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Joined: 10/25/2009
Msg: 55
Why women have more sexual prospects..Page 4 of 4    (1, 2, 3, 4)
Look at men, ... they can have more sexual prospects ... if [they]stopped making the 1st move.
OMG! Dude, why do you think there is such a hot porn/hooker/sex industry? It's because men are more easily stimulated by external stimuli. THAT is why they are the "consumers" (by and large) and women are the vendors. In other words .... we got it ... you want it!
Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 56
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Posted: 11/1/2009 4:08:59 PM
So, what is the role of testosterone?
Joined: 8/17/2009
Msg: 58
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Posted: 11/1/2009 7:31:45 PM
I agree with BoredGuy18. Since time began, the men have been the "askers" and the women have been the "wait to be askeders." The sexual revolution supposedly changed all that but then why to all the women's mags I read still tell us to wait for the man to ask us out? They state that if a man doesn't feel like he is in control he will lose interest. (I've tried it both ways and I get the same results.) I have no idea what that guy is talking about though: I don't view a man as simply a sexual prospect and I don't have 10 men emailing me everyday. Even when I email them first!
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 60
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Posted: 11/1/2009 7:34:16 PM
Just curious, OP, what is your point in posting this?
Joined: 4/8/2009
Msg: 61
Why women have more sexual prospects..
Posted: 11/1/2009 7:40:20 PM
one reason women have more prospects is because men sleep with women theyre not attracted enough to to date, women dont. so essentially women get to play in their own league, and also fish out of their league.
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 62
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Posted: 11/1/2009 7:45:36 PM
[men do not use sex as a means for leveraging a commitment.]

True! Men use hints at commitment to get laid!

Truth is, things have changed, in many ways. Truth also is, they haven't changed as much as we tell ourselves they have.

This could turn into a lengthy discussion/dissection of societal norms, feminism, etc., but the thread title was aimed at sexual prospects. Women have more sexual prospects for the simple reason that more men seek only sex. Most women, even when that is what they are seeking, are inclined to be a more discreet/less upfront, and still more discriminating about it. It really is that simple.
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 63
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Posted: 11/1/2009 7:50:24 PM
hmmm...not so sure about that, op. seems men readily (& throughout the eons) manage to spread their seed to multiple women & the reverse is less true.

also, op, she'll drop all those other men when she finds the "one." guys do the same thing. when you fall in love, the blinders are on (i.e. you lose interest in all but the "one.") basically, all the wheel-spinning isn't going to change what if she's eating up the attention while looking for the "one" long as she's not hurting other people, that is. same for guys.

btw, i didn't think beth's comment was at all sexist, feminist (hopefully, not a dirty word, btw), or anything negative. in point of fact, i saw it as a rather positive, supportive comment.
Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 64
Why women have more sexual prospects..
Posted: 11/1/2009 11:53:11 PM

it is a bit of an interesting question to me.

Hmm. The old switcharoo. Probably a little too radical a departure from the hunter/gatherer cards we've been dealt and almost everyone accepts as the norm.
Joined: 12/30/2006
Msg: 67
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Posted: 11/2/2009 7:47:51 AM
BRAVO!!!! I'd say it's about time you guys woke up!!! I was beginning to think you were all in a coma!!!

Divorce is only a happy day for women, because they get everything. And for this reason, men should not marry, and under no circumstances should they give a woman children.

There is no risk for a woman to marry. If it doesn't work out, she still gets the house, at least half the assets, the kids, and at least half of hubby's future disposable income for the next 20 years. If a man marries and it doesn't work out, he loses it all. So while the feminists keep pounding the same rhetoric of "empowered" females choosing not to marry, what makes considerably more sense is that - given the huge risk of losing it all - men are simply choosing not to enter a one-sided contract that makes no sense. You can find "marriage strike" all over the blogosphere.

Yes, there are 53% of marriage aged males who are only vaguely interested in marriage, but not until at least 32.5, but another 30% (plus another 12% who will not marry American women at all) who are now HARD CORE MARRIAGE AVOIDERS given the raping they get in divorce court. Who can blame them?

The truth is that more than 67% of marriages will end in divorce. 92% of the time it will be initiated by the woman for no other reason than she is “unfulfilled” – oh, and because she gets the kids, the house, at least ½ the assets and most of his future after tax income for the next 18 years. The man will get raked over in family court. He will lose the house. He will see his kids 2 out of 14 days (if the ex doesn't level unsubstantiated "abuse" claims.) He will be forced to hand over 40-50% of his take-home pay. If he loses his job due to illness or downsizing, the State will toss him in jail. While jailed the arrearage will grow and the state will charge interest. The State will revoke his driver's and professional licenses, make him virtually unemployable.

If you were to take up sky-diving, and the instructor informed you that 67% of the parachutes were defective, would you take the plunge?

The men’s Marriage Strike is alive and well, thank you.

Just google "marriage strike"; there are any number of really good articles out there on this very subject. It's high time you guys started demanding some good behavior and appreciation for your efforts!
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 68
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Posted: 11/2/2009 7:50:23 AM

Wasn't suggesting anything.
Just letting scores of women know that not all men are stupid.

Oh so this is a rant thread.............
Joined: 12/30/2006
Msg: 70
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Posted: 11/2/2009 9:46:03 AM
^^^^^ LOL! I'd take a big bite of that sweetie....but you're about 15 yrs too young!!! LOL!
Joined: 9/8/2009
Msg: 71
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Posted: 11/10/2009 6:57:49 PM
It's just a fact that women have more sexual prospects than men, and that's probably because we have what men want, and we can be in control. On this dating site and others, the majority of men tell me that they have very few offers. On the other side, women tell me they get flooded with offers. I guess it could be a power thing, but I never really think of it that way at all. I think it's just the natural fact that women will get more prospects than men. It is something you will have to live with, so best to get over it.
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