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 Red Fish GF
Joined: 12/3/2009
Msg: 158
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It's funny you complimented me, when I was reading your post I felt like you were describing me, a guy whos a little under 6 foot, with an attractive face and thats stocky... than I go and see you brought me up, what a coincidence.

Ha, ha your welcome for the compliment. I guess I added to that over confident attitude. I was under the impression some of your profile was just all in fun but was just saying not all women would realize that. Then again those are the ones you don't want to meet any way.

Sometimes it's not always who you think you'll end up with that turns out to be the one. As I stated earlier, my boyfriend is tall (at least 6ft. 3) and thin but I wouldn't trade him for the world. I also used to be attracted to younger guys with what I call a baby face but my man is older than me

 Red Fish GF
Joined: 12/3/2009
Msg: 161
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good body or face?
Posted: 1/14/2010 12:24:14 PM

The way I see it is, I'm more attracted to someone that knows what they have rather than someone who doesnt and seeks validation from everyone else... Buit a good balance is nice...

True, a good balance is key. Even though this is suppose to be a shallow thread lol it's having a good personality that makes them even more attractive. Sarcastic can be funny, I like a bit of a smarta$$ attitude if not too much. I wouldn't even want a man with a perfect body as they are usually too stuck on themselves. I don't know if men like the word "cute" to describe them but I'd rather they have a good looking face and a down to earth, optimistic attitude about life. I'm lucky I've found the perfect man for me.

Happy fishin.

P.S. From just a physical view, I notice the face first but then I would also be checking out upper arms (strong but not too muscular) and their a$$.

 Red Fish GF
Joined: 12/3/2009
Msg: 163
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good body or face?
Posted: 1/14/2010 1:19:59 PM
You need to stop describing me redfish...


I said in my other profiles I wasn't looking for a long distance relationship but guess what my bf lives 2 hrs away. Maybe you need to expand your
 Red Fish GF
Joined: 12/3/2009
Msg: 165
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good body or face?
Posted: 1/14/2010 1:38:16 PM
We seem to of switched topics but I once tried a relationship with a man overseas. The first older man attraction. Instead of meeting me he chose to have an affair with a married woman over there I had forgot where you were but seen you use arse like he does. We still email on occasion but I think another state would even be too much distance for me. I like to see my man every week if possible. In fact he is here now doing a house project while I am on the internet.

I guess this topic is rather silly because it all goes back to the personality being the most attractive quality in a potential partner.

Joined: 1/10/2010
Msg: 167
good body or face?
Posted: 1/14/2010 6:04:53 PM
I'd rather have a nice face. You have to see it naked more often than the bod.
Joined: 1/4/2012
Msg: 169
good body or face?
Posted: 2/7/2012 12:36:11 PM
Pretty Face of can work on the body, but pretty much stuck with the face, even face lifts don't cover up the ugliness only the lines!!!!
Joined: 1/27/2012
Msg: 171
good body or face?
Posted: 2/8/2012 6:08:08 PM
You can change the body. You're stuck with the face.
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 172
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good body or face?
Posted: 2/8/2012 6:18:28 PM

For me, it all starts with her body. If a woman is slim/slender, I am going to find her attractive, regardless of facial features. Oddly, though, most women who are slender, also tend to have nice hair and features.

