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 Wishes Granted
Joined: 3/6/2008
Msg: 32
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Whip out your d**k in the middle of my kitchen when my back is turned, in a non-romantic moment
lmao .. If I was in an established relationship.. that would be as funny as hell., AND .. a great opportunity *bats eyelashes*

If unestablished.. I'd turn around with the knife I had in hand and tell him to put in on the chopping block and I'll stir fry it along with the green pepers and mushrooms I'm preparing.
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 33
Just For Fun - Top 3 What Not To Do On A 1st Date
Posted: 7/16/2009 1:05:52 PM

mao .. If I was in an established relationship.. that would be as funny as hell., AND .. a great opportunity *bats eyelashes*

If unestablished.. I'd turn around with the knife I had in hand and tell him to put in on the chopping block and I'll stir fry it along with the green pepers and mushrooms I'm preparing.



LMAO!!!!!
 FastReb
Joined: 1/3/2009
Msg: 38
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Posted: 7/16/2009 9:22:24 PM
Great thread. Now all I have to do is print off the answers and show them to my date. That way, we'll both be able to laugh our butt off, even if a trip to the comedy club isn't on the agenda.

For me, it would be:

1) Talk negatively about a past ex or relationship. Negativity is definitely not a character trait I'm looking for. It also let's me know ahead of time that I'll be getting run down behind my back if things don't work out between us.

2) Go with me to a casino for a meal and a show, then not only expect me to fund your gambling excursion because you've fed your last nickel into a one-arm bandit and you just know it's about to pay off, but get rather tiffed when I don't.

3) Excuse yourself to go to the bathroom while we're dining but go into the bar to flirt with someone that just caught your eye, and which could be seen in the fortuitously (for me) placed mirror that you forgot about or never saw.
 Wishes Granted
Joined: 3/6/2008
Msg: 39
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Just For Fun - Top 3 What Not To Do On A 1st Date
Posted: 7/17/2009 6:07:05 PM
!) Never tell her that the best sex you ever had was during that eight year stretch in prison!
haha.. The "Utensil" rule of in-prison first dates:
Tonight we spoon, then we fork, or .. you get the knife ..
 SamuraiPixie
Joined: 9/12/2008
Msg: 41
Just For Fun - Top 3 What Not To Do On A 1st Date
Posted: 7/17/2009 6:17:33 PM
1. Don't get rip roaring drunk;
2. Don't get grabby; and,
3. Don't talk about all your other girlfriends, dates, and/or relationships and why SHE was to blame for everything that went wrong, all night.

S.
 miska1
Joined: 9/16/2008
Msg: 42
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Posted: 7/17/2009 6:34:47 PM
Ok I am the poster child for worst dates, so here is a short list of what not to do.

Dinner and a movie is NOT bringing a laptop to the table and showing 3 years of vacations with your kids, and showing me all your rental property damage done by dead beat renters and then pulling up a file of a pirated movie to watch while we eat.

Get so drunk you piss your pants. So not a turn on. I now have to wonder if I should carry depends for my dates.

Always drive yourself there, it can get rather expensive when you and your date don't hit it off, possibly because of wet jeans, and have to take a taxi back home. 1 hour ride= about 100$ btw

Always bring jumper cables, because there is a chance your date can't remember to turn off lights and unplug cell or ipod, and it drains the battery. And you have to jump his car for him.

Make sure that if you do not want a kiss goodnight from your date, when you get in your car leave the window up, or make sure you can side swipe his nasty ass off next to a sign post, car, or another obstruction as he tries to do a swift grab and stick his tongue down your throat. Was funny to see him tuck and roll when I was speeding off though.

