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 Geoff in GA
Joined: 2/17/2008
Msg: 644
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Not a chance.

Not when there are women with higher standards of themselves that I can be with. Usually much more attractive to boot.
 Dumpling-Girl
Joined: 7/20/2005
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Posted: 3/9/2008 10:20:10 PM
Only if it was a skinny, pasty, geek-boy stripper....I don't like those square-jawed muscley types. I figure the geek-stripper guy wouldn't have the huge ego and promiscuity problems either. But I don't have any morality issues with the stripping itself. (and probably with male stripping it is more often just a comedy show than an indication of psychological trauma as a result of a history of sexual abuse). I guess it also depends on how far it went. (I don't want to think about crazy drunk stagette women licking whipped cream off his privates every night). And only if he was a part-time stripper, moonlighting from his physicist gig or something like that... Now that would be hot.
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 646
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/9/2008 10:30:55 PM
I must say this has been some interesting reading. in my mid twenties I used to be an exotic male dancer 5yrs. This was a second job,, a hell of lot fun. But contrary to some beliefs.. Not all dances male or female, used drugs, got paid for sex, even one night stands didn't happen. Temptation did exist though. While I danced, I was with the same woman 18 yrs, until she passed away 7 yrs ago. There were men/woman/who were putting their way though school, single moms, trying to make ends meet. As for me $300 hr was just fun money, and I got paid to do what I liked to do,, that was dance,, why can't someone get paid for what they like to do..

The question here should be,, can you trust the men and woman who go to these show..Hmmmmmm Now there I have stories, Just like any profession there are the ones who give it the bad name,, Yet,, like so many treads I have read thus far,, it takes two,, so here we have it people,, a willing audience, with very few dancers,, make your own conclusions...
 genegem
Joined: 7/24/2007
Msg: 647
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/10/2008 2:30:09 AM
As the old joke goes "you're more likely to get screwed by a lawyer"
so why leave a stripper off your shopping list. Some are beautiful people
and "off the job" no worse than any school teacher or nurse or ...!!!
 lookin4luv72
Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 649
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Posted: 3/10/2008 11:11:11 AM
it would depend on somethings. The bad girl dancers give the nice ones a bad name. There are some who are incredibly sweet and normal. It would depend on the girl basically. And an understanding between the two of us.
 whothehellknows
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 658
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/11/2008 8:53:22 AM

first i want to say thank u to those that showed insight, or an open mind, even if they don't agree with the lifestyle.

and that reminds me of one of the main reasons why i do love this job, hard as it is: PEOPLE


I would date a stripper, but I also have to say it would be a big warning flag when I was first getting to know the person. There are enough screwed up strippers to give the stereotype some grounding.

But as I got to know her, if it turned out just to be a job without some of the addictions and seedier aspects of the profession, I would be cool with it. I think it can be a fun job, or a way to make some serious cash, but it would be a warning flag as well. Especially if she seemed to not have any intelligence to fall back on, or was spending her money as quickly as it came in.

'The one who got away' for me is a lady I dated several years ago who was a dancer. She was also very intelligent, good hearted and overall a nice person. The dancing part did not play a part in our break up at all. If she treats it as just a job, I can do the same.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 660
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/18/2008 3:54:11 PM

usually those that are ok with the lifestyle will be multi-layered people w a varied and complex life experience that comes with a curious mind and a passion for life, arts, freedom and beauty. many are brilliant, or very talented, many eccentrics or world travelers.

Medana I dont agree with any of your posts but I appreciate your input. I think you are full of crap though on this one IMHO.

I'm so sick of people in this kind of lifestyle doing the very thing that others do to them; they look down on them just like you look down on people that dont accept it. I hear the same argument from swingers, people with open marriages, 3 somes, and all the rest. For me its not a healthy lifestyle.

Acting like if you accept your lifestyle then you are healthy and open minded and all good, is a bunch of crap. I think you are just as close minded as those that get on your lifestyle.

