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 paulisdareason
Joined: 3/13/2008
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were all diffrent so id suggest either asking staright our or paying attention to all the clues when me give when were being worked on. Where his hands are on your body while you work , how his hips move and of course the old " uhh yes right there dont stop ' line lol
 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
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Posted: 9/15/2009 12:21:23 AM
Practice practice practice ladies.

Biting can be pretty hot. I like being bitten. Not teeth being dragged up and down, but when you go all the way down, to bite right at the root. Harder than you think.

It's kinda hot.

Deepthroating is always a bonus as well.

Should probably ask the guy first if he likes it though. Might kinda freak him out.

haha

 Answerman711
Joined: 8/6/2009
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Posted: 9/15/2009 3:12:42 AM
Show desire that you really are into what you are doing.....

Go slow....what's the rush? Some women really go to town and for what? Just the feeling of a woman going down is incredible, so let your guy enjoy what your doing to him.

Finally, Don't make him require to "warn" you when he's about to cum. You know whats going to happen. If he doesn't have to think about anything but enjoying what your doing to him, he'll enjoy it more.
 rentahusband
Joined: 4/17/2008
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Posted: 9/15/2009 6:51:44 AM
I honestly didn't read the 3 pages of responses but there is another thread on here about guys not liking BJs. Not all do. Don't be disappointed if your guy doesn't. Some of us just aren't into it........
 sub girl wanted
Joined: 5/1/2008
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Posted: 9/15/2009 8:51:54 PM
I didnt read any of the previous..but for me? just taste it lick it and swallow it like it was the best jolly rancher candy u ever tasted,You wanna devour it,but u wanna savor the flavor at the same time.Either way wins,but the latter makes u my best friend for a looong time.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 9/16/2009 2:30:48 AM
Goodness, this thread has woke me up to how old fashioned my thinking really is. For some reason, when a woman jumps my junk like a porn star, a little question pops in my mind that she might be one. I think I would rather suffer through a substandard blow job, than feel I was dating a pro. Maybe feminine modesty still appeals to me. If I'm impressed with her as a woman first, we can iron out any BJ problems later. Times are changing for sure.
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 78
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Posted: 9/16/2009 7:53:42 AM

I agree that the finish is probably the most important part. When my love starts to cum in my mouth I don't stop. I continue to apply gentle suction and continue to stroke him, sucking until I have milked out the last drop. Only when his organ is spent and limp in my mouth do I remove my mouth from his pen1s. As one final gesture I will kiss the head of his c0ck affectionately.


Bingo. Any woman who hasn't learned this yet undoubtedly has their man secretly posting BJ complaints on PoF (or something similar) and/or looking for a woman on the side to give them that physical pleasure.
 tx2az1
Joined: 10/28/2008
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Posted: 9/16/2009 5:06:02 PM
2 words! NO TEETH!
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 9/17/2009 12:43:14 PM
WTF....I keep seeing women on here pestering one poster who claims to have the highly secret "holy grail" blow job. Where the hell is your common sense? I can't beleive you women can be so gullible and impressionable. If every man is different in what he likes or wants, how can there be a "holy grail" blow job? Is this really so difficult to figure out? No damn wonder women can be sold black fingernail polish.
 sub girl wanted
Joined: 5/1/2008
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Posted: 9/17/2009 2:07:15 PM
I had one gf who was perfect at this.She would slowly kiss/lick me all around the genitals but not on them...till BAM shed have it in her mouth.(A head rush after being teased for awhile)Then shed slowly rub the underside of my balls(in a soft circular motion) while slowly taking it in and out of her mouth...a lil deeper every time.Lots of blowing along with the sucking..but for me the thing was she took her time.The typical porn blow job...where the girl is going like a jackhammer...just doesnt do much for me.
 RossMc
Joined: 10/29/2008
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Posted: 9/17/2009 10:41:47 PM
You are thinking too much like a woman. Forget about the idea that you need to have a perfect technique for the guy to enjoy having sex. Remember, men usually enjoy sex. They can take for granted the fact that they will enjoy it. Their focus is on getting it in the first place. Because of women's generally weaker sex drive, they are able to say no to sex and be picky, so men have to work harder to get sex (unless they are Mick Jagger or Brad Pitt). and it takes more work for women to actually enjoy it.
 devilman007
Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 9/25/2009 9:45:27 PM
How into BJ's are you. I find that the woman's attitude can be a big turn on. Some women just don't like to do it. Some do it as a favor to their boyfriend. Some do it because they enjoy watching the pleasure their boyfriend gets. And some women get really turned on while fellating and come close to orgasm. The woman that is really into it, wins my vote. As for particular techniques, a lot of tongue action on the corona, a lot of hand stroking with your head bobbing up and down. Deep throating didn't turn me on much. Swallowing is good. Talking dirty is a big turn on too.
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
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Posted: 9/26/2009 12:10:59 PM
NO, I will NOT help you - it's a task that CANNOT be delegated!! And it seems that plenty of tips have been provided, so I have nothing to add there.
 SleepyMcGee
Joined: 5/16/2008
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Posted: 9/28/2009 4:53:37 AM
Different guys like different things. I've seen a lot of magazines claiming that men all want rough, porno head. I most certainly don't like that, it feels very uncomfortable...I'd much rather the girl take her time, slow and sensual, and let me enjoy the visual of her going down on me. It's a simple matter of what your boy likes, why don't you ask him?
 LoyalLikeADog
Joined: 6/22/2008
Msg: 104
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Posted: 5/17/2010 12:32:05 AM
The penis is like a huge clitoris. In fact, all fetuses are female until they either become male or stay female.

