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 mistyryus
Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 77
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I'll have you know the sex was Very satisfying and 6 orgazms at a time.
 jadegreen
Joined: 2/3/2006
Msg: 78
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Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 10/1/2007 3:46:04 PM
we can go longer than men apparently...
 Brianslife
Joined: 2/25/2007
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Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 1/30/2008 10:14:26 AM
i think it too is just that, the term SEX, sex and LOVE are two different worlds. It matters where your mind and heart is in the whole sex thing.
Being picky and waiting for the right one is very admirable.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
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Posted: 1/30/2008 10:18:36 AM
Yes I could go a year without sex but...WHY WOULD I WANT TO????
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 81
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 1/30/2008 2:01:37 PM
have you taken a look at some of the wild toys women possess -(in that bottom drawer of the night stand?) -hell, men should be thankful women have'nt rendered us obsolete, poisoned us and ground us into cat food. -meow!
 FoxyLady2005
Joined: 8/8/2006
Msg: 82
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 1/30/2008 4:00:00 PM
HELL NO!!!!! Chances are one the sex you are having isn't full filling their needs or they are getting it somewhere else..... :( Sorry!
 geminigodiva
Joined: 1/15/2008
Msg: 83
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 1/30/2008 10:52:11 PM
I will throw the ball back into the other court,I was married for 27 long lonely faithfull years to a man who didnt want sex, the day he told me after we had been separated for a year[,I left the marriage because of lack of intamacy] that he only married me because his parents expected it of him, fathered 4 children because it was expected of him,but had never wanted to be physical with a woman ever/and had robbed me of a normal life// I did do your own divorce with in a week of being told that! sick joke is he has lived defacto with another woman for last 12 rs I asked his partner\\ how do you have a relationship with him, her replie \\I get him drunk when I want a bit//do I have any regrets for leaving him \\no// only sad thing is he broke his word of honour to me about telling our 4 children why the marriage is over,the children have disowned me for leaving their dad ,I have learnt to live with that //
yes women can be celibate too I know // do I bedhop now, no way, I want true love to motivate me in any sexual encounter, because to touch soul, mind and body is the ultimate for male or female and its worth waiting for it beats plain old quicky any day !
 Hoshyko
Joined: 10/13/2007
Msg: 84
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/23/2008 4:09:11 AM
women can really go without i have been doing that for about 11 months now and no i dont masturbat its funny people ask me how i do it and i tell them i dont get horny much and i dont so whats the point and it dont help that the single life you have to much to do
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 7/23/2008 4:38:23 AM
Oh dude; I dated this one chick who got all pi$$y about that, saying "All you want to do is have sex...and...Every time you come over that's all you want." She was accusing me of being hypersexual, over sexed, or a sex addict, LOL. So she started coming up with other non-sexual activities for us to "prove" that our relationship wasn't just about sex. The problems were that a/the sex was off the charts great; and b/she traveled a lot, so we only saw each other 2-3 times a week. I don't mind going without sex; but I do mind "forcing" it (abstenence) unnaturally, i.e. we both wanted sex, but wouldn't have sex to prove we couldn't. (how nuts is that) Anyway she was whining that our relationship was about nothing but sex, (which was crap). I asked her, "When you are married, what is average for you; how often did you have sex?" She said "3-4 times a week." I turned to her and said "If we had sex EVERY time we saw each other we would not average 3-4 times a week!" "So how can I be hypersexual if we are having sex less than the national average; and less than you like normally?!!" By that time she had gone psychotic over something else; she really was wound quite tight, and the relationship was over anyway.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/23/2008 4:40:13 AM
Foxy, are legs that long even legal in Ohio?
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/23/2008 5:36:53 AM
I agree with Slumber Party in what she said about going without sex , I've
gone without it for so long already. I'm selfish when it comes to my sexual
needs and will not settle for being a romp in the hay and not one to be used
as a friends with benfits plaything. I've waited this long and when Mister Right
comes along he will appreciate the fact that I am this way. Yes us ladies may
or toys in our night stands and can take care of our own sexual needs but after
awhile those toys get old and so does self pleasure. I'm not one that will go
to bed with just anyone , for the heck of it anyone can have hot sex but I'm
holding out for the one I can make love with and be totaly giving and committed
to him that he will have all of me mind , body and soul unconditionaly. As for
toys sorry I don't own them God granted us the means without using toys! This
woman can go without sex and as Slumber Party stated good things comes to
those whom wait and I choose to wait. The love you make is equal to the love
you take, it's worth the wait.
"A MAN ON A DATE WONDERS IF HE'LL GET LUCKY THE WOMAN HOWEVER ALREADY KNOWS.”
Happy Summer Everyone
May you all find love
..........................................Yours,Brenny
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
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Posted: 7/24/2008 8:28:12 AM
If u love someone then u would really want to make love to them. Sounds like she is trying to back out of the relationship. Yes women can go without sex. Longest I went was 3 years. I go without sex all the time when I am single. I don't like sex I like to make love. I go many months without sex. When I find someone I am crazy about, well look out! I am a very sexual person. Since she is seeing u less I think she don't want to be with u and if no sex. That pretty much says it all. People can say anything but it is their actions that speak louder.
 grapevine
Joined: 10/2/2005
Msg: 89
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/24/2008 8:33:22 AM
Hmm...I don't know anyone who "can't" go without it. I mean, what do you think it's going to do, shrivel up and fall off? But what we 'can' do and what we'd 'rather' do is a whole 'nother matter altogether.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
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Posted: 7/24/2008 8:28:10 PM
my third wife could!!!1
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 91
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 7/24/2008 9:43:23 PM
Sure. A woman can go long periods of time without having sexual contact with her husband or boyfriend, but that doesn't always mean she's going without sex.
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 92
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/7/2008 8:43:12 PM
Not this one... No way.

