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Joined: 7/9/2009
Msg: 165
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In my experience,it seems quite strong,thank god!!!
 Wild DNA
Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 166
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/12/2009 8:45:04 AM
Women in their 40s are in their prime! We can’t wait to explore the wild side. We are not afraid to say what we want and how we like it. Sex is on our mind just as much as it is a man, and yes we check out guys young and old. We don’t want to miss out on anything so we try everything… ok we might have a little more common sense then the guys do there but lol… our sex drive increases it does not decrease. Half the time guys in their 40s can’t keep up!

I love my 40’s I look sexier , I’m happier, healthier, heavier lol and if I had to swing off the chandeliers.. I think I could! Ha ha

No complaints here.
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 167
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/12/2009 9:17:23 AM
Women sex drives increases based on many premises.
Firstly, hormonal changes pre -menopausal is the biggest factor in libido.
Secondly more women now than ever before, are single and in
their early to late forties. These women are more than ever 'comfortable in their skin', hence the expression 'cougar'.
Thirdly women overcompensating for loss of time while raising family, and or poor sexual experience in the past.
They are experiencing more sexual freedom as they are leaving preconceived notions being personal or society imposed.
Joined: 8/11/2009
Msg: 168
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:03:50 PM
The sex drive for women above 40 has increased. At 20 they only had to drive 5 miles on average to get laid, now it is 12 miles...

Sorry, Texas is still too far at 49 (today) but maybe at 50 it won't be!

Ps I definitely vote for increasing .....and the God's cruel joke thing...definitely driving to Texas next September????
Joined: 5/3/2009
Msg: 169
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:16:17 PM
Having a greater desire for sex and also being able to effortlessly find a sex partner, you're all set.
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 170
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:35:40 PM
there is more confidence...a woman is able to be more sexual...she know what she wants and she is not ashamed...yes i am happy being 44 years old...would not want to be young again...had no confidence
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 171
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/14/2009 4:01:21 PM
Now you women now how it feels to be a man at 20 something and be sexually frustrated. It's payback time! It is a cruel joke nature played on us...
Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 172
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/14/2009 4:05:20 PM
Listen....woman that are treated right dont loose their drive.....who wants to get intimate or what-ever with an A-hole.....yeah...yeah...yeah...there is a chemistry thing that could go arye but all in all if they feel the genuine feeling and carring they love it...goes for a man one wants to be with someone thats just going thru the motions....noooooo goood...later
Joined: 8/23/2009
Msg: 173
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/19/2009 4:33:51 PM
Look this up. In some women it increawses, others, decreases. After childbirth and with age, gravity takes its toll and the sex act feeling often decreases.
Joined: 9/6/2009
Msg: 174
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/19/2009 6:50:24 PM
We are exactly that...."in our prime" May it never ever change!!!!
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 175
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/19/2009 6:54:27 PM
Over 40 and still going STRONG!!!!
 loni j
Joined: 12/7/2008
Msg: 176
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/20/2009 11:51:03 AM
Sweetheart, you have nothing to worry about. I am in my late 50s and am enjoying intimacy now more than ever.
Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 177
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/20/2009 12:18:10 PM
No worry about having to stop the fun because baby is hungry and needs a diaper change, are confident that men enjoy an uninhibited woman that knows how to please him without putting on an act because she is enjoying herself just as much as he is. Being 40 has not stopped me and it feels just as good.
Joined: 8/3/2009
Msg: 178
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/20/2009 1:16:09 PM
I am happy to know and tell you are wrong, and the exprience is much more rewarding with an older woman who knows what she likes and doesn't play shy about getting it, and she is not shy about givng and trying either.
Mostly going with older nowadays.
Okay, there can be exceptions and those women may need some help or just the way they are, and that's the way it is; these women have to recognize, accept the fact and don't try to force reversing the hormones to do what they don't feel like any more.
Nothing worse than having sex when you are not into it, or with that kind of partner.
Joined: 6/24/2009
Msg: 179
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/23/2009 12:32:05 PM
The colorado river does not flow and is not as wet as I am. LOL
And it can be that way for many many hours, Again, nothing wrong with my sex drive,
Joined: 9/20/2009
Msg: 180
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/23/2009 1:38:01 PM
One reason your sex drive can get higher is that when you are in menopause - or close to it - hormones change, and there is an increase in testosterone. You know, the stuff that makes guys think about it all the time. You might have to pluck an odd stray hair here or there because of testosterone - and that's the way the medical profession seems to want us to think of how we react to it - but the fact is, testosterone makes you want it.

