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 hayseed46
Joined: 7/26/2009
Msg: 10
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I agree how this would appear to a woman, that if a man's been cheated on then he must be in adequate in some way, emotional, or physical or maybe the lack of effort they were willing to put into the relationship. so they come site's like pof and get hooked up and their back in business , praying on lonely women. does this mean that the majority of the women on pof are willing to settle for a defective men ????
I haven't been cheated on so where does that put me ???
we should do lunch and compare note's what ya say Hottie lmao
 roland187
Joined: 10/14/2009
Msg: 23
Has every man here been cheated on?
Posted: 10/18/2009 3:44:20 AM
Hh....

Short answer = no. Longer answer = no.... as far as I know! Heh.

Its funny, I think 'online dating' is still viewed as a 'last resort' by most folks. And for folks who have had relationships turn sour its a good way to get back into the game. So it stands to reason that folks on here have had a few crappy experiences!

Thing is to not let it ruin future experiences!
 roland187
Joined: 10/14/2009
Msg: 24
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Posted: 10/18/2009 3:47:41 AM
Just read further down there tamarasita - where are these statistics you speak of? Woman are just as likely to cheat as men i'm sure. After all, you can't help who you become attracted to..?
 BlackRabbit69
Joined: 10/29/2009
Msg: 29
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Posted: 11/12/2009 11:39:39 AM
We were separated.....She told me she'll always love me and that she wanted to try again.....Caught with my own eyes cheating with the guy she told me she wasn't seeing anymore.....Then put a PFA on me because I was "ANGRY" and she was scared. Took 3 years for that PFA to dissolve via natural causes(expired) because she never took it off. Oh yes...She waited until my birthday to bestow the PFA. I never laid a hand on her, never betrayed her, was never a gambler or a junkie like the guy she left me for.....Who BTW also had a family of his own (You heard me right!). Never dated an American girl since even though I did sort of made attempts here and there. Their attitudes were always cold,horrendously selfish, flighty and narcissistic, hence I gave up on them and went European. One more thing, HER FAMILY MEMBERS....Still call me son/brother to this day and still occassionally chastise her for what she did almost 4 years ago.
 Navyman1958
Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 30
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Posted: 11/13/2009 7:48:28 PM
Then by the same token every woman who's been cheated on must be inadequate physically as u say or in some other way.

My own take is that it doesn't matter if they are male or female, what matters is thier peresonal integrity.

Also any statisic about human sexuality needs to be taken with a large grain of salt... very few people will tell the whole truth when it comes to sex, and it's damn near impossible to prove or disprove anyones statements.
 donkalmetekila
Joined: 8/17/2009
Msg: 31
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Posted: 11/24/2009 2:08:22 PM
well said judge not and u shallnot b judged
 roland187
Joined: 10/14/2009
Msg: 38
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Posted: 1/9/2010 10:57:16 AM
Heh... Pardon my ignorance, but what's a PFA?
 internetluva
Joined: 7/6/2009
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Posted: 1/29/2010 7:13:50 PM
some women believe that the grass is greener, thats why they cheat. I guess its the era of such act
 internetluva
Joined: 7/6/2009
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Posted: 1/29/2010 7:18:30 PM
some women believe that the grass is greener, thats why they cheat. I guess its the era of such act, it happened to me and the reason is that she is changing, and wanted me to be friends with him. (yeah right). 3 kids gone house gone business gone landed in jail . what a wonderful life. lol
 Sherlock101
Joined: 1/4/2007
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Posted: 3/12/2010 10:18:27 PM
I have to laugh about the percentages part. Yes I agree, most men are dogs but then again, who are they doing it with?
 mibra
Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 50
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Posted: 3/12/2010 11:35:57 PM
I have a gf keeps cheating on her husband... She is a good housewife and mum. She's hot and attractive. Lots guys want to date her. Her husband never knows that. She likes the attention from men. She doesn't want to leave him but she just wants more men. That's it.

