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 RIBBON SKY
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 26
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Mike, it's unfortunate you had such a date. Obviously it didn't turn out as you'd hoped. In my personal opinion, whether one is enjoying a date or bored with it, they ought NOT be texting or taking regular cell phone calls. IF the person has basic manners and class they will give you their full attention. Of course there are exceptions, while the majority of the time it's unacceptable. Such behaviour says a lot about whether the person is actually interested or not.

Although you're upset by her actions overall, I suggest instead you be thankful. Be thankful SHE showed YOU her TRUE colours early on. Yes, you really liked her, but thankfully NOT in love, which would make it more difficult for you. Whew! Count your blessings and be thankful you never invested more time and heart in this girl and move on.
She may indeed be a lovely girl, but not what is good for you. You deserve nothing less than someone that would give back what you give to her. I'm sure you'll find that. Best of luck to you Mike. :-)
 C2H5OH
Joined: 4/13/2009
Msg: 27
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The Night that Didn't End so Well.
Posted: 8/30/2009 10:59:28 AM
I wouldn't have gone to the ex's house,that could've got ugly.
 spitfire6844
Joined: 6/30/2007
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Posted: 8/30/2009 11:41:50 AM
OP: You're very attracted to this girl, and that's clouding your judgment. It's understandable for a relatively inexperienced 20-year-old to feel what you're feeling. Hormones, lust, and chemistry can be very strong, and can cause some guys to act like marks. You're acting like a mark for this piece of trash. It may take you awhile to get over her; but you will get over her, and will move on to better experiences and relationships. Just keep that in mind, even while you're still dealing with your feelings for this girl. Yes, she lacks class. Yes, she was rude. Yes, you should move on. No, you're not wrong for being pissed off, but you need to get over it (and her) and move on.

Good luck.
 steveneddy
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 29
The Night that Didn't End so Well.
Posted: 9/9/2009 1:59:32 PM
you got used.

Move on and please, move on.
 soliebtdielerche
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 30
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The Night that Didn't End so Well.
Posted: 9/9/2009 4:05:55 PM
I have a suggestion to make in this case. His ex is now also your ex.
 english lass
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 31
The Night that Didn't End so Well.
Posted: 9/9/2009 4:10:47 PM
she didn't particularly like spending time with you or consider you a romantic interest... it wasn't just the end that wasn't good, from what you've written, she was bored the whole time and was rude in the way she showed it

good for you in trying to make something good come out of it, but in actuality if someone is going to be disrespectful and rude to you, it's probably better to just call it an early night right then - if you don't stand up for yourself and consider yourself worthy of better treatment, then how will anyone else consider you that way?
 dfw23
Joined: 8/31/2009
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The Night that Didn't End so Well.
Posted: 9/9/2009 4:14:05 PM
Get rid of her. Move on.
 1kindMan4U
Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 33
The Night that Didn't End so Well.
Posted: 9/9/2009 5:34:57 PM
Let's get some terminology straight. You are 20. She is a SEX interest. There isnt any "love" there, not at this age, not at this stage.

Her playstation was MORE important than you. (see 20-something priorities in the glossary) hence comment one above.

She IS selfish. (arent all 20 year olds)

She lent an incredibly valuable piece of her personal property (the playstation) to an EX. Guess he wasnt an EX.

You got hosed on a lot of fronts pal.

Here's what you do. Stop dating other than finding the occasional bootycall while you pursue MORE education, a CAREER and are out there doing some sampling for the next 14 years or so.. THEN, when you've become a MAN (wont happen till that age) you'll have a good sampling of the types of women there are in the world, and you can start dating a GROWN WOMAN (min age 30) who has also gotten her life together with education, career, her own sampling to determine that you are the MAN of her dreams (not a boy)

Try that.. Oh, and get off this site. You should be out LIVING life, not chatting/texting/emailing

Yeah.. I said it!
 simon23
Joined: 11/18/2006
Msg: 34
The Night that Didn't End so Well.
Posted: 9/9/2009 5:54:55 PM
Well that was a strange series of events, texting her ex while you were playing a game of pool can be overlooked if she got the messages first, but up and leaving on a 30 minute walk to get a personal belonging in the middle of the night, that's some crazy desperate move to throw you off, i think if you had not gone with her she would have stayed over at the ex's house.
 Wiyan
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 35
The Night that Didn't End so Well.
Posted: 9/9/2009 7:56:18 PM
way to spell inappropriate using you as rebound buffer guy bw her and the ex!
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