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 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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How to give a good blow job?Page 2 of 6    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)
*SNORT!* Dingaling. Oh FFS.. it's a PENIS!

I like giving. I've never had any complaints (that I can recall). There used to be a GREAT thread here about this subject.. about 50 pages long... lots of good information there. Not sure why it got deleted.

Have had a couple who were hard to get off. One I managed to after about 40-45 min.. and then asking for specifics. After that it took about 2 min. Hehe.. The other one I had to have help out a little. There was no way I was going to get him off because he's trained his body to only respond to very specific stimulii and I wasn't able to reproduce it well enough or long enough to get him off on my own.

The frenum/frenulum is the most sensitive spot on his penis. That's the little bit on the bottom side of the glans.. kinda triangular shaped.. where the foreskin is connected to the underside of the penis. Lick your thumb and rub it over that area as you are kissing his glans softly. Vary the pressure and movement and see what happens. Wrap your hand around his shaft and stroke him as you move your head up and down his length... make sure things are nice and slippery. Nothing worse then a dry blowjob/handjob... am I right guys?? Kind of like being fingered when you're not lubricated. Ouchie.

Oh. And some guys LIKE the teeth.
 rainman12
Joined: 10/18/2007
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How to give a good blow job?
Posted: 12/1/2009 11:21:59 PM

I tend to have trouble with my teeth scraping


Yes...definitely a problem. Avoid that and you'll be much better instantly. As for the rest of a blow job, unless you're a Hoover or can deep throat with out puking, you're going to use your hands. It basically becomes a sloppy wet hand job. Know how to not crush his nuts and make sure there's not too much friction (Clamping too hard, not enough saliva, hell, I wouldn't take offense if you stop for a gulp of water, even ice cold) and you should get the job done. We're simple creatures to please, just get the job done and don't leave us sore the next day and we're happy.
 rainman12
Joined: 10/18/2007
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How to give a good blow job?
Posted: 12/2/2009 12:00:15 AM

^^^^^^^LOL I was under the impression that men hated the vaccuum cleaner.................


depends on the model and striking the balance between getting the job done and stripping the floor bare.

OP...just another thought occurred to me. My first love had a tongue ring. Just throwing it out there if you're that concerned, it's always an option.
 TOMic bomb
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 19
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Posted: 12/2/2009 3:55:27 PM
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be sure to tickle his TAINT while you're sucking. use the very tips of your fingernails and lightly tickle that area and his balls. that's what i like anyway!!!
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 sonofabiscuit2
Joined: 4/6/2009
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Posted: 12/3/2009 12:15:40 PM
I'm just curious where's the thread on where to find a good blow job?
 god_of_rock
Joined: 1/17/2009
Msg: 25
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Posted: 12/3/2009 3:20:10 PM
A key is communication

IF he won't ell you how he likes it I think he doesn't deserve to be blown

why are you so concerned about giving the 'perfect blow job' ? does he demand it?

do you assume that all guys love BJ's? not all do.

does he pleasure you 'perfectly' ??

I don't think a list of written instructions (like you might get on here) would be the best way to learn what he likes.

Practice makes perfect..
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 12/4/2009 7:08:53 AM
Darlin,

Sometimes a man just doesn't achieve orgasm via oral copulation, however, sometimes with a lil rectal stimulation coupled with sucking the head of his penis like a lolipop they pop one off quite nicely.

All I know is I'm not going to barf up lunch deep throating MR. JOHNSON or get TMJ to have a man blow a load because for whatever reason he simply cannot bust a nut with oral sex. I mean it's great to take advice and try different things, but some men simply do not cum when receiving a blow job so all the tips in the world won't make a difference.

The one person who should be telling you what might help is your lover---just saying---what works for one man isn't necessarily going to work for YOUR man. :)


Good Luck
 coveredinpaint
Joined: 7/13/2009
Msg: 35
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Posted: 12/4/2009 8:12:30 AM
To be honest, it doesn't really matter how you start the BJ, it's how you finish it. If you swallow, it will go down in the books as a good BJ.
 Answerman711
Joined: 8/6/2009
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Posted: 12/4/2009 2:30:56 PM
Easy,

Really have the desire to do it. Nothing worse than a charity blow job when your just doing it to get it over with.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
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Posted: 12/9/2009 7:16:22 AM
I came across an article in an old issue of Playboy recently,and it had a good point. Our male appendage is wired for in-and-out,so a woman being creative with oral sex is only going to prolong the act.