When I was young, I had a gf enjoyed this game too... Lots guys think she's very royal but actually she was sleeping with a few guys at the same time while she had a bf. Later she married her bf after graduation but still remained relationships with other men, old or new ones.... Never mind. Her stories are always full of spices lol She's very good at handling those guys. Everyone thought she was very royal to him. But we counted her numbers and figured out she fkd at least 50% men living in her home area

No comment. They are my friends. Their stories are public secrets. Only the husbands don't know.
 btj_rv
Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 51
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Posted: 3/17/2010 6:27:24 PM
I don't think I've ever been cheated on woman while in an exclusive relationship. Been dumped before but it was mainly for something I actually did. Though I believe with maturity on both parts it could have been handled differently. Even though I have had a couple relationships that were not most compatible for me I can say I was lucky to have had the chance to date the woman I have.
 mibra
Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 52
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Posted: 3/18/2010 1:25:54 AM
That's all right... Things happen since we are in a diversified world.
I know lots guys are cheating and also quite some women do so but they are not the majority. This is life.
 looked_once
Joined: 2/10/2010
Msg: 53
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Posted: 3/20/2010 12:38:37 PM
My ex accused me of something out of parania and eventually led to a divorce, so i guess there was a feeling of abandon.
 looked_once
Joined: 2/10/2010
Msg: 54
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Posted: 3/20/2010 12:39:46 PM
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Posted: 3/13/2010 127 AM
I have to laugh about the percentages part. Yes I agree, most men are dogs but then again, who are they doing it with?
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Laughing my ass off
 RATHLINLIGHTHOUSE
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 55
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Posted: 11/26/2010 2:09:08 AM
Msg 4 Bencher >>i found out in the most disgusting way a man could
You wouldnt want to know about it trust me

I dont trust you.
How disgusting was it?
I would want to know in graphic detail.
Let curiousity kill the cat.

Has anyone a more disgusting story ?
 Dennis 1
Joined: 1/28/2010
Msg: 56
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Posted: 7/8/2011 5:28:53 PM
What is cheating? Kissing, sex- what level?, holding hands, 1st base, 2nd, so on. The thought of any form of interaction. Simple conversation. Thinking of someone else when having sex with your real partner?
 Blarny Stone
Joined: 5/7/2010
Msg: 57
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Posted: 8/24/2011 3:41:25 PM
Yes Tamarasita it happened to me, im an irishman on the other side of the pond, but at the time i was living in the South of France , with my wife at the time and my 2 year old daughter Shauna, i was coming back from my church in Cannes and suffered a near fatal bicycle crash that broke both wrists,forearms,elbows,back,and crushed 3 vert in my neck and i suffered a concussion,when i woke up in the middle of the road, i took a bretaher to see what had happened, soon after i coukld feel pain, so i got on my bike and rushed home 8 miles away in Antibes, the pain was really bad, anyway i walked into my flat and told my wife , hun i think i just broke my arms,her response was your a F@@##$ Idiot,being no stranger to her abusem i rolled my eyes and layed in bed and the pain went from 10 to 10,000 and i started to moan ,she popped her head in and said will you shut the F^%$# up, so after being rushed to the hospital by my neighbor,and after 2 days in the hospital , i had time for clarity, she walked in and said im sorry for what i said, my reply was, you know even a person who i despised , if i saw them broken by the side of the road, id help them and this showed me how much you hate me , so we are finished and im taking Shauna back to the US, which she replied good i want to start dating my guy friends from the yacht,my reply was good luck to them and Shauna and i moved out to move into my church where they passed around a hat to bring us home,found out she was cheating on me all along, im just thankful to have my little girl ,and to not have contracted any STDS,but maninly blessed that Shauna wasnt on the back of my bike as she usually attened mass with me , my outlook about it all was ...God or some supreme being gave me a swift kick in the arse, to take my daughter and i away from an abusive mother and wife...shes still in France pays no support and isnt involved in Shaunas life,,,someone go to my profile and take a look at my little girl and youll scratch your head how any Woman could beat this little girl at 2 years old , call her a lesbian,and to abandon her and a faithful Husband...sorry for the small novel..we all have a story, some more intense than others, regards Shaun
 arencibia
Joined: 6/29/2009
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Posted: 9/5/2011 9:18:36 AM
I would have to say YES!.
Most of my Friends girl friends and pretty much all mine have. i think is the whole new thing to do in the united states. i wish i was kidding. i have a good job, im romantic, im not controling BUT i dont happen to find all the crazies. lol.
 Corwyhn
Joined: 12/22/2009
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Posted: 9/18/2011 11:11:16 PM
Never been cheated on. But I am in Toronto, Canada does that count? :)
 moondowner
Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 62
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Posted: 9/25/2011 11:16:58 PM
hay hayseed thats a great answer it is true i think that a cheated or jilted man must be inadequate physically as u say or in some other way. I am in Ireland

Your statement, IMHO, one of the most asinise I have read.
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