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 BrookfieldMan
Joined: 2/6/2011
Msg: 89
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?Page 8 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)
you have your definitions wrong people. sheesh!

RACIST- thinks another race is HUMANLY INFERIOR to another.

BIGOT- thinks another race is bad or has ALL negative qualities.



what you people are talking about is a racist.
i think there are a lot worse things in the world than being a bigot.

afterall, being a bigot is simply a matter of a person's opinion of other people. not a big deal.

there are still:

murderers
killers
rapists
burglars
baby sellers
con artists
parents that neglect their children
mental abusers
robbers
drunken drivers
religions that say killing is ok
welfare recipients that have a job
kickback scheemers
the mafia
gangbangers and thugs
men who impregnate lots of women and don't pay child support
gunrunners and people who carry a gun/weapon unlawfully


so you have to say that in the big picture bigots aren't so bad.
 Dan99993
Joined: 11/29/2010
Msg: 90
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 2/27/2011 11:51:28 PM
My.. I would never date a person like that. He doesn't even think blacks are good enough (unless he meant men only). Even then. Sounds prejudiced and very, very discriminatory.

I don't predict a great future (with him) unless you want to join the KKK.

He's either racist or very bigoted.
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 91
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 2/28/2011 1:07:25 AM
never confuse 'education' with intelligence

and sarcasm is a biting of wit and intellect, not pejorative racial slurs.

I would move on from this one. without hesitation, without reservations.
 BrookfieldMan
Joined: 2/6/2011
Msg: 92
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 3/4/2011 10:14:38 AM
let's admit it.

some people have had only Negative life experiences with some races.

to those people their opinions and beliefs are valid.

LOOK AT THIS EXAMPLE:

if the only people you encounter who cause you trouble or who you see night after night on TV in orange jumpsuits, being arrested, shackled and cuffed are the same RACE over and over again, WHAT OTHER CONCLUSION CAN YOU COME TO?

if you watch reality cop shows on a regular basis (cops, bait car, policewomen of cincinnati, Etc) and the vast majority of people they arrest are from the same minority race that comprises only 10% of the population, WHAT ELSE WOULD YOU BE LED TO THINK OR BELIEVE?
 HawkingJr
Joined: 4/16/2007
Msg: 93
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Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 3/4/2011 12:14:24 PM
I actually know this woman who has no relationship with her white father because he's a hardcore racist and she is half-black. So the first time she told me this, I just had to ask, how the heck does something like that happen? Well, apparently, her father got ridiculously drunk one night and had a one night stand with her black mother, then refused to admit that he had done so to anyone until the paternity test came back after her birth. He still hasn't paid a dime of child support (she's in her mid-20s now, so it's probably not going to happen!) and on the rare occasions that he sees her, he declares all kinds of racist things and tells her what a terrible creation she is. She seems amazingly well-adjusted despite all this, and is a gorgeous, intelligent young lady.

So I'm willing to believe just about anything when it comes to racist people interacting romantically with those they claim to hate. Let us not forget the lesson of Strom Thurmond. I don't think I've ever had a date with a truly racist white woman but most I have dated never really considered dating outside of their race before me and haven't done so since -- I was their "sole exception to the rule" because I was "different." When I was in high school, I had a couple of white girls tell me they would date me, if only they "believed in that sort of thing." Ah, good ol' rural Alabama...
 Cdn_Iceman
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 94
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 3/4/2011 12:23:58 PM

LOOK AT THIS EXAMPLE:

if the only people you encounter who cause you trouble or who you see night after night on TV in orange jumpsuits, being arrested, shackled and cuffed are the same RACE over and over again, WHAT OTHER CONCLUSION CAN YOU COME TO?

if you watch reality cop shows on a regular basis (cops, bait car, policewomen of cincinnati, Etc) and the vast majority of people they arrest are from the same minority race that comprises only 10% of the population, WHAT ELSE WOULD YOU BE LED TO THINK OR BELIEVE?
Good Lord, are you serious with this? oh the fact they were criminals to start off wasnt the key for you? there is good and bad in every race, so care to stereo type even more?

Statistic shows that the majority of pedophiles are white males, under 6 ft, and has a collection of porn, are we to assume it is all white males? I guess you think all Italians have connections in La Cosa Nostra too?

This is why I dont watch reality shows, if you're basing your decision because of a television show, I would say start your mornings off with Decaf coffee and lay off the sauce for a while.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 95
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 3/31/2011 2:22:02 PM
Yes he is a racist. But also a bit narcissistic and pompous. But noticed that all this man does is put down other people. The problem with such negativity is that it only attracts more negativity.

They may mask it as a joke, but they are very real.
 Wyatt Earp1
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 96
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 4/1/2011 11:46:49 AM

It seemed like whatever guy, I dated in the past...He attacked racially or ethnically. Is he a racist or sarcastic??


Is it me or is this thread a troll baiting one? The guy insults other races; of course he's a racist!
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 97
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Posted: 4/1/2011 9:08:59 PM

It seemed like whatever guy, I dated in the past....He attacked racially or ethnically.Is he racist or sarcastic??


I personally , I never bring into any conversation to people whom I dated .That past history is private for me ...
What I can say is this guy you are talking to is not just racist ,narrow minded,he is little bit touch in the head.
 platypus_man
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 98
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Posted: 4/5/2011 10:43:51 PM

Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?

