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 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 99
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?Page 3 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)
I wish to offer a alternative theory.
Which is.....
The numbers of odd folks is always small.
But as the single population get older....
the more desirable and normal guys get in relationships or get married.
Which mean the small population of odd balls
becomes an ever larger percentage of the remaining singles.

So in the effort to find a decent guy,
you may bump into a few wishing to wear your panties.
:-P
 milehiguy12
Joined: 5/9/2012
Msg: 100
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Posted: 7/30/2012 3:53:55 PM
I think we can all remember the partner that pushed our limits. I for one will always be grateful and constantly look to be challenged.
 hotmerlot
Joined: 2/25/2012
Msg: 101
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 7/30/2012 4:30:09 PM
We are doing a little stereotyping here on older guys. I've read many threads about ED and older guys. Old fashioned treatment and older guys. Older guys loving younger women.

If a anthropologist from another planet was to read this they would think that all men over a certain are:

Peeing on younger women with half erect penises and exclaiming 'why thank you Ma'am'.

I'm almost fifty years old and I've never dated a pervert. I'd like to know how you find these guys?
 HiHeelsLover
Joined: 7/13/2012
Msg: 102
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 7/30/2012 4:37:24 PM

They've done everything else... with everyone else... so now they look for new things to keep them stimulated...


Try something like an emotional connection. THAT would be something different for most of them. Unselfish giving. THAT would be something TOTALLY new and death defying. TALK about KINKY NOW that is kinky and different and unusual. A man who is not looking to slip his penis in every wet hole he can find. WOW wonder why they don't make porn about that.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 103
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Posted: 7/30/2012 9:38:42 PM
^^^

Wow......if ALL men are giving you that kind of attitude......
maybe you need to look at the common denominator.....which is you.

IME, most men are more than willing to be emotionally involved and I haven't met a selfish lover in a very long time.

I also haven't met one I would consider "perverted"......
I would use the term "adventurous" which suits me perfectly!
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 104
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 7/30/2012 9:39:16 PM
yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 105
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 7/30/2012 9:40:39 PM
due to feminism n v modern females lack of intrest in sex men have turned mre 2 porn, monkey c monkey do
 HiHeelsLover
Joined: 7/13/2012
Msg: 106
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 7/30/2012 10:06:08 PM
Ms Micki

No I just did the whole exploring thing when I was young and HOT. I would like to believe I grew past that point. Now in my old age I would like to believe it is more about who I am as a person. And while i get some women never had the guts or the ablity to truly explore the whole sexual thing when they were younger I wasnt one of them. I been there done that. KIND of bored. What do you consider selfish? Adventurous LOL what is that? Back of a strip club. In the bathroom at a restaurant? On the plane? WHAT is adventurous? And what is selfish? To me it is a man who cant hang for the 3rd go around. BUT to you it may be the guy who wont go down on you. lol How about the guy who wont go down on you while on your cycle? IS that selfish?
 puddin_boy
Joined: 7/8/2012
Msg: 107
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 8/1/2012 8:07:24 AM
Perverted.... Kinky...
Pleasure comes in many different forms... I think that as I have aged the mind washing of what is "dirty", that I received as a child, has worn off. There are things that I'm just not interested in but I find totally acceptable for others that want them. Such as Homosexuality... Not for me... But I have Gay friends. Shoving a big dildo up my ass... No thank you, but its ok with me if someone else wants it. I really don't understand foot fetishists or scat to mention a few. I think there should be a dating site dedicated to fetishes so it would be easy for two people that have specific likes could meet...

I remember a line that went "Sticks and stones may break my bones... But whips and chains excite me."

I am 53 and the kinkiest person I ever met was half my age so age really doesn't matter here. She was into beastiality so its not just men either.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 108
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 8/1/2012 8:09:43 AM
i get more kinky every day ..actually once you figure out that this game we play called love is just BS ..there is really no reason not to do anything that feels good
 Phil_an_derer
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 109
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 8/1/2012 8:21:08 AM
The kinkiest woman I ever dated was 60, not that long ago...now I find myself checking out all the over 60 profiles !!!!
 DSMTraveler
Joined: 8/18/2011
Msg: 110
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 8/1/2012 7:19:10 PM
No, they simply get more experienced.
 ted61
Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 111
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 8/2/2012 7:31:07 AM
I am not particularly religious and haven't been in a church for years. But if you go along the politically correct path where stopping a late term baby from exiting the vagina, piercing it's skull with scissors, is socially accepted, what sex practice could you possibly say is "perverted" in that society?

