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 DJZigZag
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 928
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yes I would date a stripper n have a serious relationship
 Janet_Always
Joined: 12/7/2010
Msg: 929
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/4/2011 11:57:15 AM
If there are any 50+ year old male strippers (that aren't gay) sure.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 930
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/4/2011 2:33:18 PM
I would...why not?
 *Just Jim*
Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 931
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/4/2011 4:56:51 PM
No! But that female libertarian, makes me wonder......lol
 GB_Guy_2011
Joined: 4/26/2011
Msg: 932
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/5/2011 9:03:57 PM
I absolutely would date a dancer, if she is trustworthy, why not?
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 933
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/6/2011 8:34:02 AM
would girls date Justin Bieber ?
Who is the bigger lying wh*re?//// um yeah.
I never would because it wouldnt pass muster with the security clearance, but that not being an inhibition, sure why not, they have just as much propensity to lie, cheat, and leave you as the rest
 gfx260
Joined: 11/22/2009
Msg: 935
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/13/2011 7:10:45 PM
No, it's far too likely she would blend her job into her life & try to take all my monies. that's what happened to my brother.
 UnixGrand
Joined: 5/9/2011
Msg: 936
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/16/2011 7:42:42 PM
Been there. Done that. Actually she was a nice person, and didn't mix business with any personal issues. She was also a straight shooter. She's over in Los Angeles now.
 Sherlock101
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 937
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/16/2011 8:30:31 PM
Many years ago I managed 2 strip clubs and swore I would never date a stripper. Not to say that I didn't get together with a few but nothing serious. I've recently met a ex stripper and of coarse I am no longer in my 20s with a one track mind. We were talking about this and I told her the problem I always had with "exotic dancers," was they always seemed to have a sense of entitlement for lack of a better word. She told me I was right and back when if she wanted something and didn't get it from a guy she just went on the to next... She said she is still like that a little and she is in her 40s but still very attractive.
This seems to be the basic mentality of most dancers. I speak of the majority of dancers that I've met but not every single one is the same of coarse. I believe the problem with most of them is most men are putty when they meet them and they get use to that. That's why many date abusive men and or men with a lot of money. They aren't so easily swayed by the charms of a beautiful semi naked women making them feel like an Adonis as long as the money flows.
Bottom line, your chances aren't very good finding the qualities most look for in a long term love relationship.
 *Just Jim*
Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 939
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/22/2011 4:02:48 PM
Yes,yes,yes, If she knows how to restore old,beautiful furniture, which was made in such early locations as,NC,MA.NY,MI.IL. then a good paint remover stripper would be very welcome in my abode.

Then, if you are the other type of stripper, who was abused but your parents,or also was abused in relationships & others,or is working her way in college, waiting on tables,or is also now addicted to drugs, or has as low esteem about yourself,
then I would have to say no......jmo
 Darkbutcomely
Joined: 4/20/2011
Msg: 940
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/22/2011 6:54:10 PM
I was an adult entertainer. I did not date while I was working. Why would I sit across listening to man drone on about his world after spending 8 hours doing just that. It is not a easy job. A lot of guys who claim to have dated an entertainer were really sponsors paying to have dinner with a pretty fake toy. They didnt have a desire to know the woman or what she was really about. That isnt a relationship.

And all the male dancers I met were gay or bi sexual. And I do not date gay or bi sexual men.
 cinsav
Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 941
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/22/2011 7:03:24 PM
To answer the original question.... hell no!

I've been with strippers... it never ends good. 99% of them are gold diggers. And most of them are hooked on some type of drug. Most of them have zero self resepct or dignity - and have such low self esteems that they think the only way they can make money is to take of their clothes....

Of course "they" will argue that it's really good money and bla bla bla... but the fact is - they are train wrecks waiting to happen.

NEVER date a stripper. They are nothing but drug addicted, single mother, trouble...

They will rob you blind without thinking twice. Sure, they look good - but in the end they are just trash. I don't give a damn if anyone agrees or not. I know from PERSONAL experience.

They really are all the same.
 cinsav
Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 943
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/22/2011 7:10:24 PM
And didn't marry her because? I mean she was so wonderful, right?

I have dated 10 or 11 strippers and they ARE all the same. Can you really and truly marry and respect a woman who thought so low of herself that the only way she could make money was to rub her ass all over guys who saw her as a peice of meat?

