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 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 50
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^^^ What Leeanne said, too! I love those strong, veiny forearms. Yowza.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 11/15/2009 1:57:03 AM

funnyone4you its not always about the direct sexual contact, but the juxtipoistion of a firm strong grip and a soft gentle touch.
couple that with
damassteel " A rose petal in the hands of a giant".
and you guys...nailed it! For you guys out there who think it's only what you can "show" whether it's "size" or "strength" that matters are WAY missing the boat. The magic answer is "How can you make her feel?" Big strong hands with a "big strong grip/touch" will strike out way more than not. You MUST know the difference between "strong and hard" vs "firm and confident" AND know WHEN firm is appropriate or gentle is preferred; and you guys with "monster c0cks" have GOT to learn how to touch/finesse. The key to being a good lover is working with what you have, and knowing when/how to use it. Mr. well just imagine what we can do with them... Dude? Really? Can you hit a G-spot with your eyes closed and her wiggling? How about an A-spot? Do you even know what a G-spot or A-spot are? Do you know what to do with them when you find them, or the differences in how you stimulate each; because they are very different? Can you hold her firmly with confidence and no discomfort; or run your finger down her back more gently than a feather, so she only imagines you touched her? Can you pull her head back with her hair...without pulling one out; or make her shiver by lightly tracing a single finger down her cheek or along her inner thigh? Does she feel warm, relaxed, and safe...while being "pinned" to the bed at the same time? Can you make her simultaneously feel like a "naughty whore" and a "precious angel"? If the answer to any of these questions is "No"; then you've still got a lot to work on; and having strong hands, like any other asset, only gets you so far.

Strong hands are only an asset if you truly know what she wants and enjoys; and, gentle hands with a soft touch are worthless if you don't know how to use them. My experience has been that a firm hand, with a gentle touch; and a gentle hand with a firm touch; coupled with knowledge and desire, will get you breakfast in bed every time. :banger: That and throw in a little Velcro and a couple of AA batteries. :peace:
 michele6259
Joined: 12/29/2007
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Posted: 11/15/2009 4:06:37 PM
Nice Windroper...
 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
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Posted: 11/15/2009 6:45:52 PM
I'm a musician and a tradesman, so I have strong hands. I ran into an old girlfriend from years ago. We dated for a bit (8 months) and she always commented on how she missed my hands. She said sometimes holding anothers guys hand was just like holding a limp rag. She always loved how my hands felt.


I never gave it a thought before.


interesting.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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Posted: 11/15/2009 8:56:48 PM
I like a man with strong hot hands and fingers.
 *pisceseyes
Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 55
do ladies get turned on by strong hands and fingers..
Posted: 11/15/2009 9:03:29 PM
i dated a bassist and he had by far the best hands..lots of fine motor skills and long fingers, sexy.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 57
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Posted: 11/17/2009 4:03:22 AM

i dated a bassist and he had by far the best hands..lots of fine motor skills and long fingers, sexy.


Hmmm, so you gave him a 'B" for his assists? Did he pluck ya, or strum ya? Lol. Sheeeesh, years of training to play Pisces! Lol (sorry, caffiene just kicked in)
Maybe a pianist would be better- Flight of the Butterfly (or was it bumblebee?)machine gun digits!
 scottmcfish
Joined: 8/20/2009
Msg: 64
do ladies get turned on by strong hands and fingers..
Posted: 12/5/2009 3:19:12 PM
What does a strong hand look like?

I ask because it almost sounds like hand size is being equated with hand strength here. This sounds strange to me because I'm into rock climbing, where people can put a lot of weight on vary small surfaces because of awesome grip strength, but quite often rock climbers have small hands. Also, because calluses on finger tips can reduce tactile sensation (vary important for judging friction in climbing) and because climbers use drying agents, we tend to moisturize our hands more then most guys do.