That being said,I still love a good creative blow job with lots of lip and tongue action. If you want to get him off though,then concentrate on up and down with lots of suction and pressure with your lips.
 breeheel
Joined: 9/7/2009
Msg: 49
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Posted: 12/10/2009 6:07:09 PM
Im glad you said some....... Bigger is better for men too......
 LongAfterDark
Joined: 5/17/2008
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Posted: 12/10/2009 8:12:41 PM
I also like thrusting into a girl's mouth for some reason while I hold her head. Not too deep because that would cause a gag reflex, but just enough so it's like I'm ****ing her. I guess I like being in control. I get off easier that way.
 kellym09
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 52
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Posted: 12/10/2009 8:48:39 PM
And the more enthusiastic you are, the faster it usually goes as well.
 Martin D Martian
Joined: 10/17/2009
Msg: 55
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Posted: 12/12/2009 10:49:59 AM
I once listened to some rap music and they suggested to a woman. First she asked : " What do you want me to do with it ? " Rapper(S); "Don't matter just don't bite it. " I think you can get the exact words from the rap group NWA. It's free on You Tube. I'd have to agree with NWA. Well,there are plenty of free lessons on this on Tube8 and various porno sites. You can go directly to the subcategory blowjobs.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 59
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Posted: 1/16/2010 1:51:08 PM
These girls are my kinna girls and can give you all you need to know.......

http://fellatrix.blogspot.com/2008/07/cocksucking-isnt-one-way-street.html?zx=19d3dc0c0db715ea
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 61
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Posted: 1/24/2010 1:32:42 AM
How a woman gives a good blow job is by loving to do it. Getting in to it and emotionalizing it. She has to want to experience it herself and love the male genitalia.
 DiannaBall
Joined: 1/6/2010
Msg: 71
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Posted: 1/30/2010 2:58:22 PM
Enjoy it. Don't bite it. And Swallow. :)
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 72
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Posted: 1/30/2010 5:25:17 PM
Like cousin says, it's true each guy has his own. Some even suggest lookin at porn. That's the last place I would check. For my taste, there's nothing like being with a woman who loves to do it. Her affection and adoration not only for the taste, touch and feel. Sort of like a guy with a boob fetish. But she lavishes affection so savory and delicate that no two actions are ever the same. It's not a choreography as much as a free style dance. In certain circles it's called trance. The whole euphoria is that you have gotten that which is your sensual desire and can now embrace it. You begin to sense a certain kind of mental inebriation and your body tingles all over with an incredible energy. The whole intimacy becomes astounding. I have met a couple of women who, while salivating my loins for a few hours, would actually move in a slow dancing sway while indulging themselves. They weren't related to each other and I knew them at different time frames. It was a beauty to behold how much they loved what we shared. No, method, just pure, natural indulgence the way only part and counter part could appreciate the differences in each other groomed to form fit in so many ways.
 Khamrun
Joined: 2/20/2008
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Posted: 2/2/2010 10:32:10 PM
GOSH, I bet I could give a GREAT blow job. But then again if I could bend myself like some kinda 5 year old Korean girl on American Idol I'd never leave the house.

Here's the truth... no, honestly... are you listening. Nobody gives a good blow job. It's an allusion to an illusion. Seriously, is it the first thing anyone would think about if they saw one of those for the first time? "OOOOO I have to suck on that!" Since the Dawn of time (or Rae Dawn Chong; Quest for Fire) the genders have been looking for the golden fleece of fellatio. Here's the skinny (hopefully not for you full figured grrrrls). Learn to talk to your partner. Yea, nothing cosmic about that. Talk about the grip, stroke, teeth (I like teeth), speed etc. Get him wet and wild and just enjoy the moment. We (of course I'm speaking for my gender) appreciate your honesty and hey talking dirty is an excellent prologue to us slipping you the tongues where you like it the most also. And, unless you didn't notice it's the Internet. Try http://sex.healthguru.com/ or http://www.cherrytv.com/ and I'm sure you will find some interesting answers and techniques there. And hey, if you can't learn to love the shtick with a talented "lick" we also love when you masturbate us and talk REALLY dirty n our ear.

K, I'm answering the obvious here and you should just go out and test your talents on someone you can genuinely communicate well with. If they seem shy then you start and lead the way...
"I Love it when you curl your fingers deep inside my****and press against my G spot and suck on my clit"
. You think that's tough wait until he wants to turn you over. Get him before he gets you!
 breeheel
Joined: 9/7/2009
Msg: 83
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Posted: 2/2/2010 10:59:30 PM
^^^^^^^^
GOSH Im not going to disagree with you on that one. Im not saying I want you to prove it to me.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 85
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Posted: 2/3/2010 2:18:00 PM
How do you give a good blow job? With love.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 86
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Posted: 2/4/2010 9:40:23 AM
http://fellatrix.blogspot.com/2008/07/cocksucking-isnt-one-way-street.html?zx=19d3dc0c0db715ea
 blue450
Joined: 7/24/2009
Msg: 89
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Posted: 2/6/2010 11:01:28 AM
...as Lasciviously as possible....
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 94
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Posted: 2/8/2010 8:50:52 AM
bravo. ....... appreciative women.
 1osubuckeye
Joined: 1/12/2011
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Posted: 7/13/2011 11:18:07 AM

You all all overthinking this. There is no such thing as a bad blowjob; they are all good.


Epic touche.
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