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 renoirs_dream
Joined: 5/2/2009
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Possibly it may be happening. Without quality data to support a hypothesis. Maybe you are attracting the weirdos or just attracted to them leaving the "normal" quality guys out?

Maybe with the way our country is going with the lower marriage rate. Men have to much free time on their hands and more loose women out there to satisfy their wants? Maybe men are getting satisfied way to much by a variety of women and their drive requires a HIGHER drug? (EX: Smoking cigarettes use to give people a high when they first start. After so many packs it takes more to receive a high.)


I honestly think that I've matured and realized there is NOT an all powerful god out there ready to beat me to a pulp for doing something unacceptable. One extensive Mormon girlfriend and several s0-called Christian girlfriends later, I've decided that Darwin, natural selection, and evolution are right while Mormon and Christian 'values' are usually just 'guilt-trips' played on an uneducated populace. Don't make the assumption that my beliefs then mean that I'm out to rape and pillage the Earth - I do believe in the inherent worth and dignity of the human race, but just like a tumor in the body can represent a cancer for a person, dogmatic Christianity (and many other religions) are like cancers that keep many people from experiencing a happy and healthy sex life. Perverted, no. Healthy between consenting, educated, adults, yes.


Interesting statement, especially since in the animal kingdom you will find animals who cross species will be sterile. You will also find the males of many species getting a little frisky with other males.

Darwin also married his 1st cousin on much lesser age. They had many children die from this complication. (If memory serves they had 9 children and 2 survived? Check this just to be sure!) There is also another case of marriage too early in his family tree.

With the CDC reporting 1 out of every 3 people in the USA with a STD. It was listed at 1 in 5 but a few years ago. These numbers are taken from hospitals and clinics that must report the cases. You notice. Marriages are in decline, divorce and STDs are UP. Maybe there is something about trying to stick with one person???

There is something to say about certain things in the Bible. Remember that some of the old ways have reasons behind their teaching. Maybe, JUST maybe the HPV cases we have recently seen in men with mouth and throat cancers on the increase are the lack of restraint during that time of month? Passing of cells to the mouth. These cases have also increased in the past few years. Does this also go with Religion on the decline, STDs on the INCREASE?

I could care less if you believe in a higher power. History and teaching for a quality life can be found in the Bible. I know many Darwinist people who understand the teachings. But it also comes down to the Bible could be used as a quick reference guide. Reason being is that MANY of the laws in the Bible where once used by pagan religions. Check out Caligula and the downfall of Rome until Claudius revived it. (If you notice. Before the Bible!) You could read one book or you can study thousands and thousands of years of why certain things are the way they are. I say do both! Then understanding will prevail.
 Blakkardaberry
Joined: 2/7/2009
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Posted: 7/27/2009 12:32:14 AM
Perversion is not an age limited occurance maybe you should check their spirtuality not necessarily that they go to church but do they have ethics or morals or some limitations. Ask do they understand right from wrong. Some people cross barriers they would have not crossed earlier in their lives based on their likes and their partners likes but I don't know if thats perverse or if there just growing in thier sexuality. I guess first I would have to ask what is your definition of perversion. Better yet just tell me what you consider normal since thats probably a shorter list.

 Blakkardaberry
Joined: 2/7/2009
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Posted: 7/27/2009 12:41:09 AM
Ok I read some of the stuff you wrote and after throwing up I can honestly say thats some sick crap. Where do you livel. I just want to make sure I stay away from that area for the rest of my life. Girl you better do like Beyonce says and find you an upgrade I have not felt this sick since someone had me watch 2 girls and a cup thinking it was funny its not and neither is this. I am out, my stomach can't deal with this subject very well. Never thought I was a prude before guess I was wrong.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 60
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 7/27/2009 5:28:53 AM

I worry more about the young boys of today, and what kind of men they will grow up to be, instead of older men.


Actually, it is the incidence of violence by women against men that has skyrocketed over the last two decades, although there has been some leveling off over the past lustrum. But I agree with the Lady of the Lake: you can't "save" every body, but we need to devote every effort to protecting the little little people.



