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 ck1time
Joined: 9/10/2005
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Yes, I think it's about time for me to See a "mature" dancer now. The cost-benefit is on her side. She has a notion want she wants & I do too, opposed to the squirmy fisher who's feet are too cold for the water.
 Dumpling-Girl
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 688
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Posted: 6/25/2008 9:34:38 PM
I would date a male stripper if he was maybe exotic dancing his way through school - his PhD in physics or something...though how likely is this combination ever going to happen? He would also have to be the kind of male stripper that is straight but never takes any of the ladies home with him. Even more unlikely, I think.
 VVendy
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 689
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Posted: 6/25/2008 9:39:36 PM
I have dated two they were very nice men I did not know what they did as I had no idea what one was until I was told. We only dated about 3 months. They ended it because I have very strict rules about not giving free milk or putting the cart before the horse. Most guys do so I was not surprized.
 ck1time
Joined: 9/10/2005
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Posted: 6/25/2008 10:23:57 PM
Cool truth, Charlie Daniels' cousin, Spirit...nice Lab, nothing but freakin' love in his eyes, guess that comes from U beating him every night! Right, lol. Yes, you say it like it is.
Even love at different levels is still love. People are the same all over. Spread the Word man,
thanks.
 VVendy
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 693
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Posted: 6/27/2008 11:17:08 PM
yarimelma i liked your quote it is so much easier to live with yourself if you know you have not done something killer stupid with the only body you get in this life
 TxTyger35
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 694
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Posted: 6/29/2008 9:19:53 AM
Yes i would date her as long as her heart and soul will always love me for who i am and what our realtionship stands for. Trust and honesty between each other.


Ty for listening --- Eric Carhart Jr
 VVendy
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 695
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Posted: 6/30/2008 9:59:20 PM
The first stripper I ever dated was a guy I met in college. He was a very good student we studied together. I found out he was a stripper at a party a girl came over to me to break the news. I did not even know what a stripper was. I am a prude was even more so then. I think that is why he liked me I was not a customer. I did not ever ask him to stop or anything but from the time he knew i knew how he was making money he started changing in two months we were over.
 TallDarkAries
Joined: 12/23/2006
Msg: 698
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Posted: 8/24/2008 1:35:12 PM
Just like in everything else, it depends on the circumstances.

I don't live life by absolutes, so I can never say for certain that I will or will not date a woman who dances and displays her body and/or body parts for money and entertainment.

A person's profession or vocation does not always make the person.
 BIGNICK4YOU
Joined: 8/13/2008
Msg: 699
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Posted: 8/24/2008 1:44:47 PM
I have. She was a very nice girl. She did it for school money.
 GEOSCH
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 700
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Posted: 8/24/2008 1:44:49 PM
I would date a stripper. marry, no kids I just dont want anymore. Now that I am 45 and things have changed in my life.
 heartwinners
Joined: 2/20/2007
Msg: 703
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Posted: 8/24/2008 5:04:47 PM
If I didnt want a long term relationship and can handle a short term fling and not let it get to me yes I would date one.
I'm looking for a long term relationship so that rules out dating a stripper.
The lure of easy money and being around constant temptations and drugs is not a good recipe for a long term relationship.
 idaho62
Joined: 5/29/2007
Msg: 707
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Posted: 8/24/2008 5:44:31 PM
I have and we are all the same on the inside. I sure would without hesitating :
 idaho62
Joined: 5/29/2007
Msg: 708
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Posted: 8/24/2008 5:57:45 PM
Yes , she was at our Thanksgiving/Christmas family dinner. As for the marrying and family, we didn't get that far . But I would be all for it. :
 hojirt
Joined: 11/29/2006
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Posted: 8/26/2008 5:55:25 PM
I will date a stripper if I get a discount on the lap dances!!
 qu1nn
Joined: 7/16/2008
Msg: 713
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Posted: 8/28/2008 2:56:26 PM
I would not, just because I went to school with a few and they had bad drug habits and poor money management. Of course this was my experience with them, she was a great friend though... when she was not asking me for money.
 WideEyedWanderer
Joined: 11/18/2007
Msg: 714
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Posted: 8/28/2008 3:09:21 PM
I've got to come up with a much more appropriate "Award" for truly lamo topics like this one! I can't believe this has been circulating for over 3 years on Plentyoffish. What's even more sad, is that so many people felt the need to respond to this, creating 30 pages worth of electronic flotsam and jetsam. Just when you think you've seen 'm all too! For now, this is the Lamest of the Very Lame and is deserving of this week's "ROTTEN STINKING FISH HEAD OF THE WEEK" award!
 vulwen
Joined: 1/10/2008
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Posted: 9/19/2008 8:59:29 PM
i would , if i accepted her from the beginning i wouldn't ask her to chaange later . i would want her for who she is
 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 719
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Posted: 9/19/2008 11:30:30 PM
I've never even been to a titty bar.

