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 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 79
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I honestly read that too fast,.. I thought it said Bust
 scenesoflife
Joined: 8/25/2010
Msg: 83
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/17/2010 3:54:14 PM
... the "lust" displayed in profiles.. is usually just for the one it might click with.. or am I missing something?
 cenomeno
Joined: 4/21/2010
Msg: 84
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/17/2010 7:55:02 PM
Nah, they're ok. There are worse profiles out there, such as ; "looking for mr.right, waiting for my prince "....

I have no problem with a mature woman who knows what she wants and goes after it....at least they are not delusional, they are using the oldest bait known to man that actually works....

Show some skin, be playful.... Unless you're one hell of an ugly gargoyle...your mail box will be full... Good for them..

I just read a profile which said "looking for fairy tale ending" .... Now that's some bait huh? You take a big dump in the water, and then wonder why no fish in the area!!! LOL
 452
Joined: 11/1/2009
Msg: 85
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/18/2010 11:06:24 PM
Why is it so hard for men to understand that women like sex too and guess what?Just because a woman is older does not mean her vagina snaps shut and she never gets horny again.


Maybe these woman are looking for someone to spend their lives with and want them to know that they like sex.We are supposed to like sex.It feels good and it's natural.There is nothing wrong with it.
 good_catch77
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 86
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/22/2010 8:56:02 PM
I see the "meaning" of this post that it is "false advertisement." When a woman (any age really) posts pics on her profile that scream "LET'S SHAG" then they read the entire profile once they see that they are attracted, side note if I'm not attracted I don't read the profile, then get to the bottom of the page and it says that "must not be looking for intimate encounters. So the guy is like wtf.

This is not about a guy surprised that a woman is "into" sex as much as he is, in fact sign me up for one of those I'm in love

Or at least that's what I got out of it when I read the OP.....
 tj_0142
Joined: 9/29/2009
Msg: 87
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/24/2010 4:14:20 PM
you bait what your fishing for, those lust based or most recently crotch shot with our new photo magnifier in images,

I guess that women is looking for bottom feeders, of one thing I am not!!!
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 88
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/26/2010 2:04:06 PM
If we admit to liking sex and wanting it often, we're not mate material, we're considered sluts.

I think the issue is something different...

If a woman has a profile that b!tches about guys writing her about sex ("Well, I never!"), and writes on and on about how good and proper they are, etc...

... then on the front page of their "brochure" have pics of them in lingerie making a seductive face on their bed followed by a few more -- YAH. No sympathy. Total contradiction.

One can advertise themselves looking sexy... but advertising oneself as a sex object shouldn't be followed by complaints of guys finding them just to be a sex object. If that is how they feel, to be a sex object and has an understanding of that -- great. It's just that one can't advertise two conflicting messages.
 scenesoflife
Joined: 8/25/2010
Msg: 89
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/29/2010 8:23:08 AM
why is everybody hiding behind theyre gender?? thats what I want to know..
whats that "we" and "they" crap about..??
are there no induviduals here?

also, the "lust" based profiles ( that phrase just makes my skin crawl..what a politically correct BS way to put it)..arent just "mature" women..
at least in this hick town I reside, there's those kind of profiles in every age cathegory..
but yeah it is funny to see..

I wonder what the average IQ is for canadians tho...
 aliveandwell314
Joined: 10/7/2010
Msg: 91
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 10/11/2010 7:55:25 PM
Im definately missing these profiles and personally dont see a problem with it anyway. The people that **** about these things are the same narrow minded half-wits who call a woman a slut if she sleeps with one guy.
 umbrellaman21
Joined: 9/21/2010
Msg: 92
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 10/13/2010 6:56:54 AM

It seems that now and again,we see an attractive, experienced 30 / 40 something, looking for a soulmate etc, that fills her profile entirely with the hottest dirtiest little description of what she expects of a guy, how he must be just like this and just like that, trendy bars etc.

you get the idea.

