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 2bornot2be2
Joined: 10/26/2009
Msg: 7
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Take a look at the "success stories" section of this website. It does happen, believe it or not. However, take a good look at the photos of the successful couples. You won't see a total knock out (man or woman) with an average or less than average person. In fact, the couples look pretty evenly matched. On a scale of 1 to 10, you'll see 5's with 5's, 3's with 3's, etc.

I suspect the people who have success on a site, such as POF, are the realists. They have no delusions about who they are, and just as importantly, about who they wish to meet. And as a general rule, many were not on this site long (as in not years) before the met their mate.

We could all (myself included) learn something from these successful people, I think.
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