^this. Of course, there are always a few that are just turn me off, but those are the exceptions.
Joined: 3/15/2010
Msg: 174
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good body or face?
Posted: 2/8/2012 10:16:29 PM
Obviously personality, sense of humor and all the other internal stuff is a given in a relationship but superficially I'd go for an attractive face over a hot body. No matter what and no matter how much you work at it, you won't have that hot body forever. It will change. So will your face, however in a less extreme manner. Beautiful eyes and a beautiful smile will last forever, big biceps and washboard abs won't.
Joined: 11/9/2011
Msg: 176
good body or face?
Posted: 2/9/2012 8:13:04 PM
IMHO It all begins with a nice body. Now, we all have our spin on what that nice body consists of.
Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 177
good body or face?
Posted: 2/10/2012 12:31:51 PM
A makeup artist can make any woman's face look good. There isn't much you can do for an out of shape body.
Joined: 12/14/2010
Msg: 179
good body or face?
Posted: 2/11/2012 10:38:10 PM
I prefer a great body for the guy definetly and if he is good in bed, how I like it.
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 181
good body or face?
Posted: 8/11/2012 8:59:00 AM
I would take the attractive body and the mediocre face. Many times, I have seen someone with an attractive face. However when I saw a full body shot of them, I was no longer attracted to them

I agree. Also if the other person has an unattractive face, you could have sex doggystyle so that you don't have to look at their face. LOL.
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 184
good body or face?
Posted: 8/11/2012 1:27:30 PM
I notice all these comments from ppl with showing. I wonder what they look like
Some have even said they are very attractive. Hmmmmmm.
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 186
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good body or face?
Posted: 8/11/2012 2:15:52 PM
I can't answer this in the way the Op is asking. They're both critically important to me. I must find a woman to be physically attractive. To me that means an acceptable balance of both a pretty face and a nice figure.

Great body / ugly face = no physical attraction.
grotesque body / pretty face = no physical attraction.
Joined: 1/23/2010
Msg: 187
good body or face?
Posted: 8/11/2012 10:10:47 PM
IA, I always go for a good face first:)
Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 189
good body or face?
Posted: 8/12/2012 7:41:32 AM
i would have to go with face although i have settled for body before!
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 190
good body or face?
Posted: 8/12/2012 9:29:38 AM
I would like both, but neither matter without personality,

What good is a nice body it they don't know how to use it,,
What is a nice face, if they don't smile,,

A little better than average works just fine for me..

Depending on the night, drink more, see less, everything looks good,, LOL
Joined: 6/17/2012
Msg: 191
good body or face?
Posted: 8/12/2012 11:00:11 AM
I`d rather have neither. An average looking gentleman with a great heart and personality is best!!!!
Joined: 12/5/2008
Msg: 192
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good body or face?
Posted: 8/12/2012 8:54:52 PM
women are different, i dated a girl whos ex was over 300 lb. i couldnt understand how, she was tiny. you see it all the time, hot chicks with average even fat dudes. women like personalities or something weird like that. a cute guy would think its beneath him to date a fat chick. me personally, i would take the hot body. i have heard that I was shallow b4 too thou, so who knows maybe i am wacked.
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 193
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Posted: 8/13/2012 10:03:37 AM
A pretty face will always get my attention first...
I'm not _ real _ picky about the body...~Slim/slender/athletic/ long as she's not mistaken for Jabba-the-Hutt!!
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 194
good body or face?
Posted: 8/30/2012 12:35:57 PM
I go am attracted to a great body first...

I mean so few truly have really pretty faces..

That being said, a combination of a good body and nice face is the best...
Joined: 8/26/2012
Msg: 196
good body or face?
Posted: 9/5/2012 12:00:37 AM
I would rather have a girl that has a great personality and fun to be with over beauty. I personally don't have the greatest body, or face and automatically get put in the friend zone by women I meet, but that always changes in a few days, because all of a sudden they want me to buy them flowers, they want kisses/hugs even sex. I personally find that body preferences fade away once you connect with the person.
 Tony Montana Sr
Joined: 12/2/2009
Msg: 198
good body or face?
Posted: 9/20/2012 11:46:32 AM

I like an all around attractive person, but probably not in the way you'd think. Someone who walks tall and doesn't hang thier head, or moves/talks with confidence really is attractive. You can also tell if the person smiles all the time, which I find extremely attractive.

Totally agree!!!
Joined: 10/19/2011
Msg: 199
good body or face?
Posted: 9/20/2012 2:57:30 PM
body, hands down.
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