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Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 45
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There is a big difference between the G spot and the Deep Spot (which I lovingly call my 'cuss button') It is only stimulated by a well endowed man, with the right angle (usually doggie style) hitting it at the right speed. When done, it is unreal.
I swear, I think it pleases my boyfriend to do it just as much as it does me to enjoy it,
Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 47
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The Deep Spot
Posted: 8/12/2009 5:17:10 PM
We are not talking about the G-spot, some of you just don't get it!
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 48
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The Deep Spot
Posted: 8/12/2009 7:14:33 PM

GoodwitchBeth: It is only stimulated by a well endowed man

I don't find this to be true at all. My lover is quite "average" in length.......and he seems to hit it each and every time

LakeCountyGal: It's called the "G-spot", not deep spot. Lets be adults and use the proper terminology shall we? .......... And yes, most women already know about this because we tend to know our own parts.

Ohhh...... ...I'm trying very hard to be an adult here......but you're making it damn hard when you spout nonsense!
If you know you're own parts so come you don't know we are NOT talking about the Gspot.......which is located within a couple of inches of the vaginal opening.....but are discussing the Aspot....(referred to as "Deep Spot" here)...which is located further into the vagina.

for me, this is why I sooo love feeling a man cum inside me......
when he hits that spot with he explodes........sends me right over the edge!
Joined: 4/25/2008
Msg: 53
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The Deep Spot
Posted: 8/13/2009 4:54:20 AM
There are several spots a woman has to create orgasam. There an A spot and a G spot both are located within the vagina. I'm not so sure about what the other spots are called but I know they are there lol
Joined: 4/17/2008
Msg: 55
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The Deep Spot
Posted: 8/13/2009 7:10:51 AM
He means deep spot. Different than G spot and some of your information is wrong.

Another expert on females and sex.

I'm curious: what's wrong with his info? I've read the exact same thing on many sex advice sites as well as shows like Sunday Night Sex Show with Sue etc....

And yes, most women already know about this because we tend to know our own parts. It's not a "mystery" to most of us.

Sorry, how many women have you been with sexually? I can honestly say, that from magazines, books, watching sex therapists in action, and from women I've been with the vast majority DON'T know their bodies and DON'T know where their G spot is and or how to stimulate it.

If this was the case then there wouldn't be so many women who have never experienced an orgasm and that IS statistically a proven fact.
Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 61
The Deep Spot
Posted: 8/13/2009 11:55:48 AM
Shit, I thought that was the cervex or....something.
Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 63
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The Deep Spot
Posted: 8/13/2009 4:39:45 PM
Meowkatt1 said:

It's sorta hard to explain because I'm telling it from a girls point, I'm not a guy so don't know the exact technique but you can get to the deep spots, I say spots because depending on which side the girl is laying there are 2 "corners", You will slide just under/next to the cervix into a little area that I am told feels alittle tighter for the guy & you can't get any deeper. You don't have to move much once you're there.

That's the deep spot, it's called the vaginal fornix and you are right once there you don't have to move much just push against it.
Joined: 5/26/2009
Msg: 64
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The Deep Spot
Posted: 8/13/2009 7:03:32 PM
and i hang out in the poetry forums? huh...

my comment was trashed....s*cky-poo.

i don't understand why people argue about this stuff. even if it works for 3% of people, that's still millions of very happy people. my then hubby discovered and nurtured that very deeeeep spot when i was twenty...yes!!!! it's a wonderful life.

(TRY THIS is pretty good....and, nooooo, if magazine articles, docs, therapists, and all others who think they know would shut up, we;d have half a chance of discovering. This is coming from someone who teaches some pretty basic stuff about human bodies to , uh, medical professionals.)

Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 66
The Deep Spot
Posted: 8/13/2009 8:44:39 PM
Geez Vixen. Must be like a large auditorium in there. That's sexy.
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 72
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The Deep Spot
Posted: 8/16/2009 10:11:18 PM

Should I feel odd that supposedly my vagina has all these spots? . . This makes me feel like we should be playing "Vagina" twister!

