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 sunny snow storm
Joined: 12/21/2008
Msg: 31
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i think somewhere in the 40's women ramp up and men ramp down, thats why more and more women are openly becoming "cougars"
 hersheyboy
Joined: 9/11/2007
Msg: 32
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/26/2009 10:25:57 PM
Why oh WHY is there not a MissContemplative in my city? Why? why ? WHY????


I'd love a chance to make her feel truly appreciated as a sexual woman!!!

It's been my experience that the over 40 ladies are definitely NOT decreasing in sexual drive nor prowess.

But what do I know? I am only a 50+ guy.

 Blue-Eyes-Shine
Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 33
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Posted: 8/26/2009 10:27:24 PM
It increases. (My post is too short, but that's all I want to say)
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 34
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Posted: 8/26/2009 10:39:06 PM
Gentlemen, I see opportunity here....I think it's time to keep our fly zipped up and purchase some Eveready and Duracell stock.
 LakeCountyGal
Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 35
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/28/2009 10:03:48 PM
Jesus, I hope mine goes down (at least a little) as I age. Mine is high enough as it is and I'm only 35. If it goes any higher, I'll be working in a brothel.
 mechele99
Joined: 8/11/2006
Msg: 36
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/28/2009 10:11:53 PM
Mine has definitely increased.
 kittencat2903
Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 38
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/28/2009 11:12:17 PM

Trying to compensate?? ^^
for what?? all the crappy sex we had when men were young and clueless


Way to go MsMicki ... keep shooting from the hip chick! Love it!
 dardika
Joined: 7/25/2009
Msg: 39
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/28/2009 11:16:15 PM
when I was younger I could have easily been a rabiit but today I am more intense in my intimacy.

I would say it is so much better now and as far as the frequency, I would say that is left up to the guy...as it usually has been through out my life...but I am game if he is.
 TantraD
Joined: 8/21/2009
Msg: 40
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/28/2009 11:55:17 PM
I am close to half a centruy and have to say it started increasing at about age 40 and still is..
and the senses..the erotic and the sensuality of things seem so much more heightened as well...


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 widowsdesire
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 41
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/29/2009 6:52:36 AM
Personally, I think a woman's sex drive is 99% mental. If a woman enjoys sex, it just keeps getting better and better with time and experience. If a woman never enjoyed sex in the first place, she can use age as an excuse to avoid it at all cost.

When a woman reaches menopause and her body goes through changes , if she enjoys sex, there are plenty of products on the market that she can use to allow her to continue with a fulfilling sex life.

I had a strong drive in my twenties (my casual sex period) and I have a strong drive now in my fifties. Making love to the same man in a caring relationship is a lot more fun for me than casual sex ever was. I don't engage in casual sex anymore. I can't be around my lover without wanting to touch him. The more intimate time we log together, the more I want to be with him.

What I want to know is, who "taught" you that sexual drive decreased in women with age"?
 wolftxus
Joined: 2/24/2009
Msg: 42
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/29/2009 8:02:48 AM
The sex drive for women above 40 has increased. At 20 they only had to drive 5 miles on average to get laid, now it is 12 miles...
 Hang2HeartU
Joined: 8/16/2009
Msg: 48
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/29/2009 2:26:51 PM
I'd Love to find a Lady, over 40, that still has an increasing Drive...
[haven't , yet...]
It's that kind of woman that I take great pride in satisfying...to her hearts desire..!!
The problem being...the 'Distance Factor' always seems to have such a Major bearing on just _connecting_ in any tangible way...
Before we can even discover what _could_ be a Fabulous relationship, the door gets *Slammed*, on a triviality..!!!
 ledas
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 49
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Posted: 8/29/2009 2:30:49 PM
Speaking from experience... no honey ,, our sex drive doesn't drop.. at least not for me,, happy being 52 years young. where as men ,,,,, saddly sex decrease or they can't get it hard... so looking for a younger man now.
 itechman63
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 8/29/2009 2:34:39 PM

Personal experience?

Even women well into their 50's have a significant high sex drive. God really does think he as a sense of humor in having men peak in their late teen's and women in their 40's.




My thoughts exactly.
 itsallinthesoul
Joined: 6/26/2009
Msg: 51
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/29/2009 9:41:56 PM
My sex drive has definately increased but I think it has more to do with my attraction for my partner and how enjoyable the sex is for me. A great partner will keep you wanting more and more and more of him. A big part of how enjoyable sex is for this woman (and I suspect a great many of us) is directed related to how interested our partner is in pleasing us sexually. Selfish lovers need never wonder why women over 40 don't seem to have a high sex drive... When we were twenty we might not have minded but over 40....hell you better be putting into it what you are taking from it or we won't stick around for an encore performance.
 loni j
Joined: 12/7/2008
Msg: 52
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/29/2009 10:49:08 PM
I am 59 years old and my intimate "encounters" just keeps getting better and better all the time . I certainly don't see it ending anytime soon, far from it. Don't worry so much, all in good time.
 TantraD
Joined: 8/21/2009
Msg: 53
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/29/2009 11:24:14 PM
LONI..you go girl....!!!
 totoman
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 54
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/30/2009 4:04:20 AM
My experience is that the women I know and dated have a far higher drive than when they were younger. And now they know what it's like to be sexually frustrated. It's pay back time for all those years they "toyed" with us young, explosive teenagers.
 CrumblePie
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 55
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/30/2009 4:16:43 AM
if you feel like you can;t have sex whenever you want, you crave it more, if you feel like you can, it;s a low priority item.

has no one else been in a relationship here? age has little to do with anything... perception is everything.
 Calientecutie
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 56
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/30/2009 1:18:04 PM
i am over 40 years of age....i am more confident,...more sure of myself...know what i want
know what i do not want...love myself and respect myelf
maybe men do not like confident women
anyways being forty and over is glamorous
look at hollywood
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