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 LuckyU32
Joined: 12/3/2011
Msg: 668
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?Page 25 of 37    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37)
lol hey man I'm with you on that one. I leave the seat down clean up after myself all the things that ladies look for, and I'm stil single. Nothing wrong with me either. I'm 34. You're right. If women are judging that something must be wrong with us just because we're single at a certain age, I'm in big trouble. I don't look my age either. lol good thread bro..
 Just4sng
Joined: 9/29/2011
Msg: 669
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People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 12/7/2011 11:40:44 AM
I'm 38. I'm single basically cuz I don't want anything serious right now. I've never been married and have no kids either. But, that's been by choice. Honestly? I doubt there is a "right girl" out there. They're either too young or every guy is like their exes. I'm not perfect but, I'm not them either.
 mgiddin
Joined: 6/13/2010
Msg: 670
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 12/7/2011 2:42:04 PM
I'm 44 and single. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with me! *twitch twitch* Naw, we all have our issues. I was married for 20 years and have only been single for 5. Although I do have to say, this whole dating world sucks! Anyway, to answer the original question. Its my opinion that under most circumstances that there is nothing wrong with the person, its probably their choice to be single. But then again I'm no expert.
 Full_of_Grace67
Joined: 11/15/2011
Msg: 671
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People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 12/7/2011 3:28:44 PM
I'm not so sure she meant single at or after 30 as much as she meant single/never married...Sometimes I wonder why men over 40 have never been married but I don't judge them for it. But if they want kids they're gonna have to find a young filly for that, lol. YEE HAW!!
 freegard
Joined: 10/31/2010
Msg: 672
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 12/8/2011 8:56:03 PM
I am 53 and have several character flaws; people who are married and under thirty do not have any! Everyone knows that. Why would we even ponder this?
 Law212
Joined: 10/2/2011
Msg: 673
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 12/8/2011 9:43:26 PM
WHOAH!!! hold on! I cant beleive the insanity I'm seeing. WHY do WE have to leave the seat DOWN? They should put the seat back UP when they are done!
 wildlifelover1979
Joined: 2/11/2011
Msg: 674
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 12/17/2011 7:14:09 AM
Nothing wrong with a man not being taken! If a woman can't see what a great catch I am then tough! It isn't my fault if a woman is picky about a man! Most are so picky that no man is good enough for them! None of the women to date never want to compromise! It is either their way or no way at all. I love being outdoors, nature, and wildlife. I spend alot of my time when not working doing that. I don't shop at stores, go to mall or movies, or go on roadtrips or vacations.
 SonyaOctober
Joined: 11/6/2011
Msg: 676
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 12/18/2011 6:17:29 AM
I think we are all damaged in our own, not very unique, ways. The people who are married before their 30s were just too immature to see their imperfections, or smart enough to not care about them. There was no way in hades I would have gotten married in my 20s. I was soooo young and dumb 90 percent of the time. if we all admit we are damaged then the question should be why can't we see past the damage and accept people for who they are. Maybe the worst damage is that we are all looking for perfection and this is where we should take note of all those young married couples and lean how to compromise. Except, it's hard to give up that ideal relationship in your head, my damage lies therein.
 brynn005
Joined: 9/14/2008
Msg: 677
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People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 12/18/2011 5:41:32 PM
Good point, 4gotnsoul :)

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 laughingmantra
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 678
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 12/23/2011 10:36:23 PM
I'm just really fussy and particular to a fault. shame , I feel I've mist out so much but i don't want to give myself away to just any half good-looking gal and someone who doesn't deserve me. : )) I'm starting to think though I will grow old alone.
 neck romancer
Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 680
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People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 12/26/2011 6:35:39 PM
is not wanting to get married a fault? just to be clear I believe in LTR's just not marriage.
 easygoingguy1974
Joined: 7/27/2011
Msg: 682
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 12/31/2011 12:00:19 AM
Hi

I am posting this because it was said on another message board that if a man is single and over the age of 30 and good looking, there has got to be some character flaw or some reason why he is not taken....

What is everyone elses general view on this? Do you find that there has got to be "something" wrong if someone looks in every other way a good catch, yet still hasn't settled down?