I think I have a new interest to add to my profile!
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Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 73
The Deep Spot
Posted: 8/18/2009 8:55:52 AM
ok, if that's the deep spot why doesn't it have a letter to go with it like the other spots inside a vagina?
2 inches in is the G-spot (what happened to the a,b,c,d,e, and f spots? quarter inch increments). oh yeah they also do have the C-spot.

Ladies please list all your spots before lovemaking and the order in which we must hit them or rub them or come hither them.
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 83
The Deep Spot
Posted: 10/13/2009 10:33:13 AM

Actually I do appreciate some of your comments about female ejaculate. In fact I tried some of the techniques that you said and sent my gf going nuts. She was more of a clitoris type of orgasm until one day she tells me that I was hurting her for going too deep. So I stopped while all the way in. When I began to pull out, she dug her nails on my back and seemed to be in tremendous amount of pain. Now she didn't want me to go out. So I stayed there and she experienced the most intense orgasm. Not only one but a bit later she had a second one. So I used to say, that no, Vaginally there not only the G-spot, or the labia but what I used to call a cervical orgasm. One time she had 4 of them, and then we went for a clitoral one.

The thing is that guys really do not know this stuff. I didn't know it. Most women don't know it. So the more we learn the better.
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 94
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The Deep Spot
Posted: 12/16/2009 7:09:03 AM

It is only stimulated by a well endowed man


I guess us below average ones can't do that one.

But I still have my hands and my tongue...........................................................

Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 97
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Posted: 7/4/2010 2:57:47 PM
The A or Deep Spot this thread is discussing......
is up near the cervix....

It doesn't have to be stroked.......basically putting pressure against it works when a woman is aroused. Just go deep and stay there. Let your woman rock against you to stimulate it. You are only a hair's breath away from "ouch...too're bruising my cervix!!"

I've never heard it being described as a rough patch of skin........that is the words used to describe the Gspot.

As for exact inches in........depends on the woman!
Some women are deeper than others.

Personally, my Aspot orgasms come from a man orgasming onto it.
When he is in deep and shoots against it.......mmm mmmmm!
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 104
The Deep Spot
Posted: 8/30/2011 5:53:11 PM
OP did it take you this long to find it ??
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 107
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Posted: 9/1/2011 3:29:28 PM
I wonder if the G-spot, U-spot, etc. are really distinct erogenous zones, or just areas that interact with the clitoris. The glans and shaft are only the small part that's visible--the rest curves back under the pubic bone, getting thicker as it goes, and forks in front of the urethra, with a branch curving back around each side of the vagina.

These branches or bulbs are an inch or so beneath the surface, meshed together with other tissues. So the buried part of the clitoris is about two and a half or three inches long. And this larger part passes close enough by some of these "spots" (and the vagina) that pressure or tugging on them must be transferred to it.

Maybe some up-close, hands-on research is needed to probe into these questions.
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 109
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Posted: 9/3/2011 3:37:06 AM
The 'deep' spot is easily reached by the woman on top.
My late wife and I have experienced that many times.
Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 110
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Posted: 9/4/2011 2:09:49 AM
The second thing I think of when I hear the word p*ssy, was a cat....still is, but now it's a leopard.
Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 113
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Posted: 9/7/2011 1:08:22 AM
I wonder how many of these spots are being confused with vaginal warts? ..............................................
Joined: 11/22/2010
Msg: 114
The Deep Spot
Posted: 9/7/2011 4:10:44 AM
I love placing my two fingers gently inside a womens deep spot and simply take my hand back and forth while my tongue is firmly planted on my lovers clit....It never fails,providing you know how fast,or slow to go with your fingers and how good you are with your tongue..
Its also great when you have a pocket rocket, in one hand stimulating your lovers clit ,while two or three fingers are deeply inside her womb,just wiggling your fingers on her G spot can achieve the big C.....
Joined: 12/7/2010
Msg: 117
The Deep Spot
Posted: 9/7/2011 12:59:11 PM
Enjoying the Garden

What is more the essence of sex than a woman’s vagina? It is the source of her pleasure, home of the clitoris, center of her sexual universe? Nothing, in my opinion.

