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 sactownromantic
Joined: 6/14/2015
Msg: 127
I love large breasts, am I wrong for asking?Page 5 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)
I have to admit that I'm a breast man, they aren't the only thing I like about a woman's body but it's at the top of the list.

There's a Seinfeld episode where Elaine asks Jerry: "I never knew you liked breasts, I thought you were a leg man?"
Jerry responds: "I have legs."
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
Msg: 128
I love large breasts, am I wrong for asking?
Posted: 3/11/2016 4:19:06 PM
Jerry likely has nipples too, but...and I know some guys have breasts..
Men and woman both have legs, and butts, and..most external body parts in common..but somehow they seem so different on an attractive woman.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
Msg: 129
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Posted: 3/11/2016 5:06:46 PM
geekgrrrl

Good one. But the proof is in the eating of the pudding, right!! Imagine on a date, and in the carpark, saying " I will show you mine, if you will show me yours" lol!!
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 3/13/2016 8:52:51 PM

I have always been attracted to women with large breasts (40D and bigger). Would it be wrong if I was to put this in my profile?

Absolutely. You know that. Plus, as a guy, you're not writing a profile to draw women IN. You're going to be writing women. So you're initiating things anyway. No sense in being off-putting that yes, even a large breasted gal can be turned off by.

Would I be out of line to ask for a full body shot (clothed) before we meet?

No. If all she has is neck-up pictures, you can ask if she has any available. It doesn't imply you're looking for breast size.

Would i be wrong in turning down a chance to meet based on the fact that the other person did not posses the required attributes?

I would say you'd be going the wrong route by asking their cup size. Go by what you can see and make that evaluation. Sometimes on date #x, when you're taking off her bra, you may find her chest to be inflated thru clothing. Part of the game.

I think your problem is that you want 40D or bigger. Yikes. It's one thing to like that or to have a current hankering for such gals. But 40D+ as a REQUIREMENT? You're not looking out for your best interests overall, if a particular interest is skewed off in left field to that degree.

Do women find this as degrading?

I think many would and should, on your level. It'd be like a woman saying she wants a guy AT LEAST 9" long. Not as a preference but a Requirement, and if you're not At Least 9" -- "Next!". It's more degrading to have such level of Requirements.
 cassie2425
Joined: 3/4/2016
Msg: 131
I love large breasts, am I wrong for asking?
Posted: 3/13/2016 9:46:43 PM
NG...go find one with medium boobies and likes thongs
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 3/14/2016 1:08:47 PM

NG...go find one with medium boobies and likes thongs

I have, as have many guys. What was your angle/point about saying that? :)
 oneday57
Joined: 10/17/2015
Msg: 133
I love large breasts, am I wrong for asking?
Posted: 3/19/2016 4:34:32 AM
I've dated woman of all sizes and never really asked about breast size before I met....but if its your thing and thats a criteria then ya might as well ask but then the door might be shut in your face....its a preference to some but I go a tadd deeper than the physical...good luck!
 davemaz323
Joined: 10/31/2013
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Posted: 10/23/2016 1:34:34 AM
Hi there iam Dave x
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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Posted: 10/23/2016 5:47:28 PM
You want nothing serious, you are evasive about your profession so how many women busty or otherwise would be clamouring for a date on here with so much competition with the click next syndrome.... It would be crass to mention breasts even on a first date.
 LateNightsND
Joined: 12/20/2016
Msg: 136
I love large breasts, am I wrong for asking?
Posted: 12/27/2016 2:36:49 PM
After reading all these great posts, I just put it right in my profile. Honesty is the best policy!
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 137
Can't knock a knack for knockers
Posted: 12/27/2016 2:57:31 PM
When one wishes more success in dating, one should ask for what one wants. It narrows the catch in the net, but it also reduces the wasted first dates. I suspect as well, a woman answering a profile requiring a certain body style, isn't shy about her body style and what she expects to get for it. A woman afraid she's going to be used for sex, isn't going to bother to answer, right? well, unless he's really hot.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 12/27/2016 4:35:34 PM
That is a good way to put it I suppose. If a woman can ask for a guy who is at least 6 ft. and athletically attractive, can a guy ask for a woman who is at least a DDD bust size and a 24 inch waist? Shallow requirements meets opposing shallow requirements.
 MohawkMayhemRebel
Joined: 12/30/2016
Msg: 139
I love large breasts, am I wrong for asking?
Posted: 1/6/2017 3:19:47 AM
I disagree, I would want you to have that information in your profile, so I would know it was the only thing you cared about so that I could just block you and not waste more of my time on an ass that only wants one thing and could care less how he made someone feel.



