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 ixtlan09
Joined: 9/9/2012
Msg: 1049
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Dated a few. Never took it seriously.
 rustyrusss1
Joined: 3/12/2012
Msg: 1050
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/20/2013 8:07:15 PM
Nope.

I don't care how good looking you are, if you make your living by showing off your body to hundreds of men every day then keep on going. I won't waste my time with you.
 LennyPane
Joined: 2/2/2011
Msg: 1051
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/20/2013 10:33:41 PM
Only Shaqueesha. But that's because she's putting herself through school to be a paralegal, and I find that attractive.
 LennyPane
Joined: 2/2/2011
Msg: 1052
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Posted: 1/20/2013 10:34:49 PM
Only Shaqueesha. But that's because she's putting herself through school to be a paralegal, and I find that attractive.
 LennyPane
Joined: 2/2/2011
Msg: 1053
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Posted: 1/20/2013 10:35:21 PM
Only Shaqueesha. But that's because she's putting herself through school to be a paralegal, and I find that attractive.
 BigJerseyJon
Joined: 12/20/2012
Msg: 1054
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/20/2013 11:21:36 PM
I have and I found out the hard way.
This is a way of life. They will never stop using men.
Because certain men allow themselves to be used.
I wish these men would grow testicles and refuse women like this.
 smurf469
Joined: 12/6/2012
Msg: 1055
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/21/2013 5:39:14 AM
I dated strippers when I was younger. Had good and bad experiences with it. Fell in love with a girl named Christine in Baton Rouge but she married someone else. Four months later she was back dancing. I've always said that they are fun to play with but they make for a relationship. Once they live a life with that much attention from men, it's hard to change and be a house wife. A lot, not all but a lot, of the strippers I dated couldn't not be a stripper no matter where we were. Someone would recognize her and thought it was okay to come over and talk to her. A lot of times it would get out of control. So I guess what I'm saying is, yes I would date a stripper if I was looking to have fun. If I was looking for a serious relationship, probably not. Unless it was Christine. The girl not the car. If you're Christine call me and I'll play "Leather and Lace" for you. (Our song) LOL
 BigJerseyJon
Joined: 12/20/2012
Msg: 1056
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/21/2013 2:00:18 PM
If you date a stripper,You are asking for a Broken Heart. Careful what you wish for.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 1058
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/22/2013 6:03:07 PM
If she was a wallpaper stripper or a paint stripper, I would consider it.
 eg1968
Joined: 6/22/2013
Msg: 1059
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/2/2013 6:25:28 AM
Yes I would and yes I have, it was a good relationship, lasted over 5 years, with a stripper you know what you have its right in front of you, with any other you don't know everybody put there best foot forward and there bible in one hand and there bs family values in the other then you find out shes still married, on prescription drugs, can't cook, lazy,won't clean up,and comes to bed with socks and a moomo on , and her hair tied up, talking about you don't look at me the same, so yes I'm looking for one right now.
 King_of_Nuthin
Joined: 3/17/2013
Msg: 1061
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/4/2013 5:13:56 PM
my ex wife became a stripper after we were together for 8 years. After seeing the lifestyle and being a part of it I wouldn't date a stripper, but I have no regrets about her stripping and I don't judge anyone who is a stripper. I just know that it would bring out bad memories and insecurities that I wouldn't want in a new relationship.