All roads lead to the vagina, do they not? Look at a lovely woman. On the street, in the mall, at work – anywhere. One must obeserve her abundant hair, alluring eyes, soft full lips. Follow down the curve of her neck, the swell of her breasts, the strength of her stomach. When you hit the center of her body, right between her beautiful legs, you’ve hit the center of her being.

Or start with her delicate feet. Strong enough to carry her for a life time, yet supple enough to massage and fondle. Also, by the way, often cold enough to freeze whatever they touch under the blankets! Move your eyes up those shapely calves to the curve of her thighs and roundness of her tush, and there it is again, the Bermuda Triangle, mysterious and unknown.

Well yes, as you may have noticed, I’m a man who loves vagina. Loves the way it looks, the way it smells and tastes, and most especially when treated right, the joy it gives a woman. Naturally, you don’t have to be a man to feel this way and that’s cool, too – very cool, judging by the adult video and film industry.

When you hold a woman’s legs apart and use your tongue and talents correctly, you may become a very popular lover indeed. Songs may be written about you. Statues erected of your likeness. College dorms named after you. At the very least, you’ll have very few lonely nights. As one of the lovely gals in "Sex and the City’ once opined, "If a man can do that well, he doesn’t need to do anything else." How true it is.

If there’s a girl who doesn’t love having her **** showered with affection, I haven’t met her. And if you’re new to this form of intense pleasure, if you want to be a better lover and realize there’s no manual, I believe I can help.

Now, for those of you of don’t know a vulva from a Volvo, a clitoral hood from an oven hood, let’s start with a quick and simple anatomy lesson, so we’re all on the same page when it comes to descriptions. By the way, I prefer to call the area the ****, as I do in my stories. It’s kind of erotic, I think, where****is too harsh and vagina is too clinical. Plus, gash, slit, love tunnel, etc. are too cute and can get confusing.

The entire outside of the vagina is called the vulva. The large, soft outside lips are the labia majora, while the inside, thinner and more delicate lips are called the labia minora. High up on top, inside the inner lips is the clitoral hood, which when lifted reveals the clitoris itself, which can actually swell and become somewhat erect when stimulated. The small opening right below the clitoris is the urethra, where urine comes out. Below the urethra of course is the larger opening of the vagina. Between the vagina and the anus is the perineum, called the ‘taint’ in slang (‘taint the ***hole, taint the vagina.’) Got all that? Good, let’s get to it.

There are many forms which can work with this type of article; Q & A, Do’s and Don’ts,Pros and Cons. I’ve ruled out Q & A because I’m not sure which Qs you’d A. As for pros and cons, there are no cons to oral sex, so that’s out. Let’s try Do’s and Don’ts. If you do, however, have any Qs, just email me, I’ll be happy to A to the best of my knowledge.

Also I must advise you, I’m not a doctor or sex practitioner. If you happen to meet a doctor that loves licking **** as much as I do, and has done as much of it, feel free to listen to their advice instead of mine. Of course, it may cost you $100 for every 15 minutes, while I’m free (And here I was thinking that I was just cheap.) Plus, I’ve been to the doctor many times, never discussed eating **** – not once. What do we pay them for, anyway? And with that, away we go…

Do understand, please, that every person on the planet is different. One woman’s honey may be another’s poison, or something like that. Instructions are fine, but we’re not assembling a bicycle here. There’s more than one way to do it. In fact, there are many, many ways, some of which I’m sure that I’m not aware of yet (though I do try so hard to stay current.) As they say, communication is the key, baby. If she likes what you’re doing, or even loves it, keep it up. If she doesn’t like your technique, all is not lost. Just dial it down a notch perhaps, begin with the basics as I will explain them. If the challenge, however, is that she wants you to be wilder, crazier, more intense, please call me immediately, I’ll be right over to help. **
** 24 hour service only available in New Jersey – sorry.

