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 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 10
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I would take him at his word ...you have checked him out .. he is high ranked in the military .. they have high honorable self discipline ..he well aware that any charge of sexual misconduct will result in detriment to his career..as well as possible court marshal ... he wants to maximize his chances with you so he wants to have you as his guest in his house ... go and I hope that you are so intrigued by him that you do want to have sex with him before yur trip ends ..or maybe your trip wont end ... there are men of honor ..and the military is a great place to find them .. yes I have spent the night with women before ..Just kissing and what resulted was not the blue balls but a deep affection ... I have also agreed to a date where sex would not be involved ..and before the date was over we had both changed our mind ..and we decided to have sex and what resulted from this date was also a deep affection ... actually I ended up married to the date who gave in to sex ...logistics demand compromise sometimes in this day of global dating ...dont pass up on the possibility of meeting your soul mate just because of logistics .... you seem to have done your investigating ... now go and have fun...im convinced that if you stay with him and you do have sex it will be because you want to .. or you could agree to leave the decision on the hotel room till after the date
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 11
i just want to kiss you.......all night long !!! RIGHT...................
Posted: 10/17/2009 3:52:44 AM

A man of honor, a gentleman, would not insist a women who has just met him stay in his home. He would not offer to pay for her travel but refuse to pay for a hotel for her.



im going to bet that if she sticks to her guns he will pay for the hotel ... every one haggles whether for affection or buying a car


I take it you've never been in the military LMAO. You're kidding, right?



yes I have been in the military and there are all the types in there ..you mentioned .. and the undesirables do get the press ...it has been a long time since I was in the service ..but i still think the honorable ones far out number the trash
 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 12
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i just want to kiss you.......all night long !!! RIGHT...................
Posted: 10/17/2009 8:05:59 AM
Did he specify WHAT PART OF YOU he wants to kiss?
 farscapeprincess
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 13
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Posted: 10/17/2009 9:17:24 AM
Even though you've verified his identity, I would still book that room in the Hilton. Hey, you've got the points to cover it for free. It's really better that way because you'll feel more comfortable. Tell him that you still want to meet in a public place first because after all, the only thing you have to go on is e-mail and pictures. You might decide that there is no chemistry after having done all that e-mailing. It might be the same with him. You might get a creepy vibe from him. Or he may be the great guy that he has represented himself to be. BUT, I wouldn't believe for a minute that all he wants to do is kiss especially since he has been without for so long. He is looking for more than kissing.
 ColonelIngus
Joined: 9/16/2007
Msg: 14
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Posted: 10/17/2009 10:09:43 AM

Oh please, you have up the typical hoochie mama pics & you are confused because he wants sex.

Geez go peddle your bs story somewhere else.

Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding!

Wazhiz has it right. Would you really want him if he didn't have sex on the brain, seeing as how you're basically asking for it?
I mean, how weird would that be?
 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 15
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Posted: 10/17/2009 10:27:19 AM
My guess is is he interpreting your not believing him is a sting on his honour and integrity.

Get a hotel incase what you both feel from your online exchanges doesn't translate to real life. Nothing is worse than being trapped with someone you don't want to be. A room protects both of you from that happening and has nothing to do with his honour or lack of it.

One can always cancel a few nights if it works out that way.
 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 16
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Posted: 10/17/2009 10:47:27 AM
Um, kiss you where????



 ChancesRMD
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 18
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Posted: 10/17/2009 5:09:22 PM
Getting a hotel room might not be the safety net everyone is making it out to be. If you are going to meet this guy and you both have real or imaginary feelings towards one another you very well could end up in one bed or the other anyway.

So what if you did agree to visit him at his house? Exactly what/where is "his house" anyway? Does he have hs own place? Does he live with others? If things didn't pan out couldn't you take a cab to a hotel? If you paid for a hotel and ended up staying at his plac by choice, that's not a wise use of tmoney anyway.

Maybe you could tell him you will reserve the room (so he at least knows you have options). If you are happy with the way things are going, then just cancel the room when you get there. Check with the hotel for cancellation requirements.
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 10/19/2009 6:50:57 PM
wazhiz on 10/17/2009 709 AM
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Message: Oh please, you have up the typical hoochie mama pics & you are confused because he wants sex.

Geez go peddle your bs story somewhere else.

i think its hilarious ( and predictable ) that the few ppl that have knocked my photos are the same ones who look like THEY couldnt get a date if they stood on their heads i have trouble believing anyone would pay for a ticket for them, they'd probably pay them to LEAVE. you know who u are !!!

i say : if ive got it : i should flaunt it and NO : dressin sexy does NOT mean i'm askin for sexual activity ! you ignorant hags prolly think every woman who dresses provocative and gets raped "deserves" it or "asked" for it. that thinkin went out in the 60's , yall ! get with the times
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 20
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Posted: 10/19/2009 6:53:13 PM
Generally I have found that the woman sets the rules and men wait to see what the possibilies are. Since it is long distance I'm wondering if it works out, would you move there to be with him? Just curious.

yes, i would ! in a heartbeat
 WasabiGal
Joined: 8/10/2009
Msg: 21
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Posted: 10/20/2009 1:53:28 AM
Post Deployment sex with a sure thing is every soldier's first plan.
Glad you'll take on for the team and pretend it's potentially long term love!
God Bless the Supporters of our Military!
Thanks!
Mother of an Army Officer.


Hear hear!!!!
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