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 Chill Pill
Joined: 6/5/2010
Msg: 99
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.Page 4 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)
"""" I want more than that and do feel used."""

OP... Are YOU really a woman? I've never heard a man say that before. Never.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 100
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/3/2010 8:07:10 AM

I mention this because nothing happened that would have offended


ok man- you don't get it....this girl wanted someone (you) to really screw her 6 ways from Sunday.

you were too nice for what turns her on.

how can you be worried about offending her considering she basically gave you free sex?

she either likes many sexual partners OR is looking for one that really rolls her eyes in the back of her head.

either way- you were not prepared and gave her no real pleasure...she decided to move onto the next one that would.

just curious OP- did you do anything to please her sexually? i mean she wanted your to pound her, you told her no- then she blows you, right?

did you go down on her?
did you find something like a beer bottle or your free hands to get up in her?

or were you just selfish, took the BJ and go on about your business thinking that you should get it for free without giving back in return from this hot blooded thing?
 sunbeach95
Joined: 9/27/2010
Msg: 101
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 102
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/5/2010 11:51:24 PM
She gave you a blowie and didnt call the next day?

You do relize that is the end game state for many here ?
 Ineedyounow35
Joined: 9/20/2010
Msg: 103
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/6/2010 12:54:41 PM
Can I have her number? Heck, I would of asked her to marry me after wards, but of course only if she is a real woman. Then again, I probably would be considered to" small "for her, as some of the posters seem to think that may be the reason for her not calling the OP back Either way, I don't understand what the OP is complaining about, but I probably would understand if his date complained. Sounds like some one was being selfish in this situation and was only concerned about their own needs. If you expect to get a call the next day or for her to answer your call the next day, it would be a good idea to "help" her out since she was willing to "help" you out.

 jamie9562
Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 104
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/7/2010 3:21:12 AM
is this a post asking what the perfect date would be? it's not? whoops,,,mybad
 nate2110
Joined: 7/4/2010
Msg: 105
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/9/2010 12:42:12 AM
"I don't understand what the OP is complaining about"

Well I guess you missed the part they had a blast before the BJ and OP obviously liked this woman...

Reality is this woman is a nutcase supreme and OP has become another "weird guy" she had a "horrible date" with..

This one really does take the cake.
 hereindixie
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 106
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/29/2010 6:10:33 AM
boy this is a mean bunch. i say look at what went down. something went wrong some where. i i was give such a wounderful treat ,and it would be, i better be getting something back. maybe you need to invest in some porn to sharpen up on your skills.
why is it that a man can take it when ever but a women is a slut. bullsh-- time have changed and i do know why women don't like it. they are threatened. but men whats your prom. she should be a dream. so get with it we don't live in old times any more. times are a changing.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 107
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/29/2010 12:27:43 PM
So you wouldn't f**k her and now she has rejected you. Damn that was mighty male of her!
So what's the deal? She told you what the deal was, you're not what she is looking so it won't work out.
 Fun4usguy
Joined: 10/18/2010
Msg: 108
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/30/2010 8:46:11 AM
Safe sex is not just the fact that you don't have intercourse.
Keep that in mind.
There was a woman in the 1990's near my town who made BIG new!
Going around and being generous giving LIP SERVICE.
Yep, a few cases of HIV / AIDS for a few minutes of glory, and the reward is .........?

Has nothing to do with the OP but food for thought for all who still don't have the facts straight.
 animatedone
Joined: 11/17/2010
Msg: 109
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 12/3/2010 1:02:22 AM
its' called buyer's remorse. She obviously got caught up in the moment and now the next step is intercourse, so she's backed off.
 wgb2563
Joined: 6/20/2009
Msg: 110
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 12/6/2010 7:31:13 PM
BJ on the first date! No thank you! I find it so sickening. A woman with good merit and self respect would not even consider doing that to a stranger regardless of how physically attracted that man can be. Right there, was a good signed that she was not the right one for you. Consequently if she was willing to that on her first dates, it makes you wonder if perhaps she does the same thing to all men that she meets. It's time for you to moved on and stop wasting your time thinking of her.
 mingo88
Joined: 10/12/2010
Msg: 111
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Posted: 12/11/2010 9:21:41 PM
I am a women and I met a guy on this site for the first time . The first turned into the last.
This guy came over had his hands all over me....I got up and walk away....when I turned around to see what he was doing I was shocked. He was sitting on my couch jerking himself off. I kicked him out.....as he was leaving he asked if we could get together the next day. I told him when hell freezes over.....then he emailed me and wanted to know why I didn't want to see him. I told him...I didn't expect the first time we met to be him jerking himself off on my couch. Anyone interested in a leather couch.......lol.
I have met a lot of guys who seem to looking for just a piece of ass and that is not what I'm looking for. No-one is serious in this site........at least I haven't met anyone yet . I am a widow...not a rich or horny widow. ....I'm lonely.


sooo.....he took IT out?? just like that Seinfeld episode, wow!!! sounds like a true pervert.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 112
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 12/11/2010 9:24:42 PM

and PULEEEZE don't call her a pig... geesh... guys complain about everything... a girl gives a bj on a first date and she's a pig... these double standards drive me nuts...