the things that eventually ended our marriage happened before she started stripping, but being a stripper gave her easier access to those things (drugs, alcohol, cheating...)
 NtvNtv
Joined: 5/15/2013
Msg: 1062
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/4/2013 8:15:29 PM
My friend dated an amazing man....who was a stripper.
She didn't meet him at his work (a.k.a. strip show) they met at the University. He is a very sincere not to mention absolutely attractive man...and head over heals for my friend....now wife : )
The moon and stars obviously aligned at the right time for them, as they have been together for about ten years....he quit his stripping career about a year into their relationship, because he wanted to.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 1064
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 9/19/2013 1:58:26 PM
I know a guy who is/was dating a stripper (haven't seen him in over a year, so I'm not sure if they're still together). Outside of work, there was no indication of her occupation and acts like a typical mom. She has 2 kids from a previous relationship who are pre-teens. What I was most curious about is what is she telling her kids or going to tell them if they ask what her occupation is. I doubt she would want to tell them the truth because if they tell any friends, they would be setting themselves up for a lot of ridicule. Guys here are saying it's just a job, so it's no big deal. What guy would be happy about a situation where his friends and neighbors are going to the strip club to see his wife/girlfriend get naked? How would the guy feel if his friends asked her for a lap dance? It's her job to get them all hot and bothered and fantasize about having sex with her.
 adventurejoe70
Joined: 3/1/2013
Msg: 1065
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Posted: 9/19/2013 4:00:43 PM
Well to be honest when I started working. it was a cliche cops dated Strippers, Nurses,teachers, doctors and Flight Attendants. I can honestly say that the cliche was pretty true and some of my co workers tied the knots with gals i n such professions. They had good relations, the stripping is usually only a temp gig while training for something else anyway.Except for teachers it should be obvious why these professions attract to each other.....WORKING crazy hours and often at night with odd days off.
We avoided the ones addicted to coke...they went after the wall street finance guys anyway lol.
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 1/22/2013
Msg: 1066
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 9/19/2013 5:06:42 PM
I have... though I didn't know it ahead of time.

though when you think you are there for a music collaboration and they all of a sudden walk in with whipped cream and their chippendale costume, it can be a little awkward...
 Fleuron
Joined: 8/18/2010
Msg: 1067
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 9/19/2013 5:56:20 PM
^^^ Just be glad the whipped cream wasn’t IN his Chippendale costume….eeewww.
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 1/22/2013
Msg: 1068
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 9/19/2013 6:10:16 PM
^^^uh... it was spray whipped cream... and it was...
 bamagrl68
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 1069
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 9/26/2013 8:51:17 PM
cherryblossom3- Most likely. The key for me would be if he were ok with me coming to see his shows. If he said yes, then I would.
Strippers make good money and live with an unfair stereotype because of a few that are really just prostituting themselves under the guise of stripping, that in NOT ok.
 elmuchoburrito
Joined: 8/27/2013
Msg: 1070
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 9/27/2013 7:22:52 AM
A girl that chases money, jumping from pole to pole as the music changes ...... ?
At least the stripper is honest about the cost of the transaction
 rockstar1118nj
Joined: 3/28/2013
Msg: 1071
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 9/28/2013 8:21:34 PM
bamagrl gets it.

those of you who want to throw these stereotypes out there, I know girls who have sex for money, I know girls who constantly cheat on their boyfriend, I know girls that do heroin... that have never stripped a day in their lives. and I also know strippers who are college educated, committed to one person, some very religious...

it's just a job. it's like asking if you would date a salesman, or a truck driver... strippers aren't automatically sluts, and they're really nothing special outside of the club. most of them have an entirely different, completely normal, personality when they're not at work.

A stripper is just a normal person who makes money by dancing around, or trading you and acting like it's doing something for them
 phule
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 1072
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/2/2013 2:57:32 PM
Sure. It's a job.

The question is... would she date a computer repairman?
 ColorJockey
Joined: 12/7/2012
Msg: 1073
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/2/2013 3:47:00 PM
I lack the brain capacity and emotional well-being to bear the consequences that would surely follow. So, nope. Never.
 scot910
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 1074
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/27/2013 8:11:00 AM
yes I love to date a stripper
 NoxzemaWA
Joined: 2/19/2017
Msg: 1075
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/16/2017 7:47:41 PM
No, I wouldn't date anyone in the adult industry. Even if they're not touching anyone, I don't need that kind of temptation to be so close to our relationship at all times.
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 1076
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/16/2017 9:50:34 PM
I did it when I was in my 20's, young, stupid, and horny. I learned from my mistakes, and stopped doing totally insane things.

I guess that is one of those things that a young man has to go through. One of the life lessons that you have to learn for yourself, the kind of knowledge that only comes from experience, cannot be learned from books.
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