There is no need to suck hard. There is no need to go all of the way down. If you are too rough you will start to numb the penis.

Just as with women, it is important to use your mouth and your hands at the same time.

Suck and lick the end of the penis and stroke the rest of it. With your other hand roam around. Gently massage his testicles. Scratch his body everywhere you can reach.

Talk to him, tell him you want to taste his semen. Tell him you worship his penis. Tell him it's ok to be vocal.

During fellatio pause occaisionally, this will build up the excitement.
 chameleonf
Joined: 12/22/2008
Msg: 107
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Posted: 5/17/2010 2:58:12 PM

What kind of things do guys like girls to say to them to get them over the top...


Talking him over the top? That's the last thing you should be doing with your mouth...but what do I know....
 wvwaterfall
Joined: 1/17/2007
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Posted: 5/17/2010 3:43:08 PM
It's clear that "different strokes for different folks" is quite applicable here, so tuning in to his reactions is obviously important. I could tell you what I like best, but that may well not be the key for another guy.

I would say, though, that what makes a BJ potentially better than intercourse from purely a sensational perspective is your ability to customize the pressure and stimulation to maximize the pleasure. I'd also hazard that while some may like it faster or slower, firmer or gentler, etc.... I'll bet all of us appreciate making sure it's well lubed, whether with spit or whatever other slippery substance you'd like to taste, and that between your tongue, lips, hands and potentially throat you're 'embracing' as much of it as you can all at once.

Optional additional stimulus can be applied to testicles, anus, or anywhere else that makes him gasp, and there are some fun toys out there that could also be introduced. I've seen a small vibrator attached to what amounts to a couple of rubber bands you loop over your ears to suspend it near your mouth that you can place under or over your tongue to add to the fun, and some fingertip vibrators that add some extra zing to wherever your fingers go.

Another key I think was already mentioned is to be genuinely enthusiastic. There's not much more exciting for a guy than for his gal to be truly eager to wrap her lips around his member, not just willing to. If your excitement builds with his, the 'O' will be that much more intense.

Dave
 inkibaludo2
Joined: 3/17/2013
Msg: 112
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Posted: 4/11/2013 4:36:32 PM
Could be many things, my dear. Maybe he's just not into you. Maybe he needs other stimulus or foreplay or needs to be told certain things, I'm not sure. Maybe you need to try role playing? Dress-up? Toys? Who knows?! You basically have to straight-out ask this guy what turns him on and what going to make him explode like a boiler on plutonium.

You'll get a lot of different answers on your questions. The only good answer is to communicate with your mate and get the answers from him.

Hope this helps.
 SpringMataLeao
Joined: 10/12/2012
Msg: 113
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Posted: 4/11/2013 5:26:02 PM
well, for starters...Go down on me, and I will give you the input you need.
 gunmarana
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 114
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Posted: 4/12/2013 8:26:39 AM
Boy,i wish my wife would go down on me more often she dosnt like doing it.i on the other hand love going down on her,its a real turn on for me to please her that way,and she loves it to.Ithink she thinks im going to cum in her mouth and that turns her off.
 PugDude1971
Joined: 2/13/2013
Msg: 115
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Posted: 4/12/2013 9:14:54 AM
One word: eye-contact. I love it when a woman looks me in the eye while engaging.

CLosing the deal helps too. Give the guy something to strive for...
 gofurguy
Joined: 11/1/2011
Msg: 116
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Posted: 4/12/2013 9:47:23 AM
i have had one mind blowing bj. her secret was her tongue wrapped around and never let go. she said she practiced with a brat until she could get it right
 bs1071
Joined: 3/24/2013
Msg: 117
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Posted: 4/12/2013 4:05:34 PM
for me nothing is better than a deepthroat
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