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 Contince
Joined: 11/1/2010
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and it can start with something as trivl as a bad pic one bad pic and bam your conciderd a loser or even poor spelling can ruin any hope to find a parter or even haveing a crevited profile its such a crapyy thing but its number one on the hit perade of dateing on line
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
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Posted: 9/22/2011 8:58:06 AM

yup some people r non dateab and most of the time its not thear falt its ladie that oooo im sorry your just not my type when they wount even give a guy a chane to show just how nice he is but still it happens

and it can start with something as trivl as a bad pic one bad pic and bam your conciderd a loser or even poor spelling can ruin any hope to find a parter or even haveing a crevited profile its such a crapyy thing but its number one on the hit perade of dateing on line

From your profile:
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ARGggggggggggggggggggggggggg its Harddddddddddddddddddddd beinggggggggggggggggggggggg a singleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee guyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy knowingggggggggggggggggggg thattttttttt nooooo one wants to date you much less chat with you IM NOT A CREEPY GUY you know im well ajusted not a dram king but still date less And soon tobe leaveing pof for ever...



You may have noticed as you type a message there are funny red underlines under some words you type.... that is the automatic spell checker working and it is telling you to right clik over the word to see a corrected spelling for you to select......so there is no real excuse for spelling errors...... and nooooo it is not cupid kissing each of your words with a red arrow for good luck.....

Consider this..... if in your town you went daily to buy groceries riding a horse and buggy.... would people comment or think unkind things about you??? Unless you are Amish... there is no real excuse for that behavior at all????? Maybe you drive the "General Lee" to town instead.... equally creepy

Pictures also are easy to edit here when posting..... the software is native to the website.... so no excuses...

Based on the above...the only conclusions a thinking woman can make about you are all negative and disrespectful.... chose your own poison .... Good luck in your pity party...

Leaving is an option..... but staying and seeking personal growth and a journey into maturity will serve you better long term..... but if you must go home and pout.... have fun with that!!!

"Stupid is as stupid does"
 Contince
Joined: 11/1/2010
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Posted: 11/13/2011 11:33:05 AM
im 54 and one of the feww guys on earth that r non dateabull or at least ist seems that way to me seems like every wear i go its sorry your just not my type
 RockyDakota
Joined: 5/16/2011
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Posted: 11/13/2011 2:11:30 PM
Some people just don't jump the gun at the first person that shows them affection. Me, I have been single most of my life, besides 2 real GFs, some dates here and there, and the occasional roll in the hay...I am human, before you judge.
There is nothing wrong with staying out of the game for a bit. Many reasons for it; You just got out of relationship, that last one may still sting a little, new job, some side work, school homework, family issues, family emergency, anything. Non-dateable is term that should not be thrown around...Maybe someone just hasn't hit their stride yet, or are feeling a little depressed.
 SC67
Joined: 6/21/2009
Msg: 52
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Posted: 11/13/2011 3:10:31 PM
Non-datable...pretty strong words, but I suspect most of those who consider themselves "non-datable" are actually attempting to date people with whom they don't have much in common. I am dating challenged, but I'll take the blame for most of that. I think I've been out of practice for so long that I truly have no idea what I'm doing after a first date.
 redsox322
Joined: 11/3/2011
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Posted: 11/13/2011 3:33:49 PM
I am nondateable because I cant date someone who I am not attracted to physically so. The guys I like Im not good enough for so. Oh well Im me
 TraveliciousGuy
Joined: 9/17/2011
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Posted: 11/13/2011 3:46:09 PM
Elaine: "So you're saying that 95% of the people in the world are undateable?

Jerry: "UNDATEABLE!"

Elaine: "Then how are all these people getting together?"

Jerry: "Alcohol."

 femaleandflirty
Joined: 7/16/2011
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Posted: 11/13/2011 4:10:28 PM
All in life is timing and of course if one is not very attractive, successful or pleasant they are not going to be popular. You cant possibly give general answers as everyone is different.
Many are too fussy with what they desire and want it all when they have very little. Some people never fall in love and date very seldom. It is just their nature. Perhaps they are loners or just dont have the opportunities. SOme people need to have a partner around even if there is no real love and will settle......many scenarios....
 RockyDakota
Joined: 5/16/2011
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Posted: 11/13/2011 4:17:27 PM

I am nondateable because I cant date someone who I am not attracted to physically

That's not being undateable, that is your instincts. No one can date someone they are not attracted to, unless they are stringing someone along.
 redsox322
Joined: 11/3/2011
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Posted: 11/13/2011 4:23:21 PM
People say im too picky and get furious at me oh well. My issue and I know is that I am only attracted to clean shaven pretty boy types But I know Im not their type :( It sucks too. I cant help it its frustrating
 egowitch
Joined: 6/5/2011
Msg: 58
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Posted: 11/13/2011 4:29:00 PM
It seems that some people truly are "undateable" , as a result of either personal choices they've made , or the fact that they may be too "out of norm" - for all sorts of varied reasons, for most folks to even want to get close to ...

I don't believe everyone was meant to have a partner.
 RockyDakota
Joined: 5/16/2011
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Posted: 11/13/2011 4:40:30 PM

People say im too picky and get furious at me oh well. My issue and I know is that I am only attracted to clean shaven pretty boy types But I know Im not their type :( It sucks too. I cant help it its frustrating

There's a line that sometimes gets blurred between picky and what you like. Why do they call you picky? Is there only a certain height, hair color, social status, or "Kind" of person you'll date?