I'm wondering if my lean, tender hands that are connected to my lean, ropey, hard forearms would qualify my hands as looking "strong".
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 65
do ladies get turned on by strong hands and fingers..
Posted: 12/5/2009 3:26:49 PM
My ex stopped by today and I was looking at his hands. His fingers all have to be like an inch thick...I love that. However, very gentle and can thread a needle with the best of em.
 JustMySay
Joined: 7/12/2009
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Posted: 12/5/2009 3:42:15 PM
Men with strong arms large hands and fingers.... Damn that's a major plus and a turn on.. No Doubt!!
 wellthisiscool
Joined: 10/31/2011
Msg: 70
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Posted: 12/1/2011 4:54:51 PM
This is stupid! Every man does not wash his hands in oil car for work! some may just touch keys of keyboard and a mouse! like a software developer!
 Della D
Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 71
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Posted: 12/3/2011 6:28:40 AM
Strong hands a muscled (fore)arms on a man are definitely attractive to me, it's very masculine!

Though I like hands well kept, manicured hands/fingernails on a guy that look like he never even touched a screw driver in his life are a definite turn off for me.
 evskypr
Joined: 6/19/2011
Msg: 72
do ladies get turned on by strong hands and fingers..
Posted: 12/3/2011 9:16:32 PM
To me what matters is how he touches me with his hands,How he makes me feel with his touch
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
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Posted: 12/3/2011 9:34:06 PM

I'm a Smith and work with hammers and anvils (see profile pics)




lmao damn damassteel...

I'm working on a refractory bricklaying crew right now and I'd gladly take a 65 rivet buster to tear down refractory than swing a 20 lb sledge with a 1 foot handle...



ya, women LOVE strong hands on men...


large strong hands are masculine.
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 75
do ladies get turned on by strong hands and fingers..
Posted: 12/6/2011 12:10:41 PM
The bigger the hands, the better. HUGE turn on.
 Psst_Hey
Joined: 5/17/2011
Msg: 76
do ladies get turned on by strong hands and fingers..
Posted: 12/8/2011 1:17:05 PM
LOL I had a girl once in normal conversation tell me I must have a thick penis because my fingers are so thick. I was like, "uh do all girls make assumptions like that"
 Linda136
Joined: 5/3/2011
Msg: 77
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Posted: 12/8/2011 5:28:40 PM
So, Psst, was she wrong?
 LibertyBelle2011
Joined: 5/22/2011
Msg: 78
do ladies get turned on by strong hands and fingers..
Posted: 12/8/2011 6:22:18 PM
Agreed! My soon to be x - hub also has the soft as a baby's bottom hands! It is just so creepy. Real men have real rough hands!
 Psst_Hey
Joined: 5/17/2011
Msg: 79
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Posted: 12/9/2011 12:02:03 PM
No but thats besides the point lol
 Mufasa315
Joined: 1/20/2014
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Posted: 5/16/2015 9:59:18 AM
Oo I have nice strong hands, machinist so I'm always working with metal. Ooo yea I bet you like that lol
 dwayne88
Joined: 6/8/2008
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Posted: 5/16/2015 10:45:32 AM
I have small girl hands with thin fingers. Can't help how my genetics played out. ................................................................................................................................
 Siennarh
Joined: 5/1/2015
Msg: 83
do ladies get turned on by strong hands and fingers..
Posted: 5/16/2015 11:25:39 AM
I love a pair of gorgeous feminine hands on men
Oh my god delicious.
 dwayne88
Joined: 6/8/2008
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Posted: 5/16/2015 11:32:26 AM

love a pair of gorgeous feminine hands on men
Oh my god delicious


That's a surprise. Most seem to hate it. As if they had been a attacked by a man with tiny hands..

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 Siennarh
Joined: 5/1/2015
Msg: 85
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Posted: 5/16/2015 11:34:38 AM

That's a surprise. Most seem to hate it. As if they had been a attacked by a man with tiny hands..

Oh weird lol. Maybe I am odd then.
Nice hands give me naughty thoughts xD
 dwayne88
Joined: 6/8/2008
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Posted: 5/16/2015 12:20:24 PM

Nice hands give me naughty thoughts xD


Nice hands are somewhat, rather subjective.

Some guys with short hands, have thick fingers. Or the opposite. Mine are short and thin. Also, no rough hands here. Somehow rough big hands is suppose to correlate to a real man for some women, for whatever reason.
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