But then again I'm actually honest and don't like to waste my time on jerks like the rest of these gals are all claiming they'd like it hidden. Seriously put it in your profile and if you get messaged, then you'd know she only wanted sexual things too ... you'd make a great FWB couple :) Good luck, Please don't contact me xD
 MohawkMayhemRebel
Joined: 12/30/2016
Msg: 140
I love large breasts, am I wrong for asking?
Posted: 1/6/2017 3:21:43 AM
Don't get me wrong, It's great that you know what you want, but if its only the boobs and not accompanied by the actual person... then it isn't a preference, it's literally just being shallow. Just wanted to clear that up :p
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 1/7/2017 6:35:27 PM
Yep, which is why I think shallow people should be with shallow people. That way they both can leave us people who value the inner qualities of someone alone.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 142
I love large breasts, am I wrong for asking?
Posted: 1/9/2017 1:50:33 PM
oh, shallow people DO end up with people they feel comfortable with. We all choose people who make us feel comfortable about ourselves. Of course, when the shallow partner gets screwed, they suddenly feel like they aren't shallow and deserve better, and are surprised they were treated so shallowly by the shallow person their personality wanted so bad in order to avoid being judged :)
 aintnodeal
Joined: 4/10/2016
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Posted: 1/9/2017 2:08:04 PM
It's ironic that the woman who is outraged that her boyfriend picked her for her BOOBS and dumped her later for her personality, will scream to the world: "I'm going to find someone who will appreciate what I offer!" while posting more BOOB pics.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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Posted: 1/9/2017 4:30:18 PM
Put whatever you like in your profile. You are entitled to your wishlist. You will get feedback that may persuade you to not mention you want a certain size boobage, upfront. My advice is to respond to the buxom images that are shown and then see if you get a physical meet with the woman. But beware that genuinely hot busty, intelligent, sane women dont have to swim in these waters to get a date.
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
Msg: 145
I love large breasts, am I wrong for asking?
Posted: 1/27/2017 8:34:19 AM
Almost all guys like them as big as possible, that's just biology 101.

However, if she's got a chip on her shoulder, it's gonna get old after awhile, and she's gonna start to look ugly to you.

Personality is more important. Looks fade but personality is forever.
 LincsAndy
Joined: 1/14/2017
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Posted: 1/27/2017 11:45:35 AM

Almost all guys like them as big as possible, that's just biology 101.
Really? I would have thought the biological imperative would create attraction to potential mates who look healthy. That would make sense from an evolutionary standpoint, and yes, people who go in and out in all the right places do make a strong visual impression. But it's just an attention-getter isn't it. Nature's way of making you pay attention, and it lasts about two seconds. As my old dad used to say "you don't look at the mantel when you're stoking the fire".
Obviously everyone has personal preferences but I think you're quite wrong to assume that your taste represents "Almost all guys". It certainly doesn't represent me. Physically I like a woman who is in proportion, but once the initial visual hook is done and dusted I'm far more interested in what goes on above the neck. I wouldn't date a stupid woman no matter how good she looked.
 massguy70
Joined: 1/10/2017
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Posted: 2/7/2017 9:42:59 AM
A lot of women will list requirements in their profiles. Things like must have a -

Job
Car
Not live with Mom
Be telling than _____
Make more than _____
Have good teeth, hair ect...

Some also say they will only date men of a certain race.

I'm also a boob guy. I prefer a woman that is a D/DD. Not that I won't date someone that is smaller but that's what I prefer. I've also thought about putting this in my profile but it might limit my options.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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Posted: 2/7/2017 5:27:52 PM
leon714
Most men dont care if the boobs are natural or not but some look better than others.
 hersh1flame
Joined: 4/7/2016
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Posted: 2/8/2017 5:46:05 AM
I do. I prefer natural.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 150
I love large breasts and I cannot lie
Posted: 2/8/2017 8:23:24 AM
Wow, the OP hasn't posted in over SEVEN YEARS !



....perhaps his hands are too full ?
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 2/8/2017 11:59:07 AM
The problem I have been having- especially in a college setting- is trying to control my eyes from wandering. There are several extremely busty women in my classes, and it is difficult for me to talk to them about projects we have to do. I can msg them no problem, but when I am in front of them, I freeze up.
This last case was extremely annoying for me actually. One of these women I am in a group with was in the class with a sweater that had a sort of sheen effect on the surface. The problem is she was jiggling a lot, and it was extremely distracting because you could see the swaying, stretching, slight bouncing from the sweaters surface. Needless to say I was very much turned on, and I couldn't take my eyes off her chest the entire class period. I felt very bad about it afterwards. I think she noticed me, since now she wears shawls more often... I feel like such a creep. (sigh)

I have been in a drought for at least 4 years, and it is not going to end anytime soon. What is worse that since I have been going back to college and working this job, my libido has sky rocketed. There has been several times I contemplated whether or not to get an escort just to get it out of my system, but I didn't go through with it because I don't want that sort of thing. Now with my financial situation, that was probably the right decision since I would be deeper in the hole (no pun intended) than I am now.
It is so frustrating for me dealing with this crap. Sometimes I wish I could just get rid of my sex drive at least temporarily. Since I am not getting any relief, and there is no possibility for me to get any loving, it would be very helpful with my current situation
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