I could care less what you do to be honest. It doesn't affect me and i really dont care. I'm in the U.S. and other than the rights voters allowed this administration to take away, I do believe as long as people aren't hurting eachother, they can be as sleazy, as mindless, as arrogant or do whatever they want to do.

I'm sorry but I'm also not going to let someone I love acting like a hooker in heat before a bunch of sweaty men in heat. Aint happening. I think its a sleazy lifestyle that lessens sex and I'm not into it. Thats my choice. Do I think you should be into it? If you like it sure. But dont put salt on a rotten steak to make it taste better than it does. You are acting like your lifestyle is a part of some intelligent artsy philosophy but I'm not hip to that. Its soft porn. End of story.

It is what it is. And if its your thing, that is cool. But dont look down on others that wont accept it. I'd never date a stripper; ever. Thats my choice. You like the lifestyle; thats your choice, but dont **** about people judging you for your lifestyle, when you judge those that dont accept your lifestyle. I want a whole woman for me; not one that gets emotionally and visually screwed every night by several men. Not for me.
 Golfer9966
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 662
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/18/2008 5:27:22 PM
Nope! Never!

I don't have the money.

--J
 lil red corvette
Joined: 5/12/2008
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Posted: 6/18/2008 7:58:44 PM
I have to ask you ..... what do you define as "a lot of success" ?
Does it mean that you found a keeper ... or a whole whack of "dates" ?
 lil red corvette
Joined: 5/12/2008
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Posted: 6/18/2008 8:03:33 PM
You say ..."I have been having a lot of success on this site! "

I have to ask you ..... what do you define as "a lot of success" ?
Does it mean that you found a keeper ... or a whole whack of "dates" ?
 ck1time
Joined: 9/10/2005
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Posted: 6/18/2008 8:17:41 PM
I would & I have. I rented a suite in my home to one "special" one while I dated her co-worker. She was special in that we got along from the start, her dad was a cop, & that we had good boundaries.
It's not my lifestyle, & I wouldn't do it these days. But the experience was worth having. Even more for her. I introduced her to some ppl/activities as my "roommate" that she'd never have a chance with on her own.
It's not anything you go into lightly. You have to be very selective & disciplined. Your
values must be rock-steady.
Yet, they're out there, in "5-Star Gentlemen's Clubs", making a mint, some very appreciate of a "Big Brother" figure. And if they actually like your "style", well, then they have good taste on top of talent & a good body. Some are SMART, working on their Master's degree.
They are women trying to earn a legal living. All are people with genuine feelings.
Stay away from the "druggies" and you'll find brains & love inside their talent. My 2 cents.
 mr.amoree
Joined: 3/6/2008
Msg: 668
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/18/2008 8:27:21 PM
as long as they didn't do drugs i would date a stripper.... for a month or two.
 southpaw2000
Joined: 2/22/2008
Msg: 672
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/18/2008 8:52:31 PM
According to what I've read, most strippers were abused and are dope addicts. So I;s pass.
 ck1time
Joined: 9/10/2005
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Posted: 6/19/2008 8:11:49 PM

"I don't go to bed with no whore, and I don't wake up with no whore. That's how I live with myself."

- Martin Sheen
(Wallstreet 1987)