I like nice looking females but ........

I don't think I could become interested.

I can not for the life of me - figure out why in the world would a guy pay a female to PRETEND she liked him.

Hell ...... my cat PRETENDS he likes me when I have food.
 chameleon80
Joined: 8/16/2008
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Posted: 9/20/2008 12:58:40 PM
I dated a girl who occasionally stripped when she needed extra cash in college, and it wasn't a big deal, I don't think it would be any different dating one that did it as a career. Though, I wouldn't ever hit on a girl at a club, it would be perfectly OK for me to date her if we met outside of work.
 sma3rddegree
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 722
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Posted: 9/20/2008 9:23:27 PM
I would date anyone i liked as long as they could prove they are disease and drug free.
 rwade
Joined: 8/20/2008
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Posted: 9/22/2008 10:27:32 PM
Dated one when I was younger. Gorgeous and a sweetheart, away from work you would never had known what she did for a living.

Its funny how some say "no way, I would never" maybe thats why you're single, you prejudge. Most that say they would never date a stripper have never had the hint of an opportunity.

You judge them because they strip while you sit and stare at porn in the hideaway you call home, think about it...who's the pervert?

People call them sluts for what they do. I knew of more sluts in college than I did in strip clubs.
 rwade
Joined: 8/20/2008
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Posted: 9/22/2008 10:52:09 PM
For all of those holier than thou haters...if you have ever put out for something you've desired...looks like we have a case of the pot calling the kettle black.
 Atlas1974
Joined: 8/3/2008
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Posted: 9/22/2008 11:05:30 PM
it would depend on if they were a stripper down to the gyno exam style.. complete with the drug or booze addiction.. or an exotic dancer who skips the gyno exam and keeps a few things to the imagination...

The problem with many (not all) strippers is they are often basket cases... whatever happened to them in their past life that lead to the drugs and booze problems and of course the nasty version of stripping is something that most can't overcome... I don't know if I could deal with that sort of thing...

the strippers around here are nasty... there is no skill or talent.. basicaly it is a crotch show while rubbing up against a pole.. yay... I don't want to watch that, let alone date the person doing it..

I worked in a gym and knew a lot of strippers.. 1 in 10 were relatively normal... the rest were hookers or drug whores looking to get money for their next fix... perhaps it is different in other cities, but the ones I knew here were not someone I would like to know better.
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 12/8/2008 6:08:25 PM
If I say yes, do I get a discount?
 Tuck4x4
Joined: 8/8/2008
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Posted: 12/20/2008 10:53:18 PM
I didnt just date one, I fell in love with one. She danced for 8 years. When I met her she hadnt been full time in 3 years. She only danced occasionally for christmas money etc.

She was amazing for the first few months then became very jealous and started having huge mood swings.

We went to a counselor together and she was diasgnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and possible Schizophrenia.

I tried everything I could but she became very abusive, verbally and emotionally, and even headbutted me in the nose once. I finally moved to be away from her.

Last week I had to file harassement charges on her.

The hardest part is knowing that in there somewhere is probably the most perfect match for me ive ever found.... and I will never get what I want because she denies she has a problem, but she refuses to fully let me go my own way.
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