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 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 26
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^^^^^^Wow you ladies are smart............... I never thought of that...............ok I'm going out now to hang around the local hospital.
 dont have one
Joined: 2/1/2008
Msg: 27
ls too much SEX bad for you??? ..lol
Posted: 11/26/2009 10:26:34 PM
Just in the name of research I have been at it since this thread was posted. Ok did need some from help from a blue pill as the stamina aint what it was.
The report is Im fine, no bad side effects just a bit sore and my tounge hurts now when poking it out. On the upside the little hair I have has been transformed into a flowing shinny mane, my headache has gone, the flu I had has gone, my pores are cleansed and open, the horrible rash has disapeared and woman just hit me up for more as soon as I leave the house.
So no to much sex is not bad for you, its not enough thats bad for you. Makes guys look at porn and other guys want to come round and give you a hand with it, WTF Mr Acorn keep your hands to yourself
If your not getting any just get on the date site side of things and go get some.
 Con Ten Ted
Joined: 6/25/2009
Msg: 28
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ls too much SEX bad for you??? ..lol
Posted: 11/27/2009 3:17:50 AM
^^^^ You been out fixing some femme's house ???

The only times that I can think of where too much sex would cause harm to someone would be if that someone was sharing it around and the sig. other found out .... tends to cause a little upset I hear .....

By the way, any female tradies out there looking for some work ???
 Madison900
Joined: 9/18/2009
Msg: 29
ls too much SEX bad for you??? ..lol
Posted: 11/28/2009 2:31:10 PM
l know it seems like a silly question...and l posted it to see what people come up with on the subject...lol
From what l can estimate the only down side to lots of sex...seems to be when people are blinded by it! (BLINDNESS)
Or end up racing to the alter because they found a partner who is practically a sex addict.The marriage/relationship is over in little time...because people sometimes forget to look at the bigger picture.The whole picture.
lt dies right off...and those over indulgers are left scratching their heads wondering why!? (HAIRLOSS and DISOLUSIONMENT,FATIGUE,EMPTYNESS...to name a few)

Actually the facts are...less sex creates more spiritual awareness...think of those,plus yourself...who are now looking at life from a different perspective.
lf you are constantly expelling physical energy..in sexual gratification....you can loose touch with yourself.results in ....25 years marriage,with only the first few years indulging in some serious romping...and you are left wondering how it got that far!!
Where the hell did my life go????...lol
l know someone..58 years old,on this site....whom lve ceased conversing with who l consider a sex addict.A despirate man.LOST.
But he thinks "you gotta get love where you can get it"...my reply was "darling that isnt LOVE"...and HE as a grown man of 26 was having a smorges board of sex with the young teens from a catholic convent school ...from ALL he has told me l can clearly see that he is still hanging around his mates nieces..and young women trying to relive his old romping days...and can now not properly relate to women nearer his age.(ADDICTION)
l knew there was more to his comments about "Their favourite uncle neil"he's just hoping to get a leg over.
So in sex...you have to stay centred...and dont loose site of who you are.When youve been through your seed sewing days...if you can see youve lost touch of seeing the partners you choose..as just the stepping stone to the next lay.
sex as an addiction to feeling alive, or being accepted..is a soul destroying sneaky thing that you didnt see coming to redirect your awareness.
l love sex...lm not against it!!...l just think you have to look at WHY you are seeking so much of it...in or out of a relationship.
 Madison900
Joined: 9/18/2009
Msg: 30
ls too much SEX bad for you??? ..lol
Posted: 11/28/2009 2:47:35 PM
So Akizzej...you use sex to cure all?
When theres an opposing argument to all your points made:)
Chewing gum produces soliva...lol
Swimmings cooler to do in summer...and theres a condition called "The sex headache"
Walking running and excersize gets the kgs off too...lol
l agree with good sex...but maybe not an abundance of it to the point of becoming extremely bored by it in a few years....usually less.
Wheres the cure for all the broken marriages who were over indulgers? its called divorce.Only to leave and start the process all over again...lm wondering if people can see the cycle here?
The answer l think that makes all this far more interesting...is having a partner who knows how to say no!...and it becomes mysterious..illusive,and far more appreciated when it does happen.
lts the relationships who rabbit everywhere around the house who get bored...you know the old saying "A man will swim an ocean to be with her"...yet barely walk around the corner once hes been there"...the chase makes a far more exciting sex life.
Thats why people have affairs!!
lts the excitement of the chase etc...not the over abundance of sex.
Think about that one for a while...:)
 Island home
Joined: 7/5/2009
Msg: 31
ls too much SEX bad for you??? ..lol
Posted: 11/28/2009 4:57:15 PM
Good posts Madison
 Akizzej
Joined: 5/1/2009
Msg: 32
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Posted: 11/28/2009 7:08:59 PM
Maddison... since you've named me directly.... guess I has ta post back...

