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 jcrew617
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 42
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.Page 2 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)
Tell her that you just want to casually hook up with her once in a while and that you don't want to be in a relationship.

She probably just doesn't want stalkers.
 carolann0308
Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 43
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Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/13/2009 9:37:09 AM
I'd say you'd have to ask the uterus free skank yourself. She is probably the only one that has the right answer to that one.
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 44
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/13/2009 2:05:24 PM
PINEAPPLE JUICE
Drank in copious amounts the week of your 'date' 4 out of 5 give a call back ;)
Want that fifth one? gonna have to go down and return the favor
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 45
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/13/2009 2:09:14 PM
Ever heard of the One Night Stand? Many times the one that does not want to turn it into a relationship IS the woman. Not the man. So face it, you're just a piece of sausage that was used for your body.

However. Consider yourself lucky. If she can go to being sexually attracted so fast, and then cold, more than likely she has done this before. And there's no problem with the sex part, but the lack protection part. I could assure you that your dipstick would require medical intervention if you had gone there.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 47
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/13/2009 6:02:57 PM

I carefully reread your post, and you don't say that you reciprocated.

She did, you didn't, she's gone.


Are you psychic? Do you know the girl in question?

The vast majority of women I've dated didn't care for getting oral.

This whole "sex should be fair" thing going around POF is really starting to irritate me.

No wonder so many people are such terrible lovers.

-8sf8
 robfish
Joined: 11/14/2006
Msg: 50
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/13/2009 11:11:19 PM
Maybe her first date with you left a funny taste in her mouth (pun intended)!
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 51
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/14/2009 7:02:34 AM

She didn't like your penis. It was a pity fellatio.

Gwen! That's awesome - for some reason I just shot coffee out of my nose.

My response to the OP mirrors Message 14.

You got head with no strings - and may even have gotten away without catching anything. What's the problem again?
 PiggyT
Joined: 9/14/2009
Msg: 52
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/14/2009 7:06:14 AM

But, honestly how many men do you know that would turn down a blow job?


I know one.... he's the pig in the mirror!
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 53
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/14/2009 7:28:50 AM
1. I don't believe this happened. I think it's a story the OP made up
simply to post in the forums.
2. I have no idea why he decided to post this other than to give people
the option to bash someone they don't even know...and cannot hear
her side. (if there is one)
c. Not only do people turn the dating scene into some sort of head hunting
job w/interview experience....now we've got to turn sex into something
disgusting and pig like.
Cripes...no wonder there are so many single people out there.
Maybe she just used you for a few minutes....and then realized she'd
wasted both her time and yours.
Who knows.






The vast majority of women I've dated didn't care for getting oral.


At last, a man that admits his shortcomings.
Just when I was giving up hope.

 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 54
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/14/2009 9:01:51 AM
I know, the insults being slung at this woman are unfair, to say the least. HE allowed this woman to put this****in her mouth--what does that make HIM?! Hm???
I personally think she just didn't like what she saw or whatever, who cares why she doesn't like you? You don't really sound like you give a shit anyway--about the human person who had the mouth that sucked your****


She was just being polite.

I'm trying to convince all women that it's only polite to give a bj on a first date.

Tell them it's traditional, too!
 WalkingInLondon
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 55
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/14/2009 2:34:50 PM
You want the truth? She liked you enough to want to give you a sexual 'test drive'. She was horny and ready to rock, so much so, that she was ready to go for it bareback.

Then she saw your**** and to keep from hurting your feelings, she gave you a blowjob, you were nice enough to let her 'know before the blow' and it was all well and good.

She's not returning your calls or texts because you aren't the right size for a FB or sexual partner. It may not even be the size, it could be the smell or taste, or whatever, but you just aren't her sexual cup of tea.

Move on to the next lady, and don't sweat it.

And as for all the comments about what a skank this woman must be, blah blah blah, he accepted head from her on the first date, so what does that make him? Quit being so sexist.

Beth
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 57
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/14/2009 4:42:15 PM
I posted:

"The vast majority of women I've dated didn't care for getting oral.
This whole "sex should be fair" thing going around POF is really starting to irritate me.
No wonder so many people are such terrible lovers."



maybe it's you who are is a terrible lover and THAT'S why the majority of women you dated didn't care for getting oral.....

just a thought


They told me this before we ever got physical.

Most of them liked to be spanked, liked anal, and had a fetish about giving oral too.

So if you're not into that, does that mean you've got rigity issues and you're a prude?

What an idiotic post.

When women on here say they don't like giving oral, that doesn't mean something is wrong with them. That is their preferences.

What I find most ironic and amusing is that the most sexually boring, vanilla people on POF seem to be the ones who are the most entrenched in this retarded fukcing idea that sex should be fair.

If "fair" is not satisfying one or both people, then "fair" is not the answer.

Am I getting through?