So, one is o.k. with you? What, are you crazy? Just another reason so many men find it hard to figure out what women really want!
 HORSEFLY1234
Joined: 8/17/2010
Msg: 99
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 4/11/2011 3:28:35 PM
Is his stage name "Mark Richards?"
 Sunshine-99
Joined: 7/14/2006
Msg: 100
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Posted: 4/11/2011 7:14:54 PM
Come on OP, you know better than that. He is like a little child inside a grown-up's body. In this age, our societies are politically correct and its completely uncool to put down entire social groups like that. It's just a matter of time before his mouth gets him into real trouble and some stranger punches him in the face. And if any of your friends or family have any common sense, they will disapprove of this guy.,,.....unless they are racists themselves.
 renny55
Joined: 3/12/2011
Msg: 101
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 4/18/2011 9:25:53 PM
Well nothing these people do suprises me eh. i believe that noone like black people that what i believe. so i frankly dont give a rat ass who talk about my race behind my back. And that so call blonde hair woman that u are talking about Lateeff i bet she is average looking liek the rest of the blonde i see on the street everyday is either they are average or ugly lol
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 102
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 4/18/2011 9:44:57 PM
Well nothing these people do suprises me eh. i believe that noone like black people that what i believe. so i frankly dont give a rat ass who talk about my race behind my back. And that so call blonde hair woman that u are talking about Lateeff i bet she is average looking liek the rest of the blonde i see on the street everyday is either they are average or ugly lol

How very sad to see such a young beautiful woman spew such negativity. It really does detract from the physical beauty when opinions such as this are aired to the world.

~OT~ Racism comes in all shapes, sizes and colors. It's a sad reality we live with and no one is exempt. The man in the OP? He's likely hating on himself, so he hates on others. People that specifically hate on a color of skin, eyes, hair, etc., etc., clearly are unhappy in their own skin. JMO
 english lass
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 103
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 4/19/2011 6:58:38 AM
Yup, he's a racist; ignorant and fearful of differences, cruel, mean and petty minded, unwilling to see people as individuals, totally lacking in empathy or understanding. He's unable to think for himself - would rather believe and perpetrate false stereotypes and prejudices.

Not to mention arrogant, negative and basically just a jerk.

And even if he was just trying to be "funny" by being sarcastic or was reacting because he was jealous - are even these really traits you want to be around?
 happyfun27
Joined: 8/24/2013
Msg: 104
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 9/2/2013 3:47:24 PM
I think he is both.

I also dated a girl who turned out to be overly sarcastic. I liked her because she was witty and had good come backs. We had gone out for about a month. She was fine alone with me but when we went out with her friends for the first time she changed into a total different person. She would be overwhelmingly sarcastic and with her friends who were also sarcastic, the whole conversation was picking on each other, taunting, aggressively against each other, and looking for each others weaknesses to taunt some more. I'm used to mild sarcasm but this was extreme and had never gone through it before.

When I was alone with her she thought the whole evening was fine. But I had to tell her that it was a little uncomfortable for me because there was a lot of bickering. She said I might not get along with her family then because they were like that. I tried to explain that I'm adaptable and they I could get used to sarcasm but that over sarcasm can come up as racist. (I had felt uncomfortable because I was Latin and all her friends were white .i was even more nervous because from her photos ALL except one friend was white. So that's why I felt afraid, specially because one of the friends who was make started to sound aggressive saying: 'maybe I should beat him up, let me beat him up for you'. I looked around she was not defending me and everybody acted like that was normal. I can tell sarcasm through the tone of voice but there was no difference in tone or the words 'just kidding', so it felt real. I had to end that relationship because the sarcasm was borderline racist. Not against black folks (which was surprising) but instead against Asians, native Americans, and Latins.

It was sad for me cause I had fallen for her. But there was no way I could be with her and her overly sarcastic borderline racist friends.
 SuperSaiyanGoku
Joined: 3/18/2013
Msg: 105
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 9/2/2013 6:04:40 PM
I wouldn't expect anything more humans. Though, I do have respect for the people who know who they really are and can admit it instead of pretending like they are someone different. Anyone who can lie to themselves can SURELY lie to others.
 aquila75
Joined: 6/8/2013
Msg: 106
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 9/2/2013 8:40:06 PM
Is he a racist or sarcastic??

^^^^
I would say neither; it sounds like he hates everyone equally.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 107
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 9/2/2013 8:44:08 PM
lolamac that dude is an ***hole
 the_biggavell
Joined: 7/9/2012
Msg: 108
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 9/3/2013 4:57:17 AM
Do you really have to ask? Do you hate yourself that much not to know the difference? He's both.. and if thinks about the men in that fashion.... imagine the women?!?

He must feel like columbus coming to save you black woman from your culture and yourself and take you to a new world...
 Whisky_River
Joined: 9/12/2010
Msg: 109
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 9/3/2013 9:45:13 AM
The Original poster is long gone...who keeps reviving these old threads?
But...maybe, she is lurking under a new name or someone else wants to know...If a man is rude and racist and talks $hit about everyone....what do you think?
Kick him to the curb.....ugh!!
 AnEvilGenius1
Joined: 6/5/2012
Msg: 110
Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude?
Posted: 9/4/2013 3:57:56 AM
This reminds me of the movie "Grandtorino" with Clint Eastwood. The main character lived and breathed racial slurs and references. Great movie..
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