It seems that the profile is intended to make any ordinary guy get abit confused and heady and write something just as a revenge for being mentally molested because she is asking for it.

I wonder if they intentionally make profiles that sound like 'PLAY WITH YOURSELF NOW' just because they can, weather they just want to stimulate as many guys as possible and get a completely rowdy disfunctional collection of replies.

Maybe they dont realise at first, they are just oversexed because they have not had it properly in a while, and yet have to deal with the consequences of being too horny on a dating site, when actually what counts is finding someone with the same temperament.

have you noticed such profiles? are you one of them?


Not sure about the age part, but I have seem profile of women in my age range describing what they're looking for in a man, and the description gets close to some kind of Harlequin novel, lol. Or something along those lines,enough to get ya hot and bothered actually, it's kind of sexy, but sutble inneundos sometimes.

But to put it publicly in a profile for all the world to see, I dont know about that, I figured it's TMI.

Then she has a ton of guys emailing her to meet right away for one reason, and one reason only.
 english lass
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 93
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 10/13/2010 12:35:51 PM
yup, "play with yourself now"... solitaire, patience, whatever floats yer boat...
 Lori*Mac
Joined: 9/22/2009
Msg: 94
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Posted: 10/14/2010 8:00:39 PM
I have several incarnations of my profile...some are more "outgoing" than others...and my pictures are a mix of my various facets. That being said I think you misunderstand the 30/40 something yr old woman. I happen to feel very confidant and comfortable in my sexuality. I dont care if conservative guys judge me for it because frankly I am not attracted to them. I am only interested in men who are comfortable with sex, intimacy and a confidant woman. Its not about being a tease...or pretending to be an online sex personality....its about being in a stage of my life where I dont apologize for who I am or finding pleasure in life.

Personally I find the OP and some subsequent posts extremely close minded and judgmental. We are inundated with guys posing in their boxers and flexing their abs who have very little to say except that they love UFC and are "open minded" but not looking for anything serious....apparently that is fine but I cant show that I am looking for a man who likes a confidant, fun woman? Strange world indeed.
 Consigliori
Joined: 1/7/2008
Msg: 95
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Posted: 10/19/2010 9:58:26 AM
Luv 'em. You go gals.
 StevieCashmere
Joined: 4/22/2009
Msg: 96
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Posted: 10/23/2010 12:39:03 AM
..try having Lust in a Relationship i.e. the opposite of 'affair'...


~stevie
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 97
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 10/23/2010 6:25:28 PM
I dont care if conservative guys judge me for it because frankly I am not attracted to them.

Yeah, that's totally fine -- however, in doing so, you'd have no room to complain if you'd get a high volume of sexually-pushy emails or dates that end up "just expecting sex". If a woman has a lust-based profile, she is clearly expressing that as THE focal point... and if in her profile she writes "I don't want any emails asking for a one night stand, dammit!" she'll get no sympathy.

If a guy puts up only pics in his profile partying lock a rock star, slamming down beers, etc., he can't complain that he only gets party girls emailing him, and demand that women should not email him if they go to the bar too often. :)
 CynthiaSMW
Joined: 9/20/2010
Msg: 98
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 10/24/2010 10:43:26 AM
^^ she wasn't complaining about getting suggestive email.
She was replying on topic that the women posting profiles OP complains about are not doing it for the reason(s) OP assumes.
You've now twisted the topic 180 degrees (of course that's quite common in the forum so carry on)
If you go back to OP, it was the reader complaining that he got all hot and bothered by reading suggestive profiles.
I see that as OP's problem. Not the person whose profile he's getting bothered by.
 Zeppolino
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 99
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 12/14/2010 3:29:31 PM
Lust is just fine, but a woman shouldn't go overboard in her public profile. One proscribed that only men that were considerably well hung need bother contacting her. I found that to be in poor taste and borderline offensive. What if men started demanding a certainl level of genitalia tightness?
 RubyWaxxx
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 100
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 12/27/2010 1:21:43 PM
Yet another thread about how women over 40 should just neck themselves because they're soooo undesirable. After all, if some dude doesn't wanna bang us, what use are we to the world?
Walrus? Hippo? How about human being?
 ProcolHarem
Joined: 8/29/2008
Msg: 101
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Posted: 12/27/2010 3:57:36 PM
^^^
If Ruby's a hippo I'm getting into beastiality!
Youngin's...Lots of talk, yet no experience to back it up.
Gotta love it.
 Crabby_McCrabberson
Joined: 8/11/2010
Msg: 102
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 12/27/2010 4:39:57 PM
I assume like virtually everything else in the entire known world, different people are doing it for different reasons
like
because they can
to see if they can
to test which profile attributes bring more nibbles
because they fully intend to follow through with lusty behavior

