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 wayfarer4you
Joined: 3/24/2009
Msg: 2
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I'll bite on this one .
I was with someone who is bi.and we opened our bed to encounters with lady's she liked .
I will say it is fun but alot of work keeping up with everything going on .
With that said you dont have to switch sides to enjoy what a woman has to offer and as for shock Value Hell I'd dive in on it again if I get the chance .
I terms of nature it is not odd at all and many studies have been done on it (bi sex) .
 phil2847
Joined: 8/10/2006
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Posted: 9/11/2009 10:43:38 AM
There is ABSOLUTELY "NOTHING" sexier than seeing to sexy women together!!!
 big pacific
Joined: 7/2/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:07:06 AM

but you get an A for being the stereotypical male that wants his women barefoot and in the kitchen


Does that mean you get an A for being a stereotypical 20 something girl using the girl on girl thing to get guys attention?
 colt8301
Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 6
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:09:22 AM
I'm mean it's cool whatever you floats, your boat, but i wouldn't be thrilled about dating a female that has those tendencies, because those tendencies don't just go away, it's cool to watch but I wouldn't waste my time with a bisexual. because sometime down the road she is always going to want something i don't have, and I'm not in to poligamist stuff.
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:14:32 AM
I'm certainly aware of the "girl on girl" thing, have been for years. I even tried it once with my wife and her best friend. I liked it, but it was more about having two women to work with than getting off watching them. Watching Girl on Girl porn does not do a thing for me. I know many guys are all over it, just not my cup of tea.
 sub girl wanted
Joined: 5/1/2008
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:21:44 AM
Ive always liked that.I tried pushing my high school g/f into it..back in the 80's when that was as looked down upon(or at least never really talked about) as gay/bi guys.(I was way ahead of my time lol) I could tell she was interested,but she didnt have the guts to do it.Plus it was like...who would we ask?Anyway i was more successful with that later on.And its a major turn on..even just watching.Plus if a girl can orally please a woman,you know shes gonna be great on a guy!And ive also heard many girls complain their guys arent into that at all.So the thought that all guys love that is a myth,or at least when they actually think about it actually happening they might feel threatened,or jealous.Hell,i dunno.
 big pacific
Joined: 7/2/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:22:01 AM

I was actually joking more than anything about being barefoot and in the kitchen. The fact is that I dont usually tell anyone I am dating that I like women...I like to keep it my thing. What I wanted was some honest reactions to my question. In no way am I trying to get guys attention by asking the question.


That was actually my point lol. That he probably was kidding too.
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 11
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:24:37 AM
Not for me. I don't judge those that want to test the waters or into this, but women do absolutely NOTHING for me intimately. I'd rather "shock" my man in other ways that have nothing do with another party involved.....................
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:35:29 AM

As men and women I would like to know what you think about the whole woman on woman thing.

If a woman is attracted to a woman, or man to a man, for the RIGHT REASONS, then more power to them. When it's done for someone else's benefit.. as in the bar-bi situation where two women will put on a show just to get a guy (or multiple guys) attention, then I think it's disgusting and wrong.

I find women to be beautiful, in all their many forms. I just could never find myself in a sexual relationship with one.
 cherryyblossom
Joined: 7/19/2009
Msg: 13
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:46:58 AM
i find woman on woman sex very hot! i am sure many other guys feel the same way.
 phil2847
Joined: 8/10/2006
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Posted: 9/11/2009 12:36:03 PM
I've been with two women....more than once.....and it was FANTASTIC!!! I was involved and then would relax and watch them go at it....but I NEVER felt like I was left out!!!
 Tim61
Joined: 3/2/2007
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Posted: 9/11/2009 2:15:33 PM
Yes I love to see Girl /Girl action, it's a real Turn On, as they would know what turns them on more, than any guy would be able to ? as they would know each other bodies being both Women , but also good to watch and learn from seeing G/G. just my thought.


On the other hand, I doubt that many women ? would like to see Guy /Guy action ? it's a Turn Off !!! for Me & Probably any other Straight Guys !!!


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 Beminetonight
Joined: 3/3/2008
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Posted: 9/12/2009 2:45:48 PM
It's a power thing. Men getting off on seeing women being sexual, without the conflict of seeing another man involved. If there were a guy there, then obviously the viewer is going to say "He's got her, not me".

But when it's just women, he can always believe that if he stepped in, they'd both be all over him, and he could have his pick of either, or both.

