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 Txladyblond
Joined: 11/27/2009
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I happen to LOVE it anywhere on me!!! I think it's one of the hottest most intimate things lovers can share. The more the better :)
 kpooks
Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 12/27/2009 8:43:46 AM
I agree, athletic girls or farm girls.

Yes, there's a mess, but that's what the shower is for--the shower's right there-! You can "clean her off" afterwards, which can cap off the evening with even more fun-!
 Everyda
Joined: 10/2/2009
Msg: 53
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Posted: 12/27/2009 9:34:15 AM
Hey meowkatt if quebec is too far I'm right by the border
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 54
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Posted: 12/27/2009 1:42:03 PM
If you look hard enough -i'm sure you can find a crazy bitch who loves to be spackled with your cum...
however i think its all about respect, trust and care. -would you really want to degrade someone you really love and care for by blowing your wad in her face
 tayl0rd
Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 55
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Posted: 12/27/2009 2:14:47 PM

85032luck said:
...would you really want to degrade someone you really love and care for by blowing your wad in her face


If she's not opposed to it, YES!!! It's got absolutely nothing to do with degrading her. Grow up.
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
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Posted: 12/27/2009 2:21:34 PM

Not all guys can or will "squirt" it on to the tongue, unfortunately, but anyway, that's how I switched over to "the dark side". LOL

I'm one of those blokes that gets a kick out of having my semen swallowed or taken in other ways. It has nothing to do with degradation and everything to do with appreciation.

If two parties are into each other to the extent they love the taste and feel of each other's juices it makes for great sex. I've had lovers who wanted to rub my semen all over their bodies (apparently it's good for the skin?) and just wanted to be as close to me as they could.
 Everyda
Joined: 10/2/2009
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Posted: 12/27/2009 4:02:17 PM
I agree with you it should always be about good, clean, "dirty", messy fun!
 ByeKitten
Joined: 12/24/2009
Msg: 58
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Posted: 12/27/2009 6:43:18 PM
Psh, I don't have an issues with cumshots. Usually only when I find that it will be too messy or we're in strange situation where we can't.

Preferably I'd rather have them cum inside as its much hotter then when they do. But for those who don't like it, it can be messy, sticky, runny, that strange chlorine smell and just aren't their thing.
 Nevet
Joined: 2/3/2009
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Posted: 12/27/2009 8:48:15 PM
Most projectiles that do not have a guidance system can be very dangerous: A cumshot is therefore a dangerous projectile since it lacks a guidance system.
 TravelingLight
Joined: 12/3/2009
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Posted: 12/27/2009 11:56:13 PM

Next thread title: why don't men like SQUIRT SHOTS?!!!!

They do like it


You got that right.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
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Posted: 12/28/2009 1:37:46 AM

If she's not opposed to it, YES!!! It's got absolutely nothing to do with degrading her. Grow up


i think i am taking the adult approach on this topic, how would your children feel if they knew their daddy was cumming in their mommy's face for kicks???

almost afraid to ask what other bodily functions you find acceptable to do all over someone...
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 62
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Posted: 12/28/2009 3:53:36 AM

i think i am taking the adult approach on this topic, how would your children feel if they knew their daddy was cumming in their mommy's face for kicks???

Most children are shocked their parents even have sex at all, I know my kids think it's disgusting.

I've come plenty of times on a woman's face, upon her breasts, tummy and inside her. Plenty of women have come upon my face, my fingers and penis. It's called totally natural sexual activity between consenting adults.