Do you actually believe the abortionist's view that the vagina is some sort of "magic life tunnel" that if you make it thru, you are safe! but if we stop you just before you exit, fair game! Crush the skull!

Kind of makes you think, huh?
 mad04
Joined: 6/19/2012
Msg: 112
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 8/3/2012 8:14:06 PM
Over time we just communicate it more. We've always been sexual deviants - long before our first sexual experiences.
 Sgt-Lynch
Joined: 1/14/2012
Msg: 113
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 8/3/2012 9:53:24 PM
It's simply a matter of less compromise.
I've been the way I am sexually (mostly) since my 20's.... I'm just tired of dropping my needs for others, and having to adapt to their needs.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 114
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 8/3/2012 11:42:05 PM
3yo thread by a user no longer here.....wonder if her mind is still closed?
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 115
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Posted: 8/4/2012 12:12:15 PM

hotmerlot

I'm almost fifty years old and I've never dated a pervert. I'd like to know how you find these guys?


Psst. Pssst! Hey, you in the sunglasses, over here! Yes, you, I’m talking to you. Come closer, I have something I want to show you.
 stonecastle
Joined: 2/14/2007
Msg: 116
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Posted: 8/4/2012 12:49:29 PM
Are food fights perverted? I have always found getting messy with an attractive woman using gooey desserts a big turn on.
 Mrgiveitright
Joined: 7/24/2010
Msg: 117
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Posted: 8/4/2012 5:10:53 PM
I'm more sexual only because the ladies in my age group want it less than me. So I crave it more but rarely get it. When I was younger, ladies flocked at me with lust in their eyes. Not anymore.
 Sweet_Danimal
Joined: 6/22/2012
Msg: 118
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 9/4/2012 2:56:34 PM
From the second people lose their virginity, they are thinking of new/different ways to have sex. 'Perversion' means a deviation from the norm. Frankly, I would have no idea what 'Normal' sex would be, since every time it is not the same experience.

I guess one could be concerned that extreme deviation could be correlated to a larger quantity of sexual experiences, but then again, that doesn't mean with multiple partners or dangerous practices, just more Nooky.

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Erotic is using a feather. Kinky is using a whole chicken. Batsh*t crazy is using a live rooster.
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 119
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 9/4/2012 4:33:38 PM
Yes sexual experimentation and kinkiness seems to be the norm. Internet porn stimulates all the fantasies and women are often pressured to have anal sex and to shave etc. However over a bottle of wine there is often a lot of bulldust spoken by men and they are often empty braggers. STD's are rampant and there have always been men who fantasise about bestiality and other nasty things, just that now they are more open about it. Once only prostitutes would oblige them but now it seems everyday women are doing it and often engage in sex on the first meet from dating sites and taking all sorts of risks when they are high or drunk or just not stable.
All these women can be accessed amongst the huge membership in cyberspace.
 Gators1988
Joined: 2/4/2012
Msg: 120
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 9/4/2012 7:24:05 PM
I just think that alot of men are more open-minded now then our Fathers were 30 yrs or more ago...The times are changing..yes there are freax out there...but there always have been...and always will be! It's just that 30. 40 , 50 yrs ago...it was easier to be a "closet freak" versus now...where people are more visible and are accepting each other for our eccentricities...which after all...makes us human...please never forget that! I'm stepping off my soapbox now! hehehe This one goes out to a VERY special Scorpio friend ! I'm finding out that she is quite interesting!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 121
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Posted: 9/6/2012 10:01:26 AM
NO!

It's called ~Experience~!

Before my 2nd marriage, I never gave or received a spanking....tied or been tied up...tried anal...or...
_Really_ appreciated how Erotic Cunni- was!!
After 14 yrs of widowhood.....
I'm not sure if I Envy or Pity my next genuine partner.....but she'll be Exceptionally Happy!!
 Randal5
Joined: 10/23/2009
Msg: 122
Do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 9/6/2012 11:26:15 AM
I don't know if men become perverted as they age, but I think we want to try all the things we ever thought we might want to do before we are too old to perform or die.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 123
do men get more sexually perverted as they age?
Posted: 9/6/2012 1:54:07 PM
I think some people as they age need more stimulus, so they get into ever kinkier sex. Some people don't have a lot of imagination, internet porm may awaken some dormant desires.

I have always had a dirty mind, it's about the same at 59 at it was at 20. I am not really inclined to get into things I have never done, an example would be blood play.
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