Another reason is you get to a point where you no longer have to worry about birth control, no small kids will wake you up in the middle of the night - in other words, you can simply relax and enjoy it - when you're younger, you have a lot of competing interests and concerns making you uptight.
Joined: 5/3/2009
Msg: 181
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/23/2009 1:52:55 PM

The colorado river does not flow and is not as wet as I am.
I'm rethinking why my grandparents kept the good furniture under plastic.
Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 182
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sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/23/2009 10:17:09 PM
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Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 183
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/24/2009 10:25:11 PM
As to the question of sex drive in women over 40...

Today I just booked a cabin in Gatlinburg Tennessee for my man and I for a little romantic getaway.

I did the screening of possible places to stay during the trip. The cabin that won out has three bedrooms, an indoor jacuzzi, a shower with two showerheads big enough for two, an outdoor hot tub on the deck, fireplaces in the master bathroom, master bedroom, dining room and living room, a full kitchen, and a pool table.

Now of course you must understand I am thinking about sex in the hot tub, in the jacuzzi, in the living room, in the dining room, in the master suite, on the pool table... the possiblities are endless. With so many features in our cabin, we won't have to leave its four walls the entire weekend. We will have a self contained little love nest. I will be packing a cooler full of food and drink so there is no need to leave our little haven once we settle in. Will have to provide him plenty of sustenance.

Of course women over 40 have a sex drive. For some of us its raging. I am blessed to have a man who does his best to keep up with me. It's all his fault anyway, being around him puts me into overdrive.
Joined: 9/20/2009
Msg: 184
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/24/2009 10:50:40 PM

I am just wondering about how a womans sexual drive changes after 40 i had been taught that it decreased in women with age but it seems to get more intense with me as the years pass im just wondering is this normal and could you please give me some in put thanxsfor your time.

Decreases? lol... no

I'm at that age where I crave it, and it's been awhile so my frustration level is WAY high. I feel like a pressure cooker whose top is about to blow off.
Joined: 5/24/2009
Msg: 185
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 1:11:31 AM
Na, it is a scientific fact that a woman is in her sexual peak at 26-30. You must remember these things are studied.

Many of these type of scientific studies are conducted by university students and some of the members on such research teams have barely been out of high school 2 years. They form a hpothesis and set about proving it in much the same way that the 'make it fit' works in Microsoft Word's page printing options.

I take the majority of such studies with a grain of salt.
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 187
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 8:40:18 AM

Im over 40 and my sex drive has increased.


What a cruel trick nature has played on us women, that the mans desire decreases with age.

Lol. Would never claim to be "The Man", but maybe your eyesight, or hearing, or other sensors are "decreasing with age". My theory, from my peculiar, narrow vantage point, is that these perceived increases/decreases are relative; in your youth, you probably had to fight men off at every turn, but in your maturity, you are more evenly matched, and just as driven to "get it on". lol Naturally, with your recently whetted appetite, you see a fall-off in demand, or supply, lol, however that works. When you pass another car doing 70mph, and he is doing 60 mph, you have the sense that you are flying by him. In fact, both of you are headed "head"-long toward a probably similar destination. jmho
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 188
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 10:58:49 AM
Mine hasn't decreased at all, as a guy, with age (so far). Many days I still feel like I'm about 18, in that regard But I just turned 34, so I guess that's still pretty much normal. As for women, so when , if ever, DOES it start to plateau out or decrease a bit?? After menopause, or ? Just curious.
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 189
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 11:13:21 AM
^^^'re missin out.......
Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 191
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sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 12:50:04 PM
After menopause? No decrease, no worries of pregnancy, life is good!
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