Men have to much free time on their hands and more loose women out there to satisfy their wants? Maybe men are getting satisfied way to much by a variety of women and their drive requires a HIGHER drug?


Awww, you seem to be a thinker; are you seriously suggesting that the US is on the cusp of a Caligulan age of depravity because we have a surfeit of bored men and "loose women"?!!! As Robert Shaw chants in Jaws, "Here's to swimmin' with bow-legged women!" I suppose it's only fair to balance out the OP's apparent bias by your imbalanced assessment of trouble because men just have too much free time, but there are hordes of women with reprehensible sexual mores running (or skinny dipping) free, but what's the point in laying the blame at any single gender's feet?


There is something to say about certain things in the Bible. Remember that some of the old ways have reasons behind their teaching.


What a modest statement for a man of Faith! If your point is that biblical teaching served as an excellent health code for a long time, I mostly agree. But there are all kinds of things in the Bible (I kinda like the parts where old guys sleep with the loose women. lol). There is nothing new under the sun (Ecclesiastes)- kinda blows a hole in the OP's point as well as some of your alarming "developments". imho


Does this also go with Religion on the decline, STDs on the INCREASE?

We just got past eight years of Religion in the White House (Wheew!!). If religious devotion is waning, I suspect it's because too many evangelists have enjoyed too much press and waaaayyy too much power recently, which scared the bejesus out of the previously "silent" majority. And don't you think part of the STD increase might be related to the refusal of the recently deposed regime to fund sex education?


History and teaching for a quality life can be found in the Bible. I know many Darwinist people who understand the teachings. But it also comes down to the Bible could be used as a quick reference guide. Reason being is that MANY of the laws in the Bible where once used by pagan religions.


Sooo, it's good to read the Bible to learn more about pagan laws?!! Lol. The Bible reads a little too thick (with lots of contradictions offered by multiple authors) to be used as a quick read on any topic, unless you're looking for a nifty quote to damn somebody else.

Maybe some of us have too much time on our hands, but I don't see that as a problem; isn't it more of a quality of life enhancer? It gives me an opportunity to think through whatever I am about to do, when for much of life I seemed to have no time to think before I reacted to "developments".

Your post offers some remarkable points, Renoir's Dream; I'm just not sure where you're going with them.
 yankee1964
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 62
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Posted: 7/27/2009 8:53:30 AM
You women taught us...Remember we had to beg for it?

After we learned what you like we no longer have to beg...
 m_wave
Joined: 9/19/2007
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Posted: 7/27/2009 7:05:46 PM
It's not just gender, perhaps it's age. The last two serious dating experiences both women were completely frank and upfront about what they wanted and I would dare say you would call it kinky. I remember being surprised by the requests and thinking "I guess they figured out what they want and don't want to waste any time getting right down to it."
 borricuapapy69
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 70
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Posted: 7/27/2009 8:14:00 PM
its nothing to do with age...i went on a date with a 31 yr old female and she told me over drinks that she like to get choked..i almost choked on my drink lol
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 7/27/2009 9:18:31 PM

its nothing to do with age...i went on a date with a 31 yr old female and she told me over drinks that she like to get choked..i almost choked on my drink


Clothespins. That's what a 34-year old, slim, very attractive woman told me recently. On her body. But not every time. She was a business associate, and I can't for the life of me think of what I might have said that sequeed to THAT! Musta been some kind of test. Lol.
 rhenry5011
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 73
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Posted: 7/28/2009 5:39:42 AM
Yes we get perverted as we age....We have one trick and most of us can come only once, then it's lights out for us until we regain our erections some time mid Wednesday. So knowing that we old farts are only going to get to "pop" once and knowing you can keeping pulling orgasms out of your magic box like midgets out of a clown car...we try to get creative.

It is not that we are actually perverted, it is we want to do stuff to delay the "big show" The prettier you are, the sexier you are the more lovely to us you are the weirder we want to get with you because we men are visual and it's very exciting to us to see such a pretty girl doing very odd things to our boy parts just to entertain us.

So we ask for kinky and weird because we enjoy looking at you. In a very odd way strange sex is a compliment. If we did not find you visually attractive we would just keep the lights off and do the one two pump and snort and snore....But if we think you are amazing and sexy and you drive us wild then we want wild and amazing things to happen because you turn us on so much.

