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 JustAGoodWomanInLouisvill
Joined: 3/13/2011
Msg: 702
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?Page 18 of 37    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37)
I think so. But some on here just looking to get layed too.
 Nearlywhere
Joined: 9/18/2008
Msg: 703
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/11/2012 4:10:31 PM
No way! I've had several opportunities to get married. And those people weren't the right ones. I'd rather be single than be in a bad relationship or marriage. This is serious stuff. Why mess it up and be stuck with the consequences?

"Attractive, successful, funny, sweet, caring, 31 year old guy"
 gnuineprsn
Joined: 6/14/2010
Msg: 704
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/11/2012 9:17:02 PM
Sometimes u are enjoying life and being single and in relationshipe that u cant see being forever. Then one day you wake up and you realize that time has gotten away from you. I dont think everyone plans their futures. Some just live for the moment a little longer than others. And there is nothing wrong with that. Kinda like some people shop for Christmas all throughout the year (they are good planners) while some of us are last minute the week of shoppers. Nothing wrong with that. We just live day to day.
 misfit_NC
Joined: 1/16/2012
Msg: 705
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/19/2012 8:42:07 PM
I'm over 30, never married, and no children. What's the reason for this? I suffer from a disease called UGLY. This is a crippling affliction that leaves over 150000 dateless in the United States alone. We must take action to stop this debilitating disease and give a new lease on life to those unfortunate individuals struggling under the yoke of it's tyranny. Please won't you help?
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 706
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/20/2012 11:30:48 AM

I'm over 30, never married, and no children. What's the reason for this? I suffer from a disease called UGLY. This is a crippling affliction that leaves over 150000 dateless in the United States alone. We must take action to stop this debilitating disease and give a new lease on life to those unfortunate individuals struggling under the yoke of it's tyranny. Please won't you help?


LOL my new facebook status ;-)
Seriously though, dude, your not ugly. I've SEEN ugly man, sure, your no George Clooney, but your no Rush Limbaugh either. Good people can still see good people, and unless your still a virgin, there is still hope ;-)
 SuperFunGuy
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 707
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/20/2012 1:16:44 PM
Nope. nothing wrong with that. Got everything together here. It's really tough finding a good match with one's self. I think that's what most people are looking for.
 teepee1
Joined: 10/17/2011
Msg: 708
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/20/2012 3:54:54 PM
This one's easy. Don't one in two marriages fail? or 2 out of 3 or something to that affect? I'm only supposing many men marry after 30...and what they're saying then is all the good looking people in marriages somehow escape that stat too? Ha..Now if the good looking guy decides to take his time to make sure he doesn't make the same mistake twice he is somehow flawed? Sorry..As Spock would say..."That's just not logical".
 JustAGoodWomanInLouisvill
Joined: 3/13/2011
Msg: 710
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/21/2012 5:53:36 AM
I got to thinking and the ones of us on these dating sites kinda of reminded me of the toys from Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer. We are kinda like misfit toys in a way.
 MetalVixxn
Joined: 4/4/2007
Msg: 711
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People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/21/2012 12:20:46 PM
I'm 34, no kids, never been married. The only thing wrong with me is I refuse to settle. I have had many opportunities to get married and start a family. Didn't feel ready and definitely didn't feel those guys were the right ones. Nothing wrong with someone who knows who they are and what they want.
 misfit_NC
Joined: 1/16/2012
Msg: 712
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/21/2012 4:24:55 PM
I only wish I had the raw sexual magnetism of Rush Limbaugh.
 lisakit
Joined: 1/7/2012
Msg: 713
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/21/2012 4:36:38 PM
I agree 100%. Never pushed for marriage because I was in long term committed relationships. I can't say they weren't with the right people because they seemed right until the relationship got old and they weren't willing to fight for it. Of course, it's similar to those who got married and divorced after 8 or 14 years in my case.
 JustAGoodWomanInLouisvill
Joined: 3/13/2011
Msg: 714
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/22/2012 9:11:26 AM
I totally agree MetealVixxen and Listkit. I won't settle again. I want my best friend, a great lover and someone I won't want to kill in my kitchen.
 Lishamix
Joined: 10/15/2011
Msg: 715
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/23/2012 12:29:43 AM
I think thats its nothing wrong with a person not being in a relationship either way
Age or looks i believe that u just have not meet their match yet
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 718
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/23/2012 6:37:52 AM

Not my loss.