Don’t rush to the vagina as soon as you’re both aroused enough to undress. Take your time, oh impatient one, it will be worth the wait and increase her arousal tenfold. Start with her neck and shoulders. Caress, kiss and lick your way down her chest, lingering on her breasts. I cannot overstate how sensitive a woman’s nipples are. When you circle her aureoles with your lips or fingers, then lightly (or not so lightly, depending on her) squeeze her nipples, she’ll likely feel the vibration right down to her buzzing ****.

Not too long on those nipples, though – she may get sensitive quickly and you don’t want to make her squirm -yet. Kiss the soft insides of her thighs, her calves, even her feet. By the time you get down to the vagina itself, she should be primed and aching for your tongue.

Do take your time and by all means, enjoy yourself down there. It’s what you’ve been dreaming about, right? Savor the sight, the smell, and the glory of it all. Kiss it, caress it, rub your thumbs all over the soft folds of beautiful flesh. Are you getting the picture? This is no time to rush, you’re not eating an ice pop here. It’s not going to melt. Be slow and thorough. Trust me - she’ll appreciate it.

Don’t go right for the kill by starting off licking her clit. Men are results oriented, I know, and want to make her cum fast. But it’s not all about the orgasm, it’s about the journey. So slow down. Lick her outside and inside **** lips first, with broad, flat strokes of your tongue. Lick around the inside of her vagina and, if you like, use your stiffened tongue like a mini penis, sticking it in and out of the hole. Lick around the bottom of her **** and her perineum. If she’s comfortable having her ***hole licked, (bless her heart) which is called rimming, then by all means do so as long as you’re comfortable as well. Many men and women find this highly erotic, and I’m one of them. Even if she’s never had it done before, ask her if she’ll just give it a try. Hopefully she’s open-minded and will let you. You may send her to heaven this way. Now, when all this prep work (you call this work?) is done, move your tongue up to the clit and even when you get there, toy with it. Lick around the clit in circles, lick over the top, around the bottom – all before you really get down to business, which is sucking her clit into you mouth and licking it fast with the tip of your tongue until she cums.

Do play with her anus – again, providing she’s cool with it, which hopefully she is. It works like this: While your tongue is dancing on her clit, rub some of her juices around her little hole (cute name, huh?) This double stimulation is very arousing to her, and she’s concentrating on your tongue so much that your finger doesn’t matter, it just feels good. As she gets closer to climax, continue to rub around it until she’s breathing heavily…getting very close. Now – stick your finger in the little hole just a bit, as far as the first digit perhaps, no more. In my experience, there’s a very good chance that this will set her orgasm off like a time bomb, bucking her hips like they were on fire. Yes, the feeling of your finger in her ass will make her cum much harder – you’ll see.

Don’t neglect her nipples either. With your tongue on her clit, reach up, over, whatever, and gently hold her breasts. As she gets closer, circle her aureoles lightly, as I mentioned earlier. But this time, as her breathing and body language announce her impending orgasm, squeeze her nipples. Believe me, some ladies will save you the trouble and do it themselves. They know the secret, that this extra stimulation will break the bank, sending them crashing into climax at warp speed. Her moans and cries will prove me right.

Do try different positions. They keep things from getting stale as a result of repetition. If you, as a lover, always keep her guessing what’s next, what’s new and what’s different, you’ll always be at the top of her hit list. She’ll always look forward to making love to you. If you like the standard position, on your stomach while she lies on her back with legs spread, that’s fine. I like it too. I had a girlfriend who lived for this position. She tensed her legs so tight when she came she nearly cracked my head like a walnut. And I loved every minute of it. But try this: You’re lying on your back while she straddles your face, essentially the "sit on my face" position. It enables her to grind her **** into your face as hard as she likes, which is always a treat. It also lets you easily reach up and play with her breasts. Holding hands is nice and tender, too, if you’re into that. Another favorite of mine is eating her from behind while she’s on all fours in the doggie position. And here’s a great one: she’s sitting in a chair while you kneel in front of her, happily lapping her juices. She can keep her legs spread with her feet on the floor, or place them over your shoulders. Standing up works, too, with you under her spread legs. Careful, she may go wobbly in the knees when she comes.