I'm not trying to ridicule you, so don't think that. All I'm trying to do is get a better understanding of why guys would say such a thing.
 redsox322
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Posted: 11/13/2011 5:10:04 PM
There are certain aspects but I cant help what I like. I cant negotiate on facial hair its not attractive to me. I cant date black guys im not attracted to them at all. I guess I am picky but why settle for someone when you know you are going to want to try to do better?
 RockyDakota
Joined: 5/16/2011
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Posted: 11/13/2011 5:16:22 PM
Fair enough. Are you sure you aren't willing to try someone like me? Kidding of course, but no you cannot help what you are attracted to. Just don't get what you like, being picky, and being too picky get mixed up. Some women do that.
 sschooly
Joined: 3/29/2011
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Posted: 11/13/2011 5:27:58 PM
"are some people non-datable?"

Sometimes being non-datable is a choice. I was after my divorce. I was completely content to enjoy my single status for quite a while. It was wonderful. I didn't want to date anyone. I just wanted to do my own thing and hang with my kids. I really didn't want to jump into a new relationship. Meeting new people was ok but I wouldn't agree to go on dates with anyone back then.
 ilovehistory
Joined: 8/12/2009
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Posted: 11/13/2011 6:11:01 PM

Sometimes being non-datable is a choice. I was after my divorce. I was completely content to enjoy my single status for quite a while. It was wonderful. I didn't want to date anyone. I just wanted to do my own thing and hang with my kids. I really didn't want to jump into a new relationship. Meeting new people was ok but I wouldn't agree to go on dates with anyone back then.


That doesn't make you non-dateable. Non-dateable means no one wants you because you have so little to offer. You were choosing not to date, despite people wanting you, so you were not non-dateable, you were not dating. Not the same thing.

Some people clearly do have so little to offer that no one will ever want them and that may be something they cannot change.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
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Posted: 11/13/2011 7:23:14 PM
does flat broke, or dirt poor qualify as undatable? if so i better give it up LOL
 BeckyRichfield
Joined: 4/24/2011
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Posted: 11/14/2011 8:38:23 PM
Woobytoodsay wrote:
Maybe we're like blood types.
O ~~ Universal donor, 47% of population
A ~~ 41%
B ~~ 9%
AB ~~ Universal receiver, 3%
Some personality types predominate, and mesh better with other types

This is a GREAT metaphor! I was trying to think about how to word how I felt about myself and this pretty much gets it. It's not that I'm picky, I'm just not a match with very many people--I know I push the envelope on quirky. I've done the best thing I could think of in moving from a rural mountaintop in Northern Nevada to a large metropolitan area. A more liberal place out of the Bubba country would have been better, but at least I have a chance here of finding my kind of crazy...
 joe__89
Joined: 4/13/2011
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Posted: 11/14/2011 10:19:07 PM
I know this is going to sound like I'm trying to get everyone's attention about how horrible my life is, but so what.

I'm 22, never had a GF, never had a date, never kissed... Mostly because of my social anxiety. I feel like the ugliest man on the planet. There are girls who show interest... but when they do, I stop talking with them and completely shun them in fear of rejection. It's terrible. I'm finding out that I'm just not dating material, and probably never will be. Like some other dude said, it's natural selection at work.
 BLoNde__ANgeL
Joined: 9/20/2011
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Posted: 11/15/2011 3:57:34 AM

Sometimes being non-datable is a choice. I was after my divorce. I was completely content to enjoy my single status for quite a while. It was wonderful. I didn't want to date anyone. I just wanted to do my own thing and hang with my kids. I really didn't want to jump into a new relationship. Meeting new people was ok but I wouldn't agree to go on dates with anyone back then

This is where I am at right now. This time of year is awkward to date, the days are short, it's cold in the N.E. during Winter. I need a break, & I won't agree to meet a soul until after V-day. Maybe I'm tired of disappointment, I dunno. The only way I'd date anyone now if I met them in real life & they seemed like a good match.
 macongtr
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Posted: 11/16/2011 5:49:40 PM
Apparently I am.
 devonbrown1
Joined: 9/29/2011
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Posted: 11/17/2011 12:19:47 PM
To me, if anyone is actually non-datable, it is probably because of their own issues. Low self-esteem, irrational expectations, narcissism, etc. Just my thought...
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
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Posted: 11/17/2011 4:13:33 PM
I've seen a lot of profiles of people who are undatable (women's profiles-don't know about the men's side). It's the women who display bitterness like a badge of honor. They have a long list of what they don't want in a man, and if they have a secondary list of what they do want in a man, it's a mile long that no man could ever match. I have no idea why they would even consider being on a dating web site if they have so much hatred of men.
 theforumfiend
Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 11/17/2011 11:11:59 PM
Trust me maleman999 that there are male profiles that are just as bad.

Do I believe there are undatable people? Yes. I know that I am not datable. I'm not into casual dating and no longer care to put into a relationship what it deserves so I've taken myself off the market. Will this be for a time or forever? I don't know yet.
 sschooly
Joined: 3/29/2011
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Posted: 11/20/2011 3:08:57 PM
^^ as someone told me, thebugisback, that's not un-dateable. It's you not wanting to date. There's a difference.
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