i think i am taking the adult approach on this topic,

Pfft, do you tell your children every single thing you do in the bedroom? If my kids want to know, I'll tell them, and I certainly won't feel embarrassed about it.
 sweet lady Lori
Joined: 3/19/2008
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Posted: 12/28/2009 3:57:19 AM
Oh, I don't know why.
Why not let some woman splatter your face with a bunch and get back to us how you liked it
 brad1411
Joined: 1/17/2009
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Posted: 12/28/2009 4:55:00 AM
Hi All! Thanks for all the replies, the feedback is great! I just wanted to clarify one thing though. I think a lot of you are thinking that I'm only talking about facials because a common reply is "let her squirt on your face to see how you like it". My originial post talks about cumshots anywhere, not just face, but on the stomach, back, etc. I would definitely be up for trying having a girl squirt on me, it adds more to the fun and experience of sex. Just my opinion though.
 ChefAmber
Joined: 5/12/2009
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Posted: 12/28/2009 6:31:38 AM
Doing it on breasts or other parts is not a big deal. To do it on the face is a means of establishing contol and power over the woman. It's demeaning, imo.
 ChefAmber
Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 66
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Posted: 12/28/2009 7:22:05 AM
Someone brought up that he has been with a lot of women that seem uninterested in sex. They just lay there not into it. Ask yourself how are you so unlucky to keep encountering this woman?
The reality is probably that you lack skill in bed. Any woman will tell you that a man who is great in bed is rare. If you are doing things correctly the lady will not be able to resist getting into it.
Too many men rush the sex. They like to make out a second, grab the tits, and boom time for the main event. If you don't take the time to get the woman hot and bothered she will get little pleasure from it. The fore play awakens all the right nerve endings and ignites her passion.
As most women will tell you that is the guy you just think "can you just finish already so I can do my laundry etc"
If you keep meeting women that don't enjoy sex with you, take into consideration who the common denominator is.
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
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Posted: 12/28/2009 10:40:23 AM

Someone brought up that he has been with a lot of women that seem uninterested in sex. They just lay there not into it. Ask yourself how are you so unlucky to keep encountering this woman?
The reality is probably that you lack skill in bed.


If this happens fairly consistently, then perhaps it's about his choices in women, and not necessarily about his skills, but I'd also have to ask why the woman isn't doing something to liven things up and get what she wants? Some women simply are passive and some are lazy and some just aren't into it but will "put up" with sex to have a relationship. Even great foreplay doesn't do anything for some women. So, it could be the woman - or it could be the man - who isn't into it properly.

And some women like cumshots, and some don't - it's all personal preference, and doesn't have to mean anything, much less demean anyone.
 tayl0rd
Joined: 5/19/2008
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Posted: 12/28/2009 1:33:51 PM

85032luck said:
i think i am taking the adult approach on this topic, how would your children feel if they knew their daddy was cumming in their mommy's face for kicks??? ...


Wow. You actually think you're taking the adult road?!? You're taking the very immature road.

Your woman: Come on, baby! Shower me with your hot love!
You: Ewww!!! Ickie!!! That's the coodies!!

Puh-lease! And what goes on in the parents' bedroom is none of the kids' business. That is a very weak argument there. And for the record, I'm pretty sure one of my kids was conceived from me shooting my load in my wife from behind. That was a favorite position of ours. The other one was probably intended to be squirted on her boobs and belly (she enjoyed that, too), but I didn't withdraw in time! What, you think your dad's c0ck never saw the inside of your mom's mouth or some of his loads been all up in her hair and face? Keep believing that.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
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Posted: 12/28/2009 1:57:24 PM

Wow. You actually think you're taking the adult road?!? You're taking the very immature road.


Its still an immature act, and shows disrespect, and your whining about it proves my point.
Your lady friend is most likely going along with it cuz she knows you enjoy degrading her and it turns her on, seeing how you act when you treat her like your whore.
if you like spattering your lady friends with your white gold, then by all means -keep it going, however exactly what message is that sending to her? -and does that make it acceptable for her to excrete some sort of bodily fluid etc. int0 your face?
(even if she had that fantasy -she wouldn't cuz her big brain tells her you wouldn't dig it)

-chalk it up to watching too much porn

would have to agree its fun to cum on some gals body, however its fun pissing from the top of a tall building too -showering everyone below with a message of contempt -(and about the same gratification)
however were not talking about some whore from a one night stand -what about someone you truely care for? is she merely a depository receptical for your DNA?
The only difference between a toilet and a whore is you don't have to hold a toilet after you use it.
 facepainter
Joined: 2/22/2008
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Posted: 12/28/2009 1:59:13 PM
I would have to disagree with the OP in stating that most women don't although I dated a woman for too long that defintley did not like them. She would try cover up with a pillow or jump out of the way usually. Only on special ocassions (birthdays etc..) would she willingly take it on her t1ts. Never on the face or in the mouth. She was rather vain about her looks and dispite my many requests to give her a facial she never agreed.

