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 bottleguy
Joined: 3/22/2011
Msg: 958
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I have dated a stripper. It was weird. We had to make certain rules. Most strippers cannot be faithful, and most are bisexual, so we agreed that she could sleep with as many of the other girls as she wanted, but no guys. As you can guess it didn't last long.
 koyote53
Joined: 2/6/2006
Msg: 959
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/15/2011 2:59:04 PM
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 aero86
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 960
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/18/2011 6:39:42 PM
i dated one for a bit. i didnt ask her to change professions, though i did as her to change locations. and i didnt meet her there, met her through a friend. lol. boy could she move her body...
 Xanatosnemos
Joined: 12/10/2011
Msg: 961
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/9/2012 5:34:30 PM
I've dated strippers in the past, and while I agree most strippers are stupid, desperate, and nasty - not all are. I admire a woman who is confident enough to do something like that and smart enough to invest the money wisely - a decent looking girl could retire within 2-3 years of working and investing the money intelligently. I would never date a nasty prostitute type though
 ixtlan09
Joined: 12/12/2010
Msg: 962
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/9/2012 8:45:03 PM
Would I date a stripper? Yes, I would. Would I have a serious relationship with one without asking them to change professions? No, I would not.
 russell5417
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 963
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/10/2012 12:18:49 AM
I wouldn't want to have to ask someone to change professions for me. I've never been interested in dating a stripper.

If I meet the "right one" now, and that was something she happened to have done when she was younger, it would not be a problem. It might be kind of cool..........
 bethesdafoodie
Joined: 1/2/2012
Msg: 964
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/11/2012 11:38:52 AM
I figure it's the same risk you take when they're a masseuse.

As long as they're not giving any "happy endings"/doing drugs/cheating on me with their "clients" their profession IMO is not super relevant.

As long as they're coming home to me at the end of the night a gals got to do what a gals got to do to survive.

Hell, I'd probably date an ex-escort if she is 100% clean and if she really was out of the game. I mean a person is a person and her past decisions are in the past.

Maybe it's just me, but I have very few dealbreakers based on what a person does/did for a living, I'm more concerned about the future and ensuring mutual happiness.
 lacalli
Joined: 1/12/2012
Msg: 965
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/11/2012 2:08:54 PM

would anyone out there date a stripper? would you have a serious relationship without asking them to change professions?

Is this something that comes up often enough to post a thread about it? I did enjoy some of the responses though.
 aussiesealady
Joined: 11/10/2011
Msg: 966
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/12/2012 11:29:37 PM
Ok. Most people here are presuming the woman is the stripper.

So ladies...
would you date a male stripper?
 Debisusanne
Joined: 5/3/2011
Msg: 969
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/13/2012 4:10:07 PM
NO.. no need to date a stripper..

but i would like to lick whiskey off HIS nipples.. hahah
 amore01
Joined: 2/14/2012
Msg: 970
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/18/2012 12:58:59 PM
and my answer to that would be a NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 Dukelane12inc
Joined: 3/9/2012
Msg: 971
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/18/2012 1:35:13 PM
Sure I have no problem with it in damn near same profession.Wish I know where to come see you
 im_a_rockstar
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 972
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/21/2012 3:01:15 PM
I would. I've known a lot of them in my life, I'm friends with a lot of them (outside of the bars).

To most of them, it's a job. It's good money for taking advantage of how dumb guys get when a girl talks to them.

Being a stripper doesn't mean they're a prostitute, it doesn't mean they have problems, hardly any of them actually have sex with anyone they meet in a club... a lot of them are just doing it for the easy money to pay for school, or to help cover bills.

They're just like all the rest of us. Normal people working to make some money. Almost every time, outside of the club, the flirty personality is gone too, and you'd never guess that they were strippers.

Also, the guy saying that you really want to date one, there's obviously a wrong reason to want to do it behind that. It'll really just be exactly like dating any other girl, except any trust issues that you personally have with other people will show themselves.
 OneGodfather
Joined: 3/4/2012
Msg: 973
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/21/2012 3:22:36 PM
hell no.
 KingofSnuggles
Joined: 5/17/2011
Msg: 976
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/2/2012 2:40:00 PM
I have but have asked them to change professions, here's why.

I was a manager in the business and saw what all went on between customers and dancers. No, not all dancers fall under this experience/umbrella but at the same time I cannot do anything about what the customer's would do.

Many girls become very accustomed to the perps touching them, from the slightest brush of their hand on the girls legs to far worse. Some move the hand and even admonish the guy but plenty(too many in fact) are numb to it. I guess they consider it's one of those "comes with the job" type of things. So it really has NOTHING to do with insecurity....nothing.

Spin it another way: Say youre dating or married to a woman and she comes up with the idea of stripping. Would you REALLY be ok with her showing yalls business to every swinging****in town?? I think not
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 979
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/17/2012 7:51:39 PM
just imagine, while you are at home waiting for her to finsih work, shes griding and dancing and taking her clothes off and other men are watching
just sayin if you are cool with sharing your girl than thats fine
 TempusFujis
Joined: 4/5/2012
Msg: 980
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/20/2012 9:48:58 AM
I would never date a stripper , not a chance in hell I can just imagine at Christmas dinner If I brought a stripper to the family Xmas dinner

Imagine the scenario

Tempus: Hi Mom, this Candy Cherries
Mom: Hi Candy, interesting name what is it that you do?
Candy: I'm a Stripper
Mom: excuse me? you're a what?
Candy: A stripper, as in a take my clothes off for a living
Mom: yes I heard you the first time, as she drops the plate of Turkey as she
makes a beeline to the phone to call her lawyer and have me removed from her will
and kicks me out of her place my date and I.
 InMyOwnTime25
Joined: 4/16/2012
Msg: 981
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/20/2012 8:34:45 PM
I'm a female (I guess that's obvious from my pic.. I hope :P) and I probably wouldn't date a male stripper because I'd have to sit at home and think about them being all over other females all night.. if they wanted an upgrade from me they could probably easily start dating a super beautiful client.
 ixtlan09
Joined: 12/12/2010
Msg: 982
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/22/2012 5:46:18 PM
Depends on if I'm attracted to her or not.
 Mafia23a
Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 983
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/25/2012 7:52:35 AM
I would love to date a stripper , but it would be very hard to trust her.
 snowstorm22
Joined: 4/22/2012
Msg: 984
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/25/2012 12:28:04 PM
When your in bed with her, she'll be on top of you and waiting for you to throw some dollar bills down her panties/bra
so i don't know lol....
 lad3da
Joined: 3/12/2012
Msg: 985
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/25/2012 10:23:08 PM
No, I wouldn't date a stripper.
 RyanReed
Joined: 3/14/2012
Msg: 987
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/26/2012 12:20:05 PM
I would date a stripper for a week...or two.
 emptyvases
Joined: 4/4/2012
Msg: 989
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/26/2012 5:01:14 PM
I tried it one time long long ago. It was a nightmare.
The girl was nutso. Gorgeous, yes, but very crazy. She had men by the hundreds
and thought it was a big game.
Never again.
 The_Big_Slim
Joined: 5/11/2011
Msg: 990
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 5/18/2012 7:34:35 PM
As long as she isn't the type to do extra's ..... I would be game for it. Had a couple of buddies date some in the past, no different than dating someone who isn't in their cases.
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