If fake-lesbian stuff is falling out of fashion, maybe it's just that it's been overdone.
 folumpscious
Joined: 8/24/2009
Msg: 18
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Posted: 9/13/2009 6:52:21 PM
I'm bisexual, but it has nothing to do w/ wanting to shock or impress a man. I have actually dated a couple women before. If I keep meeting douchbags..I just might go lesbian, but I don't think I could because I love****so much.
 rhjh77
Joined: 8/15/2009
Msg: 19
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Posted: 9/13/2009 7:09:10 PM
I am a happily married woman who wants to explore my bicurious side with my hubby present i think it will be hot but it takes forever to hook up on here
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 9/13/2009 8:43:29 PM
I am not stereotyping ...but ...I know lots of bi sexual women ...and can confidently say that every one I know either started to think bi sexual either for the purpose of titillating guys in bars or the sort .......or were coxed into it by a guy who either thought it was hot or thought his chances of a threesome was escalated by getting his girl into the bi thingy ... so in my thoughts a lot of these girls brainwash themselves to thinking they are sexually attracted to other women ...IE it becomes accepted and normal ...one other category is the woman who is seduced into a bi relationship by someone in the above categories...Now im sure there are exceptions but if not for the influence of guys ...aside from adolescent experimenting ... me thinks there would be a lot less woman on woman sex

If I caught my SO in the bed having sex with another woman ...it would be no less cheating than if i caught her in bed with the Dallas Cowboys football team ...Im not going to ask her to screw another guy or another woman ..nor am I going to stand for it
If she has fantasies about either ..fine even if she tells me about it ...she can do anyone she wants in her mind ...and she feels the same way about me ..or I dont need her

I can do anything a woman can do to my woman and a few things a woman cant ...if she wants her kitty licked in some special way that im not doing all she has to do is explain it to me ..im a fast learner ...if she likes the taste of pvssy she can taste herself on my tongue or penis ... hell if she wants me to I will even dress in drag in the privacy of our bedroom ..see I got it covered ...i dont want my woman with another person be it man or woman ..Period
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
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Posted: 9/14/2009 7:01:34 PM

Yeah....why not just forget about love or commitment to anyone and just f*ck our way thru life? That got old back in High School.....gimme a woman OR a man.....one at a time without anyone watching the "show".Damn...I'm such a prude.lol

that is exactly what i was saying closer ..you just said it better and in one sentence... while i went on for two paragraphs ...so here I go again ..i cant help it

I would not mind if my woman told me that she was sexually stimulated by another woman ..or guy for that mater ...hell i am sexually stimulated by other women on a regular basis and have told her ... I dont even mind that my woman has had sex with women as well as men before she got with me ... i dont even care if other people are bi sexual. tri sexual ,metro sexual, homosexual,,swingers , polygamous ,poly-amorous ,or sleep with farm animals ,, me and my woman agreed to keep sex just between us till death do us part ,,and that agreement is binding ,,and either of us having sex with any other entity,,will void the whole deal
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 25
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Posted: 9/15/2009 6:42:23 PM
Nothing wrong with it... I haven't seen a trend. I think guys are more self-image concious these days, with trendiness and keeping-up-with-the-Jonses bring pushed more than ever, so that's maybe why. Also, traditionalists will be less likely to like it... and a good way to find out if a guy's the jealous type is if he won't be into it (and doesn't fit the above). It's natural for a guy to like a woman who's attracted to women (especially if they have good, picky taste). It's just other issues that get in the way for them having a problem with it.
 rentahusband
Joined: 4/17/2008
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Posted: 9/16/2009 10:29:31 AM

I'm totally against women having sex or marrying other women. I think that is totally sick.

That being said.......if women want to be snuggle buddies......need to comfort kiss each other or even lay on each other's breasts.....It's ok by me...

Men don't do these things however...unless they are queerer than a $3 bill.

Women can get away with it...it's a motherly/sisterly type of thing....women need allot of affection...and hey they are just snugable.

......I just don't want to know or even see any dykes going after each other gonads or giving each other sloppy tongue kissing.


Actually I wouldn't want to see a woman going after another woman's ovaries either....(since they are what produces gametes in women)......that would be a little too disturbing.

But furthermore, the rest of your post is VERY neanderthal. Wake up, it's the 21st century, whatever 2 consenting adults do to please one another is totally acceptable.

To the OP:

If you're dating someone you should be open about your bi-sexuality. This could lead to a conversation about whether being with a woman while involved with a man is cheating (that's another thread around here somewhere).

Whatever floats your boat I say (or your MAN in the boat lol). I mean, it doubles your chances of getting a date for saturday night doesn't it? lol.

But it kinda reminds me of an old saying:
60% of women say they've had some sort of bi-sexual experience
20% of women say they will never have some sort of bi-sexual experience
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20% say they just haven't gotten drunk enough yet lol.....
 folumpscious
Joined: 8/24/2009
Msg: 27
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Posted: 9/16/2009 11:53:43 AM
Truth09, your a close minded idiot. I am bisexual..yes, but it doesn't make me a ****ing poser. I was attracted to my first female when I was 12 years old. So a man did not have any influence over my bi-sexuality. I think women are beautiful inside and out and the fact that women create life, is beauty in itself. Build yourself a bridge and get the **** over it!!
 Zoso2011
Joined: 8/12/2009
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Posted: 9/19/2009 9:21:26 AM
There is nothing sexier and sensual than two beautiful women together.

One beautiful woman and the other unattractive...then I'm jealous because the unattractive woman can meet a beautiful woman and I can't...lol.

Two unattractive women together...does nothing for me.

Two men together...gross...moving on now...lol
 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
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Posted: 9/20/2009 11:56:31 AM
"and the fact that women create life, is beauty in itself."

Dear folumpscious, if I remember biology class correctly is takes a man and a woman to create new life. Granted she carries it and gives birth. I doubt any woman here can become pregnant without the involvement of a man.
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