Now come over and dress like a leather glad nun for Father Daddy.....
 bustylatinaniece2000
Joined: 8/8/2008
Msg: 75
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Posted: 7/28/2009 8:42:00 AM
i think its sexy n hot
 renoirs_dream
Joined: 5/2/2009
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Posted: 7/29/2009 7:05:22 AM
Does this also go with Religion on the decline, STDs on the INCREASE?

We just got past eight years of Religion in the White House (Wheew!!). If religious devotion is waning, I suspect it's because too many evangelists have enjoyed too much press and waaaayyy too much power recently, which scared the bejesus out of the previously "silent" majority. And don't you think part of the STD increase might be related to the refusal of the recently deposed regime to fund sex education?


Politics with religion has been hand and hand since the beginning of this country and the court system. As you know being an attorney. They pray in court documents and pray in court. The best thing about this country is that we are not forced to believe like many countries.

What's funny about the statement above is the cutting of sex ed? When I went to school the majority of pregnant girls were cheerleaders. Maybe we should cut football and cheerleaders? lol All the freaks, ropers, punks, and outcasts knew about sex and what to wear or not to do! lol I didn't live in the 50's but I knew at 16 coca cola was a spermicide. That's what many women did in the backs of 49 fords!

No matter how much education you give a kid they will get into trouble. Look at the rate of teens that die in car wrecks that THEY cause. Guess what. They took DRIVERS ED in school! I bet even parents and schools teach kids all the time how not to get into trouble in many forms and ways. Guess what. They do!

The rise in STD's doesn't mean that the people getting those STD's are OF SCHOOL AGE. They do not break down the information from the CDC.

I believe that when the government gets involved usually they manage to screw up. You notice that when women have children at 19- 26 per say the less likely the child is to be mentally deficient. Autism is on the rise. Some people blame the doctors, some people blame the vaccines. Take a look at the mothers AGE! They are OLDER! WAY OLDER!!! I've been stating this for YEARS!!! They are JUST now stating it publicly. WHY? The government wants you to be a good little citizen and graduate college at 30 and be independent of either man or woman. A robot to pay higher taxes! Then when you kick the bucket and HAVE NO person to leave your assets to... WHERE do they go? You got it. Your an attorney! lol

I like your use of REGIME! Shows you watch TV. Like I say. The Repubs are acting like 70's Dems. The Dems are acting like Libs, and the Libs are smokin to much dope. As you can see. They yell at each other on TV then smoke their $50.00 cigar and drink their booze all while patting each other on the back for bilking us for more of our greenbacks!

Take it easy! I liked your reply above!
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
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Posted: 7/29/2009 8:26:24 AM

Do men get more sexually perverted as they age?


I hope so!!!!
 MelloDLyn
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Posted: 7/29/2009 10:45:58 AM
I think as we age we are more open sexually to things. When I turned 40 that is when I started changing. I don't think I'm perverted just open to more ideas sexually than before.
 InsomniMac
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Posted: 7/31/2009 11:36:02 PM
It is strictly this - men get more confident, able and aware of themselves.

They would've liked it at 15 if they'd known about it and had the gall to ask for it. When guys get older they just get more manipulative, more understanding of themselves and their partners and get away with more, get used to wanting more.

Not to mention as people age they feel the intense desire to fulfill strange fantasies that remind them of their youth, I think. I feel that goes both ways though, men have fetishes, we're intensely sexual beings so our sense of nostalgia naturally intertwines with our day to day fantasies. Women though, have something else entirely nameless. The need to look young, to act young, to feel young are all the same. If it was anchored by something it would have another name, but it's there.
 ForeverLong
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Posted: 9/30/2009 8:10:54 PM
I haven't. I know what I like and don't need to do any crazy sh*t.
 MsMicki
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Posted: 10/1/2009 4:59:38 AM
Depends on your definition of perverted!