Don’t think I forgot about the 69 position. I think it’s fabulous, with one drawback. Certainly, the more aroused you get, the more feeling and passion you’ll put into your end of the bargain. But the closer you get to orgasm, either you or she will lose your concentration while you focus on how good it feels to you. Not always, I’ve known at least one girl who would keep giving me outrageous head right through her orgasm. And you can be sure I’m licking like a madman when I’m cumming. It’s just great to put all your energy into pleasing her, isn’t it?

Do hum. It means more than you enjoying your efforts. When you hold her clit in your lips and hum, it works like a small vibrator, which is exactly what it is. The vibrations will spread from her clit to all areas, and make her tingle like a tuning fork. It may seem odd at first, but not when she feels it. You hum, she’ll sing.

When she’s about to cum, you know you’re doing the right thing. So don’t change your approach just as she’s gonna blow. If you’re sucking on her clit and she’s squirming and shaking, her breath coming in gasps, don’t suddenly switch to licking her clit with broad strokes. You’ll kill the flow. If she’s just about there…just keep doing what you’re doing until she cums. Variety is great, but when you’re about to score a touchdown, don’t change the play. Gee, you think they discuss this in locker room pep talks?

Her clit, which you know by now is like a mini penis, is the center of her universe. So make sure that you do get the best access you can to it. How? By pulling the clitoral hood out of the way. To some degree, the clitoral hood, which protects her clit like an umbrella protects you from the rain, will move out of the way on its own. But not all the way. Therefore, take your thumb and from the top of the hood, pull up so that her lovely little clit is fully exposed. Do it in the light at first, so you can see what its like when you’re in a dark bedroom, closet, prison cell, basement…you know, the usual places.

Above all, do go for it! If you remember just one thing, it’s to lick, fondle and suck your way to her heart. There’s no downside to giving her oral sex. No taboo, no mystery. If you want to be considered a good lover, it’s got to be in your repertoire. You’ll love it, believe me, just love it.

Lastly, since I largely have only my own experiences to draw from, I’d truly appreciate any feedback about different methods or stories of your own. Especially from women. I’ve often said, if I can do what I do just a little better, or try one new way that works, I’m thrilled.

I sincerely hoped you’ve gained something from my article. I write only for the love of giving others enjoyment. Please read my other stories on the site, too. Good luck!
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Msg: 122
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Posted: 10/2/2011 9:27:11 PM
I like the good old days... when cars and p*ssy weren't so damn complicated......................
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Msg: 124
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Posted: 10/12/2011 3:59:10 AM
I think I just found the Z Spot ... or should I say the ZZZZZZZZZ Spot.
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Msg: 127
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The Deep Spot
Posted: 10/16/2012 10:03:07 AM
ROCKING THE ANTERIOR FORNIX...It's the Aspot we're talking about here. NOT the Gspot.
The few sex educators that teach the importance of this area call it by other names: the Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone (or AFE Zone), the A-Spot, the T-Zone, or the Deep Spot.

The A spot orgasm:
Stimulation of the vagus nerves. Contractions of the upper third of the vagina. She feels her orgasm as a heat wave going from her lower abdomen to her chest bone. A spot orgasm releases large amounts of the hormone oxytocin, which causes sexual and emotional addiction.
The link below is a good starting point to learn more.

The link below has a lot of good site links all on one page.

Natalie Angier: “It may take many minutes to reach the first summit, but once there the lusty mountaineer finds wings awaiting her. She does not need to scramble back to the ground before scaling the next peak, but can glide like a raptor on currents of joy.”
Joined: 10/25/2014
Msg: 128
The Deep Spot
Posted: 2/17/2015 6:08:20 AM
I can only come from penetration, I think a combination of G and A spot stimulation.

Does produce very powerful orgasms
To the extent that all the hormones makes me cry like half the time- too much emotion!! lol
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