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 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 158
The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....Page 9 of 14    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14)

Where most men, It's all they can do to go a week without sex a woman for the most part can go months or longer until she finds what she is looking for.


Since you're not a woman, I fail to see ANY logic in speaking for them.
 GQSunset
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 166
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Posted: 9/16/2009 2:46:33 PM
OutMind your comment ring soooo true lol

I dated a woman once and no matter how many times i would visit her at her place she never once offered me a cup of coffee,

Her reply was " I don't even own a coffee maker "

I then told her, " And that's the problem " when she asked why we were breaking up.

The fact that she didn't buy a $10.00 coffee maker showed just how clueless she was, and thoughtless. ( or at the very least instant coffee=$2.99 )

( Granted i found out much later that she was an anorexic and an alcoholic, but you really don't know these things until the lights are out and they are holding a knife to your nuts! or unless you ask up front before you date them, so sad as it is, sometimes you just gotta go there!)

YIKES, forget about they swallow or not, how about " Do you own a coffee maker?"

Much less invasive than sexually related questions and deifnetly more noble.
 Pondbabetx
Joined: 9/1/2008
Msg: 168
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Posted: 9/16/2009 9:14:07 PM
I agree with miss_contemplative that it is a respect issue, and an issue of someone who just wants sex.
Nothing wrong with that if both people agree to recreational pleasure.

However what are you talking about that leads them to ask the question? I only ask because in some cases flirting to suggestively too soon could certainly trigger ummm interesting questions.

Some folks have asked inappropriate questions way before I was ready to answer. It just let me know they were in it for the immediate gratification. Mostly though the people who have chatted or emailed with me have been polite and fun to talk to. I like seeing so many guys surprised by the questions and posting their reactions, kinda restores my hope for chivalry. ;-)
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 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 170
The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 9/17/2009 8:03:47 AM

...1. Do you give head 2. Do you swallow? ...


These are important to me, but I generally won't come right out and ask. People are looking for sexual compatibility. Well, young guys are just looking for everything. :D
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 172
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Posted: 9/20/2009 6:48:40 PM
What I find most interesting about this thread is that without fail, every single woman who has been offended at the idea of a man asking her personal questions is a woman I would never be interested in.

The women who understand why a man would ask questions like this and don't take offense seem much more serious, worldly, and open minded.

I don't think I'm going to be changing what I do anytime soon.

lol

People are neither good nor bad - respectful or disrespectful. In the world of dating, there are just different kinds of people. One woman's a-hole, disrespectful man, is another woman's, "OMG, what a catch!"

::shrug::

-8sf8
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 178
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Posted: 10/15/2011 11:48:23 PM
In my profile it states, I do NOT do questions #1 and #2. I definely do NOT do, question #4. I do, do question #3.
In answer to this question, I have heard all these questions except #3.
Now everyone on the forum knows all my replys to these 4 questions.
So do not ask me.
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 180
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Posted: 10/16/2011 2:19:10 AM
Snowballing see:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=snow%20ball
 ZXTTTT
Joined: 5/10/2010
Msg: 182
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Posted: 10/16/2011 3:16:16 AM
I have never even thought to ask those questions. Sounds like they are deal breakers to some people.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 183
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Posted: 10/16/2011 4:30:20 AM

Now everyone on the forum knows all my replys to these 4 questions.
So do not ask me.


Okay..but here's some new questions;

1. Do you dress up like that all the time?
2. Is that spear real?
3. Do you have visions of conquering people, or killing dinosaurs?
4. How often do you replace the feathers?

 WestMiMale41
Joined: 10/8/2011
Msg: 184
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Posted: 10/16/2011 4:46:44 AM
seeings how i'm the type of person that enjoys foreplay, giving oral sex, receiving oral sex, it's not a deal breaker if she doesn't take it anally (that requires trust and a guy knowing what to do before trying something of that nature)...kissing, cuddling, holding hands, public displays of affection, i feel, are also important, and especially open communication between one another, no matter the subject
 MikeWM
Joined: 2/7/2011
Msg: 185
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Posted: 10/16/2011 5:10:03 AM
Assuming the two people talking were fairly obviously on the path to bumping uglies then I cant see theyre that ridiculous really

Some people prefer to know some "no go" areas first so its unlikely to spoil the mood during as some of those would quite clearly cause a problem if one person tried for it but the other had a near evangelical level of objection to it

And tbh I do think those questions although specific do tend to give a good impression of a persons general outlook, comfortableness and open mindedness where sex is concerned or could indicate certain hang ups or issues that might be a deal breaker long term except for the squirting one

So I'd say if none of those really caused a fire and brimstone style outburst we would be quite likely to be on an a fairly compatible wavelegnth where sex was concerned

A negative reaction to one would be an instant deal breaker for me. two others wouldnt be "ideal" and the squirting one I have to admit would be different as I find it quite offputting if its excessive and/or frequent
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 190
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Posted: 10/17/2011 9:40:59 AM
Why is it when starting to talk to a guy an sex subject comes up men always have four questions they ask 1. Do you give head 2. Do you swallow 3. Do you squirt 4. Do you do anal.