Of course as an older woman, with some medical and health background experience, I posted the 'benefits' as a tongue in cheek - I'm sure that anyone with an ounce of sensibility would recognise that...
Hence the 'statement':
In fact, there's definitely more fact than fiction in this ol' essay that does the rounds sometimes.


I know that sometimes the best cure for a headache is a simple glass of water, that running and walking melt off the kilos... {loardy knows I've done it enough times}
Saliva by gum chewing, good and well when it doesn't stick to the dentures...

and I could go on...but I have learnt in my life to say ''how nice dear''...


IMO, the mere matter of the fact is....

Sex is good, fun and as a sign of maturity can develop feelings of extra intimacy with the RIGHT person, and that's something that develps in AND out of bed {or the laundry, or the kitchen, and the back yard or your pit of passion}

So you choose not to converse with an 'addict'... that's all good and well. I choose not to also... sometimes I can't get enough.... and sometimes I don't want to think about sex at all.

That's the difference between men and women, hormones and horniness, the simple facts of life... it is, simply because it is....

hey, watch out - tongue in cheek comment coming up...
You know why nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes.... it's because there's too much fraternising with the enemy!!!



{not that I have to say anything, I also know about the using sex and promiscuity as a pain relief tool, to take away the pain of childhood abuse, that at least for just that moment in time, someone that I CHOSE thought I was special - life matures you of that - sometimes. I say sometimes, because then you get those to whom it hasn't, and so you get the old farts thinking they'll get a 'leg over' on the young girls... and they haven't matured to their dellusions}
 Madison900
Joined: 9/18/2009
Msg: 33
ls too much SEX bad for you??? ..lol
Posted: 11/29/2009 4:47:40 AM
Thank you "Island and Akizzej"...:)
dont have one...seems contradictory to your habbits?...lol
What do you get from going down on a woman way too often...lockjaw!!
The BLUE PILL?..are you serious? youre only young!....seeeee too much is bad for you if you have to take pills to maintain an errection...have you over done it a tad???
And how modest you are...lol
That horrible rash...may have rubbed off onto the "she" who just left the building.
Well there you have it...too much sex breads morons...who think theyre Mr Lover Lover:)...lol
l can just see you tripping over your underpants as you fly out the door ...grasping your blue pills and wiping the snot from your lip....haha
Farting your way down the path..yes with one leg raised... each gifted effortless fart.
Such a man hun..your mum would be proud of you lm sure.While your father jealous.
A true example of what a real man is...."cough"
:) go get that blood test that may be long overdue:)
 xXPosterGirlXx
Joined: 7/27/2009
Msg: 34
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Posted: 11/29/2009 4:52:56 AM
^^^Aaah don't hold back Mad-ass-one, tell us how you really feel
 dont have one
Joined: 2/1/2008
Msg: 35
ls too much SEX bad for you??? ..lol
Posted: 12/2/2009 12:03:39 AM
Mad-ass-one

Too funny, mmmm can see that name sticking

What do you get from going down on a woman way too often...lockjaw!!

Finaly the voice of exprience speaks!!!!!!!!

seeeee too much is bad for you if you have to take pills to maintain an errection...have you over done it a tad???

Not by a long way.

l can just see you tripping over your underpants as you fly out the door

Bit of an over excited imagination you have there, not sure I like being your fanasty figure. Do guys run away from you often after sex ??

Such a man hun..your mum would be proud of you lm sure

Whoo hoo got one thing right any way

 piquancy123
Joined: 5/28/2009
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Posted: 12/2/2009 12:45:19 AM
Hmmmmm - is too much sex bad for you????

Short answer is NO!!!

Long answer is NO!!!!!

Nein!!!! Non!!!! Nyet!!!! Nada!!!! No!!!!

But I'm happy to undertake the research that may challenge this original position....
 dustyangel1
Joined: 3/13/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 12/3/2009 2:25:28 AM

lm wondering if thats why society is seemingly dopeyer???...lol


Society is dopier simply because our education curriculum is now being taught by the same people that havent been taught correctly in the first place themselves!!

As for is too much sex bad for you? Hell no!
 Alittlebitquirky
Joined: 5/2/2009
Msg: 38
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Posted: 12/4/2009 12:39:20 PM
After a 16 yr marriage I am now 10 years alone and I think not enough sex is bad for you in many ways.

Sex is more that just sex, apart from the obvious your emotional needs are met, even with something more casual for a moment in time there is a connection.

After a few years without this sex, I find I miss this connection, the physical and emotional touch of another human being (something that is necessary for emotional well being). We can get some of these needs met by friends and family but I guess in reality I miss the more intimate contact that comes with sex.

So to answer the op's question, is too much sex bad for you? This one is usually answered on a personal level when one gets none.
 Nick211088
Joined: 4/8/2009
Msg: 39
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Posted: 12/4/2009 11:06:16 PM
Sex is more that just sex


That is so very dependant on the social circles you keep. I know for people in mine, sex is JUST sex.
They see it as a right, not a gift.
They judge a night out on the town by how succesful they are in getting laid. In fact, most only go out TO get laid and get VERY sh1tty when they don't.... Hence why violence is such a big problem where I live.

