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 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Condoms or Not and why or why not.Page 4 of 9    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9)

I seriously rather do eachother manually and orally than have sex with a condom...


Granted I am new to this dating stuff..I was taken for a long time..but I have a question.
Not having used a condom in 28+ years, but engaging in a healthy, monogamous, relationship, not worrying about 'catching' something..beside birth control, isn't that why condom are used? To help the prevention of disease?

If so, then how do you engage in oral sex without the use of condoms..particularly performing on a women..if a woman insists on the man using a condom, even for oral sex..what protects the man when he goes down on a woman?

Inquiring minds want to know..
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 1/17/2011 4:39:05 PM

what protects the man when he goes down on a woman?

Dental Dams
http://www.sexetc.org/faq/std/1056
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 167
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Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 1/17/2011 7:10:20 PM
Dayum..I mean..come on..why not just wear a wet suit and snorkle set up..geezz..
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 1/17/2011 8:08:34 PM
Oh I completely agree Ping!
I won't give oral to a condom either........ick!
 my_other_car_is_a____
Joined: 1/4/2011
Msg: 170
Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 1/23/2011 12:26:24 AM

If so, then how do you engage in oral sex without the use of condoms..particularly performing on a women..if a woman insists on the man using a condom, even for oral sex..what protects the man when he goes down on a woman?

Inquiring minds want to know..


well dont ask me... pffffffffff... Ive had experiences with women where they would give me a BJ but when it came to the actual deed wanted me to go in with a condom...
at those points I dont feel like discussing a question like that with the other party
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 172
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Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 1/23/2011 11:20:59 AM
Yeah, the point being, condoms are so vile that even the more righteously cautious can't bare to use them for everything!
 DearDeeDee
Joined: 6/10/2010
Msg: 173
Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 1/23/2011 10:13:00 PM
Sorry but I don't like that inside of me. I only did that when trying for a family and with an ex I was with and lived with for more than four years. We used to do it bareback sometimes and I would let him do it but it was so much I had to shower twice so it was more cumbersome than exciting so we didn't do it all the time but as a whole, I do not enjoy ejaculate inside of me. Barebacking, only if we have been together for a long time, gotten tested repeatedly and I have no trust issues with you. I have seen people die from AIDS. It's not pretty.
 Stumbled In
Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 176
Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 4/22/2011 8:06:58 PM

It's not like they're going to walk around with a big flashing neon sign indicating they are infected...

Exactly. And most people infected with some STD's, honestly believe that they're not.
 Stumbled In
Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 177
Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 6/29/2011 10:02:57 PM

shouldn't we all be a little more selective than that ?

Beyond being in a monogamous situation, being selective would mean carrying a portable STI lab in the trunk of your car. You'll find STI's in every social strata, every income level, every religion, every basis of "selection" you'd care to choose. I'm not saying you shouldn't be selective. But until you've exchanged lab results with a monogamous partner, only a condom will cut your risks.
 AtheistScholar
Joined: 6/18/2011
Msg: 179
Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 6/30/2011 2:08:01 AM
The only guy who could do that is one I am in a committed relationship with. I'm not about to get a disease from some shmuck...
 veevee
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 180
Girls: do you let a guy cum inside you? Or always with a wrapped tool?
Posted: 12/28/2011 6:15:37 AM
Heck no, I'm not letting someone leave a mess there. Condom 100% of the time. I like organic but free-range jizz is not my style. Dispose of it - don't leave it on my wall or sheets and most assuredly not on or in me like we are animals. It's a waste product to me once the process is over. I'm sure guys find it magical to write secret messages in splooge on love letters or snow drifts but for me - it's ewww.
<-- the little sperm that couldn't
 ixtlan09
Joined: 12/12/2010
Msg: 182
Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 12/28/2011 10:00:25 AM
Do you take a shower with a raincoat on? Enough said.
 ixtlan09
Joined: 12/12/2010
Msg: 183
Girls: do you let a guy cum inside you? Or always with a wrapped tool?
Posted: 12/28/2011 10:04:26 AM
How much protection do you think a condom provides against STD's? They are made to stop sperm and are only 99% effective in that when used properly.

Sperm are much larger than viruses. And what about herpes & genital warts? You can certainly contract those while using condoms.

