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 Morki
Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 389
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Perhaps, as a dancer, I'm a bit hypersensitive to negative stereotypes about erotic entertainers (I did create an account simply to respond to this silly little thread)...

Honestly, I find it sad that people out there are willing to limit the potentiality of finding a partner based on occupational preferences... I certainly understand giving special consideration with regard to, say, religious or political preferences... but occupational? A job's a job. Being a stripper is just one of many identities I hold... I'm also a full-time student and an active volunteer... I'm drug free AND I don't drink. I also have NO children, a wonderful boyfriend (who doesn't beat, pimp or mooch), and close family ties.

My decision to dance for the past three years has taught me more about myself than I ever thought would be possible. I know who I am and what I stand for at an age where most people are still desperately searching for their identities.

More importantly, my job has taught me a great deal about people in general, and reminds me on a nightly basis that I have no right to judge anyone based on their station in life. It saddens me that other people think so very differently and are so quick to assume dancers are promiscous, drug-abusing low-lifes. Where's the "vomit emoticon" for that?

Maybe you're the type of person who could never imagine ANY reason for becoming a stripper... that's fine. There are a million professions out there that I have no interest in. But by the same token, I don't feel the need to bash people who DO work in those professions.
 Agallah005
Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 391
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/10/2006 5:34:29 PM
I would for the free entrance, LOL
 bigirish
Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 393
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/10/2006 7:21:17 PM
i would, why not? they are people arent they?? usualyl pretty attractive ones too...lol
 Canada75
Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 394
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/10/2006 10:40:23 PM
I really don't see myself dating a stripper. Pretty sure there would be nothing in common there.
 sayonara7
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 402
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/15/2006 1:11:14 PM
I don't see anything wrong with it.There are only two types of people in this world.One, the bad ones, the other the good ones.If she/he has a good heart and is a nice person, then what's wrong with having a serious relationship with a stripper.I have read strip tease by Carl hiaasen , well its just a fiction novel, yet it showed how a stripper can be a good hearted woman and be normal and nice...which some people esp the overly relgious ones don't agree with.Having said that, I wouldn't date a stripper though, but that's for completely different reasons.
 sayonara7
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 404
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/15/2006 8:46:15 PM
Hey Joseph322...your forum posts have the tendency to make me laugh out so loud, I almost fall off my chair...lol...that was the best so far.Very funny.
 Morki
Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 408
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/16/2006 5:13:01 PM
Sexual or not, the only people who think stripping is somehow different than any other profession are the people who do not work in strip clubs...

There are two types of people in the working world: those who exploit their minds for money, and those who exploit their bodies. To say that the latter is somehow less ethical is plain silly.
 EMBRYUS_MAN
Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 422
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/24/2006 2:46:52 PM
i have and i still would date a stripper... if she understood what she was doing was a business and she worked it like her personal professional business.

some that get involved in the adult entertainment understand its about the money and to do what they have to do best and quick and get out.

i have been a dancer now manage my own agency of males and am looking to return in the near future. so i would welcome a woman to see it more then just me f--king down the place and understand this is me building ME

NOW if you go in with no planning and so END GOAL in mind i can see where you can become a victem and then at that point makes you less desireable in the eyes of someone looking for LTR or even a relationship out of the club and out of the bedroom.
 comebackkid09
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 433
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/2/2006 11:00:47 AM
i would have no problem going out with a stripper and them keeping their profession actually thatsd kind of hot
 middenface
Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 435
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/2/2006 6:22:09 PM
Id love to date a stripper
 islndjak
Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 437
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/12/2006 7:44:55 AM
Yes! Of course are you dating her job or the woman her self.
to not date a woman because of her job would be like saying that because she is a GYN or a proctolgist you would not date her.
I would date a stripper if she appealed to me
 JessKO
Joined: 1/18/2005
Msg: 440
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/24/2006 1:08:14 PM
I don't think pinky love is actually a stripper.

All the strippers I know that customers = money... not temptation. Sheesh.
 wulf50
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 442
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/11/2006 3:47:50 PM
to answer your question, yes i would, and i have dated a stripper. we had a great relationship. made some good memories, that i will never forget.
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 444
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/11/2006 4:45:46 PM
I would date a (male) stripper as long as he left the ego thing where the job was, sure why not?
 sportsdude3479
Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 445
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/11/2006 4:53:00 PM
As long as she was clean and she didnt smoke, then I would have no problem with it, considering if it wasnt for my health conditions, I would wanna try out being a stripper myself lol. But strippers are people to, and I don't look at them any different. Now would I be able to go to the club and watch her, no way!
 DrewBond007
Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 446
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/11/2006 6:30:08 PM
yes i would because i like wild women who are hot as long as "serious relationship" doesnt enter the conversation.
 tooyoung
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 459
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/8/2007 9:03:35 AM
Never again! I went out with a stripper for about 3 years.
her name was Sasha.I first met her about 10 years before.
She was completely different. she lived in a rathole, was shy,
wore baggy clothes and avoided everyone.I went to her place
back then and she went to take a shower but didn't want me to see her naked.
Then I saw her 10 years later and she had changed.She had been stripping
for three years at this point.I went to see her at her place,nice and clean,
within an hour or so, she was taking off her clothes.I was interested in
her not the stripping.I told her if she stopped stripping I would go out with
her. But she would still sneak out occasionally.All this to say my experience
wasn't good.Strippers look at men for money, and take advantage of us.
Once the money is gone so are they.They laugh at us because they see
us as weak and slaves to our lustful desires.Easy prey for those who want to
capitalize on the situation.Strip clubs should be banned!If you think it would
be good idea, good luck, you're going to need it.
 JessKO
Joined: 1/18/2005
Msg: 461
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/11/2007 9:55:01 PM
^ooh that's just a whole different thread
 ashmo101
Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 464
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/12/2007 1:46:02 AM
im a stripper and who wouldnt
 BSM1
Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 468
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/15/2007 4:37:03 AM
I've dated a few strippers the last 1 i was with 1yr. & 6 months off and on.they were all hotand they all had something mentaly wrong. To many head games. See for fourteen years i've been bouncing in bars,topless,all nude,swingers clubs. So after that long its not all there cracked up to be. believe it or not i only had 2 one nite stands and that was when i was 21.
 JustCallMeMike
Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 472
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/15/2007 10:00:10 AM
I have gotten to the point where I will date a stripper, ex-prostitute, recovering addict, smoker, drinker, and women with more that 2 or 3 children (and still wanting more). Wow! I am really sad aren't I?
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