It has been said many times that sex is just like Oxygen, in that you never realise how much it means to you until you're not getting any.

But in the same token, too much of it robs the beauty out of it, and it simply becomes an act that people do to satisfy their own selfish needs.

Imagine this Quirky....
I met a nice girl, I had worked as a barman at her 26th birthday party, and she took a shine to me because I "seemed like such a nice guy"
We ended up meeting up later that night (well, truth be told it was the early hours of the morning and I was out at one of the local clubs having a drink after I'd knocked off at my own bar).
Long story short, we ended up walking back to my place together, and along the way she asked me if it was ok if she stayed the night after we'd had sex.

I thought she was taking the p1ss and laughed an "Of course it is" and she was so appreciative of that, because most guys won't let a girl stay over apparently.
I figured that she was just a one off with her story and figured she'd just had a bad run with guys.
But the subject came up at work a few weeks later, and of all the single guys my age (plus or minus 10 years... well, only plus, because I'm only 21..), anyway, of all the single guys.... not one but me thought that it was cool that a woman stayed over. Not one.
Well, as gobsmacked as I was already, one guy then went on to say that he even calls a taxi when she leaves the room afterwards, to take her home WITHOUT even asking her... and even makes her pay for it.

And I get asked why I hate people in my age group so much... especially the guys.....
 julianx
Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 40
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Posted: 12/5/2009 12:28:35 AM

But the subject came up at work a few weeks later, and of all the single guys my age (plus or minus 10 years... well, only plus, because I'm only 21..), anyway, of all the single guys.... not one but me thought that it was cool that a woman stayed over. Not one.
Well, as gobsmacked as I was already, one guy then went on to say that he even calls a taxi when she leaves the room afterwards, to take her home WITHOUT even asking her... and even makes her pay for it.


Well I'm 45 and I'm still gobsmacked by these sort of statements, perhaps not as often as you cos my gob is somewhat older and my brittle teeth don't stand up to as much smacking. I actually prefer it when a woman stays over, partly because morning sex is the best sort and partly cos, well, it's just kinda nice waking up with someone. In fact, thinking about it now, I don't think I want to have sex with someone I didn't want to see in the morning...or didn't want to see me in the morning for that matter.

Guys like the ones you mentioned, I think, suffer from the wild delusion that if they let a woman stay the night, she'll want to immediately race them off to the alter, followed by a trip to the hospital to have them surgically attached to their hip...They obviously don't keep their egos in their bottom drawers...cos they wouldn't fit.

...or perhaps they just don't want to talk to her cos she might bring up how well they performed...or is that preformed
 roatw
Joined: 8/20/2009
Msg: 41
ls too much SEX bad for you??? ..lol
Posted: 12/5/2009 2:29:25 AM
Sex?...whats that?
 darknight48
Joined: 1/22/2011
Msg: 42
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Posted: 11/14/2011 8:55:06 AM
no cos your body replaces it.also theres too much oestregen in food chain(inject cattle fatten them up,womens hormones in toilet taken the pill) even in cling film. i reckon thats why men are growing boobs,girls hitting pubety earlier,+ why there are so many gay guys.also when your pregnant your actually dumber as you lose braincells
 darknight48
Joined: 1/22/2011
Msg: 43
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Posted: 11/14/2011 8:58:34 AM
ps if you have an heart attack doc tells you give up booze cigs but carry on with sex lol
 crustyold
Joined: 4/25/2011
Msg: 44
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Posted: 11/15/2011 3:43:04 AM
"" if you have an heart attack doc tells you give up booze cigs but carry on with sex """

so damm right, the only reson they tell you too keep having the sex is, the side affect of the meds, are 7 hour bonners....& you cart roll outta bed, so sex....hell yer....

too bad i am single
 The_Grey_Fringe
Joined: 11/11/2011
Msg: 45
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Posted: 11/15/2011 3:49:56 AM
When it comes to sex there is no such thing as Too Much and the right time is ANYTIME!!
 martolives
Joined: 11/20/2010
Msg: 46
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Posted: 11/20/2011 7:23:29 AM
To answer the original question...

Hell no
 Watermanmax
Joined: 11/3/2011
Msg: 47
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Posted: 11/23/2011 8:26:04 PM
depends on how late you are for work....
 The_Grey_Fringe
Joined: 11/11/2011
Msg: 48
ls too much SEX bad for you??? ..lol
Posted: 11/26/2011 2:58:40 AM
I'd also go so far as to say not enough sex is bad for you!!
 vini1972
Joined: 11/6/2011
Msg: 49
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Posted: 11/28/2011 7:31:56 AM
OP, define how much is to much???
 The_Grey_Fringe
Joined: 11/11/2011
Msg: 50
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Posted: 11/28/2011 4:16:51 PM
There is no such thing as too much. It's quite the opposite!! Not enough is dangerous thing!!
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