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 oneofakind33
Joined: 5/24/2007
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Dave632...
I couldn't of said it better myself.
So far "s to the b's" profile was the dumbest one I ever read.
I can't imagine any woman responding to that, no matter what her age is.

I just don't know why people feel the need to talk about things they know nothing about it.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 10/27/2009 5:24:19 PM

If my lady wanted to go there, I'd let her, and I'd try to pretend I was enjoying it, for her sake.

Please don't. Faking it is bad. Really bad. Since 90% of my enjoyment is based purely on my partner's responses.. I've had partner's do this and it purely takes ALL the fun out of it. I dislike being lied to. I'd rather hear "this isn't working for me, lets try something different" then "ooo baby!!".. especially if you aren't feeling it.

And I can promise you that a lover playing with your ass is NOTHING like a prostate exam given by a doctor. A prostate exam isn't supposed to be arousing.
 TOMic bomb
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 28
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/29/2009 3:57:37 PM
i've had a goodly handful of women voluntarily perform analingus on me without my asking. they wanted to please me and they were open in their sexual desires.

my problem.... a tongue rimming my ass or directly in amd out of my ass is so freakin relaxing and comforting that i do not maintain an erection. for me it's like a massage. i want to close my eyes and drift off to the twilight zone or even sleep!!!

am i the only one this happens to????????
 Mrpbody44
Joined: 10/21/2009
Msg: 29
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 11/4/2009 7:15:16 AM
One of my lady friends says " There is a whole nother world of sex in your ass"
She is right if done right it is alot of fun. The Latina ladies I know are into it in a big way. Again a cultural thing.
 MisterEd0950
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 30
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 6/28/2011 7:29:05 AM
I love the feeling of a huge dildo in my ass. 10x6 is about all I can handle comfortably.
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 6/28/2011 10:10:15 AM
I'm not into it. It's got nothing to do with any kind of "Gay" thing. For me, it's just way too intense and distracting.
 thevoice
Joined: 9/26/2007
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Posted: 6/28/2011 5:28:34 PM
I imagine some do and some don't, same as woman. Personally I don't , I get squimish.lol!
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 3/19/2012 11:41:13 AM

The only chance she is allowed to come near my ass is wen she sticks the enema machine tube in there. We give each other enema when we have time. We do it not for sex we do it because it is very healthy to spare our bodies from lots of bad stuff. For two days you don't shit or fart and your undies smell great. That is how good is it.

With or without the wine? You know frequent use of enemas is not healthy for your body.. right?
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 3/19/2012 11:48:28 AM

With or without the wine?


^^OMG I remember that thread...was hillarious!
 ControlledFolly
Joined: 2/17/2011
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Posted: 3/19/2012 1:19:39 PM
Dont have a great deal of experience tbh, its not a gay thing, im aware of the P spot etc, its just that whenever this happens i get distracted and loose my hardon, so never really bother exploring it that much, maybe not had the right partner for this yet. Not for or against it, just not much exposure to it and i feel no real need to experiment on myself.
 sunluver2
Joined: 9/21/2011
Msg: 36
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Posted: 3/22/2012 2:50:12 AM
exactly..... if it feels good why not do it
 arkerpay
Joined: 8/29/2009
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Posted: 3/22/2012 5:58:47 PM
isn't the definition of homosexual someone capable of loving someone of the same sex not a woman using a dildo or strap on to anally stimulate a man usually whilst also perfoming a bj thays not homosexual thats 2 consenting adults pleasing each other

 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 3/22/2012 6:05:12 PM

isn't the definition of homosexual someone capable of loving someone of the same sex not a woman using a dildo or strap on to anally stimulate a man usually whilst also perfoming a bj thays not homosexual thats 2 consenting adults pleasing each other

