They rush things because they don't really care what you want, and that's why they don't bother to get to know you. Also they do it if they don't want you to know what they're like either coz they're usually shady or not a good prospect.
Feirene: Agreed! I just dealt with another situation like this. He's had a series of meltdowns, sent passive-aggressive messages and then acted overly entitled to more communication. I blocked him. I'm not open to give up my peace to some maniac trying to rush me into something that I didn't agree to.
Twenty minutes into the first date: "You're so much different than all the other guys I've met. I hope this isn't too forward, but can we be exclusive?"
BretIam: I can relate. After one date: "so what are we doing?" Or, another where there hasn't even been a date talking about the future and making plans.