Bro, you mean CHARLIE Sheen. I used to misquote all the time, when I was...28 or something. lol.
 Blewoz
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 674
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/19/2008 8:25:02 PM
Yes ! If the chemistry was as normal and you seriouslu liked the person !
Overcoming somebody chosen proffession shud be a simple ask. If not simply DON'T ASK in the first place for a date !
 gooniepulp
Joined: 5/30/2008
Msg: 676
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Posted: 6/19/2008 8:39:24 PM
Absolutely. Exotic dancers or strippers are people too. I wouldn't date a girl who didn't have any ambition to get a job. All stripping is, is a job. If I had the body, moves and looks, not mention the courage to strip, I might do it myself. Stripping isn't for ever, neither are good looks. Make your $$$ while you can. I choose a woman on her personality not what she does for a living. I will say that along with stripping there tends to be negatives present, one is the presence of drugs. I couldn't be with somebody who does drugs. But as far as stripping, I have no problem with a woman's occupation. Whatever it may be.
 ck1time
Joined: 9/10/2005
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Posted: 6/19/2008 9:29:47 PM
And that's why a FEW level-headed women choose this as long as their looks/abilities last. Because they don't want to depend on undependable men for a home or a livelihood, even
though sure, they love men & will have them as lovers. Just not as substitute daddies.
Male strippers R a little different, can't speak 4 them. Think ego drives them more than $.
Again, ppl, there are Strip Clubs, & then there are 5-Star Gentlemen's Clubs, with nationwide affiliations/franchises. I speak about the dancers @ the latter. Not the whole industry.
 GREENEYES269
Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 679
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Posted: 6/19/2008 9:40:10 PM
What is wrong with them and its better to call them Exotic Dancer thats what they are Dancers. In the end all that matters is how you are to each other. Everything else realy don't matter.
 honkytonkman2006
Joined: 3/27/2006
Msg: 680
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Posted: 6/19/2008 9:43:13 PM
Yes!! i have and i would again if the opportunity comes again. it's not a big deal. some chicks work at starbucks, what's the big deal? if she likes me and i like her i'll give it a go. i've dated two strippers in my life and they were a good time. has lots of good times with them and i wouldn't mind that kind of fun again.

thats my two cents,

honky
 borntoski683
Joined: 4/28/2008
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Posted: 6/20/2008 4:45:12 PM
I've never dated a stripper, but I have been friends with a few and I can't think of anything wrong with some of them, though I do have to say that most of the ones I have known were a bit twisted in the brain. I say that affectionly...ha ha.

I probably could not personally deal with having my GF flashing her naked body to a bunch of strange men, but that's my insecurity, not hers. The strippers I knew that got married were EXTREMELY faithful, for whatever its worth.
 ck1time
Joined: 9/10/2005
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Posted: 6/23/2008 6:10:37 PM

The strippers I knew that got married were EXTREMELY faithful, for whatever its worth.

Figured this thread was dead, but the man speaks truth. Just got thru yesterday being a part of a Hollywood film that takes place partly in a highly-esteemed gent's club. I can tell you, from 1st-hand experience (K, no jokes, I get it b4 you even think it!). Even the personable,
able, daytime promotions coordinator of a national (heck, international) franchise lives w/the mngr (let's say manly but a little rounder than even he would prefer). And they've gotten along 4 years. I have other examples in my life. YES, un-congruently, monogamy
remains alive & well in the entertainment business! Truth continues to amaze.
 enigmamystery
Joined: 2/28/2007
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Posted: 6/23/2008 6:23:50 PM
I couldn't be in a relationship with a stripper. I would feel it disrespectful to our relationship when there are women putting their hands all over the person who supposedly loves me. If people want to do that, that is their choice, it just is not one I could be a part of. There is a life style of late nights and other things going on. I don't want any part of that touching my life. To each their own.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 684
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Posted: 6/24/2008 1:43:57 AM

mthomjmark - I'm guessing you're not a big fan of porn , then? Or just soft core porn?


LOL; not into porn; not soft porn either. I do the real thing. I never got how people can get excited looking at a tv or a computer screen or magazine to get off. I dont judge anyone that does it. Thats their thing and we are all adults. Just dont like to be judged either for not being into it. The cool thing is sleaze right now; from the teens to adults. I'm just not into it and I'm not changing.

Whats cool isnt' always right, and what's right isn't always cool. thanks.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 685
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Posted: 6/24/2008 1:46:03 AM

The strippers I knew that got married were EXTREMELY faithful, for whatever its worth.


LOL; this always cracks me up; A stripper is doing a sexual act either with their body or their mind, every time they work. They dont need to cheat; they are always cheating.

Most people that cheat; especially men; do it for a sexual reason; strippers have all their fantasies fulfilled so they dont need to cheat. Your argument is ridiculous in my opinion.
 poonsponge
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 686
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/24/2008 7:45:31 AM
uhmm.........Is this a serious question?????
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