Did anyone else other than me notice the "if a man is single and over the age of 30 and GOOD LOOKING" aspect of this post?????

Notice how the poster didn't say anything about herself and why she was still single at 40 when she posted this thread??
 njm7911
Joined: 9/18/2011
Msg: 683
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/2/2012 8:35:20 AM
I completely agree.
 JustAGoodWomanInLouisvill
Joined: 3/13/2011
Msg: 684
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/2/2012 1:23:44 PM
I don't think there is anything wrong with me because I am over 30 and single. I love my best friend who is the same age I am and she has been married going on 4 times now to 4 different men. What does that say? I just think I am looking for that special someone that I havent met yet so I don't have to get divorced again. I want my best friend and a lover. Someone I won't want to kill if they are helping me or talking to me in the kitchen.
 weirdotool
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 685
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People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/2/2012 1:44:38 PM
Yeah...the over 30 figure is just ridiculous, especially for men. I think most people would even agree that many men don't hit their prime in physical attractiveness until their 30s. Not to mention more money, more emotionally stable, etc.

A man in his 30s with no baggage and plenty of $$$ is what's called a GOOD CATCH.
 athiker87
Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 686
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/3/2012 8:09:59 AM
DATEING SUCKS!!!! THIS WEB SITE SUCKS
 JustAGoodWomanInLouisvill
Joined: 3/13/2011
Msg: 687
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/3/2012 11:48:10 AM
I think a date can be terrible. I don't think this site sucks. Now on Louisville Mojo which is a dateing site that sucks. You have to pay now to be on there. There are some very rude, nasty, mean people on that site that chat and express themselves in forums.
 forums1
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 688
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/3/2012 12:13:15 PM

I don't think there is anything wrong with me because I am over 30 and single. I love my best friend who is the same age I am and she has been married going on 4 times now to 4 different men. What does that say?


According to the OP I'd guess you have 'commitment issues', while your friend, well, she's obviously commitment material.
 JustAGoodWomanInLouisvill
Joined: 3/13/2011
Msg: 689
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/3/2012 1:46:47 PM
I have to disagree with you on that one sorry. I want to be with someone a while like 2 years or more before I get married again. But everyone is different.
 lobo65
Joined: 6/9/2009
Msg: 691
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Posted: 1/7/2012 10:59:52 AM
Oh man. I get this question at times too. I've heard some women say they would rather date a guy who has been divorced twice than a guy like me who has never been married at my age. My question is why would they want to date someone who has failed at marriage twice than someone who has a clean slate? Weird.

The only reason I've never been married is because I am a shy guy--although that is improving.
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 692
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/7/2012 11:26:15 AM
As we now live in the age of convenience, with all this technology, media, internet ect, it seems people are constantly looking for more. Were spoiled! It seems with whatever people find these days, they always want too add on to it, rather than just appreciate what good there is already. It seems people these days think it's ok to have unrealistically high expectations of everything and everyone. In expecting so much, when find it we can't except it, we get dissapointed and look elsewhere. And the process repeats.
 JustAGoodWomanInLouisvill
Joined: 3/13/2011
Msg: 693
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/7/2012 12:17:21 PM
I think at our age we all have our issues. What are our issues and what issues of the other person's can we handle plus ours. It is how does your life fit it with mine and can we make it work? Plus I don't think our generation looks at marriage the way our grandparents did. It is interesting the way some good things have changed with time and thinking and the way some things haven't.
 lessa_s
Joined: 11/29/2011
Msg: 694
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/7/2012 12:53:29 PM
I totally agree!!!
 JustAGoodWomanInLouisvill
Joined: 3/13/2011
Msg: 695
People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 1/8/2012 2:24:29 PM
I know I have some issues. I can't taste or smell since I was really stupid 4 years ago and rear ended a semi. I can't taste or smell anymore. So my parnter would have to be willing to let me use his taste buds, be willing to describe how something taste to be me when I make something new or if I am trying something I have never eaten at a restuarant before. I also figure if I don't want to hurt him if he is helping me or talking to me in my kitchen, thats a couple of pluses in his favor.
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