Seriously?

That makes me wonder how despirate are you...
 bimmerdude
Joined: 3/8/2011
Msg: 944
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/22/2011 10:54:46 PM
In a word, hell no! One buddy of mine who is foolish with the types of women he tends to date has become financially bankrupt and depressed by the games and trauma he has dealt with dating strippers and low class women. I want to meet someone who is at least somewhat normal and does not have a drug addiction or owned by her "pimp".
 parton65
Joined: 7/24/2010
Msg: 945
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/27/2011 6:20:03 PM
yes its ok . if its thier job i wouldnt ask anyone to chang for me.
 T.A.G20
Joined: 7/23/2011
Msg: 946
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Posted: 7/27/2011 6:35:41 PM
Yeah I would date a stripper if she has a good personality. Shit you can always get a woman to work out and look good but you can’t fix a personality. So hey if she’s cool to chill with and I am interested in her then yeah I could definitely see myself dating a stripper. But then I would probably want to be a part time bouncer at the club she worked. Cus while I’m not jealous I am protective then I would be able to look out for her and who knows if I get lucky I might get to beat some drunk up for trying to mess with the working girls. Witch is always a plus.
 timestandstillfla
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 948
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/2/2011 12:00:26 AM
"""""""" I am a dancer, and I hope someone says yes!""""""""''

YESSSSSSSSS



As a proud member of SPIT International.....stripper pole installation team int'l. I have met many a fine stripper .. ....
One thing I can say to any woman,,,,,," You may be a lover but you aint no dancer!!""
 Orgulloso
Joined: 8/28/2010
Msg: 949
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/2/2011 7:44:56 AM
Uh...nope. I've been offered sexual favors for money by strippers. Not all but many.
 daffie
Joined: 5/21/2010
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/3/2011 12:25:09 AM
^a huge amount of generalisation going on here?
i've also been propositioned more than a couple of times in my life, but i can't recall that any of the hopeful hookers were strippers or dancers.
why would a stripper or dancer be a less trustworthy and sincere person than anyone else you may meet?

i confess i was skeptical when my son started dating a stripper 15 years ago...looking back i was most likely jealous of those legs that seem to go on forever.
she's now the mother of my gorgeous four grandchildren...and could still dance up a storm, if she ever wanted to!...
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 951
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/3/2011 2:05:44 AM

Uh...nope. I've been offered sexual favors for money by strippers. Not all but many.


They wanted to CHARGE you?
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 952
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/3/2011 2:15:40 AM
here's how to go about it...

you NEVER EVER date a stripper...


NEVER...


you are either ponying up money to bone her...

OR...if a relationship were to develop (as it can happen, even w/a stripper)
...

THEN


she needs to be dating YOU...


there is a difference...but if you want a stripper as ur gf...then first...Y OU need to be HER BF....
 virVerus
Joined: 2/5/2011
Msg: 953
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/3/2011 3:17:57 PM
I wouldn't. A lot of strippers make money on the side giving sexual favors and I do *not* want to be kissing that mouth when she comes home, no matter how hot she is.
 kiwicoffee
Joined: 4/18/2011
Msg: 954
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/3/2011 3:25:07 PM
It depends how much she charges me.

Seriously I'm not sure. But I like to think it wouldn't make a difference. I'd be concerned about her safety more than anything but if that wasn't an issue and the relationship was sound in the important areas I can't imagine it would make that much difference.
 UnixGrand
Joined: 5/9/2011
Msg: 955
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/7/2011 1:38:21 PM
Most people don't realize that most strippers are exhibitionists. They like to be naked in front of other people. They are not inhibited. This does not mean that they have sex with everyone they strip for. My friend met a stripper back in the early 90's. Today they have children, and they are still married. Now that's a feat in itself with today's divorce rate. I know ladies who strip for a living. They do it because they like what they do, and make good money doing it. They support their families, and do what feels natural to them. Being un-inhibited, and being naked in front of other people. Some of them fall prey to drugs, and live a completely different life. You have to be strong to be in that business.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 957
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/7/2011 7:49:35 PM
The only way I would do it is to date a retired stripper. That would be age range late 30's and up. Guys who frequent strip clubs want to see the 20-25 year old strippers. A late 30's or 40 year old stripper would be considered over the hill.
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