p.s. Let me pile on the beast pile, too, please. I have it on good authority that muscular women are as hot as the surface of the sun.
p.p.s. Lots of talk, and no photos to back it up.
p.p.p.s. omg, wtf, it is spelled "Jerusalem." You know, like the town?
 Halcyon_Skies
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 103
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Posted: 12/27/2010 6:28:04 PM

I love the "mature" women who crow about their sexual prowess. Where were they when they were 20 and might have been desirable?


They were with desirable men, of course.


They call themselves 'cougars', but honestly the animals I think of when I see most of them are closer to walrus or hippo.


The view of the zoo must be great from your glass house. Just be careful when you throw stones at the animals, or it will shatter.
 CheezyChick
Joined: 9/23/2009
Msg: 104
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 12/27/2010 8:33:59 PM
Hmmm...I suppose parts of my profile might expose my lustful side...Do I get suggestive messages? Yes...sometimes, do I care? No....but I'm guessing that happens regardless of whether you are explicitely inviting men to contact you for casual sex or just being coy. Either way, I don't see a problem...
 Daisyrose73
Joined: 9/23/2010
Msg: 105
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 1/13/2011 11:33:53 AM
I have several incarnations of my profile...some are more "outgoing" than others...and my pictures are a mix of my various facets. That being said I think you misunderstand the 30/40 something yr old woman. I happen to feel very confidant and comfortable in my sexuality. I dont care if conservative guys judge me for it because frankly I am not attracted to them. I am only interested in men who are comfortable with sex, intimacy and a confidant woman. Its not about being a tease...or pretending to be an online sex personality....its about being in a stage of my life where I dont apologize for who I am or finding pleasure in life.


This is how I feel. My pics are what some may consider suggestive because I wear v neck shirts. Unless I wear turtlenecks there isn't a way to hide my body. I have a very sensual side to my personality, but that doesn't mean I want tons of IM's and emails asking me to get on cam to pleasure a guy either. For a guy to come to me with that being their first message, I know we are not compatible. I am truly a person that needs a real connection and random sex just leaves me cold.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 106
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 1/13/2011 1:43:34 PM
Pretty sure these profiles are for each INDIVIDUAL to make up as they see fit,do they not???? I know I have talked to some women here who had been blasted previously because of pics they put, words they have used, etc,etc. Even some of the posters here started aiming in that direction, you know, telling these people they shouldn't put "whatever" on their profiles and then come back and complain. Ummmmm,,,THEY are not the ones complaining. It maybe a few women, but it's not ALL women, and it isn't the INDIVIDUALS that are looking for this type of relationship.

I have yet to read a truely "lust based" profile here,,,even when I cruise the intimate encounter people(yeah I do it,so shoot me ). I do read some poor writing that I think is suppose to resemble something erotic,but these people don't know how to write if their life depended on it. They may "try" to be "lust based", or whatever they are trying to do,but they fail. It's not the woman that "says" what they want that is truely sexy, it's the woman that DOES what she wants( WITH ME ) that defines what I consider lust,sexy,erotic or whatever ya want to call it today.
 my_other_car_is_a____
Joined: 1/4/2011
Msg: 107
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 1/13/2011 2:31:16 PM
this old redundant crap still going on..???

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