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Joined: 5/18/2008
Msg: 126
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If I want to kiss him, I'll kiss him. I dont care if its the first date or the fifteenth or if we have never even been out before.

If I don't want to kiss him, why is he wasting his time with me?
 Sag Man
Joined: 5/20/2008
Msg: 127
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 6/30/2008 3:51:26 AM
As far as I'm concerned, if and I did say "if" you get that feeling like you just can't wait to kiss that other person kinda of feeling, than you SHOULD kiss. Also, I'm NOT 25 years old. I NEED to move forward (if there is an attraction) in the dating scene/relationship . I want to know if the woman I'm with on that date can kiss. More importantly, when she kisses ME, does that kiss make me toes curl. I know when I kiss a women...I'm sending all the passion in my body to my lips to hers.

I don't what to get stuck with nor waste my time on another "cold-fish". She's got to be receptive with the kiss or she's not worth it (sorry). That's the way it HAS to be. Too many "fish in the sea" to be wasting time on a frog.
 hopeful_73
Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 128
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 6/30/2008 4:42:03 AM
The whole idea about not kissing on a first date falls under the category of today's stupid "dating rules" people want to create for themselves. Its stupid to even ponder a thing like this. If youre on a date, youre doing so to see if theres chemistry. If there is, why in the world would you stifle it by restricting yourself? We're not getting any younger...go for the kiss!!!!
 andy_mo
Joined: 2/24/2008
Msg: 129
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kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/1/2008 4:03:08 PM
It absolutely depends.
 northwoods57
Joined: 7/17/2007
Msg: 130
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/1/2008 4:13:29 PM
you kiss on the first date and a nice hug..if you had a good time!
Depends on how YOU feel toward him.
If you enjoyed yourself, initiate the kiss..on the cheek, but make it nice! And tell him, we need to do this again..the date that is!
or on the mouth.....but dont make it a I WANT YOU in my pants!! kiss.
If HE initiates the kiss, and you like him...give a gentle kiss on the mouth. NO TONGUE!
that is sexual.
If you feel horny toward him, a little rub of the breast against him..but beware this can drive him away or give him the wrong impression.
go with your gut! Women are good at that.
 Amanda J A N E
Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 131
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/1/2008 4:17:23 PM
yes kissing on the cheek!! just depends if you really like the person

that like asking

sex on the 1st date

well im locked down likr fort knox,, Aint nobody getting in!!
 SweetnessInFlorida
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 132
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/1/2008 4:50:40 PM
wellllll its really a matter of preference, some people are more old fashioned and prefer 2 wait, while others want 2 act on the chemistry straight away, and both is ok!!!

though kissing in itself is tame compared 2 what these youngins do on the first date nowdays,,,,,,not that id know firsthand (innpcent smile)
 lostintheshuffle
Joined: 5/8/2008
Msg: 133
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/8/2008 4:37:18 PM
I say yes unless I want the person to just be a friend. I had a first date with one woman that made out with me to a point I couldn't get away from her. Then four days later when I was wondering what I did wrong... she told me she doesn't kiss on the first date and she broke her rule. She said she felt horrible for breaking her own rule and couldn't speak with me without feeling horrible.

Lame...
 ils99
Joined: 5/30/2008
Msg: 134
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/8/2008 5:37:14 PM
I don't usually like any physical contacts on a first date, whether or not we "click", so kissing is out of the question. It just grosses me out. There have been one or two times when I did allow the occasional petting but usually no.

I once decided to meet this 29 year old (don't know what I was thinking) and at the end of the date he insisted we give each other a "goodbye kiss". It was a kiss on the lips too. Eurgh. Needless to say I haven't spoken to him ever again after that date.
 Boo19722
Joined: 4/30/2008
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Posted: 7/8/2008 5:49:30 PM
I say if the chemistry is there, why not. You can learn a lot about a person by the way they kiss.

Besides, kissing is just fun!
 Blue Eyed Vegas Guy
Joined: 10/30/2007
Msg: 136
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/8/2008 10:47:22 PM
Well I would like to distinguish between the "first meeting" and the "first date."

