted: 10/11/2012 2:24:36 AM

I would expect ladies to say it depends on the situation and mood. A quickie on a back road could be just as pleasurable as a weekend long love fest.{/quote]

yep.

Adding to that...I have yet to meet a woman who wants to be jackhammered for an extended period of time.

Making love, good sex and intimacy has many variables...penis insets vagina in merely one of them.
 1388SmartBlonde
Joined: 5/15/2011
Msg: 131
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Posted: 10/11/2012 2:32:48 AM

Till my toes curl, my eyes roll back in my head and I sound like a penticostal on crack!


^^^What she said...then lather, rinse, repeat...LOL!
 sexycurious0952
Joined: 4/29/2011
Msg: 132
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Posted: 10/14/2012 11:26:29 AM
I'd say 15 minutes of actual intercourse (at a time) and say 5-6 times a day. Oral... really whenever I'm feeling it and the guy is ready to go. But I had going down on people and having it take 45 minutes-an hour... then it starts to hurt my mouth.
 light-fantastic
Joined: 5/28/2012
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Posted: 10/14/2012 3:15:00 PM
as a tantrika, hours of foreplay and hours of afterplay...oh wait define intercourse please.
 light-fantastic
Joined: 5/28/2012
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Posted: 10/14/2012 3:16:04 PM
tantric love is not orgasm-based, so it's all intercourse.
 krita3311
Joined: 10/10/2012
Msg: 135
For the ladies - How long do you like actual intercourse to last?
Posted: 10/14/2012 4:03:04 PM
If I am with someone who knows how to pleasure and be pleasured I want it to last way longer than 13minutes
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