Do not make a pass at the Bouncers. I swear I had no idea my date was THAT open.
 no_excuses_please
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 44
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Posted: 7/18/2009 3:07:39 AM
Let's see:

1) Don't say that you are glad to get a free meal (Boy was she disappointed... )
2) Take a call from ANOTHER GUY and then tell me it was your daughter (The guy was talking so loud I could hear him...LOL) I called the server back over and canceled the my order.
And then I left.
3) Don't let me know how f*cked up you really are straight out the box. If you believe in Ouija boards,psychics,The Left Behind series,9-11 conspiracies,etc, SAVE THAT until after I get a crack at intimacy.
Nothing worse than looking at an attractive woman that you realize is too crazy for things to good forward with, on the first date.
 bmore_goat
Joined: 4/8/2009
Msg: 47
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Just For Fun - Top 3 What Not To Do On A 1st Date
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:12:24 AM
3) Don't let me know how f*cked up you really are straight out the box. If you believe in Ouija boards,psychics,The Left Behind series,9-11 conspiracies,etc, SAVE THAT until after I get a crack at intimacy.
Nothing worse than looking at an attractive woman that you realize is too crazy for things to good forward with, on the first date.


No excuses please,
maybe you need to watch the video "hot,crazy scale"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5zADosF3XoQ

Sounds like you are well familar with it
 barbee1970
Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 50
Just For Fun - Top 3 What Not To Do On A 1st Date
Posted: 7/23/2009 3:09:17 PM
#1 Stay out of my mouth. I had one guy few yrs ago rush through dinner, kept trying to "get under the hood" immediately after.

#2 Stay away from the bedroom. Don't want a guy trying to jump my bones right away.

#3 Please show up. I hate waiting around for a player who really doesn't have the interest. I have a life like you do.
 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 52
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Posted: 7/29/2009 9:24:54 AM
1. Stand him up
2. Make sure it is really nasty weather and he'll have to wait outside to see if you show.
3. Make it as difficult as you can for him to know you can't make it for the date. Email you're sick instead of calling because you can't speak at the time.
^^ Aw, hell, all of that worked for me.
 zangie
Joined: 5/30/2007
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Just For Fun - Top 3 What Not To Do On A 1st Date
Posted: 7/29/2009 9:29:26 PM
1. Do NOT, under any circumstances, announce in a loud voice at a crowded restaurant " well, I guess I'm not getting any tonight"..after being told I didn't think we were a good fit...nor follow me to my car and your parting shot is: " You don't know what you are missing"..yes, true story...

2. Don't talk about how awful all the other women you have been with are.

3. Don't be rude to service people, or refuse to tip.

Actually, in my time online dating, I have only had two bad dates...I have been very lucky.
 Blue-Eyes-Shine
Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 61
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Posted: 8/26/2009 11:32:40 PM
OMG If any of this is true...I'm realizing how lucky I've been!
 HVACtech
Joined: 3/1/2009
Msg: 64
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Posted: 8/27/2009 7:45:10 PM
1) Carry on about how much fun you had absolutely sh:tfaced wasted at your cousin's party last week ... or the time you got so drunk last month that you yakked all over the hood of your car ... or the ahole cop who nailed you for your last DUI ... or ... or ...

2) Show up dressed up like a hooker. I'd kinda like to get to know you a little first -- you can introduce me to the girls some other time.

3) Ask to borrow my truck because you're moving ... because the ahole landlord evicted you 'cuz you're only 5 months behind on the rent ... and your shiftless druggie kid was just laid off from his job as a nuclear physicist.
 WalkingInLondon
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 65
Just For Fun - Top 3 What Not To Do On A 1st Date
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:56:15 PM
All of these are true.
1. Do not propose, complete with ring, and proceed to ask my father (who happened to be fixing the sink) if he gives his permission.

2. Don't get drunk and sing 'Kid Rock' songs above the pianist at the restaurant. I don't care if you think you can sing, it is not the time, nor the place, and you actually suck at singing when you're drunk.

3. Don't show up to pick me up in a car that is such a piece of shit it won't even run. Especially if it is half primer grey, has no hubcaps left, and the interior is ripped all to hell and smells like burning oil. I'm not going anywhere with you.

4. Don't tell me my boobs are just fantastic. I know they are, and I certainly don't need you to tell me. And no you can't touch them.

5.Don't tell me about your sexual prowess and how big your weiner is. And I don't want to hear how good you are at oral, or how you can give me 'references'.

Ick Ick Ick!!!!!

Beth
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