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 giggleparts
Joined: 10/23/2004
Msg: 51
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wow ezp.... that totally makes me want to be gay and you be gay so we can be gay together and like.... have gay sex and then I could have a smiling face too....

I'm just joking around..... maybe.

However, I agree with you on the waiting thing.. I also waited until I found someone I could see myself with for the long haul.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 53
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Posted: 6/3/2006 6:19:41 PM
"what many woman miss is the intimacy more than the sex"

True words for those women with self esteem.

Until I am in a long term loving relationship there will no interest in having sex with anyone.

If all that is available is casual/sport sex, I am happy to go without it.

Flame me if you like, it will be the closest I will be getting any heat until I meet my next long term mate.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 54
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Posted: 6/3/2006 9:04:13 PM
Some of us by choice are happily single. By that I mean, we are very selective, and know what we want. I would rather be without sex, than in an unhappy relationship just for the sake of have sex without true intimacy. Certainly, find a mate that I would be compatible with and happy with would be preferable to being than to being happily single. If I have a period of doubt about my choice, all I have to be is look around and see that so many are unhappy with what they have settled for just so they won't have to go without sex.
 bluemarl
Joined: 4/20/2006
Msg: 55
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 6/3/2006 9:04:47 PM
Sweetie -- thank you for peeling that jerk's foreskin off and stuffing it up his nose (and I'm a man) . . .
 CareToBoxOutOfTheRing
Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 57
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 6/9/2006 10:49:37 AM
Anyone can go out with sex if they want too. I went without it for two years due to boxing. Its mostly in your mind, heart and soul. I cant speak for all women, yet I know sex to me is more than just the action. If I had a choice to have a one night stand with a model or some one I loved and trusted. I would pick a lover that I felt loved by. For, the possiablities are endless with the things you can do. And in the morning as they wake you can see the love they have for you.
 kasandroid
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 58
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 6/11/2006 1:37:06 AM
Lol a new thread should be posted here. CAN GRANDPA'S GO WITHOUT SEX? My poor Grandpa is single and at 76 still young at heart, flying an ultralight. Poor guy hasn't had sex in over 20 years, thought about an escort and chickened out. He's always checking out the younger women too and I keep telling him to look for somoene older which he doesn't want. So yeah I know its gross that I'm talking about my Grandpa and his sex life but man he must be hurting. So would anyone like to go on a date with my Grandpa? LOL Please? He's pretty snarky these days, and needs a good old fashioned woman to keep him company. Not too old fashion since he is a horny old bugger. He is also in excellant shape-very muscular puts some of the guys I dated to shame.
 purewaxin
Joined: 10/19/2005
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Posted: 9/21/2006 6:26:34 PM
Women are like camels…! They can hold out….!
 purewaxin
Joined: 10/19/2005
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Posted: 9/21/2006 6:53:47 PM
Ok, good to hear! I hope your man comes back soon to you...!
 NaTeRaS
Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 61
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Posted: 12/1/2006 3:47:14 AM
i cant stand going anymore then 2 weeks MAX without sex. Keeps me sane i tell ya. I cant concentrate if its been too long.
 LondonAussie
Joined: 5/20/2006
Msg: 62
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Posted: 12/1/2006 1:44:28 PM
women can go without sex for ages, i went out with a girl that didnt want sex for 6 months, she was constantly wet but i didnt get a sniff unless she was asleep
 pebbles_2006
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 63
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Posted: 12/12/2006 12:21:05 AM
they sometimes do depends on their mood swings... we women tend to have lots of those hormonal embalance makes us not to want have sex...

I myself believe we can go without sex... i havent had sex in 5 weeks now to the day since my split with the guy i was dating for 10 weeks & all I am doing is self pleasure at least I am not getting hurt .....
 pebbles_2006
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 64
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Posted: 12/12/2006 6:48:58 PM
Chosen Lady, I had my share of disappointment with relationships in general so I am skeptic to put myself out there & make sure it would bring me happiness and lasting relationship not just a quick fix or one night stands I am not into that....
 pebbles_2006
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 65
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Posted: 12/12/2006 6:51:10 PM
Pez78rr, Yet sometimes men tned to play the field....because they are in search for the right one....and hurt women in the process that happened to me lots of times.... that is my main reason for practicing celebacy for 5 weeks.... not to get hurt
 Care2Give12
Joined: 6/24/2006
Msg: 67
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Posted: 12/12/2006 11:12:20 PM
sure -as long as we have B.O.B. around... He always pleases...so why do you have to rely on ordinary sex....lol
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 8/1/2007 8:17:27 AM
It's been so long I can't remember. During my last relationship we did fool around a lot but never had sex. Why? Too many reasons to list but mostly he didn't initiate things and if I did, he was only interested in his own pleasure and never, ever mine. I got tired of the selfishness.

I do know for my next relationship he will pay as much attention to me as I pay to him, if not more (he's already told me he would).

But, I do take care of myself nicely when I don't have a man in my life. BOB is a great friend!
 cherished4life
Joined: 7/28/2007
Msg: 71
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Posted: 8/2/2007 5:48:15 AM
I agree! There has to be emotions behind sex or I cannot fully give myself to a man if he isn't returning those feelings. I enjoy sex, but will wait for the man willing to give what he wants in return.
 Sweetlilmeee
Joined: 6/24/2007
Msg: 72
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Posted: 9/18/2007 3:59:00 AM
Yes they can. I have for awhile now.
 Ravenstar66
Joined: 8/27/2007
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Posted: 9/18/2007 6:45:02 AM
I went 3 years once. Didn't have anyone at the time and wasn't into one night stands. I was busy working and being a mom to a young child...wasn't dating..just didn't happen. The time flew by.

really...3 years

Of course that's just sex with a partner
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
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Posted: 9/18/2007 1:54:31 PM
I can't go without sex. But some people can. People have different sexualities. Some of us are very sexually charged beings, while others seem to be able to go for weeks, months, even years without sex, and it doesn't seem to bother them too much. Everyone is different.
 svj
Joined: 9/15/2007
Msg: 75
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/18/2007 8:17:44 PM
OK, to the gals that said "yes". And be honest now....

A) Was the sex you "had access" to before the drought all that satisfying in the first place?

B) Do you look at your pillow, unbalanced washine machine, really tight jeans, removable shower head or motorcycle the same way since before the drought?

I think that since orgasms are pretty much gauranteed for guys... of course we all love sex.

But since it's not gauranteed for gals... and most guys have no sexual education, and are usually too embarassed or macho to learn... well... is it really *that* hard not to eat an ice cream cone with no ice cream in it?
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