Looks like a lot of these knuckle-draggers on POF are watching too much porn in their mother's basements. Big surprise.

Even though the original post is 2 years old, I'm sure things haven't changed much for alot of women here.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 191
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Posted: 10/17/2011 10:09:16 AM
Personally I don't see an issue with these questions.......if they are deal breakers why not know up front if you are compatible in those areas?!

I wouldn't have the least bit of desire to go on a date with a man that staunchly refuses to give oral sex......because we will not be compatible in that area. Why waste each others time?
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 197
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Posted: 10/18/2011 7:38:16 AM

It's kind of a waste of time before you've even MET (unless of course the guy's only aim for meeting is to get laid!)


How is discussing sex like 2 grown adults a waste of time?
Wouldn't it be more of a waste of time to NOT talk about sex and then find out after the standard 3 dates that your date is into something you're not???
 ConnCat
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 200
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Posted: 2/3/2012 6:40:35 AM
Since as we all know, the pre-dating Q&A process is all about trying to get the low-down on what the other person is all about, the key is subtlety. I've been known to ask how she likes her eggs cooked. That gives me an idea of what kinda morning person she is--without giving away the intent TOO blatantly!
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 203
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Posted: 2/3/2012 4:39:53 PM
1) What is your penis size..big enough ..had way more compliments than complaints
2) How long can you keep it up.... as long as it takes.. .had way more compliments than complaints
3) Do you have a Harley...yep two of them
4) It depends on your answers

Do you lick **** after you've c** in me?..I aim to please

Will you kiss me after you've c** in my mouth?... wouldnt have it any other way
 anais987
Joined: 12/14/2010
Msg: 205
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Posted: 2/3/2012 6:57:08 PM
because they all watch porn and that's the image in their head that an average woman should be a porn star! they forget though about their performance compeletely. I should probably start asking guys on the dates: do you eat p*ssy and how long you can last. But of course they all will lie just to get laid!
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 208
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Posted: 2/4/2012 6:50:52 AM

^ Yeah but your taken~



yea but she still lets me play in the forums
 egboy
Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 210
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Posted: 2/4/2012 10:33:43 AM
Posted By: outdoorgirlsunshine on 7/28/2009 1141 AM
Subject: The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Message: yes, I know dear, but it's just so romantic, sitting around for 30 minutes waiting for it to take effect, so..................much fun.

If I had to use the pills you would have to be sitting around (on my face). But I don't I don't need them. If you wanted to know if I could get it up just reach down and hold it for a min you would know.
I don't ask questions like that I just say tell me as we do it if you want anything . It's the best way and I'm not shy about saying what I want.
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 211
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Posted: 2/4/2012 10:39:40 AM
If a dude asks me these questions before a first date, the first date wouldn't happen. If the dude asked during a first date, the date would end with a handshake.

However, I am all for some nice sex talk later on in the near future if things were progressing more
 4REAL4YOU
Joined: 1/23/2008
Msg: 213
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Posted: 2/4/2012 12:14:24 PM
I realize you wanted responses from Women but from a guys view I think that guys that ask those questions are disrespectful,vulgar and have no class.
They should always treat you like a lady.
Over the years I have never heard of any guys saying that to a Real Lady.
 qldblue
Joined: 2/4/2009
Msg: 215
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Posted: 2/4/2012 4:30:27 PM
I will have to change my approach, I never thought about asking questions about another persons likes or dislikes in regards to sex.

Once when I met a woman, she told me what she liked sexually and since I wasn't expecting that kind of information, I must have looked and sounded a bit of a fool.

I believe that those questions should be answered when you have decided just before you to get to the sex stage.

Maybe I am just too old school.
 Sean4MD
Joined: 7/13/2011
Msg: 220
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Posted: 2/5/2012 9:33:55 AM
I don't care if a woman squirts or does anal. *shrugs and bites apple*
 hike-n-bike
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 224
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Posted: 2/6/2012 9:32:21 AM
These are all "guy" questions, not men questions. I hate to bash my own kind but what if women asked:

1. How thick is your c*ock?
2. How long is it?
3. Who measured it?
4. How long do you last?
5. How long does it take you to recover?
6. Do you take it up the azz?

I bet "guys" would stop asking those questions real quick.

 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 225
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Posted: 2/6/2012 11:49:15 AM

These are all "guy" questions, not men questions. I hate to bash my own kind but what if women asked:...

If a woman asked those things, I'd be impressed and I'd give her the answers to those questions.

I bet "guys" would stop asking those questions real quick.

Why should that change anything? It wouldn't affect me.
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