On a first meeting, a nice warm hug handshake at the beginning and a nice warm hug at the end if all goes well is fine.

Once you progress to the first date, I think certainly if you are both feeling really good about things then why not share a kiss? Heck you might even share it before the end of the date! It just depends on the comfort level of the people involved.

Also, never ask if you can kiss! Just do it!
 indehills
Joined: 2/23/2008
Msg: 137
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:00:13 PM

yes or no?

Yes, definitely.
 CCsMom
Joined: 4/9/2008
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Posted: 7/9/2008 11:57:16 AM
Kissing - Yes

Getting slobbered on, tasting what the guy had for dinner, getting mauled or pawed on or otherwise uncomfortably groped - NO!

I will happily accept a hug/kiss from a guy if the attraction is M-U-T-U-A-L. However most guys dont pay much attention to notice whether Im into them or not before they move in for the kill. UGH!
 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
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Posted: 7/10/2008 12:06:45 AM
Yes.I see nothing wrong with kissing on the first date.
 lookin4one2
Joined: 12/30/2007
Msg: 140
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/10/2008 12:45:37 AM
Yep, I think a small kiss on the first date is appropriate, as the body language in that kiss can generally be an indicator of whether to ask for another date. Very easy to pick being "kissed off"
 kariharte
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 141
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/10/2008 12:58:35 AM
It really depends on the chemistry.

I did learn from one guy who kissed me goodnite at my car that my responsive kiss lead him to believe I was more into him than I was.

What can I say? I like to kiss and he was pretty good at it and I was not completely sure as to how the date went.

Later when he kept pushing me for a second date (to the point of telling me he had a date with someone else, which he later said never happened), I was decided he wasn't for me.

But that one kiss had him going for months.

So maybe kissing on the first meeting/date is not a great idea.

LOL
 androgynousvon
Joined: 7/5/2008
Msg: 142
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/10/2008 10:46:35 AM
I love kissing if I'm attracted to the person, so yes!
 Ms.Sweet Sinful Seduction
Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 143
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/10/2008 10:55:34 AM
Sure, if the feeling is right but admittedly, the last date I was on, I could have done without the kissing, I was grossed out, lol.
 ripley65
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 144
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Posted: 7/10/2008 1:19:59 PM

kissing on the first date?



Sure thing! If the date went really well and theres an obvious mutual attraction, then heck yeah!
 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 145
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/10/2008 1:31:51 PM
If both parties want to kiss and be kissed, yes.

But I HATE turning my head to avoid an unsolicited kiss and the idiot can't read body language.
 TexasHappy
Joined: 7/3/2008
Msg: 146
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/10/2008 1:39:26 PM
Oh absolutely a yes if there is a mutual attraction !
 fritzle
Joined: 7/7/2008
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Posted: 7/11/2008 4:49:52 AM
This was the perfect thread for me because I've been thinking about what I'm going to do in this situation...hopefully! LOL! I'm too old and life is too short to not kiss on the first date, but I would have to be thinking there's going to be a second date coming up. I guess I also think that if I'm going to go out with them on a first date then I'm going to feel comfortable kissing them too. Let's face it, it's either there or it isn't and granted you do meet and there isn't much there, but you have a pretty good idea before you even meet or you wouldn't bother in the first place. Right? BTW, some of these answers have really cracked me up!
 Kickin Back 2008
Joined: 5/12/2008
Msg: 148
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Posted: 7/14/2008 8:44:11 PM
Ok, so I must eat my own words. Yes, I confess there was a guy that the connection was there to the point that kissing (and no, Not on the cheek) did occur. I guess what it all boils down to is that while it is preference, sometimes people have such an affect on you that you are in the moment and just go for it.
 sahasrara10
Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 149
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:14:42 PM
It depends on the guy. If I know right away that I like him, I will kiss him if he tries. But, I dated a guy for about 2 weeks before I kissed him (and we saw each other often). He was different than the usual guy I date and I wasn't sure if I was attracted to him that way, even though he was very nice.
 classyNYwoman
Joined: 2/14/2008
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kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/15/2008 5:08:52 AM
if there is the necessary chemistry..I will def dive in for your lips..I hope he will too..lol
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