However, knowing how much I wanted to expierence this she came up with a rather unconventional way of making it happen. She told a girlfrind of hers about the situation and aksed if she would be willing to take a facial. I thought she was full of it as it was a very odd yet hot request to say the least. They both came over and made it happen. I wasn't allowed to touch her friend sexually at all. As a matter of fact she kinda just sat there fully clothed mind you and watched as we went at it. Needless to say it didn't take long for me to get there. Although right at that moment as I was in front of her friends face I thought to myself this can't be happening. Is this some sort of test in our releationship. Should I really do this? a second later nature took over and I exploded. My girl sat there watching with the typical EWWWW look on her face while her friend smiled and look it all like a champ. I thought after that expierence of seeing that its really not a big deal and her frind likes it my girl would warm up to the idea but she never did. I guess some do some dont but I wouldnt say most don't. It is a shame when you do cum across them though (pun most certianly intended)
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 12/28/2009 2:10:54 PM

Its still an immature act, and shows disrespect, and your whining about it proves my point.
Your lady friend is most likely going along with it cuz she knows you enjoy degrading her and it turns her on, seeing how you act when you treat her like your whore.
if you like spattering your lady friends with your white gold, then by all means -keep it going, however exactly what message is that sending to her? -and does that make it acceptable for her to excrete some sort of bodily fluid etc. int0 your face?


How is it disrespectful/degrading if the woman enjoys it?
It is only degrading if you both consider it degrading.

I just call it good ole messy hot monkey sex and leave the judgements out of the bedroom.
 Shamrock14
Joined: 12/22/2006
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Posted: 12/28/2009 4:04:11 PM
maybe you should try being open and honest at the outset about yer wants and needs and her wants and needs..I've never understood why people can have sex with each other yet not discuss their likes and dislikes BEFORE they engage in sex!!

if you tried that then maybe you will find all the qualities you want in a woman..including those of a sexual nature..after all..no point being compatible on everything else..if yer sex life isnt compatible too.

and dont be a selfish eejit like some have suggested..cos good sex is about mutual respect and both parties getting what they need even if it's not exactly the same for each party.

good luck to ya

Shammy
 sargepeppers
Joined: 12/23/2009
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Posted: 12/28/2009 4:58:35 PM
I'll tell you this: I love cumming on my woman when we are finishing up... here's the thing though... she loves it too!

It has nothing to do with degrading her or to empower myself... it's an act that is mutually enjoyed by both parties... now, say she was not into it but I insisted because I like it so much, then I would understand your point.

But whatever acts two (or more) mutually consenting adults who love each other (or are just plain horny) decide to do behind closed doors is their business. If both feel that those activites are pleasureable individually, what's degrading about that?

As for your analogy about peeing from the roof, if the people below don't mind then we would all do it... in this case, if she agrees to it and enjoys it, why not do it?
 tayl0rd
Joined: 5/19/2008
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Posted: 12/28/2009 6:29:09 PM

85032luck said:
... -and does that make it acceptable for her to excrete some sort of bodily fluid etc. int0 your face?
(even if she had that fantasy -she wouldn't cuz her big brain tells her you wouldn't dig it)
...


It wouldn't bother me nary a bit as long as it's not scat. It's not like it's dry when going down on her. In fact, I think I'd rather enjoy knowing that I got her so flamed that she squirted in my face. I had a squirter once, but she didn't like oral; giving or receiving. She could flow like Niagara, and I loved it!
 tall.cold.1
Joined: 10/18/2006
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Posted: 12/28/2009 10:19:04 PM

bittersweetkiss:
Bring on the cumshots

OK, everybody else, move out of the way!

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