No how.
 lovinglife369
Joined: 3/10/2007
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Posted: 9/7/2008 9:18:37 PM
Yes, you can go w/o if you have to.......my husband of 27 yrs became ill and long story short, i went close to 4-1/2 year without actual sex! I did, however, once I got to the point of living again, engage with a vibrator, rabbit, etc......
 L80nw8ng
Joined: 7/2/2007
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Posted: 9/7/2008 10:06:10 PM
YES! we can! I went without it from 1990, until I got married in 1998. I was a single mom, in college, working, and attending a church that advocated celibacy until marriage. The first year was the toughest because I had been VERY sexually active before that. But eventually it got easier. Also, I had no relationships, nor did I date during those years. I was simply too busy and focused on kids, school, and work.

I find that outside a relationship it is very easy for me to do without it. But once IN a relationship... its a need, and a regular one at that! I hold out for quality relationships, so I tend to want the person I'm with alot... and often.

Hope this helps.
 blondi75
Joined: 8/30/2007
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Posted: 9/9/2008 11:06:12 AM
Yes they can thats what toys r 4!!!!!
 discrete_contact
Joined: 7/18/2008
Msg: 96
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Posted: 9/9/2008 11:10:35 AM
Women would stay and use the vibrator or other "toys" and wait until "that one" would show up for them. Especially in N. America where the norm is watching porn and playing with yourself....in a "professional" manner....and "waiting" for the benefits to pour in putting pressure on the "system"..."just like that"....so wait for the grave...there will be perfect all the dreams would come true there.
 twinkz
Joined: 6/14/2005
Msg: 97
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 9/10/2008 12:39:34 PM
Well I am doing jut that...going without sex hubby won't get snipped and he hates condoms so no sex for us!!! I can live with it or without lol!!! I think he'll give in eventualy.
 hughmanwho
Joined: 10/30/2007
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Posted: 9/26/2008 10:52:24 PM
I've gone 21(almost 22) years without sex, yeah it's definitely possible. Also remember though that at least stereotypically woman have a lower sexual desire.

I'd say try going without sex for a while, you can do it.
 dynomiteman4u
Joined: 4/12/2008
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Posted: 9/27/2008 4:48:06 AM
Are REAL WOMEN going without sex? ...NO! ...Its total BS!

Real Women who understand themselves & their bodies are not going without sex!

Women are born with a body part that its sole purpose is for sexual pleasure. Its called a clitoris. Real women & real men know what its for & know how it works to satify a Real Womens' sexual libido.

There are some mighty fine B.O.B.s out there that'll get her job done for her & get her off lickety split, without having to put up with a man who won't take the time & effort to make sure that she is having many, real & exceptional Big O's.

Its just that us men must stop going along with the phony ruse that some women use to get their manuplitive advantage over their men...Not Good!
We all may want to have our cake & eat it too, but it just ain't gonna work in a loving sharing sexual relationship.


flaNative...kick her to the curb & go find yourself a real woman!
 Sgt What
Joined: 9/20/2008
Msg: 100
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Posted: 9/27/2008 7:12:54 AM
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't believe you actually posted this thread. I HAD what I thought was the perfect relationship for 9 yrs. Never had an arguement, Always showed each other, and told each other how much we loved each other. we have a son. Then one day she decided she wanted to find herself. We went for a year and a half without having sex. And finally I couldn't take it any more. We broke up. She still isn't seeing anyone, and regularly calls me up to do something or fix something. We still play cards with her family, But she won't get back together with me because she says that I will want sex. LMFAO OF COURSE I WANT TO HAVE SEX. I'm still breathing aren't I. The ones who wish to go without sex one day will wake up and realize that they are too old to actually be a satisfactory partner when they do finally decide to have sex. They will wish in their old age that they had done this or that. I'm sorry, and I feel for these people, and they have a right to do whatever they want, it's their body, You can't preasure some one into having sex. But the longer they wait, the more they will miss. MOVE ON AND FIND SOME ONE MORE COMPATIBLE WITH YOUR DESIRES! STOP DWELLING on what once was and find some one who does make you happy.
 Sgt What
Joined: 9/20/2008
Msg: 101
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Posted: 9/27/2008 7:13:29 AM
You're cruel, LOL
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