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Joined: 3/6/2008
Msg: 30
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Really need some advice!!Page 3 of 3    (1, 2, 3)
^^^^ Well unless they're unzipping and waving it at you before your ready.. what is the point of this thread? You know your boundaries and limits so.. be true to them.

Live well and prosper!

.. Case closed ..

P.S. The fear is still a problem you should seriously consider getting addressed.. I believe it probably will manifest other problems within your relationship(s) at some point.
Joined: 4/24/2008
Msg: 36
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Really need some advice!!
Posted: 10/23/2009 4:46:14 PM
See a sex therapist regarding the issue.
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 45
Really need some advice!!
Posted: 11/8/2009 5:26:23 PM

Things happened when I was younger that has put me off willies.

Have you addressed these issues? If not, it would probably be in your best interest to do so. It may be the core to your issue with men/sex..........
Joined: 9/8/2009
Msg: 50
Really need some advice!!
Posted: 11/8/2009 9:24:00 PM
I agree with something that was said by someone on the first page of your answers.... if you had some experience when you were younger to make you shutter touching a man, then you really do need professional help. I feel your problem may be more deep and needs real help, not the kind you can get on here, sorry. I love to touch and love to be touched and if I ever had a problem with doing that, I would certainly get real professional help.
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