I think the same thing every time I wander in to read this thread.

Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.

The only one who could truly answer that is her. I'm wondering if she was maybe embarrassed. Maybe she felt comfortable at the time, yet was later upset with her decision. Maybe not, and we'll never know. JMO
 forums1
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 113
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 12/11/2010 11:21:04 PM

I am a women and I met a guy on this site for the first time . The first turned into the last.
This guy came over had his hands all over me....I got up and walk away....when I turned around to see what he was doing I was shocked. He was sitting on my couch jerking himself off. I kicked him out.....as he was leaving he asked if we could get together the next day. I told him when hell freezes over.....then he emailed me and wanted to know why I didn't want to see him. I told him...I didn't expect the first time we met to be him jerking himself off on my couch. Anyone interested in a leather couch.......lol.
I have met a lot of guys who seem to looking for just a piece of ass and that is not what I'm looking for. No-one is serious in this site........at least I haven't met anyone yet . I am a widow...not a rich or horny widow. ....I'm lonely.


I *SERIOUSLY* hope you don't invite guys over to your house for a "first meet" all the time. There's a reason a first meet should be in a neutral place... lest you invite a rapist or murderer into your house (and now, of course, you've posted that you invite guys over - alone - to your place). Please, please, please use some caution!
 mingo88
Joined: 10/12/2010
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Posted: 12/12/2010 2:00:24 PM
i agree with Forums1....why on earth would you invite a stranger to your home on a first date?? that is very disturbing and dangerous!! what are you using for brains i wonder?? you are lucky he didn't rape you or maybe even murder you!! next time use better judgement.
 coastcity
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 115
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Posted: 12/12/2010 7:18:52 PM
Maybe that was all she was looking for. Maybe she met another man with a larger penis.
 mitchmc
Joined: 1/26/2008
Msg: 116
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 12/12/2010 10:42:00 PM
She just wanted sex buddy. Same way guys use women. Sorry. Also, was she drunk? If she was and really horny, she could have been embarrassed the next day. Also she could have felt rejected by you for not giving her what she initially asked for.

She sounds like an uneducated slut though. Come on. In this day and age you're going to have sex with some skank who wants it on the first date, not caring about HIV, HERPES, or other sexually transmitted diseases?
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 12/31/2010 11:45:04 AM

Seriously Why would you give a head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.


Are YOU talking to ME ? Or ARE you TALKING to ME ?
I always gave a head on a first date, a Bimbo Head so it is not a big DEAL.
You bet I ignore calls after that for the reason I don't want to hear complains or "what."......
Vannili aka Robert(ta) De Niro
 sunwater
Joined: 12/27/2010
Msg: 118
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 12/31/2010 5:34:10 PM
Perhaps that was the only thing she wanted. Perhaps your c0ck was too small for her. Perhaps she was abducted by aliens.
 majyk1
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 119
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 1/4/2011 2:23:28 PM
She was test driving the 'car' to see if it was worth buying...
Guess she found out it was a POS from POF.
 eastwood969
Joined: 12/21/2009
Msg: 120
Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 1/4/2011 6:15:49 PM
Give this wild woman my number, I love easy dates. A woman like that doesn't have a problem finding men and she probably has met some with gigantic penises. She is more into kink than relationships. She got what she wanted and now it's over. I wouldn't be complaining about it. I would just accept that she isn't your typical date. She may have dates lined up for the rest of the week, call you up later and repeat the same process. She brings a new meaning to the phrase girls just want to have fun.
 Cdn_Iceman
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 121
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Posted: 1/4/2011 6:49:46 PM
Boy this is a first, guy meets girl, she honks on his bobo on the first night? okay
she wants guy to dip in banana in her pancake batter but you have no protections and she wants to anyways and she honks on your bobo and she doesnt call you back?

And you are surprised and wants to know why she did what she did?
 tizzabelle
Joined: 8/20/2010
Msg: 122
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Posted: 2/4/2011 12:01:45 AM

Boy this is a first, guy meets girl, she honks on his bobo on the first night? okay
she wants guy to dip in banana in her pancake batter but you have no protections and she wants to anyways and she honks on your bobo and she doesnt call you back?




So; did you take sex ed. classes in the clown academy, or cooking school?

On topic, I think I agree with some of the posters from the first page. The op probably got off lucky if a blow job is all he got that night.
 motown cowgirl
Joined: 6/30/2010
Msg: 123
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Posted: 2/4/2011 3:13:41 AM
god i love the title of this thread. that's all we need.... just the title. thanks.
my day is now complete and it's only 6am.
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