The idea that condoms stop STD's is far from foolproof.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 184
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Girls: do you let a guy cum inside you? Or always with a wrapped tool?
Posted: 12/28/2011 10:13:59 AM
I do not sleep around
And if I choose to have with a woman, I have to trust that woman
no I will not put one on,I would rather wait
 dondea
Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 185
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Girls: do you let a guy cum inside you? Or always with a wrapped tool?
Posted: 12/28/2011 10:25:38 AM
ixtlan09, I am sure you don't like to wear condoms (I don't either), but your statement above is very misleading and wrong except in .000001% of the cases where a condom has a hole in it or it leaked from the sides.


Condoms can hold all bodily fluids (and air, too--that is how they tested for leakage). That means, if it does not break or leak around the sides, a condom will contain (stop) any and all STD viruses and bacteria including herpes and genital warts that could be on the penis or vagina. Yes, you can get still herpes and some other STDs from oral sex, but that is because a condom is not involved.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 187
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Girls: do you let a guy cum inside you? Or always with a wrapped tool?
Posted: 12/28/2011 12:31:34 PM
Due to my anatomical shape..I prefer the Durex "Love".
 southernbabe03
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 189
Girls: do you let a guy cum inside you? Or always with a wrapped tool?
Posted: 12/28/2011 12:59:39 PM
Well, my tubes were tied over 20 years ago, so a guy can cum in me all he wants.
I have no problem with it.
I let them cum in my mouth too and I swallow and never taste a thing.
I love sucking a man off! mmm, love to feel a man get hard in my mouth.
It make me want him more and more!
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 190
Girls: do you let a guy cum inside you? Or always with a wrapped tool?
Posted: 12/28/2011 8:19:46 PM
condoms all the way for sure, one less thing to worry about child support
 MrsMau5
Joined: 12/11/2011
Msg: 191
Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 12/29/2011 2:05:28 AM
if it was just like casual sex....condoms! always condoms! if i've been with my partner forever, no condom. simple! common sense
 Mesabutte1123
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 194
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Posted: 10/27/2012 3:04:13 PM
Agreed. I have always used condoms with one night stands and people I knew with limited knowledge. After awhile I realized that orgasms were better without condoms. I had always used them and thought that sex was fine with them on........but it's not...........
 JoggerGirl02
Joined: 2/24/2014
Msg: 196
Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 5/1/2014 4:16:44 AM
of course the idea of emptying inside a female is arousing for most men,

And there was me thinking it was covering the t1ts or face that got you fellas off most...or the hair....dear God, please not the hair!.I learn something every day.

I never realised that they came in different sizes...accidentally bought large ones recently...never mind, I have rubber bands......
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 197
Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 5/1/2014 7:09:54 AM

these days , most condom use gives similar, if not better sensations when having intercourse, than without.
of course the idea of emptying inside a female is arousing for most men, i think most should agree the actual thrusting sensation is the same. .


Really, I am surprised. I don't have much experience with condoms, they did seem to lessen sensation quite a bit. Certainly never seemed to be better, but then I am not highly reactive, I am not going to orgasm from just a little stimulation. Or maybe it's very different by brand.
 salty_blumist
Joined: 11/26/2012
Msg: 198
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Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 5/1/2014 9:51:33 PM
Well, this thread makes me recall a recent conversation I had with a male friend. He said that if you have safe sex, it doesn't count...lol. He said he may as well just be having sex with a pockey pvssy if he has to have latex between him and a woman durring sex. This has also made me wonder if any woman may feel the same, that if a man's tool is going to become a rubber throng, then how could it be any different than her using a dildo on herself? Food for thought...
 JoggerGirl02
Joined: 2/24/2014
Msg: 199
Condoms or Not and why or why not.
Posted: 5/1/2014 11:56:51 PM

This has also made me wonder if any woman may feel the same, that if a man's tool is going to become a rubber throng, then how could it be any different than her using a dildo on herself? Food for thought...


Hmm...condom or Gonorrhoea?? Condom or Syphilis? Condom or Chlamydia? Condom or warts? Condom or AIDS?
I will take the condom please....I quite like rubber throngs :-)

Seriously though...if a man won't wear one, he is quite welcome to get out of my bed and go whack one out in my shower. As long as he returns via the kitchen...with coffee.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 200
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Posted: 5/2/2014 5:02:53 AM
^^^snickering!!

I will repeat.....for all the talk I hear about "loss of sensitivity"....
I have never, not once, not have a man cum because of a condom!!
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