I'd say men and women alike tend to get more open minded about our sexuality,
therefore leading to greater sexual experiences.
If you want to label that as perverted .....I'll gladly wear that label!!
 Nailuver
Joined: 7/11/2012
Msg: 90
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Posted: 7/24/2012 6:06:40 AM
Wow! I think we are no different then women. As we age we have our perks just as you ladies. Funny, I was in arstaurant not so long a go with a friend and next table were to young ladies in their seventies, wow you should have listen to what they were saying about each men thay saw. They actually left with a young man. Now I can hear your comment but defenitely not, they were caucasian and the young man was mulatto.

Yes in are fourties, we seem to be acting wild looking at women, maybe doing things. Somehow I have notice that some women when in a good relation for years, tend to let go sex....not as important as their darn needs for their activities. Intimacy is what stop a man to look into another backyard!

Now you have been doing things the same way with your partner, isn't time to spice up your sex life, rejuvenate your love. Instead of ****ing on our case, get a sex therapy with your man and you get kinky with him. Do it minimum 3 times a week, and if he is to weak to keep it up...have him take some viagra...you will have a permanent smile!

Read men are from mars and women from venus!

So what is not happening with you ladies!!!!!
 wldnfree
Joined: 6/22/2012
Msg: 91
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Posted: 7/24/2012 8:13:06 AM
As one who has just broken up with a lover of 3 years, who was into the above mentioned kinks, I can tell you first hand, his weirdness had evolved over years of porn addiction. He's 56 now and has graduated to some extremes. The beloved pet was never called into play but trust me, he was very persuasive and adventuresome to the point of "eww gross, i think not". I loved him but thank god, not IN LOVE. So yes, they do get more perverted, in some cases, over time. And I'm very GGG so the problem was not me.
 wldnfree
Joined: 6/22/2012
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Posted: 7/24/2012 8:20:33 AM
Me too, sister lol
 AngelofHonesty
Joined: 1/4/2012
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Posted: 7/24/2012 9:30:41 AM
I am a witness that yes men are more sexually perverted as they age, but I also can attest to so are women, at least in my case. I don't see anything wrong with being nasty, gross, and down right raunchy when it comes to sex as we age, WTF, seriously heck we aren't dead yet, I say get as perverted as you darn well please, for those that don't like it , hell just don't partake in it, but I'm glad the men are more perverted, I don't want boring sex that's for sure, I can get that by doing myself...LOL. It's a mystery to me why women are so against perverted nasty raunchy dirty sex, hell it SEX, let me let you in on a secret....IT'S SUPPOSE TO BE NASTY! HELLO
 want to travel
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Posted: 7/24/2012 10:22:46 AM
No
most people, work their butts off, chasing a dream
house, cars, property, career, wife and children
once people get here, they find that all thats really good, but they are missing passion real passion, from their lives
I find both men and women shed a lot of their sexual hang ups as they get older,
personally, I think I am one of the lucky few, that realized ,just how wonder life can be, if you never let the passion go away, and not just sexual, but passion about many different things
yes, I like most people also had to live in the real world, work, pay, and be responsible
but I always left lots of room, for sex,people, art, culture, and travel
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 95
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Posted: 7/24/2012 11:10:38 AM
i like a man that want kinky things done to them the sex that follows is great if they want do anal on us why not them its not my ass that will hurt
 gtr1025
Joined: 3/5/2010
Msg: 96
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Posted: 7/29/2012 7:51:57 AM

I think as we age we are more open sexually to things. When I turned 40 that is when I started changing. I don't think I'm perverted just open to more ideas sexually than before.


Agreed!
 GarnerGirl71
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Posted: 7/29/2012 11:58:44 AM
I think people in general get more confident in themselves and their sexuality as they age. I find that I no longer care about things that bothered or embarrassed me when I was younger, and therefore I allow myself to relax more. I can say that I have some definite limits, but there are large gray areas which I am willing to explore. I am of the mindset of "I'll try almost anything once."
 platypus_man
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Posted: 7/30/2012 2:33:27 PM

do men get more sexually perverted as they age?

No, we're already perverted. As we get older, we simply care less about what other people think about us, and more about doing what we really want to do. Then again, there are those who manage to get as much 'normal' sex as they want, so they try new ways of having sex to see if they can find the excitement they used to have by simply having normal sex.
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