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 Welsh474
Joined: 9/13/2010
Msg: 52
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Lostintheshuffle - did you lose a bet or trying for Guiness Book for the most inane one line responses in a category?
 karma1160
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 53
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 11/22/2010 6:42:01 PM
Being a prisoner of love
 DoubleParked
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 54
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 11/23/2010 2:14:58 PM
My greatest concern is that I WILL meet someone nice and they'll enjoy spending time with me in my home, which is quite cozy. And THEN, I won't be able to get him to GO HOME, and I will start to LIKE having him around. That's when the FEAR kicks in. When I like to have him around but not ALL THE TIME. The challenge is to find the balance between time together and time apart so that we CAN keep our 'heads'. And keep what attracted us in the first place INTACT.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 55
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 11/23/2010 6:15:27 PM
That I'll still be in here 20 years from now,
trying to choose between the cat ladies.
 Simon4567
Joined: 10/9/2010
Msg: 56
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 11/23/2010 9:42:10 PM
I have a fear that she may be a serial killer that is waiting to put me in a dark pit in her basement. Every once and awhile she will feed me and wheel down some lotion and tell me to put the lotion on the skin.
 StevieCashmere
Joined: 4/22/2009
Msg: 57
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what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 11/27/2010 2:59:15 PM
To meet someone whose their for 'dating'

~Stevie
 CynthiaSM
Joined: 2/24/2012
Msg: 58
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/10/2012 9:03:57 PM

One of my fears is that I will meet this really awesome guy. Someone completely wonderful and perfect for me. Someone who loves me to the core of his being, accepts me, embraces the essence of who I am and holds tight. The guy who when I push just stands solid, unmoving. When I reach out, he reaches back. On top of all that, I reciprocate all that he has to offer ...

and then he says " just kidding. I didn't really love you deeply"
 onlydateIF
Joined: 11/15/2011
Msg: 59
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/10/2012 9:50:17 PM
That he might be a lil nervous when we meet over something I can't control, like my looks. I like people to feel mellow and comfortable, friendly, natural :)
OR: that he'll do or say something silly to try and impress me, but it makes me laugh, instead! (has happened before)
 SerendipityHappens
Joined: 1/24/2012
Msg: 60
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/11/2012 6:06:25 AM
My greatest fear is getting into a relationship with someone who is amazing in every way. Someone I trust completely.... only to find out that he's a complete sociopath.
 TantricJedi
Joined: 2/22/2012
Msg: 61
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/11/2012 9:39:47 AM
Saying love at the wrong time. I choose this word carefully because it means more to me symbolically then even a ring. I don't understand how I could love a woman and not want to marry her. I would feel fake saying 'I love you' but not be willing to marry. The key is knowing yourself and knowing if you do indeed love someone and not just infatuated. Love is like Hate in terms of seriousness. I don't use them casually. But what do I know? I've been married 3x!
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 62
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/11/2012 10:40:06 AM
I'd have to go with "She turns out to be a flesh-eating mind-controlling mutant ninja ZOMBIE cowboy assassin from Neptune".
If that doesnt happen I'll count my blessings..........................
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 63
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/11/2012 11:32:18 AM

I've had better luck and safety at the local market loll.


I whole-heartedly agree with the entire post.
Except I go to the video store
 me_me_me_pick_me
Joined: 10/30/2011
Msg: 64
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/11/2012 11:34:59 AM
Delayed mental retardation.
 Texan_Gal
Joined: 10/22/2011
Msg: 65
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/11/2012 1:06:11 PM
Really, the only thing that scares me is infidelity. I'm so honest, and I want to believe that everyone else is honest, but I've learned over the past few years just how prevalent lying and cheating are, and that terrifies me. I'd hate to discover that I'm totally honest and devoted to someone, but he lies to my face and does things behind my back. That level of betrayal is something I don't think I could handle well at all. I don't understand WHY people do that. I really don't.
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 66
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/11/2012 6:14:28 PM
That I'm going meet some coo coo bird and waste my time. When I could have done something more fun with my time.
 the27thletter
Joined: 1/28/2012
Msg: 67
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what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/12/2012 1:42:18 AM
std's.
dishonesty.
abandonment.
pretty normal really... :P
std's and dishonesty speak for themselves. when i say abandomment, i don't mean breakups, or dating and realizing that things aren't meshing well... that's different. at least with those you have closure. i'm thinking more along the lines of a few good dates then NO CONTACT what-so-ever...

that would get under my skin real quick.
 bamagrl68
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 68
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/12/2012 8:37:49 PM
LuvComesSoftly- You covered my greatest fears-Physical violence and worrying about my children.
Other than that my others are-
#1- Serial cheaters-fidelity is very important to me
#2- Men like my ex-momma's boys, liars, bad with money, passive/aggressive
#3- Men who say they are single and aren't
#4- Drug/alcohol issues
#5- Won't work/can't keep a job
#6- I have children, so I don't mind if a man has kids, but if he really just wants me around because he doesn't want to take care of them, forget it
#7- Men still living in the 50's-I'm not your maid and I won't be told what to do
 AddHomonym
Joined: 12/26/2011
Msg: 69
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/12/2012 9:30:08 PM
The urban legend of the dude in a Batman costume jumping out of the closet comes to mind...
 ixtlan09
Joined: 12/12/2010
Msg: 70
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/13/2012 6:36:32 PM
I think most heterosexual men's biggest dating fear is that the hot chick they meet turns out to be a post-op tranny. Or maybe not quite post-op. Yeah, I think that would be worse.
 RexDanger
Joined: 5/3/2012
Msg: 71
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/14/2012 2:06:45 PM
Getting involved with someone who has bipolar, severe depression, or some other mental illness...not always as easy to spot as you might think.

Coming home to an empty house is one thing. Standing in front of your front door and having no clue who is going to be waiting for you on the other side...not fun.
 It_might_be_good_if_you
Joined: 4/22/2012
Msg: 72
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/14/2012 10:33:44 PM
I have none. Bring it on.
 bluegreen14
Joined: 4/22/2012
Msg: 73
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/16/2012 5:38:46 AM
Fear that I'll make her uncomfortable. One wrong move or word and this can happen.
Fear that I'll never ever have a GF, let alone a serious relationship. I haven't at 38 so it's a a legit fear.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 74
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/16/2012 6:31:58 AM
"The only thing we have to fear, is FEAR ITSELF!"

That...and that a 400 Japaneese sumo wrestling lady wants to do a 69. Pretty much the only fear I gots
 jan135135
Joined: 5/6/2012
Msg: 75
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/16/2012 7:44:17 AM
my date wearing sandals and white socks :)

jann
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 76
what is your greatest dating fears?
Posted: 5/16/2012 10:20:29 AM

my date wearing sandals and white socks


You would have laughed withme this weekend. Walking down the streets, Saturday morning, 3 guys in IMPECCABLE tuxedos. One of them was wearin sandals and with socks LOL
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