And be honest - how many cats do you have? I would be over 10.



ummm...maybe it's because you are no good at it. i've found that the vast majority of men don't have a clue when it comes to oral and most are just bad at it. you probably are one of them


If I give you a twinkie, will you go away and stop stalking my forum posts? Maybe a ho-ho?



Maybe her first date with you left a funny taste in her mouth (pun intended)!


There could be some truth to this. Guys...how many guy friends off the top of your head do you know who ended things with a girl because of how her vag smells? It happens all the time.


The vast majority of women I've dated didn't care for getting oral.


At last, a man that admits his shortcomings.

How is that HIS short coming? Because the women he dates don't like oral? It happens. They exist. I don't like oral. It has nothing to do with the guy giving it.


And, as usual, once a beautiful woman backs me up that no, I am not crazy, and yes, all women have different tastes, I stop getting attacked.

Freakin' classic.

I think that the replies to my post on why so many people are bad lovers speak for themselves. A lot of people assume that men and women all like the same thing, or that because they like something, someone else ought to as well.

Lame and boring.... at least in my opinion.

-8sf8
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 59
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/14/2009 5:01:27 PM
^^^ I completely agree.

I honestly think a lot of the problems people have in relationships are the expectations they think they -should- have. These expectations come from outside sources.

Like... "everyone" just "knows" than you're supposed to do xyz....

I think that if people were just a little bit more introspective, braver, and willing to figure out just what makes both parties happy, there'd be a lot less relationship issues these days.

I believe that part of the problem is the information overload these days. 100 years ago, we didn't have romantic comedies and advice columns telling people what they should be doing or feeling. People figured it out for themselves.

It seems ironic that these days when people are even more varied, and there are more ways for a person to be unique and diversified, we get more standards and status quos for living and relationships.

It's really kind of a strange state of affairs.

-8sf8
 dddiesel
Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 62
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/15/2009 7:37:59 AM
i tend to think if shes that way on the first date her dance card is full and you will have to wait your turn for round 2
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 63
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/15/2009 9:01:22 AM
I can't belive this stupid post made it this far
BUMPER!

Frig. Me, too.
 BlueEyedMermaid
Joined: 2/15/2010
Msg: 64
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 8/21/2010 6:46:02 AM
you contradicted yourself. Is she a sleaze for first date sex or an adult who can get laid when and where she wants?

Men and women think differently so I wouldn't advise another man on a woman's behavior, always ask a woman!
 summer1717
Joined: 8/14/2010
Msg: 65
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 8/21/2010 10:54:11 AM
Several different possible reasons. She was embarrassed. She was married or had a boyfriend. Your c-ck was too small for her. She was only interested in a 1-night stand etc.
 _Icon_
Joined: 5/18/2008
Msg: 66
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 8/21/2010 11:08:26 AM
This thread is interesting.

If you like to have sex on the first date you are defective. If you don't like to have sex on the first date, you are also defective. This difficult situation only applies to women, so figure it out girls! It's all your fault.
 forums1
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 67
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 8/21/2010 11:17:39 AM

This thread is interesting.

If you like to have sex on the first date you are defective. If you don't like to have sex on the first date, you are also defective. This difficult situation only applies to women, so figure it out girls! It's all your fault.


But wait, didn't a former president tell us that a BJ isn't "sex"... well, depending on what your definition of the word "is" is?
 Codeguru
Joined: 9/29/2009
Msg: 68
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Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 8/22/2010 3:36:29 AM
Because she found someone with a bigger**** That's the problem with women who put out so easily, sexual acts are meaningless to them so you really can't tell where they stand...

Codeguru
 karma1160
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 69
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 8/23/2010 1:01:03 PM
Uff da lol, I would say either she was drunk, lonely and thought you would change your mind about the condom or she was a serial dater.
Either way, kneel down and kiss the ground!!!!!!!!
It's done you don't have to try and make up some lame story about why you can't see her anymore.
Nobody but children behave this way bud.
 karma1160
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 70
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 8/23/2010 1:04:11 PM
Don't be such a pushover, figure out what you want and go for it.
Oh and by the way you can get stuff from oral.
 davem241966
Joined: 5/3/2010
Msg: 71
 SilentInk
Joined: 3/20/2010
Msg: 72
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 8/24/2010 1:22:19 PM
Maybe the disgust of sucking on a random strangers penis caught up with her...beats me.
 Dare to
Joined: 2/11/2009
Msg: 73
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 8/24/2010 4:34:32 PM

It is usually a pretty bad sign when there is that much sex on the first date.

I would say she is a pig.
Lets see.. If the girl has sex with the guy and doesn't take his call the next day, she's a pig (or something similar) because she wanted a one nighter.. But according to most other threads in this forum.. If HE doesn't call her the next day she should just suck it up because "it was just sex" and she should get over it???

The old... "She's a slut for having a one night stand, but he's a bloke so it's ok" thing rearing it's ugly head again....sigh
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