Actually it IS! Cos you said a massive weight loss. It's your loss, haha. You know, hehe... *fly buzzing*
Well, they can't always be funny

Anyways, what is wrong with people over 30 is usually the fact that the people over 30 they're dating think there is something wrong...with people over 30.
If you start dating someone based on what they have, versus what they HAVENT, you get surprised by how quickly you can enjoy people. Even theyre quirks and little bad habits become cool.
And if they don't....well at least you get to have sex a couple of times that night
 angel0606
Joined: 9/28/2011
Msg: 719
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/24/2012 8:14:25 PM
Dear Goodness I would have to say there is something wrong in every person alive but to stereo type I hope we dont because I believe we would have these feelings regardless of the age it just sucks being single and it makes us all skeptical of the people we meet to be just last our past relationships. well thats my food for thought at least
 legnakrad
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 720
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People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/25/2012 5:29:50 AM
Just means he hasn't found anyone good enough for him to settle down.
 BenMay1980
Joined: 1/20/2011
Msg: 722
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/28/2012 12:26:01 AM
Well everyone here is probably single or some form of swinger. I must say that my wife left me a year after I joined the military. She was from Germany and chose to leave the US. We fell in love before finishing college. I am healthy, not bad looking, and have a good career. She got a dog, cat, and fully furnished house. I think when people are older than it is better, higher probability people know what they want in life. Want to get a coffee!?
 usernonymous
Joined: 8/18/2011
Msg: 725
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/29/2012 7:13:08 PM
" am posting this because it was said on another message board that if a man is single and over the age of 30 and good looking, there has got to be some character flaw or some reason why he is not taken...."

So to the original post....If you are talking about Marriage. The average marrying for a man in the US is 29, so for nearly half the states. Being a guy and single over the age of 30 isn't strange, it is NORMAL.
 dillman7
Joined: 1/23/2012
Msg: 727
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People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/30/2012 7:30:02 PM
Everyone has to have their own opinion.... I'm 32 but it seems that in my 30's you're a bit choosy
 Real_Brunette
Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 728
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/30/2012 7:38:14 PM
There's nothing wrong with me!!
It's the men I date that have the problem
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 729
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/31/2012 6:15:46 AM
self sufficient
without kids



HAHAHAHA!
That one made me laugh! I got the SAME problem, which is why I'm single! Either I get hit on by ladies who want me to somehow pay my own child support and make them live on my salary, or some who are completely off their rockers who can't do aqnything with their lives without running it by me first! HEllo? Independant woman, rings any bells? I'm all for Women's Lib; GO OUT AND WORK! LMAO.
You just made my day dude

Although I'll admit for me, point #2 isnt necessary a dealbreaker. As long as I dont have to spend for those kids. I got my own to take care of.
 surf rider
Joined: 7/9/2009
Msg: 730
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People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 2/1/2012 10:46:36 AM
im 40 an still single have traveled alot for many yrs globe trotting searching for the best waves time flys an before you know it you reached what some people call middle age i wouldnt say theres anything wrong with some guys my age that havnt settled down yet - just waiting for the right one i myself certainly wouldnt just settle down with anyone
 surf rider
Joined: 7/9/2009
Msg: 731
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Posted: 2/1/2012 11:45:45 AM
thats just sexist !! :-)
 IntoTheReaches
Joined: 1/23/2012
Msg: 732
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 2/1/2012 4:11:44 PM
Perhaps its just a matter of choice. Could it be repressed memories? Is there any real singular absolute answer to the question? No, of course not. The possibilities are immense in a world population of about 7 billion. For me, I truly believe I just keep running into the wrong situations, a constant experience of random events which did not lead me into the way of wife and kids. A few long term girlfriends of course, but no kiddie suprise yet.

On the other hand, there is nothing wrong with being single, its really not so bad at all. Yes it can get boring at times, but the state of mind gained by being alone for so long can get incredibly adventurous. Sadly, If a person becomes that mature in their way of thinking, it becomes harder and harder for them to meet like minded people. So in a sense, it would be like a miracle to meet some one suited to fit the mind mold of a person who has mastered so many levels of consciousness.

I have yet to meet a female miracle worker who has lived years as I have.
 cramer78
Joined: 2/16/2013
Msg: 736
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 3/20/2013 4:33:39 AM
every person on the face of this planet has character flaws. That is what makes us human after all. In terms of dating i will tell you what women like in my area. women in my town tend to enjoy dating men with no jobs, a drug problem, have no money, dress like they are in a street gang. they also like it when a "man" owns a mazda miada with a terrible body kit and even worse paint job on it with a sound system that sounds like a swarm of west nile mosquitoes. Meanwhile there is me with 2 college degrees a military background with a good state job with benefits, dresses nice and can speak 2 languages (however my typing is dreadful). And i could not attract a woman even with a gun to my head. so to answer your question just because a guy is over 30 and is still single does not really mean he has a huge character flaw..he may just have a minor one....mine is being to cynical.
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