Yes.. but around here that's the same thing to many people. *rolls eyes*
 nononsense11
Joined: 4/25/2011
Msg: 39
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Posted: 11/26/2012 3:50:09 PM
my answer is yes... I am str8 but enjoy having my prostate massaged
 passion2pleaseaz
Joined: 8/23/2012
Msg: 40
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Posted: 12/5/2012 11:43:26 PM
i say maybe if its with the right situation and with the right person.
 HennyLopez
Joined: 10/2/2012
Msg: 41
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Posted: 12/8/2012 10:32:29 PM
Yay or nay? More like gay!
 Monarchski
Joined: 2/9/2012
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Posted: 12/10/2012 6:01:03 AM
My ex-wife tried that when we first got married and I was like "oh hell no" but as I got older I found I liked it when a woman would lick me there. It's not something I ask a woman to do but if she does it, bonus. LOL.
 grove_22
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 43
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Posted: 12/24/2012 12:40:42 PM
Some light penetration with a finger is ok. But nothing more than that though.
 RHW_007
Joined: 12/17/2012
Msg: 44
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Posted: 12/24/2012 2:08:21 PM
It depends on the partner. I've found that actually women have NOT wanted anal for themselves, so they will NOT want to do it to male...seems logical. However, it IS an errogenous zone and if you've dumped a big hard constipated one, you know your anus CAN spread that wide and not "break". I've recently experimented with it and while it DOES take your attention away from your penis for men and the vagina for women, it IS pleasurable for both sexes if done gently and with lubrication. It CAN feel great, but not likley to give a male an orgasm all on its own, and females should not neglect the man's penis which WILL shrivel up when anal sex is being penetrated thus it needs extra attention if you are going to do that.

But also remember whats good for goose is good for gander. To previous males that wanted to do anal with women, it is NOT fair to them to not allow them to put at least a small vibrator up your anus just for fun. Its not "gay" unless you also enjoy sucking another man's penis. If, like me, you enjoy the Vagina with Lips of Creation to munch and kiss and lick, then you're NOT "gay". PERIOD. imho anyhooo

Bob
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 45
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Posted: 12/24/2012 8:08:36 PM
Yes, I have used vibes & dildo in guys & they all loved it.
 NASH58
Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 46
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 12/27/2012 9:03:50 AM
if a lady likes Anal go for it men should always please a lady what ever she likes Tom
 Bondageguy420
Joined: 12/17/2012
Msg: 47
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Posted: 12/28/2012 10:34:34 AM
Hell yeah!!!! Bring on the strap on ladies
 trave11er
Joined: 8/15/2009
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Posted: 12/28/2012 8:13:12 PM
Nay. I'm one that believes that the anus was never intended for natural sex. Folks have managed to find all kinds of ways to achieve a heightened sense of arousal or intensity in climaxes. It doesn't mean it's healthy to engage in those activities. Just ask 'Grasshopper', RIP, when it appears he was attempting to somehow strangle himself just enough to get off in a very special way. He got off allright, off the ship called "life" alltogether!

Sure that is an extreme example, but it makes the point. Folks pursue sexual gratification in behavior that strays way off the path of what nature intended. To me it seems that once this is chosen it is a path that leads to all kinds of weirdness and potentially negative consequences. Certain strains of STD's are passed more readily through anal sex, and there is certainly an issue with what happens to the tissue of the anus and the part of the colon that is penetrated. This tissue was not intended for that type of activity. I guess some folks asses are able to handle it but I have talked to nurses who worked in E.R. and the damage they describe from their observations was not pretty at all.

Finally there is the fact that beyond the anus lies the home of "Mr. Poop". There is a comedienne that does a hilarious monologue about that and it is on YouTube if someone wanted to find it. But, to me the point she makes is that "if you go knockin' on that door Mr. Poop could well be at home and he belongs there, you are the one that is trespassing!" That alone is enough to turn me off to anal sex completely. If I found Mr. Poop where I was trying to stick my erect Mr. Penis, I am sure that erection would not last long. So, that is it for my, 'Nay' which they would not let me post just on it's own merit, thus I have added three paragraphs to 'Nay' to anal sex.
 XDM_40
Joined: 8/2/2008
Msg: 49
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 12/28/2012 8:25:54 PM
this thread makes me want to puke. i understand that some girls like it in the backdoor, but itll never come from me. im in absolute disgust right now. any guy that likes his backdoor penetrated is clearly gay or has some mental issues, childhood problems, or is confused horribly.

backdoors are for exit purposes only.
 ShelbySask4friend1
Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 12/29/2012 12:50:42 AM
Wow, holy unintelligent, ignorant gay comments Batman...

I find it amusing how individuals think of a man's penis going into another mans butt, and associate anything going into their butt as gay,lol...This speaks loud over tones of their intelligence and overall ignorance, like I said on top,lol...
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