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 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 189
How Easily Can You Detect Red FlagsPage 11 of 11    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11)
I know with 15 min..of any kind of conversations with them..people arent hard to figure out.
 MyHandsHurt
Joined: 4/9/2012
Msg: 191
How Easily Can You Detect Red Flags
Posted: 7/17/2012 1:52:26 PM
I had to be in the middle of date to see the flag:
Our first date was so much fun. In the middle of our second date, he disappears to get the waitress for some late night nibbles and then disappears, leaving me completely alone. Nothing indicated anything like that was going to happen.
The NEON RED FLAG was a message from him 10 days later, saying that if I were a good girl that he would "brutally fcuk me." I was to have such an honor if......

Our first date was so much fun. I was so hopeful, too.
 abmccray
Joined: 8/3/2008
Msg: 193
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How Easily Can You Detect Red Flags
Posted: 7/17/2012 2:23:30 PM
I typically only need a few pictures, or a Facebook page, at the most.
 HappinessOK
Joined: 7/19/2009
Msg: 194
How Easily Can You Detect Red Flags
Posted: 7/17/2012 3:01:08 PM
I spot red flags within the first few conversations with someone.. sometime unfailrly though.. but thats all I look for these days as I've been lied to so many times and have no patience anymore. Red Flags tend to show up pretty quickly when you are aware!
 bamagrl68
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 195
How Easily Can You Detect Red Flags
Posted: 7/17/2012 4:13:19 PM
ohbiteme61- I've used the term red flag, but I'm not anymore because I've finally realized that the term is a dead horse, beat to death.
Let's just say I have a finely tuned bs meter and leave it at that ;)
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